Counseling Advice

>>16621230
Depressed people can be really suspicious of others, seemingly at random. Did you ever announce your intention straight up, ie, "I want to see if I can help you out with your situation."?

>>16621243
I do if it's a new friend or someone that I haven't had a conversation like that before with. But if it's the same friend I've had a couple times I don't. Should I?

As a severely depressed person, here are some tips:
> don't imply you know what your friend is going through unless you've dealt with a severe depression yourself
> Let him know that he can always talk to you if he feels like letting his worries out
> If he does, let him do the talking. Don't interfere, don't judge, don't rush him
> Don't try to give advice unless he specifically asks for it or seems open to it.
> "You'll get over it" or "it gets better" are big no's. He won't believe you
> Don't think you're bothering him because you're always the one initiating the conversation. If he really didn't want to talk, he'd ignore you.
> Accept that being there for him is pretty much the only thing you can do. You won't be able to get him out of that depression. That requires professional help.

>>16621762
This is good advice. At the end of the day, that person might simply feel better that he can share his problems with someone. that doesn't mean it should be a parliamentary inquiry or something. They talk, you listen.