I've been with my current partner a year now and really love them. They're perfect for me in every way, physically, intellectually, morally, etc. Only problem I'm running into is trying to initiate more exciting sex. We have sex very regularly (4-5 times a week) however it tends to always be quite vanilla.
With previous partners I've enjoyed public sex, rough sex, sexting, etc. We do none of this. I'm pretty unsure of how to initiate these things with my current partner, and I'm pretty scared I'll come off as crazy if I just send them a naked pic of myself or start talking dirty in the middle of intercourse.
How can I initiate these things without seeming sexually deviant or nuts?
You know, I'm in a similar situation, I'd love to do those things, but I really don't have the gumption to initiate it. I'd really like that same thing to happen. But hey, if you do it I'll do it.
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>>16615555
>How can I initiate these things without seeming sexually deviant or nuts?
You open your mouth and have a conversation with them about it. Stop trying to drop hints and be a fucking adult.
>>16615567
I'm thinking I'll just sorta bring it up as pillow talk. Like "what-if..?"
>>16615574
Have had conversations. Mostly about rough sex. Haven't tried delving into the odder stuff. They agree, try it once or twice and then it just sorta goes away