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How do you deal with loneliness? Be it temporary or long term

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How do you deal with loneliness? Be it temporary or long term
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Friends don't work OP. Not by themselves at least.

Get hobbies and if you still feel like you need a gf then go and get one
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>>16610915
I accept it, to be honest.

At the end of the day you will always be completely and utterly alone, inside your head, bombarded with useless fake depressing shit from outside your head.
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>>16610951
I'm a femanon. I have a boyfriend and I have some friends. Boyfriends don't usually last forever though and I'm growing apart from all my close friends.
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>>16611000
I bet you're a blast at parties
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>>16611244
Frequent local businesses. I love it when I go to the local coffee shop, and literally everyone says "Look who it is!" It's a wonderful feeling. Made a bunch of friends this way, by frequenting local places. Plus, when you get a boyfriend, take him to these places, and he'll see not only that you know the city sell, but that you're really interesting and have stories to tell
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>>16611339
That's a nice idea actually. I live in the city for school actually. Maybe I'll try to find some new places to explore next semester
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>>16611251
This shit-tier meme insult.

I am. A druggie chick sucked me off at the last one.

Being depressed or a nihilist doesn't necessarily affect your socialising skills. And besides, most parties are quite shit anyway.
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join a gym, and set some goals.
People may come and go, but 200lbs is still 200lbs... you try and move that shit if you can.
Then when you can.. can you move 225, bitch?
Keep going.
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Hobbies. Work out, find something that interests you, keep focused on school/work.

There is literally no reason to have spare time in 2015.
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>>16611568
That was probably me.
I take it you go to college parties/house parties? Try the rave scene
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>>16611581
I have no motivation to do any of this anymore honestly. The only reason I even do well in school is adderall
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By knowing you don't need other people to do things.
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>>16610951
>if you still feel like you need a gf then go and get one

Not OP, but this is the problematic part for me. You can't just cure loneliness by getting a gf. If you go out looking for a relationship, you will ONLY get into some of the worst, most shallow ones possible. This is because to join the dating scene, people generally can't be themselves, or else you'll get no catch.

It's like when I'm lonely, I just sit around waiting for "that big break", which is of course kind of like waiting to win the lottery, but with a higher success rate.

There's nothing to do but to take one's mind off of it by trying new hobbies and activities. That might be fine and all, and might even work for some people, but there's still nights where you can't sleep too well, and boring shifts at work, when it's all I can think about. When that happens too often, it gets me depressed with a feeling of doom and destroys my motivation for days on end.
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Just do your shit, achieve something, live your life, dont care about others, cuz in the end you are the one who dies and your "friends" wont help you...
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