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What would you do if a girl canceled plans with you? Like you two had plans for dinner but a group of friends asked her out and she canceled, said she was going out with friends. She wasn't a bitch about it or anything, she just said she was asked out and was going out with them. Said we'd go out some other time.
Am I missing something here? The respect part isn't what gets me. Is this normal? Like this has never happened to me. I can see very clearly she's stepping on me and it's just blowing my mind. Is this some kind of "new age" mind game? Do girls do this commonly?
I plan to cut all contacts. I just didn't see it coming. I'll explain myself to her if we run into each other and it comes down to it, but I'm uninterested in having a drawn out fight or anything of the sort. I'm not even really upset. I'm just baffled. Is this a thing? What would you do? Also can someone explain anything I might've missed?
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What's the context here? Who is she to you?
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when did she cancel? one hour before? one day before?
changing plans is fine, but if the person does it at last minute then I see it as disrespectful
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Pretty disrespectful in my opinion. I don't know your background with her, but if it was someone I casually knew and was trying to get to know them more, this would kill it for me.
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Really overthinking this.
Think of it this way: If she really really liked you, she would cancel all her plans in the world to be with you.
She gives so little fucks that she cancelled. Don't overthink this and move on.
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>>16607722
Just someone I'm seeing.
>>16607724
A few hours prior.
>>16607725
yup
>>16607727
That's pretty much my exact perspective on it. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't missing a huge piece of the pie. Figured I'd get a second opinion before I jumped ship.
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>>16607736
>Just someone I'm seeing.
Yeah, but how well do you know her?
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>>16607736
If she cancelled then it should be on her to reschedule. Tell her that. Then you will know how interested she is in seeing you.
Bonus points if she reschedules and you cancel 2 hours beforehand!
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>>16607736
not normal
you make plans with a girl, she cancels it a few hours prior just because she found something better to do
that's pretty much a lack of respect/consideration on her part
it's better to just move on
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>>16607756
Hard to say. We were talkative off and on. I already have my answer though. Regardless, I don't think I can work with someone who's fickle about plans they make. I think I understand my place in her book.
>>16607746
I don't think I can do this. Thanks for advice guys. I know my answer.
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>>16607756
don't do what this faggot says, that girl is not worth it, she has shitty attitude
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