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First time sex HELP

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I had sex for the first time today, overall it was a good experience but there were three major issues that I need help figuring out.

1. We went at it for six and a half hours (I wish I was kidding) and at no point did I edge or cum, the girl didn't really mind it but I was surprised and disappointed in myself. I have two theories as to why I couldn't cum: I masturbated and edged for like two hours before I met her, or it may be due to my excessive porn consumption, I've been fapping at least once per week for the past seven years and I vaguely remember reading that porn desensitizes you to the real thing. Could it be one of those two things?

2. I was super sensitive while penetrating in some positions; when I penetrated her while she was on her stomach and when we were on our side and I was humping her thighs I was super sensitive. This wasn't an issue when she was on top. I'm uncut and wearing a cheap condom didn't change things, we also tried different lubes, after two pumps the sensitive would hurt and I couldn't continue. What's this all about and how can I prevent this sensitive next time?

3. She was really not into me wearing a condom so even though I kept insisting she pass me a condom (I was bottom for almost the entire time) I only wore one about 30% of the time. I know STDs are no joke so how do I go about getting myself checked and is it too soon?
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>>16553058
You are at risk for STDs and she's at risk for pregnancy. Have you had her take Plan B? It needs to be taken within 3 days after unprotected sex. Here is when you should get tested for certain things.
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>not wearing a condom
wew lad definitely get tested but she could also become pregnant if she's not on any birth control
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>>16553072
how do I "get tested" though? I never had to do it before. I live in Canada.
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>>16553082
I'm not sure how it works over there, but I'm sure if you can just google STD testing clinics in your area. Sometimes even your normal GP can do it or recommend you a place.
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bump, still need help.
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>>16553058
The more you have sex with same person, the better and more comfortable you become with each other. Go to a clinic or if you have insurance a hospital.
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>>16554329
Yeah, once you get more comfortable, it'll be better. She sounds great for sticking with you BTW.
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>>16553058

1. Yes, it is one of those 2 things. Stop fapping

2. Keep having sex, the sensitivity will go away.

3.
>She was really not into me wearing a condom
Nigga you already have an STD. Girls that push no-condom on you push that on every guy. I'm sorry but that was a really, really terrible idea.
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>>16554376
>Nigga you already have an STD. Girls that push no-condom on you push that on every guy. I'm sorry but that was a really, really terrible idea.
that's what I'm thinking too. fuck.
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>>16553058
>six and a half hours
>didn't cum.
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