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Porn doesn't do it for me anymore

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I'm in a long distance relationship, so I go without sex for a couple months on end. Having experienced real sex with someone, all the clich├ęs and my turn-offs in porn have become way more obvious, to the point of it not getting me turned on enough to masturbate regularly. I get horny after a few days without cumming but porn takes me a long time to cum. This gets in the way of work and other important stuff that wouldn't have been a problem before. Has anyone been in a similar situation? Is there an easy way to get porn to be hot again, or to make me go longer without wanting to masturbate?
I'd like to get this problem out of the way fast before I somehow wind up jacking it to questionable shit.
>inb4 'dump their ass and fuck someone else'
Pic unrelated, I made this bread today
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Ask for more nudes or try video chatting naked
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>>16511570
Buy lube, an onahole, and an onahole warmer. Or some other various sex toys for yourself. Apparently feels closer to the real thing, and makes masturbating more interesting.
Also arrange it so you two can have cam sex. If you've never had it, it's way better than masturbating alone.
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>>16511673
OP here. Thank you!
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>>16511570
I'm in a similar boat as you, that is regular porn doesn't do anything for me anymore. Once I realized how fake and stupid it is, it almost became the reverse of what it used to be.

This is probably a pretty 4chan answer, but: hentai.

I don't mean poorly animated hentai anime either (there are a few good ones, but a commodity). Find your self a good ero manga or browse /h/ and related boards and collect images that you like, set them on a slideshow and go to town. Even try some of the challenges /h/ has come up with like Fap Hero (Just google it) or some of the game threads they have on there. Maybe try out some hentai games, I know AA2 used to get me rock hard when other shit wasn't doing it for me. Just spend your time constructing your perfect waifu. You don't really have to be a weeb to get off to hentai, it's just something different, I know a lot of dudes that like it and don't give a shit about anything weeb.

I also 2nd onaholes with warmer. They are actually pretty tricky to buy for, check this guide out written by a dude from /jp/
http://pastebin.com/hwhGL66a

I'll make a 2nd post with some more non-hentai related suggestions, just figured I'd give a heads up if you're stalking the thread.
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>>16511846
You're welcome.

>>16511913
Don't fall into the hentai hole, OP.
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>>16511913
Figured I'd mention what I've found to be most enjoyable for me. If you have some time to spare and want to bust the best nut of your life, I've found these to be the best methods.

My favorite takes some time, really as much as you want to put into it, but really no prep or anything. Basically once you've got the material you're gonna use, you do what I'd call lazy edging. Basically you're going to be edging with minimal self control. Normally you'd just stroke and stop when you're about to cum, rinse and repeat for as long as you feel like. But honestly, if you just take your time and keep yourself from getting to the edge, it has generally the same effect, and requires considerably less self control and timing. The most important thing is to mix it up, don't just sit there and slowly stoke for 45 minutes, that shit's boring as fuck. Massage your balls, rub your head, use 2 fingers instead of your hand, do the helicopter dick (not even joking), twisting, smacking idk there are a bunch of different things you can do that will keep you hard but not on edge. I honestly could sit there and do that for 3-4 hours if I so pleased, and blow amazing loads, but after around an hour the blue balling starts to hurt. It's definitely worth it to push past it as much as you can, but for me generally when I start getting blue balls I release unless I got a lot of time. When you're ready don't just go stroking really fast either, the transition from gentle massaging to a rough barrage on your package will definitely not feel good, trust me. Just ramp up what you've been doing to slowly bring you to edge and release. The final step, right when you go over edge, but before you cum, let go. Don't touch anything, not even your balls. Your shit will have a mind of it's own, especially if you built up a huge load. Trust me, it's much better than just stroking it out.

One more quick tip to integrate with this in next post.
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>>16512045
This is for if you want to go truly next level.

You can really do this anytime you fap, but you have to do the release method I mentioned when you cum.

Basically, when you're cumming, wait for that last "big" release (basically the ones that you can really feel, and not just that few seconds of pushing out a tiny bit you don't even feel), and immediately after you push it out, grab your dick and stroke as fast as you can, but hold it loosely so you aren't restricting anything. It will probably vary depending on your endurance, but you will need at least some endurance for this. I generally have really good endurance, so it takes me about 25 seconds for this, but I'd say it's not worth it unless you can hold it out for about 10 seconds at the least after you cum the first time. With luck, instead of having the last bit of cum just come out in tiny little spurts you don't even feel, it will just build up another decent sized orgasm and you can cum again, just remember when you go over the edge to let go. Hell, if you built up enough you can even repeat this once or twice. The most I've managed is 5 times, and it took about 7 minutes total after reaching the first orgasm to get the 4 extra. I think the reason this happens is because if your stroke when you are orgasming you're just kinda pushing it all at once, where as if you let go it's left up to just your muscles to push it out, so each spurt is further apart, you have a longer orgasm, and you don't quite let everything out, which is why you can have the multiple orgasms. Not to mention it's kind of hot, at least for me, to watch your dick spasm and fling cum out.

If you get godly at it you could do this with an onahole, I'm practicing for it. I can only imagine the loads I will be dumping when I manage to build up the same endurance with onaholes.

>>16511972
Ah yes, I should have mentioned: waifus may cause irreparable depression due to not being able to spend time with your favorite 2D.
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>>16512092
Hope this helps, anon. I wish you good cummies.

Before typing this I actually just got done doing that exact method, basically had a 4 minute orgasm. Feelsgoodman.
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>>16511570

This is why ldrs generally don't work, porn isn't a sufficient substitute for being physically intimate with another person.

Sorry but there is no answer to your question. If you ever get to the point at which you are thinking about cheating please end the relationship first since being cheated on destroys a person.
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>>16512123
OP just wants to be able to bust a nut again though, he's not looking for something to replace the intimacy when he can't have it.

There are plenty of answers to his request.

It's true OP shouldn't cheat though.
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>>16512101
I hope you aren't who I think you are. What does your name start with?
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>>16512152
I highly doubt you could know me by my fapping method, unless I have an ex that browses one of the slowest boards of 4chan.

It's C, by the way.
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>>16512192
If it's C then definitely not. But you would be surprised. Also I know a guy that would put that much effort into explaining some stupid shit like pulling on his dick to another guy, and not into anything else.
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>>16512197
You'd be surprised how much guys like talking about their dicks.
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>>16512202
It is honestly revolting. Sorry, I just feel that way.
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>>16512206
r-rude
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Try new types of porn and methods of masturbation. you may find that you have a new fetish you werent aware of and you can spice things up when you see your lover again
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>>16511570
That's a nice bread, anon
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I don't understand this viewpoint, regular sex has vastly improved porn for me, because contrary to the teenage experience of having literally no connecting to the actual actions taking place on screen, having a rich pool of experience coupled with a rich pool of materials means that there's always something to look at while imagining the actual situation and the feeling of it. Of course, that kind of thing does need imagination, not sure if the kids nowadays have that anymore
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>>16512228
Porn got ruined for me because after I experienced sex (only ever had casual sex, not intimate stuff) I was pretty damn disappointed with how meh it was, whereas when I was watching porn as a virgin my imagination made it much better. On the other hand my reaction to blowjobs was the complete opposite, that shit blew my mind. So I can still get off to blowjobs if they are POV and not over the top.
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>>16512268

I guess that's a valid point, it depends on how good the actual experiences one can look back on are.
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OP here, I'm back. Had to go sleep.
>>16511913
>>16512045
>>16512092
>>16512101
I admit hentai does it for me when porn doesn't. I tend to interchange the two, but recently I've been erring on the side of hentai. Which is why I made this thread, because I'm worried some day regular hentai won't do it for me anymore and I have to start using the more questionable genres. Hentai games work a lot for me, but I have trouble knowing where to look for them. I'll check out /h/, and give edging a try, though like I mentioned in my first post I'd prefer to avoid spending hours fapping. Sometimes I do have time and I'll make sure to try it before dropping $70 on an onahole and warmer. Thanks anon!

>>16512123 shortage of intimacy doesn't bother either of us really. this ldd isn't as bad as it could be: we do get to see each other for weekends frequently and for longer periods of the year like winter and summer. I don't think it's a problem, but I know how to talk it out and communicate if it does. I won't cheat.

>>16512219 thanks anon! I had some toast from it today. It was great, and pretty easy to make!

>>1651228 it's just we have similar turn-offs, so that when I see the actors doing something we wouldn't do, like asshole play or the dude slapping her face, it kind of breaks the illusion. Thanks for the contribution though, maybe I just need to expand my experiences with her when I see her and experiment, to make it all more relatable.
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>>16511570
If a woman made bread like that for me I would marry her, it looks that good.
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