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I feel like a disappointment to this guy thats been crushing on me for a while (i like him too but ill explain) . See we are both 18-19 and i just want to focus on college and myself.
Hes always been really sweet to me, buying me gifts, saying nice things to me, making me feel special, but i told him on a date that i just wanted to stay friends and that i wasnt interested in having a boyfriend right now. Im pretty sure he thinks i just dont like him, but thats just not the case.

Was this a reasonable thing to do? he seemed very distraught and i feel really bad about it.
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>>16501136

>hes always nice to me
>buys me gifts
>takes me on dates
>for some reason doesn't tell him no straight up
>wallows in gifts and money until you have a new interest
>then tell him no

You're a bitch who enjoys getting attention and presents along with money. Like most women.
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>>16501136
>Was this a reasonable thing to do?

yes

>he seemed very distraught and i feel really bad about it.

he'll get over it quickly enough.
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>>16501154

Becasue buying a present means she has to ride the D.
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>>16501174

>have no interest in guy
>offers you a present
>politely turn him down and say no

vs

>have no interest in the guy
>offers you a present
>accept the present
>do this multiple times
>finally tell him no

See the difference?
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Guys, i didnt tell him that i have no interest in him, i told him that i didnt have an interest in being someones girlfriend right now. i want to focus on me right now.
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>>16501195
the dates i went on were to test the waters. The date i told him was my second ever date.
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>>16501195
the distinction might be obvious and sincere to you, but in the real world "i don't want to be a girlfriend" and "i have no interest in you" mean the same thing.
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you like him because he does nice things to you, but you are not attracted to him

he cares about the attraction
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>>16501136
I just dont see the problem, you dont have to be in a relationship, if you both like eachother just stay fwb or something.
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>>16501180

Hmm yes you are right, there is a difference.
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>>16501218
Yeah that's what it sounds like to me..
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But OP wouldn't say no to chad
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>>16501180
this
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>>16501241


try being more honest with yourself op
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