I feel like a disappointment to this guy thats been crushing

>>16501136

>hes always nice to me
>buys me gifts
>takes me on dates
>for some reason doesn't tell him no straight up
>wallows in gifts and money until you have a new interest
>then tell him no

You're a bitch who enjoys getting attention and presents along with money. Like most women.

>>16501136
>Was this a reasonable thing to do?

yes

>he seemed very distraught and i feel really bad about it.

he'll get over it quickly enough.

>>16501154

Becasue buying a present means she has to ride the D.

>>16501174

>have no interest in guy
>offers you a present
>politely turn him down and say no

vs

>have no interest in the guy
>offers you a present
>accept the present
>do this multiple times
>finally tell him no

See the difference?

Guys, i didnt tell him that i have no interest in him, i told him that i didnt have an interest in being someones girlfriend right now. i want to focus on me right now.

>>16501195
the dates i went on were to test the waters. The date i told him was my second ever date.

>>16501195
the distinction might be obvious and sincere to you, but in the real world "i don't want to be a girlfriend" and "i have no interest in you" mean the same thing.

you like him because he does nice things to you, but you are not attracted to him

he cares about the attraction

>>16501136
I just dont see the problem, you dont have to be in a relationship, if you both like eachother just stay fwb or something.

>>16501180

Hmm yes you are right, there is a difference.

>>16501218
Yeah that's what it sounds like to me..

But OP wouldn't say no to chad

>>16501180
this
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>>16501241


try being more honest with yourself op