I finally got a gf and now Im worried she'll leave me because

Then improve your social skills

>>16489632
any tips?

how do you think it would work out if you told her that you feel great when you spend time with her, but that you're worried about the fact that you don't talk unless you have something to say? and if you ask her if the silence makes her uncomfortable?

>>16489627
She will break up with you sooner or later if you don't talk, being in a relationship with a mannequin is no fun. If you talk only to communicate basic things like "we need to buy some milk'', instead of conversing for a pleasure, it also indicates that you are boring and/or stupid.

Better change that, m8.

>>16489627
Everyone gets these fears. It's normal.

It's kind of like the uncertainty of the future. If it's one thing you need to learn, it's that no one can control the future, or the past. They can only control the present.

So I suggest you enjoy your time with your girlfriend and if issues arise, just sort them out with her.

And remember, a relationship is a two way street. You're not the only person trying to make this work. Remember that.

>>16489634
>any tips?
read alot, do alot, meet alot of people.
the more input your brain gets the easier it becomes to hold a conversation

No this really isn't a problem for a woman quite the opposite females aren't keen on men always in their face for attention so I wouldn't worry about this best wishes A.A.A

>>16489708
>>16489646
it's not that I'm dumb or boring. I do a lot of interesting stuff. lately my life has been anything but boring, I just feel like people don't care about it (probably projecting my feelings towards other peoples life) and therefore I don't like sharing as much with others. I already read, do and meet plenty

>>16489724
Nobody gives a shit about your insecurities. You are in a relationship, what are you not gonna have sex becaus you are shy? She's your gf so she should give a shit about what you have to say. Why are you even with her if you don't feel comfortable enough to talk? Like, how does your date go? You both sit at the opposite ends of the sofa and stare at the telly?

>>16489753
nah we have fun on our dates. I guess you're right and this is just my insecurities

dont worry, you'll only be shy during the beginning of the relationship, as time goes on, you will gradually feel more comfortable around her and the shyness fades away