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>used to dress cutesy, feminine, guys dug me and stuff
>got depressed
>cut hair short
>started dressing andro
>like people mistook me for a guy and I liked that
>fast forward several months
>still into guys but now they didn't like me
>still have really light, cute, girly aesthetic
>want to start looking female again
>ugly oblong face
>hair looks disgusting growing out
>most of my clothes are male cuts now
>uncomfortable seeing myself as a girl
>feel like a mutant
What do I do? how do I get over this? what if it's not better when I grow my hair out?
I swear I'm not "genderfluid" or anything I'm just really uncomfortable and don't know what's going on.
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I'm in the same boat lmao, growing out your hair is hell
I feel more comfortable in "guy" clothes, though, so I'm probably going to stick to it, wearing girly clothes makes me feel ugly and autistic
you ain't gotta "see yourself as a girl", you're just a person who happens to be female
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Wew lad
I think of all the times " I fucked up" has been in the subject libe, this us the most minor, pathetic , insecure , easy to solve, first world problems, spoiled brat bullshit I have ever seen.
Wew, lad.
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>>16454639
I'm a male who did pretty much the same thing you did (just reversed). Just try, that's what I'm doing.
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>>16454639
Also, you're freaking out over nothing
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>>16454681
>>16454688
well that's basically why I used the subject line
I'm sorry this is such a petty question but thanks for stopping by anyway
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Identity crises are the fodder of youth. Grow your hair out and get girly clothes and go from there. My thought is you're just applying gender terms too much in your own head because hair and clothing don't equate gender anyhow.
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girls in boyish clothes are best girls
enjoy yourself please
short hair, tangled hair, long hair, eyebrow hair... If you care for yourself and are good company, you've got little to worry about in appearance dept.
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>>16454758
as I guess you can tell I'm directionless and self-absorbed , but thank you
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>>16454639
growing out hair just takes long and needs to be done in steps, so that the slower hairs are allowed to catch up.
>uncomfortable seeing myself as a girl
>feel like a mutant
do you feel vulnerable, or weak as a girl? or perhaps feel like your face/body is to manly for dress?
>>16454758
somehow i do get along well with OP-type, yet i find feminine aestetics attractive.
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>>16454639
>>want to start looking female again
>>uncomfortable seeing myself as a girl
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no need to go full kawaii all at once but if it's just uncomfortable feels holding you back, it's probably good to overcome them. as they may hold you back on more levels.
any chance of pics?
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>>16454639
>>fast forward several months
Several months enough for girls to replace their all clothes completely and change from feminine to andro so much men stop looking at them?
That's fucking troubling.
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>>16455017
how so?
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