What is the appeal of a Yandere?

>is obsessed with you
>will perhaps end your pitiful existence

>>146666266
/thread

>>146664876
Unparalleled devotion.

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>>146666266

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Lack of forethought

>>146666266
This

>>146664876
Feeling loved, feeling needed to the point where the other person would rather kill you (and themselves) than not being by your side. The purest, truest form of love.

>>146666512
Wouldn't you call that selfishness? Isn't love about wanting the other person to be happy and wanting good things for them? Possessing them like an object just seems like fetishisng to me.

>>146666596
It's more like someone else merging with your soul and being incapable of living without them. The purest.
I'm just talking out of my ass, I don't like yanderes that much.

>>146666658
Yeah, i know, it's alright to entertain the fascination of yandere, especially if you as an individual are lacking affection, it's natural to seek compensation, even if it is a very toxic form of love.

>>146664876
It appeals to those who are deeply soul crushingly lonely.

>>146666780
Pretty much this.

>>146666422

If your yandere is killing you, you probably did something to deserve it.

>>146666422
Yandere != Yangire

>>146666596
>fetishisng

I often see this term thrown around like it's a bad thing, like you shouldn't "like fat chicks BECAUSE they're fat since it's fetishing them, instead you should like them for god knows what reason".

Since when the hell did having preferences for certain type of partners (fat, fit, different skin color, less clingy, more clingy, shorter, taller, etc.) become "fetishising" and "something bad"?

>>146666596
>Isn't love about wanting the other person to be happy and wanting good things for them?
get the fuck out with that saccharine disney drivel.
love is realistically selfish.

>>146667399
a lot of people do just throw it around thoughtlessly but you CAN fetishize someone. there's nothing wrong with having certain things you're attracted to but when it gets to the point where you only see them as a sexual object instead of as a human being, then you're fetishizing them. there's a very thin line there

>>146667476
Yeah realistically, sure.

But what we're talking about is the ideal, and that's what that is.

>>146667399
Yeah, there's a huge margin of difference between ''just'' having a preference and basically saying i will murder anyone who doesn't appeal to my fetish.

>>146667541
where are you faggots coming from?

>>146667541
You're not welcome here.

There is literally nothing wrong with objectifying the object of your affection.

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>>146667541
You have to go back.

>>146666266
first post best post

>>146667777
agreed, tripsquad

>>146664876
Unconditional love regardless of what a shitty loser one is.

>>146667541
anon can I ask you something?

I admire their determination. I also think that the lengths they are ready to go for their loved ones is beautiful in a way.

>>146667541
Hello SJW feminist numale.

>>146667552
>Yeah, there's a huge margin of difference between ''just'' having a preference and basically saying i will murder anyone who doesn't appeal to my fetish.


I don't think I see anyone in this thread who likes yandere claiming that they'll kill anyone who doesn't appeal to their fetish.

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>>146667656
The real world, bro, just telling it as it is, my man.

>>146667656
>>146667723
>>146667777
i'm gonna go smoke weed with my five polyamorous girlfriends while you nerds jerk off to rape doujins, peace

>>146667994
I mean seriously , I have my suspicions but I want to hear from you first.

>>146667992
Yeah, but this is why it's a toxic form of love because it's very akin to a child intentionally breaking his toy, just so he wouldn't have to share it with anyone else. When you turn someone into an object through fetishising you remove their agency as a person.

>>146667999
You should kill yourself while you're at it, seems to be in line with your posts.

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>yandere killing their love interest
Yandere is where everyone -but- the love interest is at risk.

>>146664876
>wants your dick and only your dick
>what's the appeal?

>>146668091
>Yeah, but this is why it's a toxic form of love because it's very akin to a child intentionally breaking his toy, just so he wouldn't have to share it with anyone else. When you turn someone into an object through fetishising you remove their agency as a person.

I really have no idea what you're talking about my friend. The yandere? The yandere lover? Fetishizing in general? You make no sense.

Liking someone who is really attached to you doesn't remove any "agency of theirs as a person" and neither does "fetishising", you still ask her what she wants for dinner, you're not keeping her in chains, you're not forcing her to never meet her mom, what sort of agency as a person are you referring to?

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>>146666266
also will never betray you

>>146668278
The imaginary agency he learned about on tumblr.

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>>146668087
Suspicions? The real world is really real, my dude. I'm from it, and let me tell you, broseph, obsession is seriously unhealthy. Unless, of course, you are obsessed with being healthy, but thats miles away from being yandere, my anon-san from another man.

If you are in love with your yandere then it would be heaven for you. It's what we call in the west "overly attached girl". There's nothing better than a girl that lives only for you and that your mere prescence is enough to make her happy. The only problem is when your love towards her fades. Then it will become a burden more than a pleasure.
I dated an OAG for 2 years and it was the best but looking back I realized she did some things in order to get my attention even over my family or friends. That's why a yandere girl is a double edge sword.

>>146668618
>normalfag
>comparing 3d to 2d

Get out.

>>146668591
>Suspicions?
is it because of /pol/ ?
CNN name drops them you normals go there to fight them or something and then spread out to the rest of the site?
your fight is with them not us, leave us alone, we have nothing to do with them.

second wave tumblr migration?

>>146668781
The first wave never actually ended.

>>146668278
Uh Its really not that complicated, the yandere fetishises the person she loves to the degree that they are willing to restrict all of that person's freedoms, (i.e removing their agency) just to maintain their fetish.

>>146668562
I am the farthest thing you can imagine from an SJW. This is just logic 101

>>146664876
None. Yandere is a shitty archetype for edgy teenagers.

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>>146668779
Sounds epic, brononymous. But what in The Dude's name are you getting at? I just came from the real world to drop my load all over this thread, my dudebro. Like my man Plato once said: "Bitches that crave the dickus are gon' get it" 2d, 3d, I don't discriminate, as long as I get to park my meatcycle in their cunt-hedge that is.
My anibro's I'm off to steal some of that sweet prozac prescription from some chinese beaten-up bears, latez.

>>146668952
>Uh Its really not that complicated, the yandere fetishises the person she loves to the degree that they are willing to restrict all of that person's freedoms, (i.e removing their agency) just to maintain their fetish.

First of all it hardly counts as fetishizing. If she was fetishizing it, then any other man could become the target of her affection if he fulfilled some random criteria, and then it would hardly count as yandereism. What you're looking for is maybe "obsession".

Secondly this thread is about men who _want_ to have that "agency" restricted. Just like there are people who want to be put in cuffs before having sex, just like there are people who want to be raped. Why is this so foreign to you? Not to mention that your agency is only as restricted as you allow it. Some MCs can handle their yanderes just fine, by giving them the right amount of affection in the right moments.

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>>146664876
I don't know but I like it

>>146668952
Out of curiosity, are you a woman?

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I'm ok with the "will kill everyone BUT you so you don't wander" type of yandere.
Or the "will ignore everything except you once you return her feelings" yandere

>>146668952
>loving someone is fetish
>being clingy is fetish
Obsession/=fetish.
If it was a fetish why focus on one man?

>>146670254
This that new hotness

>>146676223
Because their fetish isn't loving the particular traits of the person but rather loving that person obsessively. Make sense?

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>>146666266
>not wanting a qt3.14 to end you