saw a thread like this and thought it was a good idea. post a picture of yourself, list your positive and negative personality traits, and be rated
pros: i'm a good worker, loyal, somewhat fit, have a decent job for my age
cons: i'm pretty forgettable, very shy, underweight, and insecure enough to always post in rate threads
>Open to most things, adventurous in a sense.
>Pretty calm and collected, I detest loud and obnoxious people.
>Keep my word
>Extremely intolerable to selfpity, I find empathy difficult in general.
>Get bored of people very quickly, flawseeker.
>Logical, I was going to put it as a pro but I can't even leave an argument unsettled.
>On that note, I'm shit at acknowledging my own flaws.
This was very difficult.
8, you're damn handsome tbqh. Being shy isn't necessarily a bad thing either imo, shy people often carry the most interesting stories.
I play guitar, like every other guy on here
Im a good 8/10 at least, i mean cmon
im dissociative :^) (DPD/DRD)
im not really able to understand the consequences/implications of the things I do
VERY not good at long term planning
If I were female or gay Id fuck you
youre the man I want to be but never can be, keep doing you friend.
Positive: I'm extremely polite in person. I'm very empathetic.
Negative: I often react to tragedy the way most would to comedy.
>schadenfreude is fun
>asking me to goatee
suspicious. Nah, but seriously I don't think it's so good. I have kinda a weak jawline (which is why I did the beard experiment in the first place). I think a goatee might only exacerbate this unfortunate situation.
I'm good at making people laugh, have interests that I think are cool (duh), empathetic and creative, in tune with how people are feeling
Cons: Insecure, 116 lbs, take things personally, kind of up and down mood wise
you're pretty good looking, I can imagine a really great girl who likes shy-ish guys really liking you a lot. You look pretty tall and all which is good. 8
Also good looking, I can imagine some girls liking that more left brained type of mind too.
7.5, you seem like you'd be fun, hopefully the cons aren't too much of an issue as time goes on
Another 7-7.5, this is a good looking thread. Hopefully you can control that con, glad you're empathetic though
haha I was referring to your negative thing.
Maybe youre more of a stubble guy? try and trim it once the hairs exceed 1cm. Just suggestions from someone unable to grow good looking facial hair :,)
>tall enough (6'2")
>can easily sacrifice enjoyment of the pleasure for enjoyment of the future
>i don't derive much enjoyment from anything myself, so i am willing to sacrifice things that may bring mild enjoyment to myself in order to bring greater enjoyment to somebody else
>principled; loyal, honest and temperate
>i like to read
pro or con depending on judge:
>extremely unaffected by emotion
>entirely fine with not leaving my house for months on end
>i attempt to confront those who i care about when they are having flawed thoughts or attempting to make bad decisions (this should be a pro, but some people appear to think otherwise often enough for this to be put in the ambiguous category)
>i don't really look masculine
>zero friends outside of the internet (this is a positive to me, but it is clear that many people think otherwise)
>many people would find my reading habits to be extremely boring
>my opinions, while often unexpressed, may result in a lower judgement of my character
>detached from society
>hold a general lack of caring about anything until i have a person to work to provide for
i don't see those as true cons apart from forgetfulness, honestly.
i suppose being underweight is bad if it's affecting your long-term well being
attractive, loyal and apparently decently wealthy, you're definitely a lot of people's ideal guy (9/10)
will rate the rest in the next post
(I might sound a little conceited, but I'm not the type to deny my good traits)
I consider my nerdiness and otaku life a pro
I'm really artistically inclined
I have a nice butt, no you cannot see it
I'm not a whore
I'm open, outgoing, upbeat, kind, generous, intelligent, and not afraid to speak my mind
I have Borderline Personality Disorder
I have the worst case of resting bitch face and I tend to be a stoic person, even though I'm really not
I'm pretty loud and people find me annoying at times
I have a bad temper
Still getting out of being socially retarded
Looks are an 8/10, insecure men kinda drop it down to a 6. But everything else is okay. I'm Greek so I'd feed the fuck out of you.
All in all, a 5/10. Playing guitar can't be the only pros of yours. Feels on the rest of the stuff though.
Descent. I wish I was born there. But all of my family on my mom's side are super Greek. I embrace my Greek culture hardcore. Nowadays, everyone asks me what sorority I belong to when I tell them I'm Greek. Feelsbadman.avi
Usually they have nothing else to say when I say "No, I'm actually Greek and not a fucking douche."
>i'd like to clarify that my rates are the mean of personality and appearance
i suppose the boredom of others is likely to be a barrier preventing happiness in life-long marriage, but future family may not even be a priority for you
logical is most definitely a plus, provided it isn't """"""""logical""""""""
intolerance to self-pity is a good trait if i'm interpreting it correctly, every reasonable person should have a friend with that trait if they do not hold it themselves
you're at a level of attractiveness that some people may ironically judge you to be a person who judges far too often, and this could be a turn off for idiots
appears attractive enough, appears fun to be around
i doubt i'd be able to stay around you for long periods of time, but i'd give it a go
difficulty planning is a true con, as well as inability to foresee the consequences of your actions
not enough to judge here, really, but politeness is good as long as it doesn't devolve into pussyfooting and pandering
humour, enjoyment of interests and creativity are a definite plus
empathy is good as long as it is in true harmony with ability to reason (if empathy is too dominant between the two, this may be a negative)
most of your negatives are likely to be improved upon over time, as they were with me
i hope your time has been alright recently, i haven't seen you here in a while
i've been alright, had exams last week, went well
can easily understand people
emphatic but still logical
is often dominant
Sorry I haven't been on in a while, I think I'm back now though. Is life good? Glad you did well on your exams
Same, dad is 100% Greek, his dad was Cypriot from Paphos and his moms family was from Epirus. I've had similar experiences but usually don't respond so brutally
intelligence is obviously fantastic, as is willingness to speak your mind (as long as this doesn't devolve into autism-esque social interactions)
social retardation is okay to me if it's extreme social seclusion
outgoing is sadly a negative for me, as is upbeat if it's too prominent
you seem nice, but i'm quite sure being around me would piss you off
empathy combined with reason makes for a great friend
fitness is also often a good testament to character and drive
jealousy is only a clear negative if it causes you to restrain the actions of others
anger management issues may get annoying, but i find that i'm somewhat difficult to get angry at in discussion
to this, i'd like to add:
>eclectic (enough) music taste
>often unaffected by that which would anger others
>able to tolerate defects that result from that which cannot be changed, or defects which are currently seeing an attempt at removal
>I'm mostly calm although extroverted
>I'm great at helping people but I can't help myself, like, at all.
>I sometimes annoy people because I want them to go the rational way too.
thanks everyone, for the complements and just posting in the thread in general
8.5, you do strike me as the logical type but i cannot see it as a con.
7.5, if i were gay i'd be all over it
8, i'd like to think so. you just are naturally handsome. my mood can go up or down in a moment's notice too
9 i just like your look a lot. i like to read too
>not a whore
>apparently a nice butt
these go a long way to give an 8.5, that first one is rare on soc. also i love greek food so pls do
7.5/10, but let me be a bit dickish right here, its for your sake though. somehow lose like 10-15lbs (4.5-7kg if youre not 'merican) and bitches will be all over you man. Also both you and I got that wide nose bridge, fuck this life lol
Can be funny
Is a light weight, so I'm pretty cheap to buy for.
I would say I'm pretty empathetic.
I'm one of the weird people that actually enjoys learning.
I can remember a lot, especially if it's important to you.
- Affable, articulate, personable. Confident.
- Very patient, highly empathetic, very well mannered.
- Dry wit, gallows humour.
- Love food, love to cook/bake.
- Ambitious, good earner.
- I have a awesome personal library.
- Love movies, vidya games.
- Athletic, good at sports.
- Antisocial and pessimistic on occasion.
- Speaks mind when often just biting tongue would be better.
- Prone to boredom.
- Absent minded sometimes.
I just hate the way my chin looks there, its not ACTUALLY that big lmao
this is my fav pic of me, i think it shows my stupid fuckin nose pretty well
The con of the logic is based on the fact that I'm not empathetic. I find it extremely hard to look away from facts and judge my decisions on even a sliver of emotion. Makes arguments flare up instead of just going "Let's just forget about it, wasn't a big deal" even though it'd waive the bother.
sometimes that nose is really good looking and sometimes it's just downright silly. I don't get it.
here's my favorite picture of me and my nose in crime.
I really like your piercing anon, at first I thought it was done too low but it looks nice like that. Got any tats?
Ive been on a few things that could be considered anti-anxiety medication, regardless of if I actually have anxiety. I didnt feel any bad side effects, but getting off them is a BITCH. brain dead for a good week. they were celexa, zoloft, and wellbutrin.
no tattoos, was thinking about getting a small team gurren logo or a command seal from F/SN though.
is that pic more representative of you? weight looks perfect on the health/appearance line there
yeah, if you have any doubts then dont even try.
life hits like a fuckin truck man
my gf of a long while recently broke up with me and started dating my roommate/long time best friend 3 days later. Double betrayal. I moved out and dropped out of college because I needed to get away from there or else I was going to continue the meltdown people told me I had (I dont have much memory of it)
yeah it really does. that's not even all there is to it but I won't go into details here. And that sucks man, I went through pretty much the same story 4 years ago.. Humans are weird, I don't get how people can change so fast. Or how they not seem to give a shit about hurting other people.
You look like a good time though, do you live like you want to live right now? :)
Are you working currently? What's it like in America, can you just save up money for 3-4 months and then move? How much does someone make with the usual job you can get when you're 20~yo?
(Sorry for the questions but this is really interesting :) )
Pros -accomplished artist, bilingual, creative, I understand someones sense of humor rather quickly so therefore I'm easily likable, I'm patient, very empathetic, I don't have a filter and I say whatever comes to mind, my nipples are pierced (I love them so that's a pro for me)
Cons -too creative, and too sexual, everything I interpret is sex and I think I have a problem. I try to do too many things at once, like balance the arts, painting, vocal, dance, music, and I tire myself out. I'm pretty lazy, I like to stay in most of the time, I'm not really a social person and I come off as pretentious but really I just like to make puns and talk about video games.
Same with the cons, shy and insecure, it happens. 8/10 would take you to dinner and maybe let you touch my butt.
Too pretentious, personality 5/10, go getter, but a dick. Face 9/10
Do you live in Grand Rapids, Michigan? 5/10 some type of art form you enjoy and like to tell everyone about. Maybe a vegan.
I like beards but the head tilt means you're trying too hard to be cute although you already are. Seductive looking, it's 1pm do you know where your children are?
All of those cons are me. Heh. Well maybe you're an artist who sees the world differently. 7/10 I'd let you paint me nude.
We should go to a The Dirty Heads concert sometime 6/10 would drink and have a good time with.
(I have a cold so greasy hair don't care and me feat. Tissue Box)
>very nice to people i like.
>I keep my calm and can take care of myself in any situation
>not dependent on other people
>get bored fast. Cant have à relationship for long since i always want the things i cant get and get bored of what i have
>i lie about stuff. Mostly small things.
>mean to people i dont like.
5/10 sorry man
Hot as hell/10
Seem very nice/10
That's insane compared to Switzerland! I get 3000 swiss francs (which is about 3000USD) a month here. And that's with a mediocre paying job. Although in Florida most things are probably cheaper than here.
6.75/10 although a 7 with the way you seem to think/talk. I'd dig a concert right now, what would you drink and with what do you let out your creative side?
You look like you'd be fun to sit next to at a campfire and just talk about stuff. Anything really. Hope I'm not wrong!
>know when to speak, know when to sit back and observe
>can entertain you with my bad music
>great tripping buddy
>generally kind hearted i guess
>emotional issues, hard time getting close to people
>will seem standoffish when i really just have too much anxiety to talk
>soul crushing levels of apathy
I don't do drugs but I drink, typically just Honey Jack because I want to get shit faced fast. Or at a family get together where I can't stand the political retorts my racist family has, I'll have some wine. A lot of wine. And I use pencils for my work, Mom was a junkie so although it'd be fun to get fucked up and paint, not going to take chances of turning into an addict.
ah I meant more in terms of working utensils like pencils you mentioned. You seem like a good time. Would totally crash your family's political bullshit with three bottles of red wine!
I can relate to that I guess, my dad's a junkie, has been for 10 years now and I don't plan on ever seeing that side of him represented in me.
Ahhhh Nirvana is totally overrated, I think if he never ate a shotgun he wouldn't be as big of a legacy as he is now, do you run a pale soft grunge blog on tumblr? (I'm really not trying to be rude assumptions always sound mean, yknow?)
seem like a cool guy, at least above average attractiveness
getting people to act the 'rational' way far to often means getting people to act your way, but i'll let this slide and assume that you are, in fact, decently rational most of the time
ability to enjoy learning is a huge plus, as is loyalty
both are too sparse
smoking is clearly a negative, and trust issues can be frustrating if they're too great in magnitude
i don't see a good memory as a negative trait
absent mindedness is fantastic, in my opinion
so is a love of cooking
these are all quite great, though i've never been too invested in sports
i admire bilingualism, as well as patience
extreme amount of time investment in the arts is also admirable to a degree, but i think it may hinder my ability to enjoy your company
cool headedness and independence are great
lying is a habit that needs to be removed, it's one of the ones that took me a while to purge
meanness to people you dislike is also not too great, but it's a plus that you're willing to admit something that's almost unanimous amongst people (at least, to the degree that they treat those that they like better than those that they dislike)
extreme apathy is a plus in my books; i share the quality and i get along very well with those who don't care if they're on fire
introversion is also quite cool; if i'm at a point in my life- (cont. 1500wrd)
I wouldn't say I want people to act rational. Just to believe and assume with a rational mind. Everyone should have the ability to critizise everything, stuff like Facebook and Tumblr gives people so much disinformation/almost propaganda it's sickening.
Hejsan swefag! I'm half Swedish :)
My traits aren't due to being pretentious, I just had a childhood that was characterized by not feeling pity for yourself. Took me a good while to realize what was considered rational and what was downright cruel.
I do find respect for other people very quickly though.
-in my life where i'm interested in having friends, i find that extremely introverted people are the type of people who i bond best with
the standoffishness is a slight negative, but i can't say that it's a trait that i haven't adopted to a degree
ability to observe instead of shout and fuck everything up is one of my favourite traits, and an affinity for music is also a plus for me
I do not, and I dont use tumblr. I think youre making me out to be a legitimate hipster instead of a poser one whos personality doesnt fit the look at all.
I just like the crunch and muddiness of Nirvana, the lyrics are okay at best, but the simplicity of the instrumentals appeals to me more than technical stuff.
I was adopted so both of my parents were doing drugs the time, my sperm donator (what I call my biological father) is clean now, and my egg donator is still sucking dick for crack so it's easy for me to get lost in my arts. I also LOVE watercolors. I'm currently working on a nude male study.
I am not good at judging others, well then. I don't really listen to metal/rock I had a middle school emo phase that makes me cringe to anything rock related although I really like RATM. I'm down for Rage anyday my friend.
That's really nice! Now I kind of want to get drawn by you, haha. Do you have any siblings? Must be tough knowing your biological mum is still on the rough track. You seem to be well though, if your art helps go for it. You've got the talent!
>laid back, friendly person
>virgin (clean and disease free)
>remains true to myself even if that means not getting laid or making cool new friends
>no qualifications or career
The arts is not my main source of conversation, I also talk about books, the universe, what kind of flowers I like (I really really like anything flower related) sex, a LOT of sex, I almost pride myself from being so open minded. I like sharing funny and sad stories, I like learning about other peoples lives, people are books waiting for their story to be told. I love it.
oops, wanted to post that with a text. oh well. relevant captcha
>thinking doing a lot of the thing human's were designed to do makes you open minded
Thanks duuuude, and two half brothers, one from egg donor and some dude Mike and one half brother from sperm donor and some woman I forgot the name of, so all in all 3 half brothers. Art is a way of survival.
i already expected this
most people would probably find you a cool person to be around, but my aloofness and tendency to engage in vague winding narratives about theory would probably cause mutual alienation
you'd also be likely to hate my music taste
What do you think makes you open minded, anon?
haha I laughed out loud at "some dude Mike" - for some reason that's hilarious. Did you ever do a self portait? I wonder how you draw yourself. I always end up bringing my emotional state into it which ends up funny sometimes.
Sex, when it's with someone you deeply love and want to listen to how their day is with genuine interest, is so passionate and all of the endorphins, I guess it's like a drug to me. I have a very loving man who takes care of me and I really feel unified when we have sex.
duly noted. Was unintentional consequence of taking a picture while laying on a bean bag.
>where my children are
Another dimension where I get laid?
You're very nice though. Thank you. And obviously naturally pretty. Can't criticize you on looks, and I can relate to your cons. Except staying indoors. A walk can do amazing things for the creative juices.
Why do you connect being with someone while being (genuinely) interested in their day to day stuff with sex? I'd say that's pretty far away from it, from what I just read it seems you're more talking about love than sex. Although I do see your point, it does bring people closer to each other even if you're not hopping on each other.
You two seem really happy :) (and your bf is a QT)
i'm can vaguely tell that you might be interested in what i listen to, so i'll hit you up with a few of my favourite songs at the moment
no, but you did say that anything rock related makes you cringe
these are my five favourite songs (or at least the first five of many that came to my head)
hope you find something you like
Your snap chat is awesome
He's a lucky guy!
I am,honest and upfront but usually hurt people's feelings with my directness
the ability to set aside your inherent biases towards or against something you haven't experienced or an idea that is looked down upon by society and give it a chance even if you feel it is wrong or bad for you
if this was 17th century england sure you could call yourself open minded for liking sex, but today the idea that one is open minded for grinding genitals a lot is literally laughable
lol anon your music taste is far from alienating. try finding grills who are into ae.
here, you might like this I think:
It's like the cheerful,slower, more childish side of the stuff you posted but I think it conveys the same line of emotions.
btw I really liked the beast, please be still track. thank you :)
i don't really think my music is alienating, i either mistyped my post on alienation or you misread it
i assumed that the other person wouldn't be into my taste because they said that anything 'rock' makes them cringe
i'm not too sure i dig your suggestion, but i'll download the album and give it a couple of listens to make sure
Yeah that seems like a good definition of it. In a way that implies an open mind to sexuality though. I'm not saying that's the whole point of open mindedness but sexuality is exactly the point of things being "frowned upon" in general discussions.
It's alright if you don't like it, just trying to share Bibio. I love him, his music sounds like a really great realtionship in a way. Or just good times in general :)
If you're actually interesting in it you should try to explore spirituality, it's kinda interesting and it'll help you realize your future...
You actually look like you'd be a good raver.
5.5/10 could be improved by fixing yourself up.
If you drew that it's really good, keep arting dude.
You just seem chill.
10/10 would trip with.
Everyone lies dude.
Unless you're a sadistic nympho I don't think being sexual is a con.
sexuality is not frowned upon in our society, it is actively encouraged and even used as an almost universal sales tactic. it is probably the least taboo it could ever get compared to every other society in human history, besides maybe greeks and romans.
there are literally BDSM parades, it's not anything taboo or hushed up. in fact it is actively celebrated
In Switzerland sexuality and its reactions to the mind and body are not discussed openly. If you try to do that you'll just be awkwardly stared at unless you're sitting at a table of drunk people. It is in a way a taboo. Like talking about how much money you make in Sweden. Not sure where it comes from though, probably pride and not trusting other people.
Proof of you selling anything out on a large scale.
Proof of your bilingualism via a Proficiency certificate.
Proof of your creativity, would most probably coincide with the first proof.
The rest just makes you sounds like a lazy narcissistic slut who flaunts her genetic lottery of a 7.5/10 face whilst being completely pretentious and really "having fun" "enjoying life" and "understanding people".
Not even mad or salty, I've just met you before. Like 12 of you. You're all literally the same carbon copy, mass produced 4th wave new age arts student who needs to be slapped and forced into hard labor for a few months.
You do seem salty anon. If she really is one of those carbon copies why don't you let her be exactly that, she's enjoying her life that way and apparently you're not enjoying yours. It's not like your passive agressive statements can change her view of herself.
Show us your face you seem interesting enough :)
pros: loyal, calm and quiet mostly, been playing music for 10 years, pro cuddler
cons: too many to count fat, avoidant, depressive, negative, cynical, too shy, insecure, ugly, manlet(1.77m), asocial, poor as shit
You look like a good dude man. 8/10
Man you bring up a good point, sex is something physical and tiring and it's work and we have to work together and I just like being really close to him. I guess I am talking about love, does making love count? And HE'S SO HOT, he's been growing out his beard and it's just too cute
I mean, you only yolo once ammirite.
I'm happy bro, It's just like...
You meet new people, you meet friends of friends...
And everyone is just slotting smack bang into stereotypes, you have dozens of people you meet just fitting straight into the same slot.
I just hate it when people are too afraid to just be themselves man, I'm sick of hanging around with the same chick as last week but this time she's a redhead who is totally into Wicca, under that shes THE SAME PERSON. Does your head in.
IT'S LIKE DEJA VU
Say something unexpected, say something that could perhaps... delude me into thinking you're somewhat fleshed out and different, or is it all senseless gratification with snarky attempts at humor and an inflated sense of self worth?
This is getting good
I am enjoying it. Hope you are too :)
Of course that counts! Seems like you two appreciate each other that's cool. Wish I had a lady, I'd dig her even if she grew a beard.
have to go now so I hope you all have a wonderful weekend! you're all QTs.
I don't think under that she's the same person. Above she may be but if you dig deep enough into people's past/gain their trust so they show you their actual thoughts on everyday things you'll see that people tend to be a lot more interesting at heart than what they seem to be around it.
You're an accomplished creative artists who's bilingual... So what're your accomplishments?
I've seen this tactic before, acting disconnected and unnerved whilst spouting inane crap. It's a very transparent defense that reveals how insecure of your intelligence you are. Speak up little girl. Defend your integrity. Use that wit.
you gets the opportunity to be a human and you waste it pursuing what your primitive reptilian brain tells you to. the only time you use the underdeveloped human parts of your brain is to fucking delude yourself into thinking you've accomplished something. you might as well be a fucking rat or any other useless animal. at least they don't pretend they're something they aren't.
>i don't have to defend myself, my white knights will do it for me!
you're getting absolutely rekt you do realize that right
I don't know anything about raving to be honest, when I was more social I was usually the barfly than the person dancing.
But for the spirituality/raving, I did listen to Psytrance/Goa trance for some time so I kind of understand that side of it but when I said spiritual I just meant I read a lot of books and try and find something in there to help with my meaningless life lol.