18/m/Nottingham. I'm fairly attractive (Or so i've been told) and I've got a good personality (So i've been told). I just have trust issues and woman scare me ( when it comes to anything emotional, due to previous abuse )
I had gfs growing up but never tried. It's too stressful. At this point I wouldn't want to lose it to someone I don't know well. Maybe when I was horny and 15, but being homeschooled I had no opportunities then. It doesn't make me feel bad because I tell myself I could easily lose it if I wanted to but I really don't anymore. The way I see it, my virginity is a result of a bigger problem (anxiety) and until I overcome that there's no point worrying about my virginity, better to use it as motivation to overcome my real issues.
29/m Drunkenly made out with two girls, both three years ago - both initiated the whole thing. Had feelings for the second, she even spent the night in my bed but didn't want to do more than kissing. I fell hard for her, a very smart and beautiful girl, and we talked about dating, but she told me she didn't want a LDR ever again. Of course some months later she was in a LDR with some rich guy. To hear that was pretty depressing. Now I'm trying to get to know more girls through friends and online, even had a OKC date in summer which was nice, but in my experience something always comes in the way. Short story from New Year's Eve: At our house party a girl clings to me the whole evening, we tease each other and have fun. As we go outside before midnight she says " now you've made me happy two times so far tonight" as I share some firework with her. Moments later, precisely at midnight her roommate grabs her, kisses her (she seems surprised too) and leads her away. Didn't see her again. Sorry for the storytime, had to get this off of me somehow.
24. Muslim man, Connecticut. Severe anomie leads me down depressed lines of thinking. I have no real problem waiting for marriage, the problem is I was born in America. And no matter how much they cover up with hijab and put on a good-girl act, they're pretty much just as slutty as white girls. Which means I'm waiting for nothing, and I try to accept that, I want to comfortable not having virgin wife. Still, it makes me sad and worried I won't be able to meet her expectations. And it makes me feel like I'm being short-changed, what's the point in waiting if she won't? But that in itself is ridiculous, my job is to follow the law, not do what everyone else is doing, and it makes me feel dishonest about my faith for even thinking that.
My dream would be to find a very young 18-19yo girl and marry her, usually they don't become sexually active until they leave their parents and go to college so there's still a better chance an 18yo Muslim girl is a virgin compare to a white girl who starts at like 15. But of course no recent high school graduate is eager to get married, and I understand that I certainly wasn't ready at that age.
So whatever. I'm moving in a few months and will actively start looking for a wife by 2017 when I feel comfortable that I'm in a stable position in the job I'm taking. I want to start going to nightclubs and shit and have a few one night stands with trashy sluts to at least get my dick wet somehow... but I really shouldn't want that. And if all that anxiety was for nothing and I do marry the very rare virgin, fuck will I hate myself for not waiting
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