dude, that's the last straw. i give up on girls. pic related (from another thread) proved that you can't win with girls if your face isn't good looking.
so what should i focus on now? i already lift, have a job, and am in school, but what now? i feel like im doing all of this is for a wife and family but i dont want any of that anymore.
Fuck you, OP. Show the other pic. The one where this guy's location is in NEW YORK CITY
No shit. An attractive dude is going to get 9 messages in a city of 12+million.
You've got a shit attitude and are just looking for an excuse.
The dude in the picture isnt even that bad looking. Guys on tinder have a reputation for just wanting one night stands, but most women want more. "You have such kind eyes"?? Wtf kind of sleezy message is that?? It has nothing to do with you not being a 10/10 chad, its that you're desperate and everyone can see it.
>so what should i focus on now? i already lift, have a job, and am in school, but what now? i feel like im doing all of this is for a wife and family but i dont want any of that anymore.
You lost the second you staked the purpose of your life in obtaining a person for what ever reason.
for the people who are too retarded, his face is in top right of the pic. and it is not me.
hmm, i wonder why
everything we do is show off and impress a mate for natural reasons and creating a family? am i wrong? this is what weve been taught in america since the day we were born.
>you are useless to society if you can't get a bf/gf or have kids
Shit you're right.
I am though.
Let's join the muhjahadiin.
Why you have to be a square?
Just join ISIS with me. Stop buggin.
girls can't be robots
even girls with Down syndrome find mates
I don't have a checklist of things I do. I like improving myself because I'm not a mongloid. Girls just come naturally once they see that. Trust me brah, just b urself.
>tfw not looking forward to valentines day because gf wants to eat at a restaurant and I just want to stay home
good looking = good personality
look, most dudes NEVER has girls replying to them first. maybe one or two fat ones, probably a bot. but not as many as he has. have you not seen our tinder threads? we are usually racking our brians over how to start, what to say next, how not to fuck it up etc etc.
stop trying to downplay how great it is be a chad, fucking roastie.
Who wants to see the results?
Are you ready to take a look, first hand, at what real life is to an attractive male?
Can you go back and live in your subhuman life?
>work hard on yourself. lift, read, travel, take a hobby, become the guy your future wife will be proud! of course looks matter but not as much as you think. girls will care much more for your outlook at life and personality than anything else.
>a good personality is the most attractive feature
a personal favorite. she does all the work.
>mfw I try those lines
>mfw I look like an ogre
>they block me instantly
When I was in high school, I photoshopped a friends head onto the fattest partially naked man I could find, then set up a dating profile for him. Mind you, it was fairly witty, but I got heaps of responses and messages.
Instead of being honest, make fun of yourself, make fun of them, and be different. I did this myself recently, just doing generic crap, and I dont mind getting the odd landwhale because I like fatties, but I got way less
Such flagrant vanity, in these women.
I'm a dude, and if I lived in a city that had 120 times more people than my current, I'd expect 3/4 matches per day minimum and I'm not close to as attractive as OP's pic. It's not about looks; it's about astronomically increasing the number of women who see your profile.
but he didn't even fill out the thing
and there must always be more men than women on there... Most of them must fill out the profile and actually work on it. OP is just 3 pics of a model in a blank profile.
you look perfectly fine, slightly above average with some touches and professional photography
the equivalent of you, as a female, would get legit 500 messages in a week
but try it dude. see for yourself. it's either ALL or nothing. 5% of men get all the hot, semi hot, average, and slightly above ugly girls.
just lmao at life
>the equivalent of you, as a female, would get legit 500 messages in a week
Why would any girl want anything less than Chad when this is happening?
Alright robots, I'm gonna show you how to pull sluts without being a chad.
Rule 1: Always be a piece of shit in your profile.
In my case I was completely honest. I stopped worrying about getting rejected based on what I actually think, instead of what I think women want me to think.
>the equivalent of you, as a female, would get legit 500 messages in a week
>but try it dude. see for yourself. it's either ALL or nothing. 5% of men get all the hot, semi hot, average, and slightly above ugly girls.
this is true
I'm 6/10 and I know that if I were female I would get so much attention I would lose interest in people, but as a man nobody cares.
Rule 2. I'm not actually that good looking, I'm even a little fat right now. But I pic flattering pics.
My ex girlfriend took this one lol irony
Faggots this is how you get girls
Your first message is "We must secure the existence of our people and a future for white children"
I'm perverted. I feel like its a deer in headlights thing. I just immediately start talking about choking them on my dick and even rather vanilla girls get caught off guard.
MANY women will stop responding, but ALL of dating and fucking as a male is a shotgun game. Even chads have a 50 to 80% failure rate.
Keep in mind that, for every slut that messaged Chad first on okcupid, 5 or 10 or 100 didn't.
>on a dating medium where all you can base your interest on is claimed (and easily fabricated to cater to a bigger crowd to have a bigger chance) set of traits and a photo of a person
>no initial indication possible of social skills, wit, humour, etc.
>nor confidence, non-verbal communicative skills, posture, how one carries oneself, etc.
>women get dozens if not hundreds of thirsty men to initiate conversations with them on a daily base solely based on the woman's looks
>more specifically, based on her being a woman
>mfw it somehow surprises people (read: men) to learn women add a filter based on one of two things available (looks and self-claimed easily falsified traits) to sift through hundreds if not thousands of men on some online dating medium
If you know your looks won't carry you through life yet you want a gf, go and look at places where looks are not about 99% of you visible. I.e., go bloody outside. Talk with people in person and you'll have a wide range of additional parameters you can show someone to indicate you're potential date material, most of which can be improved as opposed to your face.
>i feel like im doing all of this is for a wife and family
You already lost before you started, man.
Do those things for yourself instead, work on things you want to work on for you, not for some potential future wife or family. Be your own motivation to improve and excel in life.
>go outside and
why do you think go for dating sites?
most men there aren't robots who don't leave the house. they're fucking normies that couldn't get a girl because chad was available with an online message
that's the point you fucking retarded. it was already an unfair game, and online dating made it even worse for us.
why do you keep rationalizing and defending a lost cause?
I have a good face, but I'm currently at least 30lbs overweight, with love handles, hundreds of stretch marks and a reasonable amount of loose skin on my gut.
I was extremely fat until I was like 18 or 19.
That's rule 4.
Fix your flaws to the absolute best you can.
If you're fat, you don't bitch that women don't respond to you. They don't respond because you're fat. Choose what you want more, food or sex.
If you're ugly, get ripped. If you're short, get ripped. If you've got a shitty haircut, spend $25 instead of $7-15 and get a better one.
In regards to my previous post: Feminists are fucking retarded, but the one valid point they make, is that women don't owe you sex. If you were a 5-8/10 and didn't HAVE to fuck = or below your grade, would you? No. You'd fuck the highest you could attain.
I use a fake name, fake snapchat btw. I'm afraid I'll get one of these sluts pregnant or they'll go crazy or something.
This one was a fine ass redhead, she hit me up a month after I lost interest (being busy with work).
>this is what weve been taught in america since the day we were born.
I understand this is what is being taught to many people (not just in America), but it's one of those things that are fairly outdated in today's society yet perpetuated because going for the "American Dream" is beneficial to those who have a big part of the economy. Going for a wife and family will mean a nice house, a nice car, buying tonnes of stuff for the kid(s) and wife, basically having you keep spending money the rest of your life to keep everything going.
Nothing wrong with living for yourself for a while, focusing on your own improvements and enjoyments; as long as you're not actively hurting others for your pleasure, there's zero reason valid reason for others to berate you on it other than that you're not helping those corporations get more profits, or not giving your money away to some leech, or similar.
If you end up still single at age 40 as a guy, you'll likely get odd looks from plenty of people as they may find it incomprehensible that someone might choose for such a thing.
However, don't get peer pressured into wanting something the average person desires as well; again, you're not actively hurting anyone by being single and enjoying your life - whether you're in your twenties or sixties.
Literally hundreds of young qt3.14 who want green card. Just bring em over and fuck them until they leave you. She can't take any of my money because I have none and she knows this.
>see superbowl commercial, "you gotta find your thing"
>see articles, the best comments are, "find your thing and develop it"
>on r9k, "just be above average at something"
>realize years ago, women are looking for some gimmick, whether its tattoos, or you have a piercing or you have "the nose" or you're 6'4 or what have you
women are looking for some gimmick. it's very strange how they base their attraction and it cannot be defined because they change it on the fly.
this is why young women don't like me. i don't have any gimmick, i have too much integrity. i won't do anything just for the sake of doing it, i actually have to like it, there isn't a "fake" bone in my body. if i say something, i mean it and if i do something there is a damn good reason for it, period.
stop giving shitty "advice" you retarded fatty
facial aesthetics is where its at, specially a masculine face
also your shitty advice wont work for half of the people here, not everyone is fat. kill yourself
Buzz it, keep it so the stubble is just visible. Think Jason Statham or that faggot who played the villain in Antman. ALWAYS. NO EXCEPTIONS. NO ONE WANTS TO FUCK COSTANZA.
Beard. I am mostly French/German but I have just enough Cherokee in me to fuck up my beard to the point where my cheeks are splotchy and bare until the hair grows long enough to fill out somewhat like pic related.
If you can't grow a beard? Work on your other attributes. Lift weights, Dress better.
/fit/ and /fa/ have helped me immensely. I was actually a 20 year old virgin when I first started those boards. And I've been a fat introverted 4channer for over a decade.
You bitter ass robots are probably REE'ing but I really am one of you. I played world of warcraft for 5 years and over 700 days /played. I got gladiator for the first 7 arena seasons. I had to work to learn how to fuck girls.
I fucked this girls ass that night btw lol. Anal is the best.
people don't realize that statham is retardedly handsome
I guarantee you no one here has a real, developed 6 pack (as opposed to being so scrawn your abdominal muscles are visible).
I can also promise you 90%+ of the people bitching about girls on /r9k/ haven't maximized their grooming/dressing potential.
I haven't done either, I've merely improved myself enough to manage.
His face really isn't that pretty. He just has mastered the art of stubble/head shaving. He's also built as fuck and a confident, british accented movie star.
His raw, base level facial aesthetics aren't shit except for his jaw.
I'm conventionally unattractive, am a manlet, poorfag, only started developing social skills at age 24 (4 years ago by now).
After about 2 years of practicing normal socializing, I had several women interested in me already, asked some women out and went on dates, and almost had a gf but I chickened out.
All the while on online dating sites I had zero luck. Per several hundred messages I maybe got one "hi" back and no response after that. I tried Tinder about 2 years ago and managed to get 2 matches (bots) in 2 months of swiping everyone to the right.
All I'm saying is that going for anything where you're competing almost solely on looks while you're not notably attractive, is - as you say - fucking retarded. Doing so when unattractive even more so.
By all means keep trying online dating and complain about how unfair it is though, rather than going for some other place (like fucking outside) where the playfield is at least slightly less unfair. It's your life.
Well thanks for the tip it's a shame I am japanese and I can't grow any...
I look LITERALLY like this guy.
That was tinder. I also use Okcupid. Although I've only gotten laid twice off Okcupid and 15+ times off of tinder.
I've also bagged 1 girl off craigslist (Strictly platonic, we dated for a year), 1 girl off yik yak (heartbroken about her breakup, said we should text) and 2 coworkers.
Alright I see you and some people here have experience with these...
Let me ask you, what are the chances some of these girls actually want a relationship?
I don't want to just bang and dash, I would like a gf eventually.
"These girls" None. I mean they'd probably date if you went for it but they're not girls I would ever girlfriend.
I have a hypocritical principle that if I'm ABLE to fuck a girl as easily as I want, I don't want to date her, as shes a slut.
I've had 4 real girlfriends. 6-14 months each. One was met on craigslist, my current squeeze on Tinder, 1 was a coworker and 1 was a girl that worked near my job at the time.
There's plenty of room for real relationships. I think at this point if I were to consider dating a girl off these sites for real, I'd have to try and fuck her to see if she rejects me. Then I know shes dating material.
I'm ugly in their standards too, but thankfully they are all golddiggers so my hope is to get rich and go buy a wife there.
>mfw grow up asian american
>parents barely teach you mother language
>am literally illiterate
>can't get any american girls here cause no girls wanna fuck manlet asian, not even other asians
Do you live in/near a populated city?
Find a NICE barber shop (not a nigger shop, not a salon, a nice one all the faggy hipsters go to) and drop $25 + tip on a haircut. Ask them if they're down to improvise. Most will.
>tfw those first three paragraphs could be altered to talk about the stereotypical bitter robot instead with very little editing
>only difference is they don't have a hole that will allow them to leech off of a random beta provider, but instead leeching off of neetbux/autismbux/parents; but with a similar sense of pride in being a leech
Holy fuck and even worse is I used to be like that as well.
I actually was that stereotypical character I despised women for being, assuming all women were like that, before I shifted my priorities to actually improve myself.
Yeah man I've been to a 25$ korean place and got a trendy haircut, but that doesn't fix my height and mainly NO CHIN.
I guess that's my main insecurity, does lifting fix your chin area?
If so what workouts do you do for that, shoulders?.
Are you kidding? His face is practically perfect
No it is not. His jawline is great but chin is flawed. Nose is lumpy (looks like its been broken before?)
His eyes and brow are nothing special, neither are his cheek bones.
Tom cruise has had some work done but his head profile is borderline flawless.
Mine is absolute shit.
It's good, get a fucking haircut. I really can't emphasize how much confidence and a nice haircut go to getting all of you guys laid.
Also when I mentioned statham, It applied to any bald men.
Patrick Stewart, the douche from antman/house of cards, even fucking J.K. Simmons looks better with headstubble.
Also I forget to mention, not a generic haircut.
NOTHING you get from greatclips is "a good haircut"
And I promise that because of his head and charisma he was SLAYING pussy (cock?) even when he had those horrid fucking teeth and was completely unknown.
Granted they were probably boy slave sacrifices from his scientology slaves.
but its a good point. Only when you have women-tier leverage in dating can "you have kind eyes" pass as a fucking come-on. I really hate this world and I will do everything in my power to diminish its net pleasure.
Daily reminder that you need BOTH sides of the coin to fuck hot girls. I'm a 9/10 (no I'm not posting a picture, get fucked faggots, I have no reason to lie on here) but my supreme autism and general faggotry have rendered me a 23 year old virgin who literally lives in his mom's basement.
To get the top tier pussy you need looks+personality+financial success+social status. Thanks feminism.
Do you think I have any chances /r9k/?
At a glance, pretend you're seeing both pictured men in person.
Which one do you think will get laid easier?
You can do fine with charisma.
Don't take pictures from above your eyelevel though, ever.
It's a psychological thing that men look substantially better to women
when viewed from below or at eyelevel. There've been studies on it, I can't find them on google, though.
The redhead I posted up there gos to PSU. Glad you don't go to PCC with their fucking SJW class on "whiteness". This world disgusts me.
Anyway goodluck guys, we'll all make it eventually.
Except the ones who sit on their ass and wait for women instead of improving themselves.
>i always thought personality mattered.
Looks are literally everything.
Woah thanks,i didn't really expect to grab some positive comments.You really made my day,i have nothing to be happy anymore.Thanks fellow robots.
This is where you're supposed to call her a whore
I don't have social media. I do get approached by girls on the rare occasion that I go out in public, though. I can literally see the attraction dying in their faces as soon as they try to talk to me. I would legit rather be ugly. I also have a 7 1/2 inch dick that I will never get to use. Life is suffering
>"I want a guy who can keep a conversation going"
>Only responds with "cool", "haha same", "awh", "lol" and emojis
My mom made a dating site profile for me where it among other things said I was shy.
It was obviously very unsuccessful as I'm 5/10, my mom is delusional about my looks so she thought it would be fine.
I made this experiment/thread a year ago, have kept doing it on and off since then, catfished hundreds of nudes as the fake alpha, while working on self-improvement and taking more risks with women with my true profile, ended up fucking dozens a girl as well as getting in a serious relationship with a great girl, which lasted three months before I fucked it up.
>my mom is delusional about my looks so she thought it would be fine.
Every woman is delusional about their son's looks.
Not only because you are her son, but it's also their princess ego telling them that a princess would have good looking kids.
Also, you know when your mom's friends say that you're handsome or something like that? They're actually complimenting her, not you.
In my area there all a lot more expensive than 25$ and good at cutting but they won't help me come up with how to have my hair. They just want to cut it the way I want it but then I just get the same I always get.
That's it, the majority of posters aren't even robots anymore. Just normie fucks who 4chan through facebook and are mediocre at holding a conversation, which they think qualifies as being a robot.
People online say i look like a normie, but since i'm suffering from severe OCD i don't have a single friend in real life, am a kissless virgin and NEET.
I'm ''blessed'' with good genes i suppose, but i couldn't turn my life around and use my looks even if i wanted to. The only time i go out is for RKB therapy.
Mental illness is a problem, and I feel for you.
I'm above average looks, a little chubby, but my problem is that I feel kind of lifeless sometimes and get really sad.
And I don't have a real reason for all this sadness, I know its not depression because I can go to a club and have a great time, I'm not shy, I love to talk, but its just an empty feeling inside of me.
>I guess that's my main insecurity, does lifting fix your chin area?
>If so what workouts do you do for that, shoulders?.
Whether you're skinny or fat, lifting, cardio and adequate nutrition will help make your facial features more defined and masculine, it won't create miracles, but your chin will stand out more, also in relation to your cheekbones, jawline etc. popping out more, giving you a better facial balance.
I can attest to this. I'm also pretty good looking and tall, get messages all the time but none of the conversations last more than 2 messages.
As soon as I open my mouth they know I'm shitty.
>I can probably get myself in this position if I fixed myself up
Wasted my good genetics so I can fatten myself up, nice for a change.
a grill I sort of know/knew started writing to me on snapchat acting like she wants the D like a week and a half ago.
My thoughts are now consumed by nothing else and I'm overthinking stupid shit like me seeing the time since the message i last sent increase to 2 hours. Even though that isn't what it's usually like.
About 15 minutes ago I punched myself in the head a few times because I felt like such an idiot. I don't even really know if I have reason to feel one way or the other but the self hatred always wins. There's no hope is there?
Alright fuck it, do I have any chance? Or should I just give up.
Am I fucked guys? Ignore the fat me, only picture I have on my phone
that wasn't my intention, but yes, I guess so
If you're a financially independent person, like we all are supposed to be, you shouldn't be looking for somebody to fill a providing role. It doesn't make any sense outside of kind of obsolete biology.
But you can see their drive and ambition through their actions, not strictly from status. Maybe admit to yourself that it's more of an emotional decision than it is a conscious one.
You can say whatever you want about success but I've seen many times before women saying that they weren't attracted to men because those men didn't earn more than she does. It's ironic because women are, on average, higher earners than men in our age.
God height matters so fucking much
I know that's a fake profile, but chads REALLY DO include their height in their social media bios like it's just a normal piece of information that everybody needs to know.
If a woman put "105lbs, C cup" in her bio it would be fucking laughable.
I want to die.
>tfw /lgbt/ says I don't pass as a female
>make okc profile list myself as female
>get like 2,000 likes
>like 5 new messages a day if inactive like 20+ if inactive
I don't know what to think anymore
>that fucking picture
Well, that settles it, I'm done with women for good. Fuck it, no more, you're fucked if you're not Chad.
The Buddhist monks had the right idea, desire is suffering, and unless you're Alpha Chad desiring women will only result in misery.
Fuck it all, I'm done. This ride is shit and I want a refund.
Women actually value men solely based on social status, which good looks provide.
You can still raise your overall attractiveness in other ways.
Also partly this.
Though every woman these days thinks that she's a 10/10.
Fuck this shit.
The average man actually is considered ugly now.
Just wanted to say about pic related that it's not that the truth is uncomfortable, matter of fact for normal people the truth is so comfortable they don't have to deal with it at all.
Normies think absolutely nothing of having a gf or having sex, it's as much a part of their lives as shitting and eating is.
After all, when you receive something good you're not gonna question for a second why you got it or its meaning, but when everyone but you gets that truly incredible thing you're gonna spend years upon years analyzing and scrutinizing why you of all people wasn't capable or deemed worthy enough of getting it.
>Try having a personality and interesting topics to talk about
You first, cocksleeve
Excellent point Robot. Short man with cute, loving wife sometimes even fantasizes about getting a Harley and riding off into freedom. Only a hungry man thinks entirely about food.
Initiated conversation, had many interesting talks about things that genuinely interested me.
If you would start seeing women as humans too instead of just places to stick your phallus in, you could talk to them like normal adults.
Well you might live longer than two decades. Why are you so restless, true companionship cant be forced, it might come out of coincidence. Some people need to wait half their life for a right partner/friend/companion.
There are all kinds of people with all kinds of values. If you want a hot slut don't be surprised when she behaves like one. Relationships are not easy and compatibility is important for a long-term, intimate relationship. It's kind of a rare thing these days, even for Chad. Tail, while great is not intimacy.
All that proves is that dumb sluts looking for casual sex just want someone who is hot.
If you spent any time in the real world you would see pretty much everyone manages to get a gf at some point no matter how short, fat, ugly or poor.
>If you spent any time in the real world you would see pretty much everyone manages to get a gf at some point no matter how short, fat, ugly or poor.
We all live in the real world and none of us have ever had gfs.
Well maybe not on "date"-sites wich are filled with nothing but dumb broads anyways. Something like a forum about a specific topic or a facebook page about an author or something. Something with at least a hint of substance behind not just shallow looking at faces and throwing around cheesy pickup lines- bullshit.
But keep it natural for gods sake, you dont need instructions for talking to another human being. Just talk about stuff that goes trough your head- if she is being a bitch and does not enjoy talking to you then who cares, not all people are gonna be friendly to you.
I'm not talking about dating sites specifically, it's the same pretty much everywhere.
Except for one thing
>Get to know girls on sites where they can't see my face
>Actually hold fun and meaningful conversations
>They ask for a pic after a while
>Send the best one possible
>tfw they immediately lose all interest in even being friends
>Just talk to them about stuff
Where the fuck am I going to meet nice looking women that like fucking warhammer 40k and gay fucking weeaboo trash, or other fantasy related shit?
Nigga I don't give s shit about what you watched in fuckin HBO or CBC or yours sons of anarchy shit that's fucking GAY. Got don't know shit about the most basic fucking plot and shit in the most Normie fucking stuff his can you expect me to even bother trying to talk about shit?
I feel like I look a little cute but also like some sort of androgynous human/ayy lmao hybrid.
I was thinking about it and I wonder if the description matters more than the truth and people see what they want to see based on how you molded their perception of you.
For example: say instead of the trans story, what if I had said I didn't feel masculine looking enough to get a girlfriend?
Would you still see the same person?
Take this for example.
Everyone agrees the right looks best.
What if I titled right with "bored and unemployed for the second month in a row"
And left with "seminar at TED went great. Everyone loved my new discovery"
Maybe just controlling that perception is more important than anything else.
Not all couples share interests, though they do tend to have common values. Angry dudes and dudes with a beef are off putting though. If you look and act like you'd be unpleasant company though, you will be left to keep your own nasty company.
The dark hair and pale skin colour overshadows your feminine features. Have you tried dyeing your hair a different colour? Brown/blonde or even getting a tan would bring out your feminine traits more.
Well then they were shallow hoes anyways. Wake up, most people you run into are not gonna be your perfect companion, they will be shallow borads, dumb, arrogant or just dislike you for some reason, who cares, its not like anyone pressures you into having a family or something.
I can listen to their rambling all day and not get moody about it. But I won't be able to say shit back because it's fucking boring but because I'm the guy I have to initiate it. I can't initiate shit they find interesting because they're fucking boring and only tanky about boring shit on the most basic level.
At the very least if you're going to bother having boring basic interests at LEAST get past the skin of the damn thing.
> talk about stuff that goes through your head
wew terrible advice lad. some of is dont have coherent things through our heads, some of us have seriously weird stuff going through our heads.
If someone isn't interested in discussing news, events and concepts like beauty, truth, freedom etc then they are not compatible. If someone's idea of conversation ONLY goes as deep as shopping or video games then move the fuck on!
Where the fuck do i know where you are supposed to find a girl like that. I found someone a while ago who was at least "kinda" into my kind of stuff, h.p lovecraft, poe, similar music style, into medieval/viking/dark century stuff and generally open minded.
You probably barely know any people so why would you expect that there are no people at all that might like similar stuff like you. Dumb fgt.
Talked about stuff like what could go wrong in time travell, random ideas for grotesque movies, absurde brainfarts like a man who lives inside the wall of another man and starts playing pranks on him like plugging out the tv or shoving eggs trough the socket for breakfast, it ended up being some kind of "insider" for months.
anon who asked originally
I don't think you pass but you might with some more effort. I think I can just see parts of your facial structure that are very strong and scream out that you're male. That's funny though that you're getting a lot of attention on OKCupid. Have fun with it, lol.
Yes. After you sober and freshen up, put on a nice shirt, take a less generic photo and actually find yourself able to write a few interesting things about yourself you should be good to go.
Just know that it's either an attentionwhore or a slut you're talking to when you use dating apps. Websites are a bit more mature usually.
>If someone isn't interested in discussing news, events and concepts like beauty, truth, freedom etc
What is this, fucking liberal arts school? Do you want me to wear all black, a beret and go kikongo on a bongo while we get deep in to the true meaning of the word truth? Like, what DOES freedom entail, man? What is the REAL meaning of beauty?
Are you fucking gay? Are you literally blitzed out of your mind right now you fucking hippie fuck? None of that is interesting. That's just pretentious art school undergraduate babies first philosophy class bullshit.
Get a fucking hobby.
Look faggot I don't give a shit if you found your gay lover that has the bare minimum interest in the "trendy babies first nerdy shit" shitshow.
Haha right matey cthulu fthlagan xDD so scary
vikings are cool so brutal
Do you hang bongos write dark poetry and play wow too, nerd?
You could. Take a better picture. Smile, at least a little. This badly cropped, out of focus image with the giant computer throne makes you seem a tad trashy, but it's just a bad photo of an otherwise handsome face.
They are subjects that are important to anyone with a wider world view. You don't have to be a hippy or a philosopher to have an opinion on, for example, a painting, a book, the refugee crisis, the design for the new hospital, homelessness.
But of course, if you only do care about Vida games, I know WOW is full of potential brides. If you're looking for sluts, I haven't a clue.
I was just listing examples. Assuming you were the whiny bitch you replied to me and complained that you could not find a woman who was into your japanese cartoon bullshit.
And no, i do not play videogames and dont write poetry. Never thought having minor interest in literature is considered cringe-worthy here. No wonder you are such unlikeable, lonely neckbeards.
Just felt like helping OP out and you are all getting triggered. Go jerk your microphallus to your japanese cartoons, Greaseblob
I got you familia
>Are you Chad?
>Are you a normie?
>Are you a robot?
Then here's your league. Congratulations.
Lovecraft is great if you aren't a basic motherfucker who can't name anything other than Call of Cthulhu. I actually met my first boyfriend when I was reading a copy of The Dunwich Horror at the library.
Someone posts something that goes beyond muh videogames muh weeabo faggotry muh vidya and the greasy neckbeards get triggered. Ever wondered why no one gives a shit about you in the real world? Maybe because you are pathetic, boring, rude piles of stinking garbage who do nothing else but drooling over women and hating them because they wont go near your pencildick?
This whole board seems to be nothing but an echochamber of degeneracy.
There is literally no discussion to be had over refugees and the homeless.
Dont let the sandniggers in, deport them. Spend the MILLIONS you are using on them on your own fucking citizens; the homeless, and such. Done.
Oh fuck you're not one of those "Ahhh yes. The blue curtains represent the artists depression and desire for deaths sweet embrace." cunts are ya? Fucking hell that's the most irritating shit.
My interests are varied. My interests aren't the problem here.
my nigga its not like everyone who wants to have an intellectual conversation is a normie hippie. You have varied interests sure but just because you don't like someone else's interests doesn't make you the arbiter of whether or not it's worthwhile.
but you'll probably just try to take one part of this post and focus in on it and ignore the rest because you're mad someone doesn't like EXACTLY what you like or think EXACTLY like you
I literally also mentioned reading in my post as well, retard.
Hello, art student. Are you enjoying your deep, intricate philosophy discussions? I do love Plato.
It is. But the majority of Lovecraft fans ARE basic retards.
No the liberal arts fags came in
To be fair, you can get an idea of how big a girl's boobs are from a picture of her so it would be redundant for her to include her bra size. You can't really tell how tall a guy is from a picture of him.
>inb4 some autistic equation using door frames or hand lengths
If you dont have looks you have to be either rich or popular but to be rich you have to have large network (unless lottery) and to be popular you have to be confident and social. Without looks little robots are shunned from socialization therefore no people network. Robots are screwed from the birth and they can only succeed in another robot group equivalent but no matter how sociable person is with robots, he still lacks a ton of interpersonal skills with "normal" people.
>such kind eyes
What the fuck does that even mean ? Like, are his eyes sentient or something, and they just like to casually stroll out and greet ladies nicely ? HOW CAN EYES BE KIND, TELL ME I WANT TO KNOW THE SECRET.
>Oh fuck you're not one of those "Ahhh yes. The blue curtains represent the artists depression and desire for deaths sweet embrace." cunts are ya? Fucking hell that's the most irritating shit.
See this is the beginning of an interesting conversation.
DESU I do love certain types of abstract art, but I also know I can do it myself. I do not believe I the preciousness of art. It's just decorative. It can evoke a response.
No seriously the curtains are blue because they're blue. That's it.
I quite literally have no problem with other people not liking what I like. I go on 4chan thats bound to happen.
I have problems with people whose interests are the same three things that just happen to be popular at the time, and ONLY those rhings, until they stop being the rad cool hip shit.
And art students.
>You're just dumb.
Riveting. I have tons of interests. Would you prefer specifics or really broad answers?
I never said i want to have philosophical discussions. I just realized how easy you are triggered by someone having different interests than you. Are you even able to hold a normal conversation without throwing a tantrum if someone diagrees with you? You have more things to worry about than finding an adult women.
Now, presume I paint a picture of blue curtains with the intent of expressing my depression and angst through those curtains. Clearly there is now meaning attached to those curtains. Your argument is horribly flawed.
Give me specific interests. What, in your opinion, makes you an interesting human being? Moreso than those horrid art stundents at least.
I had it bleached and like platinum blonde before.
I was thinking of getting layers and maybe highlights.
My arms are covered in freckles though.
Kind of terrified of getting them on my face.
Im going my face fills in more with girl fat.
I've lost a lot of my old male fat and my cheeks are practically non-existent.
If I suck in my cheeks I look like a skellington who's stolen someones skin and is walking around wearing it.
Its like youve never cuddled your friend in terror while both of you are having a panic attack while girls talk in Japanese angrily in the background
Do you like this, fampie?
No abstract art is mostly shit and is overinterpreted. There is such a thing as skill-level between industrial realists and a canvass with stuff squirted all over there. I do not like pretentiousness, if you need more words to explain why this is good instead of everyone realizing that it, in fact is good, then it is turds.
What about this one, son?
Well, eyes are what we look at when we talk. Eyes are expressive. A combination of facial expression and eyes creates the impression that the eyes speak, so to speak. An angry person is said to have flashing eyes, it's about quick, short, bursts of intense eye contact. Kind eyes are part relaxed expression which communicates nonjudgement. Probably a hundred other things like body language intensify the effect.
But what is the point of painting it if only you understand what it fucking means. No one will ever look at your courtains and say "wow he is depressed". If no one gets it, your painting is self-therapy at most but nothing more.
Do you like this, boyo?
Mate I really do not enjoy discussing abstract art because its about on par with just shitting on the floor, pretending it's a Rorschach test and asking me what I see in your mess.
Like this shit here. It reminds me of Monopoly or Mousetrap.
Is just gay pretentious shit.
Literally as long as you're not some psuedo-intellectual "I Ont discuss the deep philosophical machinae behind our little lives" and such autistic fuck I hold my temper fine.
Or if you're a pro censorship fag.
If you're using your curtains to show you're depressed , you have bigger problems, and a shit artist desu senpai.
For starters I didn't waste money on art school.
As for interests in heavily invested in writing, the creative processes behind it and related subjects, Fantasy literature of all kinds, video juegos, history, movies, storytelling and all sorts of shit.
Def. more interesting to me. The picture seems like it is squirming around to me. I'd have to see it in real life to see if I truly like it though.
I saw this one in Madrid. It really spoke to me. In person it just felt so vast and solemn. Was p. cool.
Also because I'm a lazy faggot and forgot; while I'm not having invested in your shit, I can at least play along and have the decency to PRETEND like I give a shit,most of the time .
Do i like your artsy fartsy Rorschach shit? Fuck no its gay as hell and dumb to boot. But I'll play along.
The point for me could be just to express myself.
I was using your curtain example on purpose, ya dingus. Obviously it's quite hamfisted but the concept itself can be translated to other variations.
Writing is cool. I used to write short stories but didn't continue due to vidya and uni. I find it weird that the idea of attaching emotions and meaning to painted objects is so foreign to someone that has a creative hobby such as writing.
Lel. Good one, senpai.
No one unironically discusses "the meaning of life". Its just a saying. Its just fun to have some thought-experiments in the "what if..2 kind of way just for the fun of it from time to time.
Is this refined enough, boyo?
No your point was to portray your depression. express yourself means completely nothing. You could fart on the canvas and it would be an expression. Expression could be two people talking. Art is more than expressing yourself. There absolutely needs to be some level of skill.
>Like this shit here. It reminds me of Monopoly or Mousetrap.
>Is just gay pretentious shit.
Do you like this?
I agree. Your idea that modern art takes no skill is however completely wrong and unfounded. Yes, you can cherrypick hacks that fill their colon with paint and shit that onto a canvas, but there are many skilled artists using modern art styles for their paintings as well. You simply do not know much about painting.
Ye this looks nice, even tough i prefer a bit more grittyness, less comfortable topics as far as motives go, like war, workers, hunters, poverty and such
Is not the attachment of meaning and emotion to stuff that baffles me. It's doing it in a stupid manner that does. If it is not noticeable at a glance that your blue curtains = depression, and not that you just either needed a colour for them/were painting/describing the scene, you have failed.
Hey, virgin here.
I have never gotten laid before.
I'm 21 and 6'1", but look like a 13 year old.
I did not say "modern art takes no skill", shit like this makes me mad. Get off your fedora "you dont know much about painting". I am perfectly aware, that there are such things as concept artist who can be considered "modern". I just insist on my point that it takes no skill to just paint random patterns and colors compared to actually trying to give the illusion of depth, atmopshere, perspective, anathomy, matherial ect.
For example, if we tried to talk and you basically this me your interests were sons of anarchy, GoT and like, Agebts of Shield I would be incredibly irritated and disinterested because i can already guess you've no real interest in the books, or marvel past the movie universe
You're not making a point. Are you simply trying to say that you dislike certain styles of painting because you believe them to require less skill? If that is the case then you should present your argument as an opinion rather than some kind of objective truth.
So anything that requires the observer to interpret or think about is a failure by default?
Put on a dress and I would bang you.
No i believe it is objective truth, that gustave dore had more skills than mark rothko and even if he tried, he would never reach his level of detail, knowledge of human anathomy, fall of folds, image building etc. And i will not back away from that statement. It takes forever to master even drawing faces without reference and make them look good. If you had drawn something in your life you would know that.
I am closed minded in that way, i admit but thats just how it is.
Reminds me of my own little okcupid experiment I did with that handsome virgins picture.
The messages were flowing in however, I noticed the less I wrote on my profile, the more messages I got. At one point I had my own legit profile, but with pics of him and I got a tenth of the messages that I got when I left it empty
My conclusion was the less you write the better, however I played around with what I wrote but could never figure out what exactly was a turn off and what not. Interestingly writing that I'm rich and/or with a stable job did nothing.
Well he is an easy victim. Not a fan of his pictures either. Boring shit.
I have tried drawing. I'm pretty shit though and videogames and shitposting suck up most of the creative tendencies I have. Anyway, I also prefer dore to rothko so no beef there.
No not by default. But full-on blue canvas has not more meaning than full-on blue wall or a full-on blue sofa. I would just assume that person likes the colour for whatever reason and thats it.. no deeper feelings than "oh, nice colour".
For example: if i would watch a movie, i would not want a
bluescreen for 1 hour 45 minutes, i would want a story, atmosphere, quality, suspense.
Yeah I know but sometimes people mam me in public when my face is shaved and that makes me really nervous around my family.
Its just for appearances with them.
I try and shave every three days or so
Id epilate my entire body if I had the money.
I ised to shave my arms and legs before hrt.
I've also only been up for like two hours. My sleep schedule is pretty fucked.
Btw did you know if you surround a [[word]] on okc it will make your profile searchable under that topic.
I know it was just an extreme example, comparing elephants to mice, to make clear what kind of point i was making. I just dont believe in the nihilistic meme that there is no such thing a skill when it comes to painting and drawing.
In those extreme cases I agree with you. I do however think that it is unfair to lump all modern art together. There is bad and there is good, just like there are great and deep arthouse movies and shitty pretentious wannabe-deep shitfests. It just rustles my jimmies when I feel like people start painting with a very broad brush in their judgements... get it? painting?
I think my nose is a bit bigger than it should be but thanks
I do not even think in the catheogrys "modern" or "old", since they cross each other over, there are modern motives, painted in old master-tier style, there is symbolism and other interesting stuff. I avoid judging in "genres" with everything usually.
I even was open-minded towards gook-cartoons despite the style making me cringe usually and found great shit like evangelion and this movie with the white dragon and the witch, forgot how it was called.
I got matched with a girl on tinder this friday. I was testing the waters with her, seeing if a date would be worth it. So, I was talking with her, and yeah, she answered questions, but it was manly me who asked them and she didn't made comments or asked questions. Why are women like that? Why can't they jusr be honest and say they are not interested, or make some moves? Shame, since I was happy because I fanally got matched and thought she was cute
I look /allahu akbar/ if i let it grow.My hair is curly so can't go for longer than my picture.
This may be apart of why I have trouble to.
I'm the most utilitarian, plain guy I know on the outside. I don't over do anything so I give off an air of average that drives away women. At least partly.
What's wrong with curly hair?
My hair was disgustingly bad when i was 19, or so i thought.
Then when i turned 21 i decided i had enough of that shit, i was going to make my hair actually good, i bought some shampoo with no sulfates or parabens (pic related on walmart)
I also bought coconut oil and some styling wax, what i do is i wet my hair whenever i know i'm going to be staying at home for a long time, towel dry it so its not soaking wet but just a bit and then work up some coconut oil into my hair, then i leave it be.
When i need to go out i just use a bit of styling wax and my hair seemed to get much better around 2 months after i started my little routine.
Curly hair isn't equal to shit hair, i don't even want straight hair anymore, it looks fucking awesome when its taken care off.
Also you can have a slightly longer beard and it will look better, for your growth i'd estimate like 8 weeks.
Theres your average
myface. Bad proportions and weak jaw + weak chin
forgot to mention, that whenever i go out i need to wash the oil off because i tend to use a lot of it when i'm inside my house.
I wash it off then towel dry, after that i put like 8 drops on the palm of my hand and just rub it on my hair to make it shiny and healthy, after that i grab a bit of styling wax rub it on my hands until its hot and just style my hair, looks pretty good.
Well thanks for the advice,i might let them grow now that i've heard you.They are not really curly,they're just wavy to curly,i used to straighten them in the past with an iron.
Styling wax might work for me.Thanks dude.
My beard grows really fast indeed but it doesn't look that good on me,trust me.I am not American(i'm from a mediteranean country so my skin isn't completely white) and i look like a literal jihadist.
All he needs to do is lose 20 pounds and work out three days a week.
Literally a chubby chad.
I thought robots were suppose to be beyond help, if this is what you fuckers consider ugly then you need a reality check.
Not a $25 "Korean" place.
A $25, white, hipster ass barber. With Barbers who have wanted to barber since they were 14.
Also always get a male, women can't cut mens hair any more than an asian can cut a blacks hair.
Thats how my hair is, when its short it seems straightish, when it gets medium it starts to get really wavy and when it gets long it gets curled up like a jewfro.
Well now its just wavy regardless at what length and that's not necesarily bad if the hair is healthy, the waves actually look pretty good and the added shine from taking care of it just makes it look like a totally different hair.
And about the beard, well you could keep it short but dark, this is how i keep mine and it looks definetly better than clean shaven.
This is a huge problem i swear to god i'm a much different man now that i discovered natural oils as moisturizers.
You can't actually use them when you go outside because you'll look like a greasy fuck but holy shit they work so good in your skin/hair whenever you're going to stay inside, and their moisturizing effect stays with you even after you wash them off, they just add a certain shine to your hair and make your skin look much better.
Most men need to spend an aditional 10-15 minutes a day taking care of their body for much better quality of life, its worth it.
Me too, i'm actually gonna go full edgemode and try this next summer vacations
Not this type of edgy,i do haircuts like this from time to time
pic related but shorter
Are there any methods for straightening your hair permanently?
If he stopped dressing like a guido, he'd slay any more.
His improvement is a good example of the Jason Statham effect, with balding men.
Doing nothing says "In denial", not confidence.
Combing over or trying to disguise it says "I'm ashamed", not confidence.
Buzzing it off says "I don't give a shit, you stupid whore". Which is what women like.
Calm your autism. You're being the equivalent of a girl who blows up a guys phone with 17 messages because he didn't respond to her right away. Is that what you want to be? Is that what you think she wants?
Confidence and you rating 6/10s as 8/10s because you're desperate.
Yeah its that its a lot fucking easier to pull off a super fashion haircut than it is to pull off the rocker long hair.
Most retards look fucking stupid with long hair, but most retards can also substantially improve their current appeal by getting a modern haircut.
You don't pass, sorry. Keep working. Spend more time on hrt.
That's also a poor argument. While I still think the guy on the right would generally be more successful, because of how he carries himself, you're just making up hypothetical situations to compensate for what you're agreeing is a disadvantage.
Although even Ted Bundy got tons of women trying to fuck him because he was so handsome.
Because its clean and says you've got your shit together. That you "try".
Also in my experience 90% of women want you to choke them while they're trying to call you daddy, during sex. It's awesome. Women are definitely more perverse on average than men.
When I look at them, the guy on the left looks messy but hes in some sort of jumpsuit and seems kind of sheepishly happy dirty hippie chef. Guy on the right looks more like cookie cutter out of a catalogue and his eyes aren't matching his mouth and he looks dead inside smiling at the camera. The both look like different kinds of losers? I dunno. Maybe I'm just retarded cause I don't socialise much and I'm reading them wrong
Odd, I guess I do in a way
I just want to serve Big Boss :,(
I'm so fucked it's not even funny. 21 years old and this is what I look like.
Fembot here. You're cute in a friendzone way :P
I wonder if I would have a chance with a fem anon, I'm a virgin and i'm in my 20s and I'm 6'1.
Seriously look at the guy up in the thread.
I mean you might look a little military but that's okay.
The warrior look is hot on guys.
The I have insecurity or cancer look not so much
Just let me cut bleach and spike your hair senpai
[Spoiler]maybe let me feed you doughnuts?[/spoiler]
I'm the guy who made the Chad profile in the Op.
The profile is completely blank and I never responded to any of the girls that messaged me.
why did you make him out to be a manlet?
anyone have that pic of the fake chad profile talking to a girl on tinder about molesting squirrels and forcing his mom to drive him to his dates and she's still interested? you can't make that shit up
I don't know. It seemed like she was kinda bored of what I was asking her (aagain, testing if she would be ok), it has been 1 day since I said something, and I only have free time during the weekends, so maybe she will not want to.
I'm 22, dated one girl for 5 years
Left me for my now ex best friend
My nose was broken during a fight in my teens though
I'll probably get it fixed when I find a job
Girly version of Shaun morgan
> tfw born ugly
No matter how /fit/, /fa/, or charismatic you are, you will always be at a disadvantage.
Just get clippers and do a #1/2 (or shorter) and then take a decent electric razor to your head.
You want that "shadowed" look, like jason statham. You can see where his hair grows, but it isnt there.
Be brutally honest. Nobody else is going to be honest with me like you guys. Still need to shave or am I good?
>If you were a 5-8/10 and didn't HAVE to fuck = or below your grade, would you? No. You'd fuck the highest you could attain.
Most men who can fuck around (up, down, and across). In order for women to fuck up, men have to fuck down, and vice versa.
Women are really spoiled rotten when it comes to dating. They have to do absolutely nothing other than not be incredibly ugly, which for them is so easy because they're not expected to spend years in the gym getting an amazing body first.
Sure, it's not a bad idea for guys to suck it up and do the work so they aren't foreveralone anymore, but I don't see the point in rationalizing women's behavior.
>but the one valid point they make, is that women don't owe you sex
Note that no woman has ever told an attractive man that he's not owed sex. She may have rejected him some other way, but never like that. "I don't owe you sex"="fuck off you ugly loser".
Trust me, you look better than you do holding onto the corpse of what was once your hair. All balding men do.
Quit being a pussy and take charge of your evolution as a man.
I hate women as much as everyone else on 4chan, they're stupid sluts to be used.
I'm entirely capable of logic, and any idiot can realize that ALL of the things you resent about women are ENTIRELY because our gender enables the dumb whores to do it.
5/10 women couldn't date 8/10 men if the men weren't craving pussy enough to downgrade for convenience.
I've been extremely racist on yikyak but I guess at a local college some guy got dox'd by the police for saying racist shit on campus. This stupid fucking liberal faggot police state.
At my uni I heard they dox'd some kids who said they had some rope for the schools blacklivesmatter nigger club lol. Fuck the PC police that app could be fun without the politically correct faggotry.
>Not being allowed to be hateful makes this a police state
I've lived in a police state and my dead friends would laugh if they lived where you do.
Grow up and stop taking /pol/ literally
GOOD GOYIM! Us jews dindo nuffin its all just satire and trolling! Fuck off man it's pretty easy to google the owners of financial institutions and media corporations and see that they are all owned by jews.
Have you ever read the Talmud m8? There's a reason why a lot of Jews go into jobs that require a ton of lawyering.
It's required by their religion. That's also why Shia Persians and Saudis do well in those careers as well, Ijma is really hard to study.
What I don't get about bigots is that they whine about being the victim while being hateful pieces of shit. I used to be like you but I grew out of that phase. Your probably from a troubled home and raised by a single mother.
>Talmud ever advocating pedophiles
Did you ever have an original idea of your own or are you just a mouthpiece for /pol/
Whenever you speak to /pol/ they always speak in memes. It's better to preempt those faggots
That's weird because I'm openly virulently racist and sexist and I haven't had any issue with women.
Unless you're on a liberal college campus, most women are going to laugh their tits off at racist jokes.
Life definetly fucked you over with that shit m8, best thing is to go clean shaven, just test it out and grow a beard if you can.
Your hair grows back to stubble in a week anyway, i'd just go completely bald to see how it fits.
Hair transplant, if you have the money. If not, maybe one day. There's shit like rogaine, but they're not always guaranteed to work and I know some of those kill your sex drive, or so I've heard. Shaving would be an option. Your head has a normal shape, and your face is good, so you'd look fine. If not, then just rock what you have. I think you'll make it.