In high school I was bullied by the entire school. Every day I wondered what would have happened if I'd have stood up to them. At the time I didn't want to get hurt just to defend macho bravado however.
Well to cut it short..
>met 12 year old kid three years ago at age 19
>he asks me tons of questions and wont fuck off
>treat him like my brother
>meet his parents and end up being his mentor
>he starts getting bullied like I did, ironically
>not by the whole school, but a sizeable amount of people
>Chads tell me it's not about winning, it's about fighting back
>tell him to fight back after getting him to take up boxing
>be two weeks ago
>get call from his parents telling me he's in intensive care
>he decided to fight back
>he lost the fight and the guy kept wailing on him after he was unconcious before his friends joined in
>allegedly one of the teachers was laughing at it
>he almost died
>he got a skull fracture, a broken nose, lacerations, broken ribs, and needs corrective surgery for his teeth
So now my friend is hurt and t's all because I listened to people who think chest beating is the solution.
I should have just told him to make good grades to get into classes that are far away from his bullies.
Sorry for the blogpost but I just dont have anyone to talk to about it. Moral of the story is to work smart, not hard
Chads told me that you should fight back anyway no matter how many people are bullying you.
I guess now I know they were full of shit, but I was so concerned that he'd suffer like I did I wanted him to find a way out. I even hear people are still talking shit on him.
He'll probably hate me when I visit him
its not the matter of chads you mongoloid
if 20 niggers are onto you you fucking run you dipshit
holy fuck, can people be THIS retarded?
furthermore, you had power over that kid in form of authority, and best you made out of it, is tell him bullshit you dont even know whether is true or not
well played OP, retard of the year and we barely even starded
>if 20 niggers are onto you you fucking run you dipshit
Not him but OP's got a point. i'VE HEARD GUYS TELL ME YOU SHOULD FIGHT ANYWAY. oBVIOUSLY THESE PEOPLE WERE NEVER BULLIED, BUT THERE IT IS
Ignore those caps, I aint typing that agin
Don't worry. Children heal fast.
and I hate to be an asshole, but your moral is retarded and doesn't align with your story in the slightest.
You should've taken your shitkicking too. It builds character.
I know I fucked up and I know I failed him but I just wanted him to be ok, and that maybe a Chad, a guy who was always socially successful would know even more than me
So I took the chance. I know I'm shit for listening to him
>yfw you ruin everything you touch
The world would be better off without you desu senpai
desu op i have a plan that'll work, worked for me
find a group of kids on the other side of town that look like chads, like theyd be down to do something illegal or beat ass, find out all the kids who beat your friend, and pay the new chads to beat the shit outta the bullies, might wanna use a few human proxies to do it for you but it WORKS
do you even know what reading comprehension is nigger?
what matters is that kid couldve died because you filled his head full of fuck
you were dumb to do that
you are double dumb because you didnt know what is potentially at stake
from now on think twice, or twenty times before you do something
and definitely apologise to the kid, as best as you possibly can
how can you sue the school? I was in a similar position to OP. The administration and on-campus cops will work together to cover their shit up. My mom tried after I got my ass beat to IC for trying to fight back and it got dropped
>what matters is that kid couldve died because you filled his head full of fuck
you were dumb to do that
you are double dumb because you didnt know what is potentially at stake
Tons of people do that to their kids. They tell them they are only a real man if they fight back, not knowing that fighting is dangerous especially with a bunch of retarded teens who are building muscle and have hormones rushing.
OP probably caved from years of people telling him he was a pussy for not fighting his bullies. I aint saying he should have been mentoring the kid, but cut him some slack
>just beat up an entire gang of punks by yourself bro
Its equally kneejerk to say 'never fight back', that's just drawing meaningless tv 'lessons' from situations involving thousands of possible factors.
The worst thing the kid could take away from this is that he ought never to confront any opposition for fear of pain, you seem intent on filling OP's head with robot shit, which he will impart onto the kid.
OP, it is not your fault that those bullies are posturing sadists. You do however have a responsibility to make it up to the kid, so good luck.
When i started high school I was an easy target. I was skinny, autistic, and semi shit-skin. But i was pretty smart. I understood that bullies wanted easy targets who didnt fight back. So everytime someone said something, i would fight them. I lost every time. But after 5 or 6 times, they understood that the rude comments and jokes were not worth the time and hassle of fighting me. I also gained alot of respect for it. Which gained me a couple of close friends.
that is another option, you or you and some of your buddies beat the shit outta these kids, or some of them, either in broad daylight if you dont care or hop in a truck and wear ski masks and all black clothes and beat these kids down in the dead of night. not joking, this is a viable option
I'll never understand the pricks who tell kids to do this. It's one thing if you are being bullied by one or two guys, but kids being fucked with by an entire school is very real. That shit happened to me and it it fucking unmanagable. Kills your self esteem, resolve, and backbone. You feel and are helpless.
One kid I knew in a similar position got drowned for fighting back. Yeah those guys went to jail, but that doesnt make him alive now does it?
Should've bought him a gun and killed a bunch of them. Then he could just off himself. Fuckers get what they deserve and he gets the sweet release of death. Win win.
Or you could've just told him to focus on grades and avoid/ignore them. But thats too boring.
am i the only in this thread realising that somewhere there might lie a kid, unconscious, almost beaten to death due to someones incompetence? what the fuck is wrong with you people, i am genuinely triggered.
You should've gave him a gun. It's his right as an American.
>allegedly one of the teachers was laughing at it
FUCKING NORMIE TEACHERS
EVERY FUCKING TIME
FUCK THEM THEYRE THERE TO TEACH NOT TO RELIVE THEIR FUCKING HIGHSCHOOL DAYS YOU FUCKING FAGGOT CUNTS
AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH FUCK THEM FUCK THEM FUCK THEM FUCK THEM RREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
What the fuck does that even mean? All I'm saying is that considering the fact that OP hasn't trying to get directly involved yet and the kids aren't that much younger than him means it's not like they're just a bunch of kids. They could potentially fuck him up too. So my suggestion was to act like a crazy motherfucker and try to scare them off.
I had him do boxing for a year and helped him through the bullying while he trained. It was bided time. He was pretty good at it, but he was a pretty good sportsman. Honor doesnt hold up with streetfighting chads
Chads are telling this "JUST PUNCH HIM IN THE FACE DUDE shit" because what they experienced wasn't real bullying but more like making hierarchy among chads
in that case this advice could work, but that doesn't apply to robots, autists betas etc.
If robot tried to fight the most alpha bully, he would just get shit beaten out of him, and be picked even more, because Chad wants to ensure his position
Not that it helps much, but the parents need to sue. Everyone. They need to sue the School, the School district, any of the students (or their families) who were involved, and sue the teacher who did nothing but watch and laugh.
Seriously. If this is real, they have a stong case and need to sue everyone responsible. Also, they need to file a police report if that has not already happened and move to have charges brought against the student(s) involved. Those would be Felony charges not just misdemeanors. It would at least be Felony Battery but could also be charged as Attempted Murder. Also, despite the attacker being under 18, for a crime like that he would most likely be tried as an adult.
>insecure people bully
god this is the stupidest myth oabout bullying out there,
people don't fucking bully because of some supressed sense of fucking insecurity of inferiority or any of that bullshit, they do it cause it's fun, and it's fucking hilarious, that's all there is to it.
This happened last night
>Be me at a dive bar in the city
>by myself, get there at 11 just to play some pool
>just minding my own, play pool by myself in the corner, taking warm up shots to get my game knowing eventually someone would want to play
>already tipsy there, drinking not socializing
>humiliated a group of Stacie's that tried talking to me by walking right by them
>smoke some cigarettes
>play some more pool, drink chill, make a few friends, snort coke, just enjoying the night
>win most of the games I play, its my table so I moderate who plays,
>give the table too some guys to play
>come back and try to play, its around 4am and Ive been drinking for the last 5 hours
>some 6ft 6 skeleton comes in and takes off his shirt and wants to play pool
>tell him that it's my table and I'm playing next
>tells me to go fuck myself
>tell him those are the house rules
>eventually chills out
>guys get off I'm gonna play against the shirtless dude 2 on 2
>get some chill dude to be my partner
>just playing a chill game not caring, 6 ft 6 skeleton and his butt buddy partner kept being douchebags and telling me that I suck,
>ask my pool partner if I punch the tall skeleton if he has my back.
> turns out my partner had a group of 6 friends with him all 220+ of muscle, on top of all being black. Tells me yeah.
>eventually lose the game, and the skeleton bro gets in my face starts telling me that I suck
>smile in his face knowing that I have 6 black dudes who have my back
>skeleton dude keeps getting more and more mad and I keep on laughing and keeping my cool.
>he throws a pool cue at me that I catch with one hand
>pretend to hit him with it and he flinches
And I left the bar knowing that he wasn't worth it. I kept my cool while he just kept getting madder while his insecurities kept showing. Reason why he took off his shirt in the first place. Some people just stop developing mentally before 7th grade
Bullshit like this will continue as long as "school" exists.
School is a useless, obsolete prison based on Prussian mind-control systems. Look it up.
Most of what kids "learn" in school is random trivia. A lot of it is simple false bullshit.
School is a prison. Everything you can learn in school you can learn online.
End the tyranny of mandatory schooling!
>Bullying children gets you a slap on the wrist
>Bullying adults gets you a straining order or a mag dump to the chest
I really cannot understand society.
>B-but they didn't know what they were doing!
You know, the precedents surrounding bullying are there to encourage citizens to be passive. If people start fighting back you'll be sure to see some anti-bullying laws.
There is no set amount. Also, as someone who has had a skull fracture, due to being hit by a car not due to being purposely attacked, I can tell you that it is NOT worth the money that you get (at least in my case). This is different because it was a purposeful attack on a minor while the minor was under the care of the school and a teacher committed Neglect by witnessing but failing to act during the attack.
that's what I fucking like about being an adult. Sure you dont get anything handed to you but at the end of the day if someone fucks with you, you have a variety of options of how to deal with it, or, and this is my favorite part, you can just leave.
Yes, after you turn 18, no matter what the situation is, you can just leave if someone is fucking with you no matter where you are.
OP here. I'm going to try to coordinate this.
It's not called bullying when it happens to an adult. It's called harassment, and it's illegal.
Also, in some states I have no duty to retreat. I can pump my "bully" full of lead If I feel my life is threatened.
I'm actually really nice. I walked past the Stacie's not knowing that they were going to try talking to me, and by the time I past them it dawned on me that they were, and i was already near the entrance to go smoke a cigarette.
Not him but I have. Can confirm what he said. It's fucking fun. It's like a wild adventure and you never know how it'll end. Whether he'll snap and do some stupid hilarious bullshit or something else.
OP: In addition to the Legal routs of justice (lawsuits and making sure the DA presses charges), you may also want to consider releasing some information to the internet, not saying here necessarily, and letting the internet dole out some justice, especially if the government is slow to act and if the school is trying to deny responsibility.
Also, The parents NEED to go to the News Media and have the local news report on what happened, that will put added presure on the school, the school district, and the DA.
You should have read sun tzu instead of listening to normies. The proper way for him to deal with this situation is guerrilla warfare. If he (or you) disguised himself and ambushed single targets and beat them half to death with a bat, well it might not help much at all in the long run, but it's better than just facing them head on and getting hospitalized.
>be chubby, ugly, shitskin kid
>dont know why but my parents could affort a private school
>some ''bullies'' always were always making fun of me
>dont want trouble because parents work hard for that school
>they throw me chairs and when teachers saw that (not classes time) they didnt do nothing (i could take that pain because i was ''tough'')
>one day i lose my control because everything in my life was really shitty
>beat all of them (they were a small group, maybe 6?)
>everything while screaming and kicking their faces because they were just rich kids
and after that i was the crazy kid who must be schizophrenic, and the best part, this sound fake as fuck even when im reading it but the thing is my life was really weir at that age, now im 22, even more ugly, know how to fight, khv, and neet. will join the army because need the money.
some people cant win
Protip: people are bullied because it's easy, because they have social approval, because they are stronger and who is preiyed uppon is weak. So they get easy social brownie points for making themselves cooler by puting some poor sod down and also beating them on first opportunity, like with this kid.
I know that because I was bullied all my way through school, some time I even brought a knife...Unfortunatelly that day, sadly or not, no one bullied me for some reason.
Even today it infuriates me how people can be so evil, and I myself kind of yearn for someone like in those days to cross me again, because I kind of want to know the satisfaction of disembowing alive some wanna-be-tough-ass bully fucker for his sins.
Why do beta faggots think its a good idea to just take shit every day? Im not saying fighting 7 niggers is the solution but maybe if the kid had a class where all the the kids nigger buddies were not in and he just beat the shit out of him he wouldn't get bullied.
Actaully worked for my one fat friend in middle school.
>comes to /r9k/
>sees the pure nadir of humanity
>all of them are sociopathic, Macheivellian, demonic normalfag pricks
>they relish in ruining the lives of others
>somehow this doesnt put things into perspective for him
Look I was bulled in the same way as you, by multiple high schools even, but seeing the monsters on this board have made me see the light and those guys who bullied me cant compete.
I'd probably befriend them at this point.
>Worked in this specific situation for my fat friend so it'll word for everyone else XDD
You're stupid as fuck holy shit, you even jsut admitted you weren't bullied.
Also I never said he took on multiple dudes, I said he lost the fight against one guy and I in fact told him to only fight one guy at a time.
So fucking cram it you high horse bragging prick and hold your tongue on matters you dont know shit about. If your advice meant a damn my friend wouldnt be hospitalized.
bravado has more social value than actually winning, and what normies value is their social standing more than anything else
it's like how normies think burning bridges with people you don't like is a bad thing because you might have been able to use that person for some sort of monetary or social gain later on, whereas the right choice is to burn that fucking bridge and save yourself some unnecessary suffering
>I should have just told him to make good grades to get into classes that are far away from his bullies.
You should have went and caved in the skulls of the bullies without being spotted.
Like make a plan with the lad and use him as a bait.
And then people get "shocked" when a school shooting happens.
well, at least you will graduate, it would worse, some neets have to work someday and cant because every job needs experience and that shit.
i didnt even try the college because im dumb as fuck
sorry for bad english. not my native
>people describe the culprit as an "outcast" who never really seemed to fit in and had no friends
>he is also known for his previous violent outbursts in school, perhaps foreshadowing todays shooting
Self-preservation is more important honestly. It's better to play it smart, and use the surroundings, social connections, and other resources you have to separate yourself from the threat and if you're good enough, to eliminate it.
nothing's wrong with it when you're an adult, when you're in high school you could end up like OP's little buddy. Not worth. You think he gives a shit or feels fulfilled that he stood up for himself with all the injuries he has now?
He should have jsut taken AP courses and got away from them.
I'd rather fight and lose badly than lose because i didn't fight at all. It really fucked me over freshman year and i had to drop out fpr a year, but eventually i got better at self defense and boxing, amd was able to hold my own. I never beat anyone, but i scared people enough to make them back off.
You're pretty stupid if you think high school aged boys building muscle and full of hormones/testosterone wont beat the shit out of other boys near death.
Quit b8ing with the kids are harmless meme
Yeah. What's he talking about? If someone fucks with you, you should want to stand up for yourself. You shouldn't have to be cajoled to. Bullies single out the kid who is afraid to fight.
And if a kid is absolutely afraid to fight, he needs to e removed from gen pop.
>He also played a very violent video game "Minecraft", a game where it is common practice to murder mercilessly other players
I wouldnt want to fight anyone and I was bullied for it.
>tfw didnt end up like OP's kid
>tfw didnt get my teeth busted
>tfw still well off in life now
>still have a gf
Way better than exposing myself to undue risk just to beat my chest.
Imagine if you get life long scars or die at 15 just because some retard told you to fight
nah bro, you're full of shit. Men are men. Kill yourself
I'd rather be a savage ape than some hairless goat content with the illusory safety of his fence/cage. I'd rather die in a blaze of glory than be shipped off to the slaughterhouse.
and when you are in the ground you'll be forgotten and no one will give a shit about your territory marking
You aren't in a war. You aren't in a gang. You aren't in a crazy situation. You are in daily life in a first world country.
I was bullied to middle school until first year of high school, then one day I stabbed those bastards when they tried steal my stuff after after school, one of then almost died and I watched his suffering until the cops and the ambulance arrived, that was fun.
I was branded as full sociopath since that, the bullies got expelled of school, started work with my uncle instead of go school and only had to make shitty exams to get my high school diploma.
You're absolutely right. I was raised by a single mother and was bullied by my entire school. I had but three friends and the odds were overwhelming to me. I did fight one guy but it didnt do shit. And my main bully threatened to kill me if I retaliated.
Understanding that maturity is the consideration of others, it'd be very immature, childish, and savage to get myself killed fighting off one of my ~300 bullies and risking my mother losing her only child just so it could be written on my epitaph "Wasn't a pussy in high school" and then be forgotten and left to never accomplish my dreams.
Kill yourself my man. I dont let anyone fuck with me now, because as an adult I have options to deal with it rather than being cramped in one space with a bunch of pricks. Now I can fight, I can shoot them, i can talk shit on them, or jsut leave.
My goals reach far beyond the physical realm. If you value the physical state so greatly you will know true suffering once you die and find out the afterlife isn't bullshit after all. What will be left for you when you've lost your body? You'll find that your physical "accomplishments" weren't worth shit. A single drop of piss in a blindingly vast ocean. If you don't know suffering from a desire to return to the flesh you will know remorse for having wasted so much time.
Ok hotshot, I'm sure you understand so well a simple system of social hierarchy. You need a medal.
For valuing my life and not wanting to die? For caring about my family and friends? You're saying I should have gotten myself shot?
Now I know this is b8. My friend is in the hospital and nearly died because of people like you.
>arguing with literal niggers, sociopaths, and drug addicts that browse this board
>getting at all emotionally invested in what is said on /r9k/
>thinking these people care enough about their lives to not throw them away needlessly
You chose to post here, not us.
>>Chads tell me it's not about winning, it's about fighting back
Wow you're a fucking retarded ass cunt. Why didn't you fight with him? That was what a true friend would have done. Not told him to do it alone. Come on you know better than that. I know I sure did after years of bullying.
>be friends with That Kid
>they were hyper but good people
>everyone found them annoying but I didn't
>they were a bit mouthy but because they didn't take shit from people
>people would come up to me on the daily asking why I was friends with the girl
>I was her only friend and I could tell they wanted to hurt her by making me make fun of her, or say things behind her back
>I never did
>always argued back when they said bad things
>always got them to shut up about it around me
>always hung out with her or brought her along with me, if everyone didn't like it I left with her and told them too bad they don't get me either
>she kept in touch with me for years, been best friends ever since
>had another friend since pre-K
>was a longer, quiet around others but not around me
>some rancid ass bitch who ironically is pregnant and working at mcdonalds right now, was always starting shit
>kept making fun said friend and pulling her hair
>told her we could always sit somewhere else but she said it was fine
>once the recess bell rung we were leaving
>as I'm putting my stuff together I hear shouts and see my friend fighting with that thot
>I was bullied later on in my years before but had grown a thick skin so I didn't get messed with anymore
>see the fight and go blind with rage
>intercept and push the girl back with the force of a thousand autists
>can't remember but know I didn't feel much as I kept my hands up and stood still like a stone sentinel
>luckily we were separated by chairs or I probably would've taken off a chunk of her skin
Always take pride in resistance that bitch never fucked with me or my friend again and people respected me after.
>All these people taking the bait
High school has a completely different dynamic than real life. As long as you can stand up for yourself as an adult you aren't fucked.
Being a paraplegic who can say "I wasnt a pussy in HS" is objectively inferior to a guy who can say "I make $150k/yr because I used academics to separate myself from my bullies instead of fighting them."
Anyone who says otherwise is an idyllic dumbass stuck in a bygone era where men needed to die in vast struggles against great powers and had to risk death for their loved ones' survival. This would be ok if we were fighting a revolution against the government, not high school jocks. Pick your battles.
Nothing too exciting. Just your normal shit. They called me gay (I'm not) or just generally made fun of me/talked shit.
In middle school, I tried playing soccer for a season but the nogs on the team just wouldn't stop harassing me. After that season, I didn't play team sports in school again.
I'd say for OP's friend... just work hard and go to college somewhere else if he can. Even if he can't go out of state, he could go somewhere in South Florida that would be way different.
everyone ITT is calling OP's friend a fag for not fighting back sooner/not truly wanting to fight back and think dying in high school is worth it to stand up to bullies.
What's your take on it?
this is about high school and elementary school experiences. it has nothing to do with life after that.
Some small kid could've died because OP didn't intervene properly either with his support or calling the authorities.
> What will be left for you when you've lost your body? You'll find that your physical "accomplishments" weren't worth shit.
Just like your suicidal bravado. Makes me wonder how come you are still alive... don't you have anything to die for right now?
I like how no one ITT is directly saying that OP's kid's almost dying is a good thing.
Exactly. It's not even a realistic concern. People almost always shoot each other over money or a woman. Thinking a school bully is actually going to shoot you is ridiculous.
Anon who got bullied, did you have developmental issues?
You're not wrong you shouldn't let yourself be fucked with but he should've been smarter about it if he could've been maybe this is nobody's fault but I give him hella props for at least fighting back
>all these people ITT thinking brain damage from fighting isnt a real thing
>all these people thinking you cant get hit in the temple and die
>all these people thinking this is worth it for some stupid title from kids you want see again after high school
>all these people who think HS issues matter
>implying betas in HS dont get mad pussy in college from the sheer freedom they have
.implying public school is worth shit
>implying dying at 15 and destroying your parents is honorable
You people never really grew up did you?
One kid bullying you? Sure you might end up ok. Entire school? You're fucking retarded to think it'd end any differently than that kid and his retarded mentor that is OP
you need a dark triad personality, which is what they have, to get a good job. Having that allows you to pull strings and fuck people over to get ahead
If he was dead I dont think he'd care much about your props buddy
"Hey, wanna know what's so easy about dealing with bullies? It's that all that I really have to do is sit comfortably on this ol' high horse of mine and muse about some self-righteous coulda-shoulda-woulda shit that's heavy with wishful thinking and void of any practical thinking. In other words, I don't give a rat's ass about how effective my would-be advice really is in actually dealing with bullies; because the actual goal is to make myself look like a badass through nothing but empty bravado, and I think that my speech is pretty effective at that. :^)"
Nah, this whole 'bullies are secretly broken inside" angle is a lie we tell bullied people so they don't kill themselves.
Imagine telling a bullied kid the truth:
>Yeah your bullies are actually completely normal people and will probably go on and be successful in life whereas your torment will probably stop you from doing that. There is no god or karma, now do your homework.
I like that your kid is more likely to get beaten to death or accidentally injure himself should he buy into dumbass daddy's advice and banter. Now, that will be natural selection at work, if one generation late.
I still hate my dad for telling me to go skydiving with him and my now having a permanent limp when the chute fucked my shit up on landing. So no, go fuck yourself.
most people on this board are millionaires, business owners, etc.
I can tell you're new here. We used to even have bank account threads where people who were KV betas would post mad dosh in thier accounts. Some even posted paystubs. So wrong again anon
You should have told him to learn african-american martial arts
>never engage your opponent in direct combat unless your entourage outnumbers his by at least 10:1
>if you need to fight one-on-one, sucker punch him from behind
>if the odds aren't massively stacked in your favor, run nigga
OP this is retarded advice. You can't just take up boxing and expect to whoop everyones ass. Does not work like that. This kid obviously is weak which is why he gets picked on. It would take years of getting ripped and some real fight training to do anything on his own. You should have showed up and beat one of these bullys to a pulp yourself. Would have satisfied your revenge scenario while also completely helping this kid out. The whole reason all this even happened was for you to wreck some shit. You completely failed in this spot. If you can, go find one of the weaker bullys that did this, and whoop their ass (dont kill anyone by mistake), but make sure they know not to fuck with this kid anymore. If you are too much of a pussy to fight then fuck up their cars or something like that.
>masses of implications
No, I'd shatter your fucking teeth because you're a horrible, bitter, selfish little cunt who deserves to be punished for being a shit person.
The fact you made up your own story based on nothing that was actually posted is all the proof I need to know I am right about you.
why wouldnt i be able to show my face? You think calculating odds of fighting an entire school of bullies and opting out from being smart enough to pick your battles means you're some sort of pussy but I cant see why.
What's that got to do witch anything? You'd fight a school full of Chads? You dont think it's ok to come up with other solutions around it? Even OP said one, make really good grades and get the fuck away to the decent academic kids.
You ever destroyed someone's house in Minecraft just to see how mad they'd get? Or go out of your way to teamkill someone in a game just to piss them off? Same shit really but irl.
>Your kid is more likely to get killed or seriously hurt on the bus on the way to school
Why? I'm not the one inciting my kid to fight a bunch of lowlives on his own, like OP's friend did. It's ironic how bullshit narratives of courage make it easier for cowards to thrive. "Oh if you don't let yourself be knocked out and possibly crippled by a crowd of fuckheads who couldn't face you one-on-one, you are the coward!!1" Fuck that noise. Every adult that falls for this deserves what's coming for him... and, if you were never faced with such a situation, you should STFU and quit being a hypocrite..
>"Oh if you don't let yourself be knocked out and possibly crippled by a crowd of fuckheads who couldn't face you one-on-one, you are the coward!!1"
Bro I've been saying this all thread long, they aren't going to listen to you
Woohoo bully story thread
>be changing from gym
>always the slowest to get dressed and last one out
>by the time im done changing the next class is coming in
>group of kids who dont like me hanging around the lockers
>"hey look its the fag" they say to me
>ignore them and walk away
>they keep calling after me
>"you're the fucking fag" i say
>one grabs my hair and slams me against a locker
>"say that again bitch"
>turn around and slap them as hard as I can
>"I said you're a fucking bitch"
>realize what I just did
>run screaming up changing room stairs
>they trip me and try to stomp my face into the stairs
>they miss and I go screeching up the stairs like a madman
>get suspended for 3 days
>other kids get no punishment
>not telling the kid to shank those fools up.
its your fault OP, fighting a group of people with nothing but your fists is stupidity. If he get a knife out and sperg his shit out he will scare the fags off.
All I'm saying is you shouldn't let people fuck with you if it was that many then yes it would've been a good idea to leave it alone to an extent but I'm pretty sure he didn't know fuck running away
Ideally, you'd have enough social standing that you can provoke a one vs one fight. If not, jump the bullies when they're alone - from behind, with a baseball bat or other blunt instrument if necessary.
Fighting back isn't just about thumping your chest. It's about winning and doing whatever it takes achieve that result. Expulsions or suspensions don't matter at all. An employer won't really care what you did as a kid unless you ended up killing someone, so that's basically your only limit.
It's true. People who get bullied are allowing themselves to be the lowest rung of any given society. Whether it's getting bullied, ass raped, or just being the mail room bitch, don't kid yourselves, that's what it is.
OP's friend is still going to catch trouble at school. He tried to do something about it. I wouldnt exactly call that "allowing himself" to be bullied. He suffered and will continue to suffer
>Just sit down and talk
another bait, I'll give you 0/10
Oh yes I know that
>authorities turn a blind eye
>wooh nigga, calm down
>authorities be like 'why u so bad boy now u get consequences'
>authorities turn the other eye blind
School tauth me well how to be a misanthrope
Fighting back doesnt always work. You have to pick your battles, as many have said.
Nearly whole school is bullying you? Back out. Either you are doing something wrong that those kids dont like or you jsut have shit luck. Either way you can't sway that many people with a fight, you need to gtfo by getting into AP courses or possibly going to another school within the district.
That or you could turn social contacts against your malefactors, but this takes time and could be regressive before you recognize the results. You could also get bodyguards if you have money.
I wouldnt advise fighting unless it's a last resort, only then would I call someone a pussy because they clearly are too irrational to preserve themselves when need be, like a woman.
you didnt even read OP and you're trying to argue.
He said he fought one guy, and his friends helped him.
Dont even fucking type posts unless you're not going to be an idiot.
>Moral of the story is to work smart, not hard
but nobody in your story worked smart or hard.
here's the moral of the story. fucking losers like you should not be giving advice, and all people, including children, should avoid you at all costs. dealing with bullies for anyone who has a brain is about as hard as deciding on which pants to wear every day, which granted is up at the top of high school kid priorities. listening to retards like you seems to nearly cost people their lives. go to hell.
We're not talking about fighting an entire school full of kids, we're talking about your abhorrent, cunt tier attitude towards your father because of an accident he had no control over.
Goalpost shifting cunt.
>just hit him in the back of the head with a baseball bat bro, works every time
Why the fuck do people keep saying shit like this in these threads? That's a great way to kill/severely maim someone and go to prison.
>you are doing something wrong that those kids dont like
Most likely that. I was that guy in school that was friends with people in every clique imaginable, and whenever I offered a hand of friendship to that kid everybody hated, they were always insufferable faggots excluding one who was just a tryhard, and I guess people didn't appreciate that.
>you learn from fuckups
who in the story learned anything? OP still has no fucking idea how to get a big bad ol' high school bully to stop bothering someone. the kid hopefully got enough brain damage to not learn how much of a dick OP is.
are you even responding to the right person?
Laws are only so effective and straightforward because people police themselves out of the belief that punishment is inevitable. Social conditioning impresses on members of civilized societies that rule breaking is axiomatically followed by punishment. Could you imagine the immense strain on the legal system if that were always or even mostly true?
Look at the refugee crisis in Europe. Hundreds of thousands of people are flouting the laws of the land, yet nothing happens to most of them. The truth is that this state of affairs has only done away with the obfuscation of the reality that criminal behaviour is either unpunished or rationalized away by some other facet of law. Ordinary law-abiding Germans are shocked because the refugees operate according to a reality that has been hidden away by their social conditioning.
He got so far up a kid's ass that shit got everywhere and on everything
Yea I'm pretty short and your point is.... That I'm insecure I'm not but ok I'm not saying running is acting like a bitch and that there werent other ways to fight back but running isn't that great of a solution either he was just supposed to let himself he didn't know he was gonna fight 5 guys at once fuck you lefty faggot shit happens regardless and it could've escalated to that point regardless give me liberty or give me death and all that
most people ITT probably have never been in a fight. and how would that have any contest to my claim that losers should not be giving advice? this whole board is for losers. At best they all got tricked like OP did.
I'd give plenty of kids the advice to fight their bullies under certain circumstances. That wasn't my point. The point is the story led a shitty person to make a weak, probably even innocent kid suffer.
Anon I really didnt mean to get him hurt, but I didnt know how else he could have handled it. There are so many people who fuck with him it was overwhelming and I just thought of what might have solved it for me. I tried to use my life advice. I didn't think to suggest other alternatives because none came to mind.
Hitting someone with a baseball bat anywhere is going to fuck them up. Where exactly are you supposed to hit someone with a baseball bat that doesn't run a serious chance of significant injury?
>That's a great way to kill/severely maim someone and go to prison.
It's kind of funny. OP's friend was severely injured, and nothing is going to happen to the kids who did that to him. Yet you still believe that the law will be there for them. Those who bully win because they act as if the rules do not apply to them. Rules exert the most coercive pressure on those who police themselves in the belief that they will be punished for breaking them. Anyone who prevents himself from carrying out acts of retribution out of such beliefs places himself at an immense disadvantage compared to the aggressors who don't limit themselves in the same way in the first place.
You can easily fuck someone up by hitting them in any of those places with a bat.
Not to mention, it's way too easy to miss and nail them right in the head.
When I was bullied (wasn't even nearly as bad as most of these stories I see on /r9k/), I punched the kid in the face. I didn't try to kill them.
>running isn't that great of a solution
Tactical retreats are a great way to win fights man. When you're outnumbered having a positional advantage is much better than fighting and relying on your anime adrenaline to one punch all the bullies. And that retreat could be a swing and then running, or it could be just getting bullied in school and then make worth of yourself outside of school or when you grow up. The key is strategy, brains > brawn and all that jazz. Don't let your feelings drive you to fuck up, stay calm and carry on mi familia.
Do you have any idea how resilient the human body can be? People have survived falling out of airplanes.
Really, anywhere but the head should do. Limbs, digits, even the abdomen if you apply a bit less force.
Worked for me. Haven't ever been punished beyond some suspensions (ie, 3 day holidays). Not my fault if you just took it up the ass like a bitch. There are better ways to handle bullies than to roll over and cry.
he's short and doesnt play or like sports. He also doesnt share a lot of popular opinions. Now I didnt believe him right off the bat since I was mad autistic in HSwhich is why i was bullied and I denied it for years.
I run a high school outreach program and had him in my class to watch what happens. Then I watched him in the hallways. He wasnt lying, but it's also because he isnt quick witted so he cant exactly talk shit back or come up with insults. Kids take that for weakness. I tried to coach him but he simply couldnt get a handle on it.
Do you have any idea how fragile the human body is? I've seen people break bones from far less than being hit with a baseball bat. Just falling down the wrong way can cause serious injury.
>it could be just getting bullied in school and then make worth of yourself outside of school or when you grow u
NOPE.According to this thread anon, that is the path of a pussy.
FIGHT THEM NOW.
The human body is really an amazing piece of work. There are people who will survive being tortured for years, and then there are people who will die from a heart attack from you yelling "boo!" in their face.
>be 6 years old
>in daycare because both parents worked a lot
>kid keeps fucking bullying me, pulling my hair, kicking me, pushing me when adults aren't looking
>tell adults, they don't do shit
>one day the faggot was chasing me down
>grab chair, jump on table
>throw chair at kid, leg hits him in the forehead
>bully had to get stitches. his mom knew he was a little prick and didn't sue or whatever
>mfw got banned from daycare
Well you are what you eat, and I'm okay with being a pussy, but something tells me there's a lot of dicks in this thread.
Fuck, it's always like this, isn't it? The school doesn't want to look bad or actually handle the messy situation, so they sweep it under the rug and dole out some half hearted admonishments.
>>he got a skull fracture, a broken nose, lacerations, broken ribs, and needs corrective surgery for his teeth
You mean like these kinds of injuries? The ones that the bullies didn't get into trouble for?
My point wasn't so much that a person wouldn't get "fucked up". It was that if a kid is in the kind of environment where they can be severely bullied without the intervention of higher authorities, you can get away with hurting other kids without facing lasting punishment so long as you don't kill him or turn him into a vegetable.
Everybody I've ever met that didn't like sports AND had "unpopular opinions" were assholes. I'm not a big fan of sports either but I can appreciate them and can enjoy bouncing a ball every now and then. You would have been better off telling him to join the football team than fight his bullies.
You're still not saying anything other than anecdotal nonsense and "you should like what everyone else likes"
I know plenty of decent people who dont like sports, hell i dont care for sports at all. I prefer mountain biking andgoing to the range. Doesnt make me and asshole for having a different opinion than you.
You're like a 3 year old whining because a kid across the room plays with hotwheels instead of Tonka trucks. You must be a child or some sort of commie.
OP, listen to me. I was such a child myself, who suffered some pretty severe bullying between 8 and 16 on account of a visible deformity.
I never retaliated. I expected I would mature as a person into someone who was glad that they didn't. Maybe it's my own failure that this person never materialized, but as an adult I only feel intense regret for letting the window in time during which my assailants were still accessible to me close.
Did you know most mass shooters weren't bullied? I looked into that myself in detail following the Columbine shootings. I wanted some sort of vicarious fulfillment I admit, but instead discovered the shooters were socially well regarded. Basically sociopathic bullies themselves.
The people who actually get bullied never do anything. They grow up to lead quiet little lives, contributing to society while a vast, bleeding, injury gnaws at them inside. They are just given no socially acceptable outlet for that energy, nor do they ever get justice on the specific people responsible for hurting them.
You have an opportunity. Those kids still go to his school, they haven't moved away. They are still within reach but not forever. Depending on how much you personally are willing to sacrifice for this kid, how much you love him. You can close that wound in his heart. You can prevent him from having to live with that, just by doing a little prison time.
Yeah I knew a lot of people who dislike sports and had "unpopular opinions" but they rarely if were were bullied, especially to the point where the entire school hates them.
btw shooting is a sport
>he doesnt think most of the cafeteria food is good, so he brings his own
Is this bait?
He would be older and fully formed by then. This is something that happened during a very tender time. What you do in response to it will make a big difference on what sort of man he turns into.
I'd kill whomever did this to the kid. Straight up nobody deserves this. He in in my prayers for you send him some pics of hot bitch's from me.
Well I genuinely feel bad for people who constantly get shit if I feel there's no real reason for it. What kind of ego boost would I get from being friends with someone nobody likes when I could get a greater boost by hanging out with chads since I had the opportunity?
Gee whiz you have a point. I should go shoot my dog. What do I need him for I have friends lmao.
You wana share some of those pent up emotions anon? I'm all ears friend
Drowned in river, lake, bucket?
What region (appalachia, left coast, rocky mountains)?
Murkan football or soccer?
% of black players?
What sentance for each Chad?
How many years actually served?
Did family sue? Successfully?
Level of victim's autism (non-verbal, sonic-fan)?
Examples of non-normie behavior?
Did students and faculty feign mourning of his death or did they sweep it under the rug?
You stood nothing to gain by befriending him. So why do it? And no I don't.
You need to understand that that people frequently fuck with these losers at school/elsewhere. You get popular kids pretending to be nice to them only to laugh at them after and it makes them bitter and jaded towards everyone. His reaction to you would strongly suggest people had fucked with him in a similar way.
Not him, but it has literally never occurred to me to do that.
I can not fathom how one could derive more pleasure from trolling than being a team-player and helping everyone win.
PvP is one thing, but backstabbing your own teammates for lulz is udderly pointless.
Why do I have to gain anything from it? Even if I gain some sort of "ego boost" why is that bad if a loner is also gaining a friend? Also I'm very aware of all those other things. I've had people pretend to be my friend just to fuck with me, and I don't just go up to the loners once and then don't bother with them after the first time they tell me to fuck off. I would establish my friendship and hang with them from time to time, but if they were generally shit people, I'd hang with them less, but not so little to where they'd think I hated them even if I did.
you shouldn't be so quick to label them insufferable if you've been in that position yourself. And them gaining a friend isn't bad but if the friendship is meaningless then there's no point.
so beating them up will be justified
>bully a kid
>he fights back
>nearly kill him in response
did anything happen to the kids? did they press charges on him? send his fucking ass to juvie
I'd give them 2 weeks to find out their potential as a friend personally, most of them turned out kinda shitty to me. If it makes you feel them I would at least find a group they would feel more comfortable hanging with. Also I feel like you're operating under that "true friend" shit a lot of people here think with where a friend has to be a blood brother or some shit to be worth friendship to you. There's varying degrees of friendship you know. You can have some friends you just hang with to hang with and other friends you'd trust your life with. Even if you don't really like somebody, it's nice to have somebody to talk to, like how we're talking right now.
I fat with red hair in junior high. I also had a sister that was bald from cancer, so I was a natural target for bullies. I finally lost my shit and knocked the head bully between the bleachers in gym class and stomped on his head until I was pulled off. I had no more problems after that. Sounds to me like this kid got rat packed, it's not your fault, 99.9% of fights don't go that far. This kid got incredibly unlucky, it's not your fault that they took it too far. When you're fighting multiple people you have to accept that you're going to the hospital and choose ONE of them to go with you. Also, sucker punching is 100% legal in a street fight, the first to draw blood usually wins. There are lessons to be learned here, but "fighting is never the answer" is not it. Fighting smarter is.
>never been in a fight
>want to be
>want to unleash the beast and rip off ears and get grabby
Lmaooo that's not a bully he had someone that was sociopathic on his case what happened too the kids, and also 2 weeks of boxing dosent make you a master and how big where these chads I've been jumped once
Ya actually this. If bullying happens to adults in any way comparable to how it happens to kids, it's in the workplace. Physical bullying quickly becomes irrelevant after 18 (it's illegal - the only people who do it are criminals by definition) but bullying people with verbal or emotional abuse easily slips past the law and, if the bully is clever or lucky, can go unchecked. Bully's in adolescence are chest thumping clods; bully's in adulthood are vicious, manipulative coworkers who can ruin your career or your emotional health.
>Ya actually this. If bullying happens to adults in any way comparable to how it happens to kids, it's in the workplace.
That, or prison.
School is a prison. It's a fucked up place to send kids. You don't learn shit you can't learn online, for FREE, in half the time.
I dropped at 15, got my GED at 17, and then went on to college, because even as a teenager I could see what a fucking shit thing school was. It was basically a torture chamber full of shithead kids and shithead teachers.
You should trained him on muay thai or kick boxing
Or anything that is Full Contact, these kind of fights usually get really dirty so for self-defense sake anything is legal
Also 1 year of boxing it's nothing if he never been on a fight before
I was bullied. I was bullied by good looking Chads. No way could anyone convince me they did it because they were insecure. If you're insecure you wouldn't have it in you to bully... it takes confidence.
It's obviously a hard pill to take but that's life- relentless and unfair.
I was bullied,thankfully only by a few at a time. Nothing like this poor kid. What is happening to the fucks who did this to him? Do they walk free and greatly amused at their deed? It wouldn't surprise me to hear that.
People,especially kids,don't need a reason to hurt others,just an excuse. It's funny to see a weakling squirm,react,cry. And in these recent years they do so with a startling amorality. They know they're safe from being physically chastised themselves, with social services waiting to swoop in and drag off any adult who dares lay a finger on these precious little darlings,however justified. Too late to offer advice in this case,but for all of you reading this thread and quaking inside like me from rage,I will offer the following for debate dissection and discussion...
What would have helped this kid,and any you all might know in the same boat,is DOCUMENTATION. Talk to the kid,find out the patterns of when and where the incidents occur. And as the responsible adult Anon,arrange to be around near the spot where it would most likely happen. And prepare to record it on a cellphone. Tell the kid to be extra vocal about what the bullies are doing,have him say NAMES,make it obvious who is the Victim and who are the Villans. The confrontation will ultimately get physical. Instead of fighting back,tell the kid to curl up on the ground,protecting his head and neck,and endure the beat down for a time. The bullies won't be provoked by defiance to hospitalize him,but be entertained enough to beat on him. He'll be hurt,but not severely damaged. Record it all,quietly,walk around them getting clear shots of smiling bully faces. Put camera away,then scream at them at the top of your lungs,"WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING? GET AWAY FROM HIM!" Make a big stink,chase them off. Get police involved then and there. I would upload the video to some Internet cloud before that to make sure you can keep evidence free of "accidental" erasure. (Continued)
Then get the biggest nastiest lawyer you can find and show him the video. You want to make him lots of money by suing everyone involved,and those shits who did this tried as adults. Use the media,public outcry,whatever. Make life HELL for them. And feel no pity as their lives are ruined...
How's the plan?
If he still listens to you, if he's not mad at you, you need to visit him.
Stop dwelling on the fact that he's hurt. He'll get better, I promise. Instead, congratulate him, let him know that his actions have earned him respect, from you, and, on some level, from his assailant(s).
I don't know what kind of kid he is, but I do know that respect is universally valued. You shouldn't think about the past, if you really care about him, you can help his personality improve, make him a better person.
If he's being bullied, chances are his personality is either significantly different, or abrasive. Both of these things are correctable. Not to say having a different personality is a bad thing, but it's entirely possible to have any set of interests and level of intelligence, without raising the red flag in the typical average guy's head. As to how you'd go about this; it's really up to you.
What we consider to be 'normal' is just that, for a reason; it's universally considered to be the best central point of mentality for any individual, proving a balance of intellectual, social and creative pursuits.
Why don't people just call the police when kids are beating the fuck out of another one?
I mean surely if you were just walking around a shopping mall with your 12 year old son and a bunch of random other 12 year olds jumped out and kicked the shit out of him and ran off you'd call 911 right and have them arrested?
But if it takes place in a school it's suddenly not a big deal to adults?
I was homeschooled so I have no idea how the normie world works.
You're a pussy if you dont risk death at the ripe age of 13-16 and stand up to your bullies.
That kid is cool for almost dying. If he were dead we'd RESPECT him, and that'd totally make up for his life being snufed out.
Self preservation? Picking your battles? Avoiding dangerous people you cant win against?
BAH. Poppycock, fight them and die, like a real disposable male
because kids fighting is completely natural and rarely leads to any actual problems. there's no reasonable reaction to it that involves police and police would just laugh after showing up 2 hours later.
if i saw something i didn't like in the fight i'd pick my son up and take him home. if you're a parent who can't defend his son from a high school bully then you should dream of the day he gets killed so that he isn't as miserable as you will surely make him.
i graduated with an advanced degree and graduated uni last year kid. Im 22 now. Go fist yourself you tablet tapping piece of garbage.
How's it feel to know your generation will LITERALLY destroy the world?
tfw i dont even own a tablet and can reach a higher form of education while dropping out of hs. if youre implying high school ISNT useless trash youre wrong. You know there areharvard med grads with their GEDs, right?
>never been in a fight
>imagine how cool it would be
>a fight happens
>suddenly so afraid can't even move
>can barely move
>try to punch someone
>literally no damage
>try to shove someone smaller than me
>someone grabs you
>too weak to get out from his grip
I don't recommend it to betas. It is like your childhood superhero dies in front of you. I'm 6'3 and it is worth shit against people who regulary exercise.
Yah anon, you did an admirable thing with good intentions.
You just need to be able to take a better look at situations and act accordingly.
In my one and only fight with bullies, I never would have fought them all at once unarmed, I fought them with a metal pole when it was just three of them, and then avoided them when they were in numbers. I also gauged the situation and new that they didn't try and one-up me it anything.
But at this rate you have no choice but to don a mask and beat the shit out of the fucker. The sort of cunt that wails on an unconscious kid needs to get hospitalized. Throw him against a wall head first and break arms.
The nigger that bullied my father to the point off having my dad plot literal murder, went on to kill an on-leave soldier. Someone needs to stop him before it gets worse.
Daily reminder that children with single mothers are at huge disadvantage in all aspects of life.
Yep. The whole 'pick your battles' or 'it's not worth getting hurt' approach is so FEMININE.
Masculine is irrational. It's: 'I don't care who you are, if you touch me, or say something disrespectful to my face, we're fighting'.
>pick your battles
the point is that they avoid all battles and end up being more hurt because they never prepared themselves for the inevitable obstacles in life, which may or may not include literal fights.
being a brute who is always looking for fights might not be "rational" but he's always going to come out over shit-eating dudes who stopped developing at 13 out of fear, unless those dudes take their rational decisions to their logical conclusions and become women. picking your battles would be even more preferable, but who knows what that means.
>Masculine is irrational. It's: 'I don't care who you are, if you touch me, or say something disrespectful to my face, we're fighting'.
That's stupid and dangerous and can get you killed or put in prison where you'll be raped.
you guys are quite delusional and putting yourself through pain for future hardship can be admirable it's not really viable when you can literally be killed/critically injured like OP's little friend
You guys need to take a step back. Women are irrational apes, not men. Men think shit out and find out how to handle things. If you arent strong enough to take out bullies, then you have a brain for a reason. Sabotage and ruin their social lives, hire some mexican body guards, or maybe do what OP said and use your intellect to be placed far above the bullies in a school where they wont reach you
The only part of this story that I believe is that OP was bullied while he was in high school. Anything else is too fucking stupid. You'd have to be a complete idiot to suggest a small child go and fight his bigger bullies.
And with such severe injuries, I'd expect this to be a news story, especially considering a teacher watched by and laughed like you say. The parents should be suing the fuck out of the school and the children involved in the attack should be facing some pretty intense consequences.
Get fucked OP, you will never be able to lie enough to feel better about your past.
The guy you are talking to is the culprit to what that kid is in intensive care right now and why his parents almost lost their son.
I've seen kids fight their bullies and lose. They are still bullied after they get back to school. It wont get better for him
I agree. That' what the comment was about. These boys are being raised by women, and a women can't teach a boy to be a man. Agree that sometimes masculinity isn't rational That's why the single mother can't grasp it.
>a small child
he's white. they dont get coverage. A white kid was shot 18 times after graduating valedictorian and it got no coverage
>laughed like you say
This isnt that rare. Lots of teachers encourage fighting. They did at my school
that kind of mentality is exactly what im talking about though. if your life is so good because you didn't get shot then why is there a discussion here? clearly you have no grasp of the actual risks to getting in a simple fight anyway.
News flash for you nerds. Regular dudes fight in adolescence. It's completely natural. More often than not, you're back to be being friends the next week. For normally adjusted adolescent males it's not that big of a deal.
Exactly. These weirdos just don't get it. They think that getting in a fist fight is taking your life in your hands. Play a team sport or something. You'll have fights in the locker room on the reg. It's not a big deal.
If he's not small, how was he overpowered so easily? What is he even being bullied for? I'm only guessing he's small because bullies tend to go after the easy targets.
If his parents actually cared about their son, they would easily be able to get coverage.
>Multiple children attack their son
>Teacher stands by laughing
>Son is in critical condition and teacher did nothing to stop it
This would fuck the entire school's reputation as well as create a media shitstorm. That's exactly why I can't believe you.
Wait wait wait wait wait
How can chads be against suicide and then tell someone to go out in a blaze of glory at 15-18 years old just to "prove themselves" as a man. HelI never fought back against my bullies and I still get mad pussy. I dont give two shits about instincts
No fucking way I'm dying or getting my nose broken/teeth rekt jsut to get respect from a school full of people I dont even like to begin with
>men think shit out
single mother or what?
there's nothing to process here. you're suggesting a 15 year old kid hire mexican body guards so that some trashy white boy his age doesn't tease him? your mother was loose and probably never loved you man.
if the kid had a brain he'd just make some normal friends and the friends would protect him. but he's not just a stupid fucking brat that no one seems to like enough for even that, he's also weak as shit and needs someone else to tell him to stick up for himself. he's pretty much lost already but that will be up to him.
i'm saying that from what i've noticed, "men" who are ready and willing to literally fight are the guys who otherwise have success in life. the guys with "brains" from their single mothers end up wearing dresses and/or being scared of rejection. shitty generalizations aside, the target of these insults isn't someone who picks their battles, it's someone who is a little bitch.
You just ended the thread. Most boys who had fathers knew how to fight back, not only that but they were more stable and only fought when attacked. Single moms can't raise male children. They can't raise children in general.
>I still get mad pussy
So how much do you pay for 'it?'
>i'm saying that from what i've noticed, "men" who are ready and willing to literally fight are the guys who otherwise have success in life. the guys with "brains" from their single mothers end up wearing dresses and/or being scared of rejection. shitty generalizations aside, the target of these insults isn't someone who picks their battles, it's someone who is a little bitch.
Yup. This is accurate.
>go to academic magnet school
>none of the kids here have ever been bullied
>none of them have been in fights
>talk to friends from public school
>at least 60% of them have been bullied or still are
I'm seeing something here...
You're 19 and they're 15?
Go and beat the fucking shit out of these little fucks. Take some friends if you have to. Break they're legs so severely they can't be fixed and they won't be doing that shit to anyone again.
Gain. The kid's problem aren't this group of bullies. The kid's problem is that he has social problems, to the extent that he has no friends, nor any apparent grasp on how high school social dynamics work. Plus he hates sports, sounds annoying, and is weak and slow witted. A kid like that is going to get bullied no matter where he goes.
getting hit by a guy twice your size aint exactly a good time. It's hard to get past their long arms to land a hit.
I regret fighting in HS desu. That shit hurt bad. I'd never tell my son to do it unless he absolutely had to.
If the school is just teasing you, then there's no reason to fight
>Plus he hates sports, sounds annoying, and is weak and slow witted
I was with you until this part. You're fucking retarded and nothing OP said implies he was annoying.
Not exactly his fault bruh
So the fuck what? Many people hate sports and they're ok guys
Meh. We cant all work out. He does box now so that's somthing
>I was with you until this part. You're fucking retarded and nothing OP said implies he was annoying
He said he had "unpopular opinions". And if you think being weak and slow witted aren't going to affect your life, I don't know what to tell you.
And sorry, but people who 'hate' sports always suck. Ambivalent to sports, can be ok.
at that school none of the kids have ever been in fights and would never get in one.
and at the other school 60%+ are being bullied all the time XD.
i think what you're not getting is that you're homeschooled and not part of any culture. even if kids play sports they will get into little fights sometimes. and at the better schools they still call any conflict bullying.
the father nonsense is about how you approach problems. if disagreements with people, involving violence or not, are not a problem then carry on watching netflix and chilling. if someone is incapable of dealing with bullies because he wants to be nice to them or avoid "getting shot" while repeatedly getting shit on for life then maybe he didn't have a proper role model, which often is the father. the reference is just to how these guys seem to live like women, despite not being women.
i couldnt deal with my bullies because all of my attempts failed. So fuck it.
I got a broken nose and every time i talked shit on them they'd just get a horde of people to defend them. Felt pointless to fight back after a while.
how did life turn out for you in the end?
if i was that disliked i'd have probably dropped out and taught myself something. but lets say i was retarded as well as incapable of improving my reputation. i'd go work for somebody doing hard labor and then maybe come back to school another time as a man. if i had parents that could deny that i'd let them deal with the bullies then.
that seems like you'd be over doing it.
I just went to another school in the district and made mad friends. Then I went to college. I work on an army base now for missile guidance systems.
The kids at the new school didnt have the same strict social standards. And now that I'm older I learned from other people that the people in the county I went to HS in at first were generally considered to be complete pricks. So theres that I guess
Had I stayed there i'd be way more fucked and would probably be dead from suicide or something
>just went to another school
that's a pretty obvious one though. i had to do the same thing myself. i was just assuming that anywhere you went you were kicked around to make a point.
This. People bully because they are cruel fuckers who will shit in your face while yuor bleeding to death and masturbate while you die.
If society ever falls i will kill ltierally every single human that come near me. inb4 edge.
12 year olds don't get charged for attempted murder you idiot.
If you're 12-15 and skid your age tries to fight you and you beat him then keep on beating him with your bare hands you're very unlikely to be charged with attempted murder.