>Bi's are a bunch of cheating scum who will always end up with the opposite sex."
>"Bisexuals" don't exist they are either closted gay men or attention whoring straight women."
Which meme do you prefer more? both are horrible in their own way but would you rather be seen as a faker or as a cheater?
>madly in love with person of the same sex
>you go anon it's OK to be gay
>actually I'm bi but...
>met with looks of disgust and hate
Just because some people's sexuality may be transient and less static doesn't make it any less legit as long as you were genuinely attracted to/in love with the people you found yourself experiencing those things for in the moment.
I don't think bi men cheat more often (can't say the same for bi women). However, if he does cheat, it's a lot grosser to think that I could end up kissing him after he's gone down on a woman, or that I've sucked a dick that had vaginal secretion residue on it.
>tfw I have this face
Biscum+Cisscum is the worst combo of queer. I feel like those white people who say they're 1/16th Native. Sure, I'm 'straight passing' but I was straight passing when I identified as a lesbian, too, so.
The worst thing is that now, with all the memegenders and sexualities, you're almost expected to make some shit up to be more special. And at the same time, people who think you're monosexual perk up if you indicate you're bi, because even if they're bi/pan/whatever, they assume you're a low-standards anyfucker like they are. No, I'm not bi because I'm insatiably horny or a nympho. I'm not 'kinky'. I'm a virgin, by choice.
At the same time I'm not a homophobe/transphobe/bigot. I'm not an attention whore. I'm not piggybacking on the 'movement' or a straightie trying to snowflake.
Apparently, what makes one biscum isn't being bi but having standards. The gendersmear polyamorsexes all engage in their genderfuck orgies, and enjoy being transgressive and ugly. I'm not about that life.
even if you do have standards at least on here your still considered scum. Or non existant
>mfw no qt lesbians want anything to do with me
This just happened
>weekly shopping at the supermarket
>really handsome, tall guy arrives at the same time
>meet up again near the bread section
>a couple arrives as well, the guy is bear mode with styled beard and army cut, the woman is poshly dressed sort of porn chic
>they are at each side of the bread cutters
>the couple both eyeballs him he looks back, all of them have fuck me eyes
>the guy says something funny about bread and they leave into another section
>the tall guy turns longingly and looks toward the way they left
>they come back and start walking through the rest of the store
>they're sort of dancing across each other through the whole thing
I bet they drove off somewhere and all fucked. Attractive people have all the fun in this world.
remembering that I FWB'd a bi guy... fuck, lost my appetite.
>"Everybody is at least a bit bisexual."
Okay, I love this one because it's hilarious. And I've done it.
I told my mother this amazing revelation when I was about 12. She got very quiet and uncomfortable. I have a much older brother who is gay. He came out before I was born/when I was really young.
She told me about all of the anguish my brother went through, how he tried to force himself to like women, but he just couldn't.
Looking back on it, it's just too hilarious.
Because it's not that everyone's bisexual. It's that I'M bisexual!
I understand now why my mom wasn't shocked when I came out.
i blew a guy with a wife. i hope they had a dead bedroom.
Oh, political lesbians. How you amuse me. Alienating lesbians by acting like lesbianism is a choice, alienating bisexial bisexual women by acting like it's a crime they're attracted to men.
I am a little drunk and terribly lonely :(. I broke up with my FWB because she admitted she's not OK with my being bi and pretends I'm not, now I have nobody to cuddle with. It sucks being a single queer dude and desu I wish I were straight.
Even though what >>5669723 said is true, I share your concerns, anon.
I often worry I'm the worst kind of bi. Like when I had a bf I fantasized so much with being with girls that I thought I was actually a lesbian. Then I got a gf and I'm genuinely into her, but lately I think about guys more often. What the fuck. This is driving me insane.
>tfw worry about having a bi gf who will never be happy with me
Feels bad man
But honestly, why don't you just date other bi girls in open relationships? It can't be too hard to find poly couples in degenerate places like portland. Alternatively, you could also date trannies
same the three kind of relationships i've been in has been with guys.Two i only dated for a week in the begin of middle and high school. and one we had a weird FWB i kind of regret. IDK i fell if actually went out with a girl it would make feel more secure in attraction. I just know i don't want to be 27yr old or older at some dumpy reunion laughing about my ~bi phase~
>But honestly, why don't you just date other bi girls
I hear bi women complain about lesbians' bigotry and bi-phobia all the time. Bi women should just date each-other instead of fetishizing lesbians.
Nnnno anon, not all bi girls are like this! I think I'm, uh, an uncommon case. Probably. If you have a bi gf or fall in love with a bi girl, please don't assume she feels like I do. Frankly I think this is a problem precisely because I like my girl so much and I worry that I might hurt her badly if what happened with my former relationship happens again ughhhh
Poly relationships are definitely not my thing. And idk I don't think it'd be right to pursue a relationship with trans ppl just because they're trans.
>I just know i don't want to be 27yr old or older at some dumpy reunion laughing about my ~bi phase~
Yes, same. I hope you find a nice girl and don't have the same issues I'm going through!
I dunno how ppl think relationships work but personally I don't go around looking for potential partners based on their sexual orientation/what they've got between their legs; rather, I make new friends and stuff starts to develop. So >>5676026 I don't get it, how am I fetishizing lesbians by meeting a girl, discovering she's wonderful, gay and into me too??? Also who r u to tell anyone who they should be dating
Maybe they'll hook up occasionally, but i've never met a bi-woman/bi-woman couple. The vast majority of bi-women date men. The only one's I've know in actual relationships with other women were dating lesbians.
Just my theory of why bi women usually arent seen in a romantic relationship with other bi women. I mean with the way the lgbt community sees bisexuals espically bi women and girls i think its more than possible that at least a good number of them might have internalized biphobic sentiments and not trust their own.
No, because most people see a f-f couple and think lesbians. bi-erasure. I know a number of bisexual women in f-f couples, and nearly everybody thinks they are a lesbian couple. I know they are both bisexual because they have been in bi support groups with me or they are working on bisexual causes.
A rational bisexual will end up in a heterosexual relationship in the end.
1) there's far more heterosexuals than homosexuals to hook up with
2) society won't shit on you if you're in a het relationship
3) you will have more money, health care, opportunities in a het relationship
4) for women, it is far more likely that you can hook up with a sex different from your current partner if you stay with a man (who tends to dimly think it's hot) rather than a woman (who tends to be aggressively monogamous); for men, it is easier to do clandestine hookups with other men if you are in a relationship with a woman (because of the dominating hookup and secrecy culture among gay men) rather than while with a man (because straight women do not tend towards repeated flings or constant sexual availability)
Most bisexuals are going to wander back into the het side of things given the chance.
I am white and bi, and I learned a valuable lesson from my 5 year old white/mexican nephew: only speak english to white people, only speak spanish to mexicans. (It's really cute when my sister or I speak spanish to him, he acts confused and responds in english, same when a mexican speaks to him in english.)
>Every gay person thinks I'm gay, every straight person thinks I'm straight.
it's just basic statistics at this point. Most of them are only bisexual to begin with because of frustrations with the opposite sex - not because they're truly and utterly attracted to both men and women.
Pretty much this. I'm not a virgin, but I'm also not just trying to fuck anything with a warm hole.
I like dat brain. I dun care whether it's got a penis or a vagina attached to it. Just give me a hot brain and body and I'm good to go.
>"Bisexuals" don't exist they are either closted gay men or attention whoring straight women."
This one is great, I think its an attempt for straights to further distance themselves from gays, cause certainly a fag can't like what he likes.
Never understood the confusion. I was at a party one time with a few gay people and lots of straight people, and some hippy-type girl who one would assume would be open-minded proclaimed "I don't think bisexual people exist. I think people can only be straight or gay, there's no in-between. Bisexual people are just closeted gays" or something along those lines.
I'm a bisexual guy and not that I cared too much, but it kinda shocked me a bit. It was the first time I fully realized that some people just can't wrap their mind around it.
>bisexual wife in a het marriage gets cucked by her own bislut gf
oh lawdy lawdy, i'm laffin
Man cunts like her only further the mistrust of bi women in particular. Onison really needs to stop going for girls a decade younger then him maybe he wouldn't run into so many issues.
>have butt plug
i dont give a fuck, and this board isnt helping shit lol. you faggots just hate on eachother, im fine with myself. fuck other people, whatever you are, you are. be that
I did, we broke up cause of circumstances but it was quite nice dating someone who's had to deal with the exact same shit. I don't give much of a shit about someone's orientation if we're into each other though.
bi's do exist, but they are rarely in the middle of the Kinsey scale.
I can relate to their confusion because I don't understand straights and gays!
What does it feel like to not be at all interested in another gender?
I think it's funny when they say, "Oh that's such a pretty girl... Wait she's just an effeminate guy??" And they lose their attraction! Or mistaking tomboys for hot boys.
Androgynous folks are still hot. How does knowing their gender suddenly make them not?
>androgynous folks are still hot
tbqh I find them repulsive
>How does knowing their gender suddenly make them not
Well technically speaking when someone calls another hot, they typically want to fuck them. This fucking (even if just a mental imagination) is cockblocked by genitalia they don't like. Therefore, they become un-hot, although I'm sure many would agree they don't suddenly become not-pretty just because of genitalia awareness tbqh.