Why haven't you started a revolution /gaygen/?
SHE DOES IT AGAIN!
WHY CANT SHE STO?
ITS NOT FAIR! NO FAIR!
FREEDOM FOR ALL POLITICAL PRISONERS IN MOROCCO!
also, fuck capitalism
also, tfw no comradebf
>also, tfw no comradebf
>tfw no right-wing bf
>tfw you're cuddling with your bf and he starts talking about how marxism is sound and just the victim of a 150 year old smear campaign
>meet guy for lunch
>everythings going well
>seems like a nice/chill white dude
>than he says...
>"I've been free of Hiv for one year"
>"hiv can't be detected in my blood"
>"I'm in remission"
>"Praise the lord"
>I excused myself to go to the bathroom
>and stealthed out of there
Just got stealthed. I need guidance.
"We got to his place and we started making out. A bunch of other foreplay stuff later, he asks me if I wanted to have sex without a condom. I said, "no, you HAVE to use a condom," almost mockingly, because I could not believe he would even consider barebacking. I see him get the condom and actually put it on so I thought, alright, we're gonna play safe. Not too long and we were already having anal. Fast forward minutes into it, he asks me, "you're negative, right?" and I said yes, then he asks me if I like the feeling, and I just say yeah. "Good, because I'm fucking you without a condom right now." I got a head rush from that and I seriously couldn't think straight. I think I shouted "WHAT" at him. He said he was negative but I didn't care and I go tell him to put one back on, and he asks me what the point was if he's already been fucking me without a condom for a few minutes. I didn't know what to do and I'm still panicking because I don't know what to do in this situation. I was scared and pathetic. This guy was at least twice my size and he was dedicated on barebacking. The least I was able to do was get him to not cum in my ass. I tried my hardest to have sex with him. I didn't feel like I had any control over the situation. I felt like I was being raped and I had to stare at him while he did it. I felt scared of this guy and I had to pretend like everything was okay and that I was enjoying what he was doing because he might turn violent. I'm pretty sure I was already fucking crying in my head when he forced me to take his cum in my mouth."
When's the last time you got tested and made sure you didn't get stealthed?
It's official Circe and Slutboi ruined Gaygen. I'm not coming here anymore.
>I'm tired, and really sick at the moment
I hope you get better.
Holy shit its actually happening.
The realization that my life is legit going to be completely different soon like legitimately different.
These last six months are going to go down as something odd fom late July to now but holy shit its actually happening im going to see the world and meet tons of new people. Im not going to rot away being autistic and my life is going to get exponentially better.
I woke up extremely motivated and happy today. I actually have a shot at a decent life this is great.
And yes part of it was just getting laid.
You guys are assholes. I don't blame that dude at all in that situation. That was literally rape. Whether or not he could actually prosecute the dude is a different story though.
I'm sorry anon that's super shitty. If its available to you, seek out counseling or that's gonna permanently fuck with your head
>its an "Irishanon lashes out to hide his insecurities" thread
What's the bigger risk here; a black eye, a broken nose, a broken rib, etc... or becoming HIV+?
Sympathy, maybe, but that anon is still absolutely responsible for his actions here.
You know what you do in that situation? You leave. If you are scared of this guy beating the shit out of you, you grab all your shit that you can, and walk out the door in your undies and get dressed outside. If you have to stand out all night in the rain and wait until 6am for the first bus because it's 1 in the morning, you still fucking leave. If the guy is fucking you bare without your permission you just gtfo. If the guy beats the shit out of you, and rapes you, he's going to prison and there's nothing you can do about it except put up a fight.
Being pozzed up because of inaction, how pathetic.
What's your favorite episode of gaygen?
Theres nobody interesting anymore since all the funny ones left.
Its either an irishanon episode a femgen bullying episode or a boring masc episode.
Gayest slice of life anime ever we need more autists!
Yeah, but what do you expect when gaygen is the only gay themed thread on this board.
We all have our differences and similarities, we just have to learn to get along or be bitchy drama queens
Ooo boo hoo I had sex XD
This person is a liar blaming that guy that just made a joke but than the sub decided to go through with it and than blame it on the "rapist". That guy is complete scum the one who got "raped" and of course he'd post it on reddit because they don't fact check they just go muh victim.
That dudes a pussy for not screaming and yelling I mean you're legally getting pozzed daddy you better do something.
We need to start with the femgenners. They are consistant bullies to everybody. They degrade masculine attraction in pursuit of looking like thirteen year old boys. I don't know about you but I like my partner to be a man.
Femgen is either trannies in denial or literally trannies with tits or its the classic femgen where they just have a legal ring of pedophilia where they all dress like thirteen year old boys to appease hairy men in different countries.
Oldfags are shit also.
The femgens are just fun to bully they are actually my favorite because they are actually fun.
If you're trying to map out gay dudes in your area, which dating sites are good and which are shit, frankly? Also, which hook-up ones are good and which are shit? Just looking for general advice.
depends what you're into
tbqh I've had more good dates from growlr than I have from any other dating site/app lmaoooo
but if you're into sex hookups grindr and scruff are prob kings no matter which city
I would fuck Rupert Grint til I dropped. I fucking love those thick legs and thighs, those pecs, arms, the right amount of fat without overdoing it. Hnnnng.
I'm average looking and nothing special, although in terms of being built like a football player I'm kind of bear-ish I guess. Honestly what I most want is a skinny submissive faggot as friends with benefits I suppose ideally.
mostly attention seekers, but you'll have some sane conversations
horrible layout, seems to be populated by drug addicts and closet cases
d o n o t
faceless sex fiends, guys looking for prositutes
sex fiends with faces, might actually meet nice people
shouldn't you be getting back to the mothership
Is growlr really worth checking out? The only hookup app I've used is grindr. I've always assumed scruff and growlr were just tryhard knockoffs.
Tindr and okcupid always seemed super lame.
>Rape is OK
>Why wouldn't you do it
Irishanon pls no rape
Well it depends on your city and if you're into bears or not.
literally the worst dating app I have ever come across. Don't know why it's popular.
This app takes the cake for the worst. All it has are trannies and art fags. Otherwise normal people try it out for like a week and then delete their accounts. Such a shame though too, because OKC's match system/questions/database is pretty fucking great.
Awe you're always there for me Irish senpai !
Just taking notes.
How do you get them for the intercourse after?
Specifically, huh, this going to sound pathetic but I want to ask it in this way anyways: If the 'on point for fucking' and 'friendship, hanging out' parts are basically equal to me, since I'm not interested in screwing someone unless I actually like them for them, what does that mean as far as the right website?
I like bears, in the tall, weight-lifting, jock kind of sense and please not the uber-fat sense, but the notion of just like sucking dick and leaving the end has like zero appeal to me.
>doesn't even know how to pretend
Just use nets that look like this basket - but obviously tall enough to fit multiple twinks, and made of net material
Jesus christ. People that pathetic deserve there fates, grow some god damn balls. Atleast attempt to defend yourself, nothing wrong with taking an ass whooping now and then if you've attempted to protect yourself.
Honestly the 'fuck me in the bitch cunt fucks fucking bitch move slut my fucking ass plow me in the shitter you fuck-cunt balls-bitch cunt-fuck' type talk is a gigantic turn-off to me to the point that it would probably make me want to smother the other guy I'm with using a pillow until he passes out
>thin privilege is not being called despicable.
People like you are why 4chan needs a healthy dose of adipositivity.
>obviously its not going very well
You're just going to hurt yourself more, trying to change. Your metabolism is obviously slowing down as you age.
The healthiest thing is to just accept the new you. The important thing is to overcome the rampant body shaming our culture pushes on us and learn that everyone is beautiful.
thats so fucking easy
i thought you wanted to bulk up and be a hunk - thats way more difficult
why the fuck are you even moaning, going twinkmode is pisseasy. Why do you think there are so many of the cunts?
Is it ever actually worth it to plan to travel to another state to get a guy? Like from one coast to another?
Assume ideal match and mutual goal of relationships, just distance the only problem.
The first step is accepting yourself, then you can teach others about fat acceptance, and the Healthy At Every Size movement!
I've been up for moving for a long time, but I just haven't been able to finish the Master's Degree yet. I have to concede that a large part of that is psychological burnout, though.
That's true, but I'm not thin enough yet to deserve to live, and I'll continue to not deserve to live until I'm a proper weight.
Until then, I'll fit into that weird window of not at risk of dying suddenly (thus correcting the small problem of my existence) while simultaneously not deserving to live.
>cute as fuck guy at work
>stalk his facebook
>picture of him with a landwhale
So my boyfriend just stopped by to tell me that he has a lot on his plate right now, and he can't have a relationship on top of it. He says he needs time...until he can get his shit straightened out.
What the fuck do I do? Just...wait for him to get his life together? I love him so much...it hurts so much. I miss him already. Hold me /gaygen/, I'm fucking devastated.
There were multiple maps actually and all of them flopped
Yeah. Kind of a good thing, kind of a bad thing. Good thing, less people are dead, but bad thing because well less people are dead (and all the negatives that come with having to take care of this many people) and natural selection doesn't actively play a role anymore.
You would notice, you would care, and that's really all that matters at the end of the day as it impacts how we perceive others are looking at us.
The biggest thing is learning to count calories. Find out what your maintenance intake is, and then reduce the number of calories a day to meet your weight loss goal. There are plenty of calorie calculators out there, all it takes is a google search.
Exercise is important too. If your goal is just to get skinny/twink mode you probably wouldn't need anything other then cardio.
I'm sorry anon. Thats not an easy pill to swallow. Unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it. Best thing you can do is to not wait around for him and live your life the best you can. Hopefully you'll be able to move on and find someone new to love.
How many guys has the typical dude here fucked?
For me just one.
But I don't want someone new. I want him. I promised I'd wait for him, and he told me he'd work as hard as he can to make that happen. He still wants me, but he needs to find a place to live soon. He doesn't know if he can keep his job. He has too much going on.
Thank you anon much appreciated, ive been trying to count calories but it obviously hasnt worked well, ive been conscious of what im eating for the last few months, maybe theres something in my diet thats secretly high in calories? I dunno
(maybe i should starve myself for a couple weeks)
I dont use dating apps - no time.
but when i briefly experimented with it my names of choice were
>Not a hipster
but i dont think i ever kept a profile up for more than a day.
It's important to know what your calorie intake should be for your height/weight/activity level. For example, I could loose weight on 3000 a day, but that might be a bulk for someone smaller.
It's also important to know that almost everyone under reports calorie intake, so when adding things up, it's better to round up. There are apps out there too to help estimate how much your intake is.
When in doubt, just drop the goal further, until you start seeing the progress you want.
I get the .5 anon, but how do you fuck 15/16ths of a guy?
As much as you don't want to hear it (and probably won't listen to me anyway) but you need to move on and not wait for him. If its meant to be, he will come back and all will be well. But if he doesn't then you will regret all the time you wasted and it'll be that much harder for you to move on. You could literally be waiting forever.
mourn him as you would any ex. But don't count on him to come back.focus on yourself and your personal healing.
My life doesn't revolve around him, of course. I'll keep going on, and I'll cope, I'm sure. But in terms of letting him go completely and finding someone else, it's probably not going to happen. Not just because I still love him, but...well, he's my first relationship. I've cruised the local guys many times before, and it's always the same. He was the only one whom I had anything in common with. He was different. I know he'll get his shit straightened out, as he literally has two months to do so, and in that time, I think it's highly unlikely I'll find anyone else.
Kek. It's only about 500 below maintenance, so that'd be a pretty slow cut. 3500 isn't that crazy for 6'3" 200lbs and gym 6 times a week.
I'm shooting for 2500 or less atm. Bulking is hard though, stuffing myself with 4000+ a day is suffering.
I think youre right, from now ill more tightly control eating, i really want to see a fast result ao i feel like its working.
Also losing weight on 3000 cals? Woah whats your stats
Hey thank you. I actually only drink coffee and water (usually 2-3 coffees a day) but i have 2 sugars in my coffee. Do you think thats too much?
Try cutting down to 1 sugar in your coffee. First of all, it'll be healthier, and you get to actually taste the coffee. Who knows, maybe you'll grow to even prefer black coffee later on.
Different anon; calories are only half the battle, you must seriously focus on macronutrients if you want to be thin and healthy. Eat less high-carbohydrate foods, eat foods high in protein, add in foods with unsaturated fats--avoid saturated fats and sugar like the plague. Make sure to eat plenty of fruits and vegetables and organics and all that. Counting calories is basically useless if you don't account for what those calories constitute
I spent a looong time trying to get over my first bf. Then I received words of wisdom from my sister: you never really get over your first love. Its just a fact of life. You'll move on to other guys when you're ready.
In the meantime, *hugs*
I will definitely do this, its more forced habit than anything else
This is really the information i lack, i usually eat toast purely to remove hunger. I usually have two pieces of toast during the day, then what evers for dinner
Im guessing it would be smart to remove bread/ toast from my diet?
Just found this little gem on growlr
You can turn to whole wheat toast tbqh, but generally it's not a good enough breakfast on its own - you're simply quenching your hunger but fucking up your body otherwise by not providing enough energy.
Remove bread from your diet. Carbohydrates serve a purpose (your brain doesn't get nearly as much energy from protein as the rest of your body) so DON'T CUT THEM OUT, DON'T THINK I'M TELLING YOU TO DO THAT, just get them from healthier places, like oats, vegetables, whole grains (if you still really need bread), keeping the protein>carbohydrates>fat ratio going
OK, I'm not one of the anons that yells at you and shit but I gotta say every time you talk about the stuff you eat, I get annoyed. You need to get a better diet. You sound like one of those annoying eating disorder girls.
My shit is always like broken glass, I have a nervous/intestinal disorder.
Actually, my diet is usually really well and balanced with veggies and fiber and protein and such. It's really just like the couple of days before my next paycheck
Tbh, that's really the only times I eat these tortillas, just because I know they won't make me gassy.
Can rubbing the mouth of dicks together while they are wet with pre-cum cause HIV?
Whiskey's ok but hipster bullshit aside, nothing beats a martini that's made correctly. I only drink alcohol on occasion because it's too fucking expensive. Bottom line tho, good beer tastes good.
Replace your current toast with highest protein/fiber whole wheat bread you can find. Shoot for about 5g of each per slice. If you like eggs, you can fry/scramble a couple to put on the toast, if not peanut butter is a good choice. Helps give you extra protein. Also, milk. Milk is a dope source of protein.
For example my typical breakfast is: 4-6 eggs, melted cheese on top, 2 slices toast and a tall glass of milk. Ends up being about 60-63g of solid protein. Plus the fiber from the bread. (fiber is super important)
Honestly, can someone please tell me why my filters aren't working?
Don't go overboard on fruit, though. Keep that distance. While it does have the fiber necessary to keep the high sugar content from being stored immediately as fat, it is still high sugar, and that's always dangerous if taken too far
Could you please be a bit more specific? It wasn't overflowing, but there were a few drops.
What do you mean? Just start leaving the house more. Going on a bike ride is a perfect excuse to get you out of your filthy squaller and soak up some vitamin D. Lycra + tan lines is pic related
But for weight loss? Seems like alot of calories?
The bread i do eat is whole grain (or atleast not white bread) and i really do enjoy eggs. I had cut peanut butter out completely because it seemed to be so high in calories... Is that wrong?
I've broken 3 laptops and a phone already this year just from reading her posts and slipping into a blind rage. I need that filter if I want to continue paying rent.
Can you help or not?
0. I've never even gotten close to saying hi to another faggot irl (except this one guy but no way will I ever want to even see his face).
I didn't choose the neet life. Actually, I kinda did.
You have to eat calories to have energy. But choosing good, high-protein sources for calories leaves less room for crap to get into your diet. Fiber is crucial to your digestive process and satiety responses, so that's why fruits and veggies are so important (apart from all the vitamins). Make sure you're getting plenty of it. Also make sure you drink tons of water, your whole body functions more efficiently when you're hydrated.
Everything I'm saying doesn't mean shit if you're not exercising though. Diet alone might make you skinnier if you starve yourself but it won't make you healthier.
Eating in the morning is a good idea. A modest breakfast and a modest dinner with exercise in between will get you there. If the calorie deficit has you too hungry, you can add in a small lunch without too much issue
>I have anxiety issues and am borderline agoraphobic its really hard for me :\
put some headphones in and cycle along quiet cycle paths. There is no chance you're going to lose weight on diet alone and you'll be so bored of your exercise bike (because they're shit and boring compared to the real thing) that you'll stop using it after 3 days. This is a question of mind over matter, bruv. Sort it out.
Im sure this is right but at this point i really just want to drop 10kg as fast as possible, once there ill worry about getting healthy
Apart of me posting here is to get more comfortanle and try be able to leave the house with less things to be self conscious about, youre totally right though but there are big boundries for me to cross to get there