fuck the privileged cunts who live in the 1st world
the 3rd world is where it's at
>tfw $19 in my bank account but I can still buy grocery's because I'm getting paid tomorrow
>$19 in my bank account
How do people fuck up this badly?
>getting excited over a trip
Do you just not know how to save money?
It's always perplexed me when I see people I know bitching about being a "poor student", but still treating themselves expensive holidays and stuff.
Just about whatever you want to. Work out more, find different hobbies, commit to something you've been wanting to, try out some school clubs, etcetc
Being more social itself doesn't really happen, you basically become more social by building everything around 'socializing'.
why would anyone want more gay friends
fag hags, and we all know how depressing their lives are tbqhhhh
I need some advice gaygen.
So an ex potential lover of mine messages me on scruff, wondering why I suddenly stopped talking to him.
>tldr version: he never made time for me at all, I'd seen him maybe once every 3 weeks for an hour or 2 for a hookup and maybe some other stuff, always wanted to get serious. Spent more time with his friends and ex than he ever did with me, so i up and blocked him
He never got the hint about why I blocked him I guess... Do I reply with a bitchy remark and let him know, or block him and be done with it?
Or does scruff allow messages to be read after you block/hide someone
>He never got the hint about why I blocked him I guess... Do I reply with a bitchy remark and let him know, or block him and be done with it?
Where is the option to have another try?
Because i gave him several chances to improve... We saw each other for 7 months. He's a teacher so for 3 of those months he was paid to sit at home doing nothing.
Always free weekends and evenings. Yet never could make time for me. I tried to be considerate but you realize that it's not what you want.
Meeting in a bedroom every few weeks isn't a relationship... Just ask any hooker
He has a tendency to twist everything into some kind of attack and gets super defensive.
A conversation about us not seeing each as often as I want turned into an argument about me disrespecting him and being a naive child.
A conversation about me paying for every single meal we shared turned into the most Jewish argument I ever had . Despite him making twice more than me
Don't sweat it m8, just do more things you enjoy or have wanted to do. The socializing follows slowly.
When he attacks, ignore and move on. If he's mature enough, he'll realize he was retarded. Might take years, but that's life. Just deal with it as you would firing someone - tell the truth, be honest, but be swift.
I've kinda been worried lately hence why I asked what to change, half way through the first year with no one to talk to just to past the time really starts to suck, but I appreciate you replying to me.
>Practicing the death drop
>Can't land it without breaking my ass
I'll never perfect in time for my grandfather's birthdday
This isn't a right/left thing, idiot. It's a rich/poor thing. The rich don't have actual problems to distract them, so in their existential angst and retarded sensibilities they invent things to be mad about.
>they invent things to be mad about.
>mental diseases are invented
Just like you only get cancer if you want to, ammirite? I'm sure wishful thinking will make it all go away.
I feel you, but you've got a good head on your shoulders so I don't see any reason to worry.
I became isolated during my studies, but man it was like a blessing in disguise, I've never been more happy with myself as I've lost that dependency on others.
Her mustache is way too wide. Hitlers was shorter.
>mfw Obama petitions congress to give billions of dollars to cancer research
>mfw he doesn't invest that money in helping people who aren't dying
I know that feel. The only guy I've been natural with fucked my shit up and now I can't open myself to anything of the sort. I just need a good ole hug I guess.
Just let the shyness flow from you. Don't be afraid to make a cute, nervous smile and soon you'll find guys swooning over you.
Where did you pull mental illness out of?
You don't. I don't know how he got away with it. I guess he ending up in the shitter made me feel better about it. Came out on top desu.
I know that feel anon. Gay guys are scary when we are awkward and lack experience.
Aw anon. I feel bad for you.
>cute and lonely shy guy
Maybe put something out online for gay friends in your local?
That way you can have suportive friends, and they can back you up? Where are you from anyways?
Relationships are so weird for me. Is it weird that I can lobby, talk to senators, congressmen and governors like it's nothing, but I shit my pants when I try to approach someone?
It's weird being with someone that has slept with half the world when you are still an awkward lad figuring out life and stuff like that.
Nice, I have a good friend of mine who is an Aussie and he mentioned that he was talking to a Kiwi qt. Good luck, anon.
You come across as a sweet, loyal and shy guy. Those are the things I look for in someone else, since I'm also socially retarded and don't know how relationships work. Wish you all the luck, anon. I would probably steal you for myself if I were in NZ desu.
>Relationships are so weird for me. Is it weird that I can lobby, talk to senators, congressmen and governors like it's nothing, but I shit my pants when I try to approach someone?
>talk to senators, congressmen and governors like it's nothing,
you do that?
what is your job?
>I'm a fucking failure.
>Was a lobbyist and now I work as personal staff for a deputy. Next year I will hopefully start law school though.
You are not a failure. :3
>tfw all the cuties are always an ocean away from me
Just make it stop.
I never had a single relationship and I am a virgo. A-at least I'm not 20 yet, r-right?
That's because I'm literally autistic when it comes to work, but I have other issues. Never being with anyone, having a past record of depression, insecure as fuck and having a troubled pseudo attempts at a pseudo relationship. Fuck, I just want a hug. After that I think I will close myself for at least 3 years. Well, fuck me.
Both my kik and steam are dead as my penis these days. You would have more luck with my skype.
[spoiler]I was actually born in RS[/spoiler]
>lobby this bp
Post it desu.
>tbqh even if they were in the same province i'd still never go and meet them
Iktf, being shy sucks.
last time I sent the person I was dating my bp they just posted it online so posting it myself might just speed up that process tbqh
>being shy sucks
It's not even just the shyness. I can handle that, I can handle the autism others have. I just can't stand the whole awkward meeting situation. Trying to figure out if you two vibe, or whether it's a slow grow, whether the person is forever quiet or just temporarily, etc. Even if you spend months talking to this person online, when you actually meet them you still have to go through this awkward meeting.
I'd rather go in for interviews than do that shit. Just end me already
>last time I sent the person I was dating my bp they just posted it online so posting it myself might just speed up that process tbqh
Welp, I guess no qt bp before going to sleep.
>It's not even just the shyness. I can handle that, I can handle the autism others have. I just can't stand the whole awkward meeting situation. Trying to figure out if you two vibe, or whether it's a slow grow, whether the person is forever quiet or just temporarily, etc. Even if you spend months talking to this person online, when you actually meet them you still have to go through this awkward meeting.
I get you, but I suppose it's still easier, since you don't have to figure out what is the person is into, their kind of humor, if they are really into you and that sort of thing. It's still really hard, but it's easier than doing it from scratch.
>I'd rather go in for interviews than do that shit. Just end me already
A-at least you won't hear "tell me about yourself" on a date.
>A-at least you won't hear "tell me about yourself" on a date.
There are so many questions that fly around during the first date that I actually can't keep up. I just want to chill with someone at night on some empty beach or just walking around past midnight and chatting. Everyone else just seems to have this idea of 'gotta go on a dinner date to get to know the person' mentality, but dinner dates are the bane of my existence - expensive and not filling most of the time, and we wind up going for desserts elsewhere anyways.
the feels never end
you think the ride is over, and then the conductor gets on the speaker and says "tfw no bf" and suddenly you're sucked right back in, as you realize you will never get to giggle as you smash a pie you just finished decorating into your bfs face before he starts wiping whipped cream off his face and down your throat
get to it m8
you got an entire month to do so :D
I wish I lived near the beach. Cuz going to hang out at the beach would be such an easygoing first date.
But seriously tho going to dinner for a date is a bad idea. Better to do drinks or coffee or something. Drinks is best cuz it loosens you both up for conversation. It's also low commitment, but can go longer if things are going well.
Other good first date ideas are bowling or an arcade or something but it can be hard to find other people with those interests
GOAT first date, especially if they choose a time that isn't so busy. Going during peak times is pretty awful though.
Fun too, but a lot of people for some reason would rather go to the movies.. like what
>straight guy is nice and gives me attention
>can't stop thinking about it
I'm seeing him again this weekend, what should I do /gg/? I did some snooping and some read flags popped up (no gf or signs of having one, talks about beyonce, when we talked he made a joke about liking the idea of me being spread eagle) but I'm probably looking too far into it because I'm attention starved and crazy right?
wear a jock under your clothes and bend over in front of him so the strap shows desu
I have known plenty of straight guys that like to joke sexually with me about shit like that. It's all in good fun for us and is just the type of dynamic we have with each other.
Sometimes it's just a result of the straight guy loving the attention. In the end he's just a tease.
If the straight guys are your friends it's different. Straight men always play gay chicken with their friends. Anon refers to him as "straight guy" so he's prob just someone he sees from time to time, an acquaintance. I don't believe it's the same dynamic.
Starts off every night. Often twice a night. Then down to a couple times a week. Then once a week maybe 2 weeks if there are circumstances. Any less than once a week means there either are problems or there will be problems.
Hey gaygen, I've heard you guys give really good advice so please help.
Bisexual Female here: How do I get over the sexual molestation my brother put me through for years? The memories keep coming back and I want it to stop. Started when I was 7 all the way up till I was ten. Repressed memories started to flood back as of late. Like, just a few weeks ago I remembered he made us(he also did it to my twin sister) pee in cups for some fucked up reason. I never had a problem with it because when I was younger I thought It was like at the doctors office;he was merely checking it for diseases? He would also do some sexual shit but never put it in. Every single fucking day something reminds me of it. No one know's this has happened except for my sister but we haven't talked about it since he stopped. Whenever he comes over (I'm 18 still living with my mom so he comes over from time to time) he acts as if nothing happened. Sometimes I think he doesn't even remember? I'm not even mad at this point, I don't care. I just want to stop thinking about it.
>tl;dr How do I stop thinking about what he did to me?
There is plenty of free help available, you just have to look for it. You aren't helpless, put some effort into it. You don't need your parents for hotlines or anonymous groups (not 4chan)
i suppose you can only confront him about it? Putting myself in that situation i don't think i could see any other way to get closure.
Boys are all sexual degenerates in someway or another in their teens, doesn't make it ok but hes probably remorseful over the events
I don't see any logic in taking something that reduces sexual function, to increase ejaculation time. And apparently taking SSi reduces erections by a lot and can lead to permanent loss of erections...Is this something I should be worried?
it makes you last longer because it makes your dick less sensitive (thats the loss of function etc) they dont make me less horny or anything
I've had no issues with it reducing erections, i dont think thats a common thing but google will help you
I take them to help with my anxiety issues, i've taken them since i was 14 and ive havnt had any loss of erections (no change if i come off them etc)
Personally for me they make ogasms alot better, lets me reach my peak before cumming and it feels so much better :3
Well, good for you that it works like a charm. I will look upon alternatives. I am asking about this question since my last partner didn't enjoy me taking short breaks between 1-2min every 5min to recover from cumming.
Of course he made out his issues to be my fault.
Oh the delusion
Do people really use emoticons when having serious conversations?
I am a snide person, but if you're talking to someone and see them once a month and make up excuses or ignore any attempt to make time for them whenever they can never make time for you except when they are horny?
Always promises that he wants to get serious and into relationship territory and then just ignores you for another week or 2?
>tfw I will never nurse hitler back to health
>tfw I will never increase his sexdrive from asexual to normal
>tfw I will never turn Hitler from a top into a bottom
>tfw hitler will never be my bf
how y'all doing this lovely morning
university got cancelled again but i'm hoping the gym is open so i at least have something to do
changed my music tastes up after going on /mu/ lately. ;~; thinking this is a good 3x3 of my current favorites right now.
recs are always welcome.
kek just noticed that. kinda funny how niq and i are almost complete opposites when it comes to personality too. besides the gender confusion and depression of course.
word. if i could somehow justify making another guy's life harder like that i would do it but i don't think sucking dick and taking it up the ass would make up for all the baggage i carry along with me.
where are all these het rumors coming from?
i mean i've probably had more piv sex than most people here but i'm gayer than gay.
>tfw when i was black out drunk and wake up next to my fwb
i...i think I like him.
But if you're gay, then that means you like other girls.
i used to laugh at this joke before it got old...
i don't like vagina... i just had crazy denial because i was raised in a homophobic household. having sex with vag is really boring. it's terrible. i would never do it again voluntarily, at least now that i'm out.
and i'm not fem4fem. i am fem4masc...
i just have crushes on some fems because i think they're really cute. ;~; not serious crushes though.
kek yeah i really regret it. now i cant be the epitome of fem... and i'll never be a gold star gay.
worst thing is... as much as i loathed doing it... as boring and as weird as it felt... i probably had piv sex like 200+ times at the very least with two different sexual partners... from 18-20...
ah well it was fun catching up gaygen. i bid you farewell.
>dress length shirts
>skinny jeans and leggings
i want to break social norms more with my appearance... not because of the edge factor but because i think id like the way it would look.
something like this guy.
i like a lot of his outfits...
if you meet me irl i will let you touch my hair, yes.
You might not be worthy of existing, but I sure as fuck am.
>fuck a lot of fat ugly people
Reminds me of my first exbf.
I already have in a past thread.
>get super attractive thin muscular bf
>look at his porn without him knowing
>old obese ugly men all over
>get very self aware of the situation
Nothing more to say.
I don't find it particularly funny, it's just the first thing I think of whenever someone says "tried it."
He dumped me and started fucking huge fat uggos that were twice his age. He probably has AIDS now. idk I don't keep track of my exbfs. Last time I knew from word of a friend is that he moved to Kansas City, Missouri.
I didn't know how extensive the history of the word "kid" was in the English language.
Look at all those variations, origin, and connection with the name Kyd or Thomas.
>tfw I could have became a student of etymology, but I love plants much more than language.
I already do that.
In movies and tv shows etc. people enjoy being single by dating. I swear dating when your single doesn't really work. You go on one date, if it's good you go on another, and then before you know it you're in a relationship. That doesn't sound like being single to me tbph
Any other Brit anons incredibly annoyed that they live in the least attractive nation in Europe?