>>5568791 I can never tell a girl's a lesbian unless they're super butch, but can figure out a guy is gay even if they act pretty straight. My gaydar is useless. But I'm pretty femme and no one ever seems to realize I'm gay
>>5568796 Trends that are cringey: complaining about someone starting a second lesgen thread when the first lesgen thread is winding down. there are 20+ MtF threads, and ~4 gaymen generals. Are you really upset that there are two lesbian threads on LGBT?
>>5568842 Not for me. Mine is bomb. >Walls see through >Waterproof >Unbreakable >Resists light, heat and cold >Guaranteed 20 years I detected 5 girls that looked straight as fuck just by the way they acted, I'm a baller.
>>5568791 Honestly whining about being heartbroken/single is a pretty normal lesbian activity. I guess that's cheating to know a lesbian's a lesbian when she's talking about her ex girlfriend. And button up shirts worn casually. Not just flannel but any button up worn around is usually by a lesbian.
Stereotypes I fit >love home improvement >love being a home body just staying in and cooking w gf >have dog >good at pool
>be me, lesbian student in maiden cave >going strong with new years "learn to cook" goal >trying 4th recipe, chickpea salad >recipe calls for mayo sauce >hate mayo >replace with greek yoghurt + tzatziki mix >never tried either before >notice the yoghurt is extremely thick while mixing >finish salad >eat salad + tzatziki mix in tortillas >collapse and die >autopsy shows acute greek yoghurt overdose
How can anything be this thick and why am I not more disgusted with it.
And to that, I ended up like I did with the 3rd recipe, with a bowl large enough to feed a family for 10 years. At least it's edible, which the 3rd one barely was.
So lesgen, I tried to have sex with the girl I'm into but she turned me down. It can't be helped! At least I tried (especially seeing that I'm not usually one for making the first move). Mildly disappointed but happy I gave it a go.
>>5569710 With what we're learning about the epigenome, it's not even true that identical twins are 100% the same in every way. It's not at all unheard of for identical twins to have vastly different developments, like one having a disorder while the other did not.
I wear flannel, play softball, have a short mohawkish haircut, work in utilities, play guitar...I don't know, I think I hit every stupid lesbo stereotype. Pretty much seeing a chick who looks like me pings my gaydar. Straight-looking women don't, even if they're the gayest thing to come to gaytown.
>>5568791 >Tell me lesgen, what are some lesbian stereotypes that exist
>Acting like a boy/be boyish >Having masculine interests Always found to be true for me
>what sets off your gaydar?
Girls that dress vulgarly, like showing off body parts a lot etc, to me they obviously want male gaze when they do this, since for het girls showing off their body is the "easy-way" to get attention from males Or the ones that make fun of lesbianism, like act like they are with their girl friends, but it's for obvious reason I think
>>5570531 >like act like they are with their girl friends
I did used to do this back in middle school. However I think any girl still doing it past school age is just an immature het girl.
I use this to my advantage when I can. Like if I'm not sure if a girl is gay or not I just flirt with her but in that way straight girls might flirt with each other. See if I catch a more interesting look from her with it. That way I don't have to come out and make it weird if she's not interested but if she is it's "hey haha surprise totally gay too!"
>>5570645 >I did used to do this back in middle school. Dam, in middle school I was 100% sure I was str8, girls seemed totally bland to me (Didn't realise that acting/dressing like a boy and fantaisizing about being a man having sex counted as symptoms of the gay)
>>5568945 That's only true if you count all of the /pol/ threads about how trannies are invading and should be killed and aren't real anyway, blah blah. All that divisionist shit is just to make LGBT politically weaker.
>>5570673 Also I guess But I sure am gay And I think I did this because this is basically what a child would understand: ->I like girls ->Girls like boys ->If I like girls I have to be a boy ->Boys thrust girls ->Imma thrust
>>5570655 >acting/dressing like a boy and fantaisizing about being a man Glad I'm not the only one. I'l always remember when me and my best girl friend were playing some scenes from Titanic in elementary school. I should have kissed her back then.
>>5569382 What was the point of this post? It contributed nothing. It advanced nothing. It didn't even really say anything about yourself. This post could not exist and absolutely no changes to the conversation are made. You're worse than a shitposter. You label yourself and then act utterly self-serving and non-consequential. Are you like this in real life too? Do you just add nothing to conversations, not even bile? Is your voice just a brief chime to remind people that you exist (although just barely)?
Either start saying something with your posts or stop posting entirely, because as it is you are effectively just rushing us ever so slightly closer to bump limits with your ghostposting shitshow. Take a position. Change the conversation. Ask meaningful questions. Be a rock in the river of discourse, you stupid nigger. The only thing worse than a namefag is a namefag that doesn't do anything.
>>5570655 >Dam, in middle school I was 100% sure I was str8, girls seemed totally bland to me
Same except girls seems too bitchy for me to date. But then everyone was bitchy in middle school. I remember having a boyfriend and I thought he was annoying and bitchy. Also I was probably bitchy too. Oh middle school.
>emo and such shit makes every emo/alt kid think they're all bisluts >fall out with emo kids, get called poser for not answering correctly whether mcr or afi was more emo >whatever >hang with slutty girls >slutty girls are nice >slutty girls teach me how to straighten my hair and share cute diy face masks and teach me how to use eye liner >don't actually try to make me slutty we just talk shit, tell jokes, etc >with my less acne, fuller set of tits, and nice straight hair attract some dudes >pick the most popular one cause fuck it why not >barely kiss after he pressures me after weeks >then asks if we're ever gonna fuck >in 8th grade mind you >nah dude >he fucks around with some other girls >i barely give a fuck since he annoyed me >his friends try dating me >nah this dating shit is lame I'll wait till high school >slutty friend and I "fake" date >we actually do make out a lot, hold hands, share chairs or sit on each others laps >weird tingly sensations in my vagina >I'm gonna just ignore that >she's sometimes dating this guy that obviously thinks it's hot >she's also a serious cunt to him so I think he just puts up with it for how cute/slutty she is >I think she's cool but tell her I'd never date her she's such a bitch to the guys she dates >"awe I wouldn't be mean to you if we dated like this, look how nice I am to you" >go to diff magnet high school than her later >thought we were gonna go to the same but nope >some drama with her and them girls and those folks from middle school I miss and just move away from >look her up later she's a preggers bislut >oh well
>>5568791 Button up shirts, short hair, masculine behaviour. The usual.
Literally the only thing that sets off my gaydar is if they're with their girlfriend. Otherwise my mind interprets their gay attributes as them being hipster or something. I think I do it on purpose to a degree, because I have a lot of self doubt and I don't think I'm good enough to have a girlfriend.
>>5568796 >>5568937 Yeah honestly, what is the point of these new threads? /lesgen/ has a sharp increase in quality once it stops hitting the front page because then the only people participating are the actual lesbians refreshing and not people wandering in to troll, and we've already gotten all the terrible bislut and trans arguments out of the way. Now I barely have to scroll down to see "no one is born gay" and I don't have the words to describe how incredibly uninterested I am in this discussion. Plus it's not like this board moves quickly enough for the old thread to be under threat of disappearance so.
>>5570246 I wish. Anyway there was context for it... and actually she had done exactly what you described to me before.
>>5570218 Urgh fine >been friends for a while, no attraction initially >see friend one day with new haircut, dem tingly feels >friend doesn't know i like women >begin intensive flirting regime, probably thinks I'm just taking the piss >get wasted one night, nearly fuck (along with a mutual friend) >still flirting >months pass >get wasted, nearly fuck but i call it off because I'm an awkward fuck (amongst other things - mostly that she was making out with some guy all night) >time passes, we drift, still have some residual feels but friend is making no effort to stay in touch so i start to give up >we have a looong chat one night and she's crushing hard on someone. That's okay - I'm mostly over feels by this point but would be happy to fwb or just a one off. Still a little pissed that i didn't take the opportunity when i had it. >fuck it >not too late to get some >she invites me out >usual recipe of booze, flirting (maybe just teasing on reflection), bed and cuddling >2drunk4sex >sober up a bit >start caressing >move south into pantaloons >ANON STOP >NOT TODAY >o-okay........ >;_;
>>5571264 >Damn i sounded way cooler pre-greentext. Not really I thought you straight up asked her to fug, sort of sounded like a desperate white male to me But at least you were sort of making out so it wasn't that awkward
>>5570817 It kinda just hurts. A lot of my friends made some bad fucked up decisions in their lives. Movies and tv always make life long friends seem like they both just grow up perfect. The reality is that 9 out of 10 people are gonna fuck up in some big way at some points early on and being friends early on means you're definitely gonna see a lot of it. People you care about messing up and there's nothing you can do to stop it.
>>5571743 Not that anon, but in all seriousness it happens and the general population doesn't take it seriously. But even in teacher-student cases no one really gets in trouble. >tfw you had your chance to get with a young female teacher at your school but listened to the voice in your head saying its a bad idea
>>5572053 That reminds me of that British teacher who fucked her female student for a year and got arrested. But she got the lightest sentence and the judge wasn't going to force them to stay apart once she got out because they seemed to be in love. Girl's parents were pissed.
>>5572213 >went to an all-girls' middle school >complaining You fucking nigger, just because you were (and probably still are) a beta fuck that couldn't land a cute teacher ass in middle school doesn't mean that you could have gotten laid at an expensive private all-girls' school with lesbian teachers.
I once had a chance with a sexy MILF professor, but my autism prevented me from realizing it at the time
>be in art history class >have sexy older lady as professor >be nerdy and become teachers pet >she invites me to lectures and art exhibits >she tells me to go to her office one day i don't have classes >whynot.gif >she wants to know what i think of some books for next semester >gives me tea and cookies >sit there in her office reading >she keeps looking at me >i just focus on the books >tell her what i think >we talk for a while >she gives me some books from her doctoral classes >realize later at home I could've done something >fuck my lack of social skills >enroll on her class next semester >some other dude is giving the class >never see her again
I'm a bi male, but I hang with a lot of lesbians (it also kind of sucks because I'm really into dyke-ish women, probably more so than men) and here is what I've noticed among my les friends. >they actually really do love flannel. >they own large dogs >video games >smoking weed >gages >pixie cuts >liking Miley Cyrus >liking David Bowie. >snapbacks
>>5573232 Woah woah woah no not all. I'd maybe make you touch my crotch a bit but nothing that degenerate. I'd of course buy you dinner afterwards and insist on changing your predatory ways, desist from such actions, and order you a nice lava cake dessert.
>ex gets in touch with me yesterday after not talking for over a year >"I wanted to say hello, see what you are up to, see if you were even still in X.." etc >can't stop thinking about when we used to date >hate myself because i'll only ever be good enough to be a fuck and chuck for her >haven't found anyone on the dating apps i'm on recently >will definitely meet up with her if she asks
I fit the stereotype of unnaturally colored hair. It's pretty much the exact shade and length as in the pics so not to the level of blue undercut stereotype. I have also have a very strong personality and I don't think people think of lesbians as being submissive and timid so I fit that.
Short hair and flannel have gone from lesbian to hipster aesthetics so that does not clue me in at all. I would say looking into my direction multiple times followed by compliments about my appearance but since I wear makeup, dresses, take care of my hair, etc, I mostly assume it's straight girls who are into fashion and passionate about "girls complimenting girls uwu!!! stop girl hate!!!" but it still makes me feel good as a lesbian.
>>5572728 I teach violin and there's this girl learning guitar that I always teased cause she is obviously gay. I'm not sure if she realized it but her smile when I start playfully flirting was too damn adorable. Sadly she's like 5 or 6 years younger so I was just gonna stick at the teasing level... But now I had to change my schedule and I don't see her anymore...
>>5574451 I'm not fat, just have really big boobs. I'm pretty slim actually, which is kind of the problem. A bigger size that fits my chest sits enormous on me. And my usual size doesn't button up in my chest area. Not only fatties have big tits you jelly
>fat >short guy hair >wear men's clothing >dress like I don't give a fuck >don't shave legs >always wear baseball cap >aggressive, loudmouthed, frequently angry >resting bitch face All of them, basically.
>mfw people still do a double-take when I mention an ex-gf or indicate that I date women
I can't decide whether I'm butch or femme. Help me, /lesgen/?
>very short >very feminine facial features >short hair >basically never wear make-up, can't even walk on high heels, but dress in a somewhat feminine manner otherwise >cute feminine voice >no breasts, but wide hips >masculine interests (fishing etc.) >loud and opinionated
>>5575746 4chan isn't a perfect representation of the entire LGBT community. You're working on total non-logic, just spazzing out about shit that doesn't matter to antagonize a group that didn't do anything to you. Chill out. So there's more trannies on the reject imageboard with the infamous fetish for traps, what a surprise that they're here having anxiety attacks and not out in the real world going to clubs or joining sports teams or following a larger and more visible website.
It's not like this board is fast enough to care about the number of threads that any particular letter gets.
>>5576362 I don't know really, To be honest I didn't think they did, I've never ever seen an interracial lesbian couple in real life where I live I rather thought american gays/lesbians tended to date between their races (despite the killing and all)
>>5576390 >Plus, blacks and arabs pretty much hate each other. I often hear this but really it depends, and I think it's false on the majority Factually it seems like they actually get along Maybe their slur each others behind their back, like straight girls who knows
>>5576390 They don't. Arabs feel superior to the blacks for some retarded reason. Note though that a lot of Arabs are black, but really Arabs just hate everything that is not them or like them. Except blondes.
But you have to take into consideration that those are the uneducated or uncultured fucks only which are a rather big chunk. The rest are chill really.
>>5576471 >I saw more than once groups of black and arab girls insult each other, or even fight. Doesn't astonish me desu But I don't think the hate is directed at a group really, I mean they often fight against people of their own races, probably as much as against other races
She's an attractive girl, maybe not everyone's cup of tea but that's just a matter of taste.
That comment makes you look like a delusional cow that's bitter about being alone, surfing the webs stuffing her face and bitching about how people can't appreciate her vibrant personality just because it's buried under a layer of blubber.
>>5576608 Pretty quick to spook at the shadow of Tumblr, huh? You're like a rabbit. Everything is a threat, and any real shock can kill you. Fuck off, it's her pose that makes her look like she has a waist, the woman is rectangular and underweight.
And it's really not my problem that you don't know what "curve" and "underweight" mean without your petty euphemisms.
Not that anon, but that girl is not underweight. She has a perfectly normal frame, sure she'll never have curves like for example a Latin girl, but she has nice delicate curves fit for her race. Some people like that, maybe you don't, but guess what, nobody gives a fuck. Most people would consider her attractive.
And this is 4chan, we don't react nicely to Tumblr type bs. Which is actually starting to spew into mainstream culture, and it does frighten me, but for good reason. It's toxic, more so than our shitposting could ever be.
If you don't like it here, go back to the hole you crawled from. Nobody will miss you.
>>5577023 MtF of course. If I can't compliment them on their tits and hair and all the lovely girly things, they're not much use to a woman loving dyke. I'd totes be fine with dating a MtF, dependent of course on her personality. I don't want any tranny drama.
>>5577189 The reminds me >hanging with loud flamming fag friend >see what looks like 2 girls making out from a distance >he goes "awe lesbians how adorable" loudly >one turns, sure looks kinda like a dyke >other turns, looks like just a fag with long hair >he then goes "oops nah just straights again get a haircut man" >extra angry glares from the dude >oh loud fag friend
Now I'm laughing thinking what if that was just some unpassing transbian
>>5577003 4chan has been my hole for more than a decade. I know things like that make you uncomfortable, because how could anyone ever not agree with you unless they were some terrible outsider, but you need to get over it. There was nothing Tumblr about the conversation until the shitposter started off on the anti-Tumblr routine and implying at a ludicrous pace. Which you are also doing. Why is that, anon? Why are you in such a tizzy?
And I'm glad you can recognize that Latina are top tier.
>wear button downs and plaid to work constantly >oversized sweaters and leggings to class everyday >never wear make up >almost always just throw hair into a bun or ponytail because lazy >people somehow surprised that I'm gay A guy at the cafe I always go to asked me out today, and when I turned him down, he pressed me for why. Said I was gay and he told me I didn't have to lie and to tell him the real reason.
>>5578297 So would I count as femme then since the bar has lowered that much? I've never thought as myself as such because I don't wear makeup or heels. >>5578331 >>5578301 I just left after that. It just sucks, man, because we would always have good conversations since I usually come in around right before his break. He was pretty cool. Now I feel like he hates me and I shouldn't come back for a bit.
>>5574652 How can you have bi-girl and les friends without them being SJWs though? We un-SJW queer girls are the minority, for that reason I don't have any friends who aren't males (1 gay, 1 straight, 1 bi, 1 FTM) aside from 1 asexual female. Wat do?
>>5578431 Nahh, come back. It's not your problem. If he is bothered he should fuck off not you. You aren't obligated to indulge any of it really, and maybe he'll become less of a sour puss about it and you can be good friends.
>>5578201 >tell him the reason I would never use me being gay as an excuse. Yes I only like females. But no, even if I was straight I'd have no interest in you. Simply tell them that the truth - it's because he's an ugly, annoying, moron.
If a guy asks you to hang out and he clearly thinks it's a date and you do not, do you feel the need to make it explicit or do you let it go?
I usually let it be obvious through my body language and conversation topics that it's platonic. There is no (in my opinion) actual deception on my part, and it's not like there's some guarantee of sex or even a second date when straight people hang out so I mostly feel like it's a non issue. I never lie about how I feel if it explicitly comes up either.
I'm visiting a new city for a week, a guy approached me in a cafe today and after we talked for a while, he asked if I would want to get drinks with him before I leave. I agreed. I am never going to see this dude again so I feel like it would be kind of stupid to say "by the way, this isn't a date" because just on a purely geographic level, this shit isn't happening.
So yeah. Thoughts on when you should tell guys that there's no chance versus when you can just spend time with another human being? I don't want to avoid friendships with 49% of the population.
>>5577767 I've been here for almost a decade. Someone here shitting on Tumblr at the slightest provocation is no different than a Yankee's fan shitting on a Red Sox's fan, only that in this case there's more than just a rivalry, there's an ideological reason for it.
She didn't even mention Tumblr, you were the one that got all weird about it. Some Korean girl is hot, you bitch about how she's not "curvy", anon reacts like any /fit/izen would, you go on a rant and bring that other shithole into it...
I just got into it because she's not underweight, and is as curvy as someone with that frame could be, considering Asians are not like other races. She's objectively hot, specially since this place has a high rate of people infected with yellow fever. You just seem salty about the girl being hot for some reason. And you did use some arguments that would seem more in place in Tumblr, we are for the most part NEETs we don't care that much about style outside of /fa/ (besides some art director put that shit on her) and "curvy" is fat chick code for rolls of lard.
And why do I bother replying? Because I have nothing better to do with my sad life.
P.S. The girl I'm dating is Latina, she has some top tier hips. Usually I'm more into white or asian chicks. But such is life.
>>5578570 There is genuinely, nothing more disgusting than an ftm. mtfs I can understand, everyone should want to be female. But ftms ruin their bodies with literal poison, they need to return to the light before they wake up one day and realize they've wasted their lives trying to be a fat, hairy abomination instead of the perfect woman they were meant to be.
>>5577023 I don't think I could date a trans woman. Unless, I guess, she was so far into the transition that...Actually you know what, idk where I was going with that.
Trans women are a no go for me. It's not even just the penis. Just. I'm a lesbian. I like women. I like everything about them. It's an all-encompassing thing. It's not just the boonbs & vagina or the softness or the roundness. It's everything.
So I thought I was going to have my period because it's typically in the middle of the month, as I expected I had spotting but then - nothing. What does it mean? Am I dying? I never even touched a boobie...
>>5578968 There are a million reasons that your body might skip your period, and a missed period on its own is certainly nothing to worry about. It could be due to a change in diet/nutrition, medication, climate, or weight, it could be a result of stress and anxiety. It's not that uncommon for me personally to have 11 periods a year and I am healthy. It's just a quirk of biology, you know? Missed periods happen, but if it happens against next month, might want to check in with your gyno.
>>5579042 I found out that the daughter of a family friend is gay. She is gorgeous, but we never went past greeting. It is pretty awkward since both of us are in the closet to our families and it was quite unexpected. I was really shocked cause she looks and acts so straight my gaydar never picked any hint.
>>5578968 >tfw having first period of the year Only thing I hate about my period is that some days before my breasts hurt like HELL for around 4 days and I can't even stand touching them myself, also the breast tissue becomes hard for some reason and they feel like muscle, not breast. I almost don't have cramps, though.
>>5579084 Anon it isnt easy since I know her. And I am a goof, the kind who gets hyper and makes ridiculous jokes most of the time. She is 3-4 years older, elegant and shit, and apparently also horny af as other friends told me.
I have dated but never really fucked girls as I used to have issues. Therapist and shit now got my shit together.
Point is, you see the awkwardness of just talking about her when I am crushing on her and knowing how opposite we are. Plus, I am never drunk around her to be a smooth charming motherfucker as I only see her in uni.
>>5579120 You'd be surprised how many elegant type girls like goofs, they find it refreshing. And since you know her and her family you have an insight you don't get with random girls, use that to your advantage.
You say you got over whatever issues you had, go for it. If you see her at uni that's also a plus.
You have all kinds of bonus points already. Just ask her out for drinks after classes or something if you feel like you need to, just don't get shitfaced.
>>5579187 any pairing that happens in a yuri can happen in real life. im really into goth/occult/punk weirdo look stuff and my gf is just a cute short girl and we both really love the variety we give each other both aesthetically and in regards to our personality. sometimes opposites attract, it just depends if both people really enjoy being with an opposite. you need the normal basics, to click a little, but everything beyond that is just to taste.
>>5579241 Ah, she had that phase actually as well, only thing left from that is her preference for darker colors usually, and the dozen of magnificent piercings of her ears only. The perfect collection of rings. It is such a turn on.
>>5579260 ive never actually gotten a piercing because every time i tried something horrible would happen. turned out okay though because my gf is such a googoo vanilla normie she cant stand piercings and body mod stuff.
i bet it does look great though, a lot of ear piercings on an otherwise normal girl gives just the right amount of allure. they can help make the ear a little extra sensitive too.
>>5579294 but my girlfriend is a degenerate, thats why she wears a collar and lets me beat her and its what brought us together. shes just normie vanilla when it comes to fashion and societal norms, and i really appreciate the fact that she loves me because of my disdain for them. we balance each other out.
>>5579042 Yesterday mom introduced me to the lesbian at her work. She wasn't trying to hook us up it was just this "oh wow small world my daughter is a lesbian too you know her right?" kinda thing.
She was nice. I thought she was pretty, had that vitiligo but it looked nice on her. But she was quiet cause shit was awkward with my mom and also older than me by a good 5 years and either way I'm possibly dating this other girl right now. Idk it was weird.
>>5579345 Get it right away for one, duh. But other than that ice cold water and dish soap, dab don't rub. Let that soap and cold just sit for a minute on the blood. Something about the enzyme-breakers in dish soap working to break up the enzymes in blood, cold water always cause hot will set a blood stain. There's usually some enzyme-breakers in regular laundry soap I think it's just more concentrated in dish soap considering dishes see more tough food/enzyme having stains and people just expect to see right away clean from doing dishes than laundry. Def don't use bleach right away, you'll fuck up your clothes. Some heavier duty things for set in stains are ammonia, salts or baking soda, peroxide, along with cold water but those all risk fucking up your clothes in other ways and personally the salts/soda never did shit for me. Bleach or peroxide can work if you're not too concerned about lightening the clothes because it's already light. Never fucked with ammonia. So I just stick with as quick as possible hitting a blood stain with dish soap and cold water.
Can't believe I used to buy those stupid useless little tide2go things that did fuck all when I could have just brought a travel size thing of dawn.
>>5579042 Idk if you can really say we 'met' but I served this cool lesbian at work the other day. She was hanging out with an obviously bi chick and they were drinking wine out of a water bottle. We were all lightly/jokingly flirting and it was a good time, but it was just at work.
>>5578571 >If a guy asks you to hang out and he clearly thinks it's a date and you do not, do you feel the need to make it explicit or do you let it go? it really isn't that hard. just think, "what would you like for a straight woman to do if you were hitting on her because she pinged your gaydar?"
I would never approach a stranger in a cafe, unless she pinged my gaydar, and I thought she was pretty. I would never ask an almost-stranger to get drinks with me if my intentions were 100% platonic. Guys are pretty much the same. They aren't MORE friendly and gregarious with strangers, they approach because no one approaches them and that's the best way they can meet people. Sure, some tiny minority of people do go out of their way to platonically pick-up potential friends among strangers in public settings, but that's super unusual.
>Thoughts on when you should tell guys that there's no chance versus when you can just spend time with another human being? I don't think you have a moral obligation to tell him you're gay, but you're a fool if you don't think he wants to sleep with you. You can still be friends with guys, even guys who you met because they thought you were het and hit on you (if they're cool about it when they get rejected).
>There is no (in my opinion) actual deception on my part My brothers and guy friends are pretty adamant that guys are thick as hell about social cues. It isn't smart to wait for a guy to ask "oh, hey btw, are you a lesbian?" because that doesn't happen. If I think a guy likes me, I consider it sort of a lie of omission to not let him know that i'm gay or just not interested in sexing/dating him.
>he asked if I would want to get drinks with him At this point I hope that I would have said something like, "yeah, that sounds like a lot of fun. if you buy first round I'll be your lesbian-wingman. I'll get you so laid, you'll be drowning in it." I try to disclose "I'm a lesbian" in a way that doesn't say "this conversation is over".
No offense but you sound like someone who suffers from a lot of anxiety or something. Way too much thought put into this simple social interaction. Going out with people is how we build relationships, whether platonic or romantic. There's nothing wrong with being open-minded and meeting new people. If the dude has other intentions then so be it; we can't live our lives based on what we might perceive to possibly be someone's intentions. And if he has any level of emotional stability/maturity whatsoever, like most adults, he could go into it seeing if the "date" could be something more and graciously accept when it is not. There's no burden on this chick to interpret a social interaction and hold this dude's hand through any potential emotional turmoil. Christ.
no offense but you sound like someone who suffers from reading comprehension problems
>And if he has any level of emotional stability/maturity whatsoever, like most adults, he could go into it seeing if the "date" could be something more and graciously accept when it is not. >I don't think you have a moral obligation to tell him you're gay... You can still be friends with guys, even guys who you met because they thought you were het and hit on you (if they're cool about it when they get rejected).
>>5580823 She's right though. Guys are not interested in friendship with a random woman, if he asked her it's not in a platonic way.
If you accept that kind of invitation you should make it clear you're not interested in hooking up, it's kinda deceitful otherwise. And if he still wants to hang out, you should be careful he's not just trying to get you intoxicated in order to fuck you anyway.
Would you like to pay for a date with some girl and get your hopes up just to have her say: "tee hee, anon i had a great time, I can't wait to tell my bf about that thing you said", or something like that?
My kinda homophobic co-worker caught me with her daughter in the backroom at work this weekend.
It was pretty bad, I mean we were kinda aggressively going at it and she walked in like, mid sloppy kiss with hands up shirts and down pants. She had my jeans unbutton and unzipped and like part way down.
It was all around a compromising position to be caught in and made a lot worse by the fact I'm kinda scared of her mom already because she is jerk.
She has texted me a few times to ensure me that she is not dead and I don't have to work with her mom like, ever, but it still sorta sucks.
>>5580753 >>5580792 >>5580867 Okay, thank you. I guess it is pretty stupid to treat meeting up for drinks as an opportunity to make a genuine friend, but if I am friendly and clear about that beforehand, that can still be what the meet up turns into.
For now, is this lame or acceptable:
"Would you be okay if this was just a friendly thing tomorrow? Especially since I'm only in town for the week, and I don't want to mislead you or make you feel like you've wasted your time/money. If you're not interested then I completely understand and won't take offense but if you are, I would love to still meet up and get to know each other."
>>5577023 >Would you rather get with a non-passing (i.e in girlmode) FtM, or a passing MtF?? Interesting question I think I'd rather be with a passing MtF(SRS'd of course), I want to be with a girl that loves her feminity, that goes in the path of her femininity, even though she was physically a boy before The "thought" she was a boy sort of puts me off, but I mean when I see a girl it's her body/ aesthetics that attracts me (and turn me on) even though sometimes some might not feel like girls inside I'd still be attracted to them, I couldn't read their mind The outside is something that misleads our naive human minds, we shouldn't give it too much power
>news today says rare cosmic event in UK this week, wherein you can see five planets in the sky just before dawn >live in Edinburgh near a dormant volcano- imagine going up there with gf for dawn to see the planets >tfw no gf to take on cool dates
>>5581992 Then I'll let time get me and make me a bad person Until I become like you I'll keep on defending these "disgusting trannies" >>5582001 >it never was my choice to be a fucking dyke I meant choose to express >because becoming a tranny is a choice having sex with girls is too
>>5582027 And treating dysphoria is a choice, but being intersex isn't. Same thing, nignog. That's why they're in the acronym. They have the same psychosocial experience, they're conflated with being gay, they've been there the whole time. The babydyke might be bad at expressing it, but she's right: there's absolutely no reason to shit on them, especially because what they go through is so similar.
Stop being so aggressive and controlling. It's disgustingly masculine.
>>5582053 Most trannies aren't intersex and don't have the biological need to have a determined sex, since they already have it. Intersex people are another thing and shouldn't be shoved along with tranny degenerates.
I don't care if trannies get shit on as much or more than homos, I am a separate entity from the LGBTJAKZMD movement and don't give a shit.
>>5582081 I thought it more like, not doing what you don't want to be done to you
And if you think it's a choice to be a tranny, you think it's actually possible for you to make that choice? Sometimes I feel like it's a choice for some of them, but I think I feel that way because I always envied boys but went over it but it seems like I'm a cis dyke, and they're not
>>5582081 This. You don't need to give a shit about what people think about you. There will always be some to dislike you because you are short or have red hair or whatever. I'm a lesbian, some people don't like me for this, so what? I don't care.
>>5582095 I only apply the golden rule to objective things like human rights and the most basic ethics. Anything that is subjective, like offending someone or breaking their feelings, I simply don't give a fuck even if they do the same to me.
And yes, I could start taking T and become a tranny without having the tranny mental illness, it would be my choice to do or not do so.
>>5582113 >human rights first rule of DRMC : every men is free and equal in rights >I could start taking T and become a tranny without having the tranny mental illness Maybe it's because you think you could do it but you don't that you think it's a choice for them
>>5572098 >tfw my games teacher had a thing like this with a lass in my year >rural community >all anyone talked abt for months >the lass's parents were apparently complicit >they still talk to each other
>>5582072 So you're just parasitic then. Get the benefits from the effort, still make it harder for everyone else. Good job, asscunt. And yeah, trannies are intersex. That's where their whole delusion deal comes from: parts of the nervous system are just flipped to the other side.
Actually, chimerism and intersexuality might be way more common than previously believed. We're finding that out due to more frequent and better sequenced gene testing. It's just that most of the time it doesn't effect any systems in a significant way, so it goes unnoticed.
>>5582211 Taking those hormones is a great way to make yourself suicidal. You are just amazingly ignorant about the world, overeager to discard facts and research because they don't match what you expect. That's completely backwards.
>>5582213 I'm not even out as a homosexual so keep assuming things, and even if I were, the people "fighting" for the LGBFBWGAHEKTOP shouldn't be entitled to my greatfulness, since that's not how it works.
And as always, you trannies read one study and suddenly appeal to authority left and right (and not even giving sources this time, I'm surprised). We still don't know at a 100% what causes the GID.
>>5582211 >when it comes to that I don't make a distinction. then why are you deliberately insulting people based on what they are, aren't they your equal >Taking hormones is completely a choice and I'm certain I could do it. I bet I could do it too to be honest, but it seems like tranny feel the same thing as us but 10 time stronger I mean some suicide because they can't take it hormones, I don't think I would, would you
>>5568791 I'm straight. I'm ok with lesbians but... when i'm far away of they.... they cause me such a problem in my mind. when i just notice about one girl is a lesbian it make me depress... I'm not homophobic but i dont know why this is happening...I think i want to be with that girls... I dont know is weird. I think maybe she's never been with a real man but this is inaccurate because every person is different, there are girls that just spend their life's thinking in stupid shit, they are ignorant, and that make they turn lesbian (not all Lgirls for sure.) I have luck with bisluts but when i get noticed about she kissed a girl or had sex with a girl i stop talking her..... I hate this world.
>>5582297 >Because feeling insulted is completely subjective. Insulting means showing no respect, and every human is equal thus should be treated with respect >some suicide after taking hormones. Your point? Probably because some are really unstable as you say, But I'm pretty sure some suicide after transitionning because they don't pass and realise they'll never be accepted as the opposite sex
>>5582350 >I treat everyone with disrespect until they demonstrate they are people to be respected. You're making up your own rule then >A lot of trannies that pass suicide Trannies are not mentally unstable people Other letters of lgbt kill themselves too If they are mentally unstable then we also are, and I don't feel like we both are
>>5582363 Pedophiles want being accepted because they say that they feel like kid's when they is trying to flirt a child. There's no science or reason in this because their bodies says they have 20-40+ years. Transexual want to being accepted just because they dress like woman's and act like womans but there is no science or reason to explain this for real.
So.... Why i have to respect a person who want to make their reality as they want even when that is a wrong reality. They want to force us to accept their choosen sex. Pedophiles want to force us to accept their choosen age. This is stupid.
really almost anything you write is fine. haven't you ever made friends with a straight girl that you were attracted to? it's like that, but the attraction equation is inverted. act on those assumptions. simple as that.
>>5582400 This, and fags and dykes want to have sex with their own sex even though they can't, you need a dick and a vagina, they can't even make baby what the fuck seriously I mean even though some people are sterile, this is only because of a problem, gays not being able to breed is the 'normal way' of things Like a grown man having sex with a kid or a tranny feeling like they're the opposite sex, gays want to make their reality as they want even when that is a wrong reality
>>5582391 not in nearly the same numbers, Lesbians and gays kill themselves more then any other minority group, other then trans people. Abuse rates for lesbian and gays are also higher then the rest of the people in their community/race/economic class/ per capita, again trans people are abused and killed more per capita then the rest of LGBT community, but there's a correlation between suicides and abuse.
>>5582417 I'm agree with you. LGBT just think in one thing: sex. LBGT never make some scientific achievement LGBT never help homeless or poor people LGBT never thinks about the real world problems LGBT NEVER THINKS THAT WE ARE HUMANS AND WE ARE GOING TO OVER SOMEDAY.
In conclussion: LGBT is not important, just ignore gay people..... But when gay people want to force you to accept their "own thinking of freedom" you have the right of insult they.
>>5582412 >subjective It's not, it's clear cut I think I know what is it that wants to bend things into whatever >they have a mental illness. They don't and you neither You told me you could transition if you wanted to Why would you do such a thing, you're a woman, aren't those signs of mental instability? Why do you want to reject them this bad? What's so wrong about becoming the opposite gender
>>5582403 Ehh I see what you're saying, but I never entertain the notion that a girl is actually interested in me so there is no situation where she would have to reject me or make her feelings clear. Unlike most dudes, I have no "agenda" when I'm talking to girls so there's not much to invert. Thanks for the advice though!
>>5582446 My post was sarcastic acutally But yeah you're right >LGBT just think in one thing: sex Of course it does, like the paintball club think only one thing : paintball and the chest club only think one thing : chest Why would the chest club care about scientific research? >currently hoping you won't be dumb enough to not understand my point and make me elaborate
>>5582462 But you understand that paintclub doesn't force all whole world to accept their paintclub rules for all paintball players, and they dont want to kill or put in jail the people who doesnt like their rules.
>>5582470 I don't know if you're that anon I've been talking to but It's the same about being gay, then I could say that fucking men in the butt or never being a wife with kids is not an healthy way of life People do what they want with their body It's not yours, It's not state's it's theirs
>>5582448 Respect is completely subjective, it varies from countries to countries, societies to societies, cultures to cultures, individual to individual. What you do to show respect towards an American person might not be the same if you want to show respect towards a Japanese.
They do. They want to become the other sex and remove their current sexual organs. You don't need to have GID (aka being mentally ill) to transition.
>>5582481 It's ok, but you have to land. You can make whatever you want to your body. But you're gonna be the same as when you born. You're gonna have the same chromosomes as when you born. Man. Trannies are wrong. It's just an stage of our human race.
>>5582491 >What you do to show respect towards an American person might not be the same if you want to show respect towards a Japanese. But you can't discourage yourself because there is 'too much way of showing respect and you can't know which one is the right one' >You don't need to have GID (aka being mentally ill) to transition. Maybe from our point of view, I definitely identify to what you say, but I think they are living something different
>>5582460 More like, you don't talk to someone without a reason to do so. Be mindful of why others would start talking to you. This can be applied to everything. People at school might want tutoring, a coworker might want you to cover their shift, and a dude most likely wants to have sex... people are selfish and don't do anything that doesn't represent some sort of gain.
>>5582518 Don't worry anon, when those fucking sandniggers take over Europe, and then the west, we will all be executed as the degenerates we are, never mind what letter of the LGBTASWXQPC we belong to.
>>5582538 I think we can live friendly and together with they but they have to know that not all people have to be agree with they. And they have to know that they are still humans. They still can make mistakes
>>5582504 Why do you think about human's race, We lick vaginas even though we have one, and refuse to get penetrated by males, do we care about its survival? There is no 'stage' we feel feel this way like they do
>>5582651 Haha that's your thinking. If sex is so important for you it's ok. But this is ignorance, and LBGT is boosting this thinking. I cant generalize with gay people. There are gay people who deserve my respect.... But i just cant accept the LGBT wont accept people who isn't agree with they..... I think LGBT have to be a nation with their own country and their own name.
Yeah, I know how you feel, their retarded culture has invaded all other countries, and not only when it comes to gay culture... Why can't people just fuck whoever they want without having to make it the core of their fucking identity? Nobody cares anyway.
I like girls, but I don't make a big deal about it. Most of the time I'm not even going out with anyone, so I might as well be asexual for all others care.
As for trans people, if they want to play pretend and chop of their dick, it's not my business, but don't expect me to want to date them just because they bought a "vagina".
>>5582693 come to Mexico andd marry with me, i will show you what a real men have, not all those gringo short-dick or non-special anniversary ;) hahahahahaha i just finished here in my job so i have to go school. Bye suckers. Still sucking vagina (Y). When you stay alone and old with seven cats you will remember this Mexican macho ;)
>>5582446 Why the fuck are you even on this board? Shit, none of that is even true. There's been gay geniuses. (Lots of them, actually.) There's charitable faggots. Political activism is more common among homos than hets. How can you be so completely wrong about this?
>>5582741 No it's not. Just because you insist something doesn't make it true. We have neurological structures that we can point to and say "this isn't right, it's all flipped." We have behaviors, stable over time, that we can point to and say "this compulsion isn't right, it's all backwards." And we have a treatment that we can point to and say, "this solves it, the person is now happy, no one is harmed, and we have a productive member of society."
There's a world of difference between a tranny and a pedophile, from what we know about why they are how they are, to how they interact with society, and how they can be treated. A tranny doesn't rape anybody by acting as a tranny, for one. Jesus, what in the actual fuck are you even on about?
>>5582774 Jaja porque piden respeto si no lo dan? Si se dan cuenta nunca he hablado mal de los gays, solo expongo el porque no estoy de acuerdo con ellos y ya hasta de su misma condicion homosexual me tachan hahahaha usan su propia condicion sexual para insultar hahaha que patético, no me sorprendes sudaca..... Nuestros paises valen mas por muchas cosas que tu lesbiana ser no comprenderá, a ti solo te importa chupar vaginita.
>>5582788 Nunca pedi respeto, pero seguro que en la vida real ni los mejicanos van a donde el vecino a quejarse porque hacen las cosas diferentes que en su casa... Solo digo que no hay ninguna razon logica para venir a molestar si no es porque hay algo malo en uno tambien. No creo que sea ideal ser gay o lesbiana, pero asi es la vida, y no es como que este molestando a nadie, podria ser peores cosas. De todas formas gente sobra en este mundo, mejor si algunos no sienten el impulso de reproducirse.
Y si estoy de acuerdo en que nuestros paises son mejores, aunque a ellos les duela. Cada vez que voy a visitarlos me sorprende mas su estupidez. Hace años deje de ver tele por lo mismo, solo pendejadas gringas.
Finalmente, si me importan otras cosas, solo que aqui se viene a hablar de eso y no de otras cosas, igual que a otros foros se va por otros intereses.
>>5582578 I guess my tastes are even more different than I suspect because man, I would seriously rearrange those pictures!!! The descriptions of the scale make sense to me but many (most?) of the pictures don't match what's being described, in my eyes at least.
>>5582600 Naturally-occurring ginger or different shades of dyed red okay too?
>>5581403 Yeah, I kind of get that impression too! All the more opportunity to be one half of a femme power couple with matching hair.
>>5582012 I'll back you up young one, trans people are people to. Asshole people need to get over it.
>>5582027 As a cis lesbian I'm telling you being a homosexual is a choice, just like being straight is a choice, being bi-sexual is a choice. Everything that is Not physically attached to us at birth is a choice, it may not be yours to make or someone might have made it for you, or you got lucky and got to make it yourself, but at the end of the day. If it wasn't Physically Forced upon you, yeah it was a choice. where did this new gullible ass mentality come from, for fucks sake, use some reason yea doof.
>>5582113 Uhhhh, unless you have dystopia you're just a crossdresser with superiorly issues.
>>5582213 God your newfagness is so damn apparent in here.
>>5582788 Por que entras aquí tratando de emular que no te gusta chupar pito? Supuestamente que no te gustan los hombres perro aquí andas tratando de no decirle a tu vieja que crees un hombre para que te agarré la verga.
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