Never a player, always the played. There's a weird tragic honour in there somewhere probably but shit sucks mane.
Good timing for this thread though, just having breakfast and some radio show pops on about some guy living in sweden with his gf. >all these swedish accents remind me of her >it still hurts two years later Just fuck my shit up senpai. I dont even want to live in sweden, i shouldnt still hurt.
I'm not sure what people usually mean by "player" i have been with many girls while I was single, but i never lied to get with anyone, I have always made sure that who I pick up was comfortable and aware I was not offering love.
I guess you have to define "player". I am very rarely without a sex partner, but when I have one, or when I'm in an actual relationship, I am monogamous. If it doesn't work out emotionally or sexually I just move on but don't cheat.
>>5552779 Not very often. When I tell them, we usually laugh at it together and become friends instead. Maybe it's because I have somewhat "masculine" hobbies (or what is considered traditionally masculine) and I'm not ugly, so they jump after the chance. I dunno. How do I become visibly lesbian? I'm bad at this.
>>5552792 You don't. The best lesbian is a feminine looking lesbian, it just means you most often have to take the initiative, face rejection more often than not and suffer men's advances. The best way is to just see it as flattery and be honest, most often they will understand unless they are over religious or insecure.
>>5552935 So get better, it is literally that simple. I was once a thumb-rolling shy girl myself. Just remember to take your time and try to appear earnest. Remember that a rejection is better and regret, at least it is easier to move on from.
>>5552935 This, Jesus. I was super sheltered growing up, and now when faced with thinking about girls I like, I just clam the fuck up and try to ignore it until it goes away. I'm the blushing mess. It's me.
>>5552946 I'm getting better at it but it's already pretty rare when someone is to my liking, plus 90% of the time they're straight so I always tell myself nothing will ever happen, even when it could. I work on my self-confidence but it takes a lot of time. And it doesn't help when I'm surrounded by straight people.
>>5553024 Because most of the time they're friends so I don't want to fuck up our friendship. But they learn it anyway even if I don't say anything so the friendship is ruined either way. Oh well. I'll try Okcupid, tired to be alone for almost 4 years. I just need to find a user name and a photo.
>>5551926 My friends like to refer to me as a player because I'm known for openly flirting with every girl I find attractive. That being said, the straighties obviously won't get involved with me, and the girls I do get with know that it's only on a physical basis.
If the girl I exchanged Skype info with is hanging around lesgen, not sure if you forgot about it or decided you didn't want to keep in touch after all but if you do want to chat, get at me, Fake McGee! If not, it's cool.
How do you feel about straight girls calling their female friends their "girlfriends"?
>"I'm meeting my girlfriend for dinner tonight," >"Aww, how long have you been together?' >"Wh... Ew, no, we're not lesbians! Why you would even ask that? Gross, no, never!" >mfw
Some girls like to brag about how touchy and intimidate they are, unlike guys who say "no homo" all the time. But then this weird thing happens where you're allowed to check out other girls' outfits and makeup and call them hot, but its gross if you're actually attracted to them. You can have a "girl crush" but not an actual crush. You can have a ""girlfriend"" but not date a girl. Etc etc etc. Honestly I'm getting tired of all the self-proclaimed LGB allies who snidely say "oh, so just because I have short hair, I must be a lesbian?"
What do y'all think about getting with experimenting straight girls? I'm not sure cos on the one hand it's like they're hot (usually more than dykes tbqh) and no commitment, but on the other hand it's like they don't know what they're doing in bed and they're using you to say they've been with a girl and probs score sjw points.
>>5554204 I've done it and it's ok. It's cool if she's actually active in it and wants to learn. It's like a minor fetish of mine to teach a girl how to go down on me and school her on sex to meet my needs. But it's pretty 50/50 if you're gonna get a girl that is truly curious and possibly into girls or just some wet blanket "lemme see if lesbians can give me orgasms when my shitty boyfriends couldn't".
Weirdest thing is in my experience "straight" girls are way clingier than your average fwb lesbian. Even when we're as clear as can be with each other I've found that after fucking with a straight girl they act like my girlfriend in public in a way that another lesbian fwb would never. Not just on me either but I've noticed my best lesbian friend has had similar things happen to her with straight girls. I asked my older brother about this, if it's a straight girl thing to hang off of someone they fucked even if they don't wanna date and he says it's a subconscious thing that happens if you fuck a girl really well. So either I don't fuck other actual lesbians as well as random straight chicks or straight chicks don't get fucked well enough in general compared to lesbians that do fuck a lot?
>>5551926 I haven't ever cheated or been cheated on by a girlfriend but I've been that other girl a couple times. Fucked for a long time a dudes girlfriend until he found out and that was some drama. Fucked another guys girlfriend another time but that was more accidental, didn't know she had a boyfriend and stopped after the one time. Then kinda ruined my lesbian friends' relationship but to be fair I doubt they'd have lasted with or without me. That one is easily the biggest regret in my player life.
>>5554966 >it's a subconscious thing that happens if you fuck a girl really well. So true. I've had the gift of being able to get almost every one of my female partners to very good orgasms, and they all cling and want repeats. When I was an escort it meant I was booked every night I was willing to.
>>5553842 >Live in Quebec >Some women call their female friends "girl boyfriends" (in French) It could have been avoided... It's men actually who use the same word for a boyfriend to refer to their close male friends.
I still don't understand why people do this in any language. Especially not the ones who get all bothered and offended if you pick up on their false gayness. If you don't want people to think you're gay, don't fucking imply that you are.
Hey lesgen, I don't know where else to ask, but how do I go about finding a scholarship in canada for my 17 year old nephew who lives in the US? I should add he's not very bright in school related stuff and is doing a GED
He wants to live in canada with his online gf which he has visited like 2 or 3 times, and I just want him to get a good education away from my sister who's a really terrible mother, but I can't take care of him myself.
Actually any option for him to be in canada and study whatever at a manageable price or work and study would be good. Anyone know anything?
>>5555545 I was in Copenhagen in December and I was really surprised in a positive way. The atmosphere was nice, girls qt and fashionable, and no Swedish naive mentality. Shame about the language, otherwise I'd move there the instant my studies are finished
>>5556049 I have lived in 4 different countries in my life, one of them being an African one. Trust me, language is not an obstacle if you approach it with a positive attitude, and Danish people are that special kind of racist that they get super excited about others learning our language. Besides, almost everyone speaks at least some English. :)
>>5553842 It's whatever but if I ask for clarification I'd prefer a girl to not get all pissy over it.
I do personally dislike being referred to as a girlfriend by some girl I'm not dating. It's happened and shit gets confusing with those who don't know I'm gay cause they're just unassuming acquaintances vs those that do know.
>have a straight slutty kinda friend that's, ya know, a girl >she calls me babe and her girl friend >whatever I sometimes call girls babe too >and girlfriend as a girl-friend isn't unusual >anyway >I'm into this other girl I know is a lesbian >so cute >have her number, working up to going on a date >feel she's into me >sudden complete cold shoulder from her >wtf happened >not answering my texts >cold and ignores me irl >even trying to talk to her friend gets me shit >finally find out she thinks I'm dating straight slutty "girlfriend" >cause she called me babe so much >and kept referring to me as her girlfriend of year >plus on facebook there was a couple close pictures of us >fuck.this.shit >try to qt girl >not believing shit >try to get straight"girlfriend" to explain stuff >"lol if she's that easily jealous forget her" >just give it up since this all took place over months
>>5556189 See the numbers on each post? Dubs is havign a pair, like 11 or 44 Trips is the same but with three numbers. It goes on with Quads and Quints, which are rarer. You will see "competition" like threads all around the forum where the winner is whomever gets (dubs/trips most often) first.
Does anyone listen to audiobooks? I'm trying to use them to get to sleep but I get so caught up in listening to the story that it just keeps me up. I've tried using a book I've already read but that still doesn't work. Anyone have a particular narrator that can put them to sleep? I used to listen to harry potter ones when I was a kid.
>>5556261 No need to write a manual. Newfags should lurk moar.
also i've noticed lately that my orgasms will happen, but i still feel like there's more work to be done... then i sorta rub the skin near my clit and stretch myself out (like when you wake up) and i get this weird second orgasm that's not as intense as the first, but is a lot more... tingly and gets my whole body. It's super weird. Can anyone else do this? Idk what i expected multiple orgasms to be like but it wasn't this
>>5554618 Lesbro. I stopped messing with chicks with big boobs. I was doing.... "Things" with this one girl once, and she almost suffocated me with them. Needless to say i make it a point to stay away from big boobs now.
>>5551964 >created by the idealization of Japanese girls That's racist. >while your shit skin ass is home alone That's racist and wildly retarded. What a blind fucking guess, and it's not even a likely one. My Korean girlfriend likes my paleness just fine without any racist fetishism.
Shit, nigger, you call yourself a racist and you STILL deny the most basic racist behavior. The hypocrisy is the sad part. Your tribalist inability to look past your own long nose is just pitiable, but being a hypocrite is subhuman.
>>5555671 Tell your nephew that if he's going to Canada he needs to copy all his loli, bestiality and CP into a microSD and hide it in his ass, then delete all that stuff from his laptop or main storage device because Canada searchs your data upon arrival for those things.
A German lesgen poster already experienced not being let into the country for having loli and paedophilic conversation logs of Steam. She could not fuck the qt Canadian lesgen poster that was awaiting her.
I really want to go to a huge fetish party in Germany, because I heard that's where the biggest scene is. I don't know if that's weird or not, but it feels weird enough that I don't tell most friends about it.
>>5556904 >>5556965 Wow. You are a sad sad people. Look, attempting to piss me off won't make me talk to you. I'll just end up shooting you down and calling you out on all those things you "THINK" you hide in here. ;). If you talk to some of the people who have been here for a wile know i have a nasty habit of reading your deepest feelings from just reading what you write. Lel carry on young man. Phycoanalysing you is one of my favorite pass times.
>>5557286 Not exactly a weird dream trip but I've fantasized about going to Alaska for the longest time. Exploring the rugged wilderness, staying in a cozy cabin, hiking the mountains, and just taking in the untouched beauty of it all.
>>5552935 >take the initiative >I'm so bad at this. Every time a girl is to my liking I run away or ignore her.
straight men know that they will die as virgins if they do this because straight women are mostly don't initiate. lesbians should try to be conscious of these sorts of dynamics and initiate more with each other.
>>5553842 >you're allowed to check out other girls' outfits and makeup and call them hot, but its gross if you're actually attracted to them. i think this happens because people associate it with "the male gaze". het girls have very complicated feelings about constantly being checked out by het guys, and the project those feelings onto lesbians.
>>5554966 >"straight" girls are way clingier than your average fwb lesbian i've experienced this too. my hypothesis is that they are aspiring political lesbians. sex isnt a priority for them so they overcompensate by focusing all of their energy on the other aspects of the relationship.
>>5556363 I have textbooks as audiobooks because I'm retarded so I sometimes use them for falling asleep. "Expression of protein X leads to an activation of protein Y, which in turn changes Z..." yeah it's pretty boring. Sometimes I use lectures on YouTube instead.
>>5556867 "collapsed into meaningless guttural sounds" exactly
>>5557286 I want to go on a car trip in the Baltic regions and western Russia. I love driving and I guess I've always wanted to see those regions.
I have realized I am a lesbian. As have others but I have denied it because I don't want this. Girls are icky but turn me on and make my heart flutter and I'd rather live my life with them than a man but I don't want this at all.
>>5551926 Both I guess but only been cheated on by lesbians who went after more masculine women (How the fuck are you even lesbian?) Bi girls are more loyal. Actual bi girls of course not those fake ass ones every girl and her mother seems to be now addays.
>>5557344 Psychoanalysis is fraud, and has been shown as such for decades. That you can't tell one of those is a woman is already telling. Further, you are quite literally both mentally and emotionally retarded, so I for one absolutely doubt your ability to correctly interpret direct statements, let alone divine some kind of crippling secret from an anonymous post.
Nobody likes you. I don't just mean here, I mean always. In every interaction you've ever had in your entire cringe-worthy life, not a single person has walked away thinking you were a stable, good person who used their time well. You don't have a true friend on this planet; even your family members are ashamed to be related to you, and fearful what it could mean lurks within them.
>>5558426 Oh. You ..... You really do suck at this. Look the people who walk away bitter from me are usually people i had to shoot down there ego. You know. Kinda like you my dear. But until everyone in my life stops being in love with me. LEL your statement has yet to hold true. Good luck with that though... Lel. Just because i don't answer doesn't mean i don't know.
>>5558548 Yeah bisluts are actually more ok than trannies.
I wish name and tripfags would leave us. I was kinda ok w adori, if only because she didn't cry as much but then she was bislut as that goes. It's always soc sluts pretending to be lesbian or men pretending to be lesbians.
>>5558862 Some girl from school. Ever since we started talking it's been rather surreal. Suddenly I'm in this bad tv show were there's this amazing chemistry between the leads but they don't get their shit together and it's episode after episode of subtext and shitty guest appearances of random "romantic interests" we go out with trying to pretend we are not into each other.
>>5559058 look just because the chan has been your playing ground with your friends for ever, doesn't mean others don't have a reason to have to have a flag up all the time, get over yourself, reddit is the same as the chan, if you see me then just block me out. You don't have to read you know. I know all the shit in here is "SOMEtimes" just that. but Attempting to condescend everyone on four chan (you will fail at this, 4chan has built some of the most metaphorically bullet proof people I have ever observed in my life!) is not the best way to get people to talk to you, Its an anonymous site yea doof, if real fucked up shit is happening to you, just say so.
>>5558862 Honestly? Right now it's my mum, which is depressing as all hell. Add that to the fact we're currently not speaking because of her psychotic conspiracies and you're left with a pretty pitiable lesbian lol.
> % straight girls >>>>> % lesbians > take out the unattractive > eliminate those too old or too young > remove those that have nothing in common with you > ignore those that live far away and/or speak a different language > get rid of those that already in a relationship > Add all the things that are wrong with you
What's left is pretty much nothing compared to the odds of someone straight.
>>5560291 >> % straight girls >>>>> % lesbians >> take out the unattractive >> eliminate those too old or too young >> remove those that have nothing in common with you >> ignore those that live far away and/or speak a different language >> get rid of those that already in a relationship >> Add all the things that are wrong with you None of those things are relevant, though. It's not like there's a higher percentage of all of those things among the lesbian population. The only real difficulty for us that straight people don't face is that straight people get to assume the ones they like are also straight.
>>5560316 >None of those things are relevant, though.
Except they are.
They apply to straight people too, but in the straight world you have nine times the number of potentials that we do.
So if those things knock out like 8 in 10 possible dates as not being 'what you want' then it sucks, but there's still loads left. For us, the list of possibilities is so much lower that those things really fuck things up.
>>5559389 I can't really care about some gay-for-pay sluts and their emotionless tooth-sucking. Let me give you the real gold. At the site with no mothers, get to /G17F7EFA and you will see the promise land.
>>5560732 why do straight girls do this? It has happened to me also. What is worse, she tried to guilt me, and talk shit about me, when I stopped being flirty with her. it's painful to be rejected by a crush, but then the crush demands that you keep hanging around them all the time, how am I supposed to heal if I keep picking at that scab? When I tried to distance myself, she spread trash-talk that I was acting like a "friend-zoned nice-guy". I don't feel entitle to sex, I don't think that I can spend nice points to buy sex, but I also don't want to torture myself, or waste tones of energy and pain, on courting this girl now that I know she is straight. this is just cruelty.
>>5558888 That sounds like it might be both stressful and validating/rewarding in its own way. I hope you two find the right timing. How are things going with your respective romantic interests who aren't each other?
>>5559676 Yeah, un/fortunately with gaming you really are likely to befriend more guys. Do you wish you could be more emotionally vulnerable with each other or are you satisfied with the kind of chemistry you have now?
>>5560017 I'm really sorry that your mom's mental health is unstable, that's extremely rough. I hope she returns to a more lucid (if that's an appropriate word) state soon. I know having a parent be the person you talk to the most can seem depressing, but honestly you have all the time in the world to find and spend time with friends, but our time with our parents is limited. Don't feel pathetic over this, it's okay.
>>5560023 Hey, you're breaking the lesbian cat-owner stereotype with your pet dog so it's not all bad.
>>5560281 That's great! I can't always find the courage or muster up the interest to talk to random classmates, but as a result I often don't know anybody at all in my classes. I have a best friend and some close friends so it's okay, but sometimes I do feel starved for contact anyway. Do you have any advice on striking up conversations in class?
I dont know really, I think I'm afforded a bunch more emotional vulnerability than any of them are, that's for sure. I've bared bits of my soul to one or other of them once or twice over the last few years, but never really anything in particular detail.
None of them have ever really opened up back but i guess that's just guys. I dunno.
I guess I'm okay with it how it is. Would just be nice if they lived closer so we could go out and do irl stuff more often. Would also be nicer if at least SOME of them were girls. I have so few female friends, work's nearly all guys, gaming is nearly all guys
>tfw you only ever seem to be attracted to your straight professors My ASL professor is so adorable but she's married. Plus I'm assuming there are like 3 deaf lesbians in my state and they would probably want to date each other rather than a hearing girl.
>>5560966 I'm sorry, I know how that feels. I don't know which games you play but /r/girlgamers (I know, I know, but they use it to literally describe gamers who are, incidentally, female) have their own guilds and in game communities. So if you feel comfortable connecting with people through games and want to connect with girls specifically, I think it is worth giving at least a cursory glance.
Guys not being emotionally vulnerable might be just guys. But, in my experience, that also means they're secretly more desperate to be honest and open than girls since they so seldom get to do so. That suppression comes back to bite them in the ass when they have a good listener because it can all pour out at once! Which is to say, if you reach and out and do some friendly, supportive prodding, you may find a deeper friendship waiting to happen.
I wish I had more female friends too but more than just that, I wish I had lesbian friends. The pretty simple things that people take for granted, like having met the person they're dating randomly in a cafe or flirting with a classmate over text or having all that silly "oooh do they like me back" gossip with friends, are just not really things I get to do. That's okay, but it would be nice to talk to somebody similarly... um, limited.. (though there are also lots of ways in which I think being a wlw is an advantage)
Anyway, it sounds like you have a really good grasp of who you are and what your current situation is. You sound like a level headed and grounded person, so your future of female friendships can't be too far off! I hope you find the people you're looking for.
>>5561751 Oooh, good original answer. Do you have any interest in exploring Japan's suicide forest? More gruesome but seems like it might be up your alley.
>>5561817 Even if the connections don't run deep, you know how to initiate interactions and socialize with an unfamiliar group of people. That's a really important life skill, so much so that people take classes and talk to their therapists to build a skill like yours. Even if they're not at all serious, you should feel proud that you've built the connections and relationships that you do have. It also indicates that you're easy to get along with and diverse people enjoy your company, even if it's fleeting.
>>5561892 If someone tries to tell you you should be ashamed of your sexual preferences, should you really value their opinion? Just like what you like, anon. Don't try to fit into other people's idea of what you can or can't do on account of being a lesbian (or bi, I dunno). It's all just politics.
>>5561892 It's not great to tokenize people (ie "I want someone from group x") because it's pretty much guaranteed to be a disappointment for both parties, and if you're attracted to someone who you percieve to be a man/who looks like one then I would really rethink what you call your orientation, but on a deeper level, you like what you like and you want what you want. People will absolutely give you shit for it either way. Here you'll get shit for wanting MtFs, on tumblr you'll get shit if you don't. Meh.
>>5561926 Oh okay, I misunderstood! I thought you meant "get with an mtf" in general terms. As for gold star politics, who needs it? Anyone who cares about that isn't worth your time. There's no rule book but I would say that if you personally feel like you are with a woman, rather than thinking about this person as male, that's good enough to retain your gold star.
>>5561926 heh heh, that gold star..... idk how that works to be frank, if the person looks male then I assume you would lose it, if the person looks female then I think you get to keep it, I think that other anon has it right, its politics. Depending on how good you are at making a point will decipher if you keep it or lose it. (I think, don't know how all that works, thus the whole pre-op trans person and post-op trans person thing..)
>>5561921 >It's not great to tokenize people >>5561926 >I'm not 'tokenizing' It's so bizarre to me, that lesbians, a group whose identity is based on sexual preference, is so often against having preferences for who you're attracted to. it's fine to like whatever you like, whether it's a specific person, a specific gender, a specific body type, etc.
>>5561926 >But can I keep my gold star status? imo, no. but gold star status is overrated. I also think it's acceptable to lie about gold star status since the types of women who care about it don't deserve the truth.
I dunno about their genital situation.. not brave enough to ask at this point. This is all somewhat upsetting because I've always been comfortably gay and calling myself bi I feel would imply I'm attracted to men.. So confused with myself right now.
>>5562058 I mean, if they have a dick would that be okay with you, sexually speaking?
If they're super passable and hot and you have no idea about their genitals, I can totally see being attracted to them as a normal lesbian thing. If they've got a dick and you're into having sex with that? That ain't gay. But if you're just seeing a hot woman and going "hey, a hot woman." I wouldn't have an identity crisis.
>>5562029 The dick doesn't even work, and it changes color, and I hear it doesn't even smell like dick. So yeah it has the vague shape, but none of the features that get straight and bi girls going. I don't know, man, transfolk make a whole lot of things uncomfortably vague.
>>5562076 I think we all just fear what we all don't know, I mean I don't even know if I want to know, if the d acts male, then I would be disgusted out of my mind, but if you cant see it and don't even know its there... what does that make somebody?
>>5562086 lel! I have never had to deal with a live penis, and I broke the one I was supposed to study, the whole cadaver smelled like formaldehyde and I don't go around sniffing guys, but if some dude smells like apples I would like to see it! lol!
lots of lesbians keep identifying as lesbian even if they bisexual-homoamorous. it's so strange. I don't think gay men have this issue. Bisexual men identifying as gay men... doesn't really happen. It's usually the other way around where, as a process of coming out, they will identify as bi men briefly before identifying as gay.
>>5562102 Homoamorous isn't a thing. Sexual arousal in the brain is just a lower activation pattern of romantic interest. If you're "homoamorous" you need to stop being such a misandrist/misogynist and confront yourself about your trust issues.
>>5560836 >advice on striking up conversations in class Uh, asking how they are, what they did or are going to do during the weekend, seems simple, but it near always works. You can compliment people on what they're wearing, and they'll often respond with where they bought it etc.
Most important is to not be unpredictable or ambiguous in your replies or behavior. If you're talking to someone, you always have to try to maintain some form of eye contact, even if you're very nervous or uncomfortable, to show interest. Keep positive, and if you're having a bad day, be honest about it (you don't have to tell the details).
Some people are a bit more snappy or make it more obvious when they're disappointed, tired or something like that. Unless it is explicitly directed to you, it doesn't affect you. If you're unsure, go by other actions, like if they chitchat with you. The most friendly action is most accurate.
>>5562072 Personally I often find passing MtF attractive more often than girls. I find slightly masculine traits attractive. But anything more than that, noo. I don't think I could be with a postop either. I don't have any experience with them, just seen pics, but I can't imagine them coming close to the real thing.
>>5561132 Yeah I'm hearing. I started taking it partially because my friend is HoH and starting to learn as well, because her hearing is getting worse. But I also wanted to take it because I just like learning new languages and being able to communicate with as many people as I can. I'm only just starting 102 so I'm still not that great at sentence structure and really only know about 50 signs. Why are you minoring in ASL?
>>5562414 People I know/ see in real life? Nobody. And frankly I'm happier this way because if I were falling for someone, that someone would certainly be painfully straight and I'd only be wasting a lot of my afternoons asking lesgen how to approach her in the vain hope that she'd like me back, but then later I wouldn't even try talking to her because I'm both a pussy and aware of the chances of someone being actually gay (and then you also gotta consider that even if she were, it's not like I'd necessarily interest her).
If we're also talking about people I'll probably never even meet, a lot of kpop idols. They're cute, but even with people I'll never get to know I feel I can't allow myself to have the smallest of crushes on, because they all probably crave dick and I'd my attraction towards them (however shallow it might be) would be seen as something creepy and gross.
But even go that far? Why should anyone pick me, of all people?
>>5561926 >But can I keep my gold star status? Gold star just means you've only been with women. Do you consider this person a woman? It doesn't matter what others think; the lesbian community is too divided on this topic.
>>5563368 No, I wouldn't fuck a transman because they have male secondary sex characteristics, and I wouldn't fuck a transwoman because they have male primary sex characteristics. I'm a lesbian, so I'm looking for no male sex characteristics, it's pretty fuckin' simple.
I'm about to build one based off of bullshit I see among /cgl/ and other skincare blogs across the internet. My skin isn't horrible, I dealt with acne in high school with some kind of knock-off proactive and just regular lotion and the rare diy honey mask with my friends but I'm almost mid-20s now and I'm worried about aging since my skin can get so dry sometimes. Plus seems like having a spf is smart and maybe some routine would help with blackheads.
And then I'm also thinking of adding more of a daily kinda make up. Nothing so serious besides a light lip and bb cream. I actually like my face in general, thank god dark eyebrows are in so all I have to do is trim and shape mine and my eyelashes are already dark enough that I get asked if I'm wearing make up. I figure if make up is just eyes/skin/lips and my eyes are fine, my lips are full enough but a little color can't hurt and my skin doesn't have a whole lot of discoloration issues so some bb cream would just blur pores or whatever.
I just feel kinda late to the game cause I was the sporty kinda dyke growing up but no serious regrets since bitches fucked their make up bad with that emo/scene shit.
>>5557286 I would like to go around the world on my bicycle. Just me and a backpack full of the basics and say fuck it to the world.
Go across all kinds of terrains and weathers, explore new cultures and sites. Just riding for months or years without a care or attachment. Learning how to be completely self sufficient on my adventures...
Now that I think about it it's not that implausible. Maybe I should start planning it.
>>5557286 >I would love to go to Antactica. Same here. If I had the money, I'd love to pay a boat or plane to go there. I wouldn't want to do one of those Antarctica cruises with a bunch of people. Private trip to Antarctica. Apparently there are licensed yachts that can take tourists along the coast, but they're like over 1000 USD per day, so you have to be pretty loaded or have saved up for some time to do that.
Also, if I can ever afford it I'd definitely go to space. Even low orbit would be fine. I spent most of my life dreaming of being an astronaut so just going up there once is a must for me.
>>5564366 I know it's not nearly the same thing but this kind of reminded me of a video I watched where a guy put on an Oculus Rift and did an astronaut simulation. The graphics seemed kind of shitty and the program seemed underwhelming p (watching it on YouTube at least, not using OR myself) but the guy actually started crying and has this big emotional experience. It made me think that if someone can be that moved by the earliest stages of simulation technology, maybe in a decade or so thise simulations will be truly, entirely powerful. So idk, maybe keep holding on? Or get rich quick.
>>5564112 Some of the people who have done this have written really helpful and practical guides on how to visit every country and bike across the world and etc. If you're serious, material by people who have completed their adventure is a great starting point.
>>5564047 /r/SkincareAddiction is crazy thorough. They have a million guides and intro posts and stuff, really helpful and informative. Check em.
>>5564047 Uh, I guess. After showering I use a body propylene glycol emulsion (OTC pharmacy stuff) to bind moisture because I get dry skin, and to prevent outbreaks of pityriasis versicolor (which I get every now and then otherwise). I apply it to my hands several times daily, and sleep with Locobase creams (very fat) and cotton gloves to curb my hand eczema. These things are kind of medically important and don't require any adjustment or thought (occasionally I drop the Locobase when there's too much lipids, that's it), so I make sure to do it.
I haven't figured out my face. I don't have that many outbreaks either. They're concentrated to my chin. Normally I'd use azelaic acid cream there, but during winter, my skin gets so dry I'm cautious. I needle pimples at other spots. For the rest, I use a fancy cream with propylene glycol at night whenever I can bother to, or just my regular emulsion when I have skipped it for a few days. I haven't worn daily makeup for quite some time. In summer I always wear a spf day cream at least, and cover some spots with BB cream. Spf (and staying away from sunlight) is the only thing that is guaranteed to prevent skin aging, so I guess I have to.
I'm a big fan of propylene glycol emulsion because it doesn't hurt if your skin is really dry, it is thin, retains moisture, dries very quickly, and is good for skin flora and pH. Granted, different countries have different products, but there should be something available OTC.
>>5564661 >/r/SkincareAddiction is crazy thorough. They have a million guides and intro posts and stuff, really helpful and informative. Check em.
Already have. I like it ok. Just a bit too obsessive with issues I don't have. But it's the same advice from /cgl/ since they link that shit too. I guess I just went to /cgl/ for weeb reasons plus asian shit seems cheaper for the quality.
>>5564899 >propylene glycol emulsion That sounds interesting, what's the fancy particular brand you use?
Everyone everywhere seems to love cetaphil but I've used that and it doesn't wow me in any way. It's something I have to use with the same regularity of any other lotion and it doesn't make my skin any softer so I'm hoping for something better.
Oh and this is the routine I worked out for myself:
PM >illi Total Aging Care Cleansing Oil >Hada Labo Rohto Gokujyn Hyaluronic Acid Cleansing Foam >Youthful Radiance Eye Cream for Dark Circles & Puffiness >Cosrx Ultimate Nourishing Rice Overnight Mask >C.O. Bigelow My Favorite Night Balm No 306 .
AM >Dr.Jart+ Dermaclear Micro Water >[Cosrx] Advanced Snail 92 All in one Cream >MDSolarSciences Mineral Crème Broad Spectrum SPF 50 UVA-UVB Sunscreen >MEET THE BULL DOG Original Eye Roll-On, (maybe?) >Lipstick Queen Endless Summer Lipstick SPF 15
Body >Nubian Heritage African Black Soap With Shea Butter Oats & Aloe Deep Cleansing >Murad Acne Clarifying Body Spray >Bio-Oil on scars/stretch marks >Cellulite Cream & Muscle Relaxation Cream, really more cause a hot cream sounds amazing after working out >Tony Moly Pure Snail Moisture Gel
Gonna introduce shit one at a time, patch tests, etc. Gonna add a biweekly clay face mask routine with cosrx BHA and AHA.
>>5565804 What? Before starting all that or after? Right now I'm only using the cleansing foam and rice mask at night along with lip night balm. Skin already feels less dry and tight, nothing bad has happened, no break outs or reactions. Giving it all a week before I add more stuff.
My only skin issues are dry combo skin, black heads, and stretchmarks on my body from weightloss. But even the dry skin isn't so bad that I'm ever cracking or bleeding from it, it just feels tight and if I don't moisturize at all I get flakes and dry patches. I drink a lot of water and know it's not from dehydration.
>>5565724 eh I'm probably just being overly aspie about it. Most people only do a basic wash and moisturizer and are fine with that. I'm just hoping to have skin so damn soft and good girls question if I have make up on and wanna touch it.
>>5566677 Awe man I like comic books why drop them?
I also notice a weirdly high amount of lesbians into them. Maybe that whole guy-hobby thing but I personally know I got into them for the titties and being able to enjoy a plot book lowkey when in the closet.
Anyway maybe aquascaping? Definitely get into cooking. Or sewing/clothes. Something you can work with your hands but also have a bit of art. Oh yeah and it's about time to get ready to look into gardening for spring.
>>5566719 I got into comic books because of realistic or semi realistic art, in other words mostly for inspiration, since I'm aiming for something more realistic in my style. But most comics nowdays tend to be very stylized almost like mangas, and besides, the arcs aren't that good anymore. The only exception to me was Genevieve Valentine's Catwoman but she left the book... Besides, Wolverine and Punisher are dead. I got no reason to read anymore.
But yeah, good idea. I should try cooking. I'll search some easy recipes to start.
>>5562206 This isn't an opinion matter. It's the only logical conclusion from objectively verifiable neurology. And if you don't think there's a huge atmosphere of "men are for my pleasure, women are for my status" in bi dude subculture, you're not exactly tapped in, so at both levels you're just ignoring evidence for some trite political stance.
>>5562685 You miss all the shots you don't take, retard. Your chance of meeting someone with your attitude is 0%. Your chance of meeting a gay girl interested in you if you pursue your interests is at least higher than FUCKING NOTHING, no matter how slim your clearly depressed ass is misguidedly guessing it will be.
Just go out and get the pussy, dumbbutt cryfaggot.
>>5566912 >spend 5500+ years buttering up your senpai's rosebud >she brushes it all off >and then she falls for a fucking fleshie MANlet >and then they dump the mutant breederspawn on your lap Being Pearl is suffering.
>>5566785 That gun near her crotch reminds me of that post about some anon's mother being a crazy murderer during the war. Where she went around raping people, raped a girl with a gun once, accidentally pulled the trigger and boom. Then she laughed.
>tfw you will never be caught by a marauding band of lesbians in a post-apocalyptic future who chain you to a post and rape you
>>5567088 >She likes Steven just fine. Housewife Stockholm syndrome. In fact, this whole series is super problematic. It takes an established and ordered matriarchy and paints it as a bad thing, while dealing with a dirty planet (that if we're to be believed was in the prime age of patriarchal dominate) is supposedly good. But the gems hate gem-sex, so it's okay, as if that wouldn't make them stronger. The DISGUSTING BREEDER CIS SCUM males at CN probably made Sugar write it like tha- okay fuck it I can't keep this up. This hurts to type.
>>5567094 Trump, obviously. Fuck that political vulture Clinton. Bitch is like Richard III, deals and death and power-grabbing. I hope those charges stick and we can have someone else to vote for because of her vagina like a bunch of morons. She gives vaginas a bad name.
>>5567088 >not wanting be a Homeworld Pearl >not wanting to be dressed up as a pretty doll for your Diamond master >not wanting a literal giantess alien to fuck you silly with one massive finger while she takes notes during a war meeting with her other hand >not wanting to be ravished by a bunch of Jaspers in front of Your Diamond for her amusement God bless Sucrose for catering to my fetishes
>>5567185 It sucks because the high ranking official she was bonded to is not quasi-dead, and she's still stuck with all the reminders everywhere. Who is going to fuck her? Not any new gems, they all want her dead. Not the holograms, those are for combat sims. Not Garnet, she's a living U-Haul victim. Not Amethyst, that bitch is basically an eternal child and lusting after monkeydick.
Pearl's purpose is to be a fashion toy for the sexual pleasure of nobles, and there's no nobles around for her to dress up for and be taken by. Can you even imagine the hell?
>>5567195 She definitely fucked Amy shaped shifted as Rose at least once or twice but yeah that would be absolute hell. Maybe once Steven and Connie pop out a little quarter gem baby girl she can lust over her once she's of age.
>>5567245 >platonic friends Steven straight up is worried about how he'll look married to her when she becomes president. I ship Lars/Sadie too if only because they're both terrible harpies and deserve each other if that makes you hate me more
>>5566820 >You miss all the shots you don't take, retard. >FUCKING NOTHING >clearly depressed ass Was browsing lesgen to alleviate a bout of social anxiety, this made me laugh and actually made me feel a lot better. Thanks, I'm going into this new social situation feeling much more confident. Not the anon you were replying to but having someone fling insults at you for good reason can be weirdly helpful and therapeutic. Sometimes you need less "I believe in you buddy! You can do it!" and more "you obviously can, you piece of shot, so why aren't you doing it, asshole"
>>5567447 Williams is doing Hellcat, which I haven't read yet because I don't really like Kate Leth as a writer. And she will drawing the Legend of Korra comics that come out later this year. And Conner can definitely be samefacey but I mainly loved the way she draws figures and expressive body language. In art terms, I really appreciated how she drew dem titties.
>>5567773 >botnet OS >botnet chrome what am I even supposed to use >mpc-hc used it once because it was the only player that could play a concert without being laggy for some reason >stein;gay I like the series and this bg >gaymen what >mexican yeah, well
>>5567828 >what am I even supposed to use An OS that respects your freedumbs like ganoo plus loonix or anything that is under a free license, and a browser that isn't a botnet like Firefox forks or <38.0 vanilla Firefox.
>used it once because it was the only player that could play a concert without being laggy for some reason That reason is called MadVR, and it's a propietary video renderer you dipshit. Install mpv and vaapi.
>>5566097 I'm just lucky I guess, my skins always been pretty fantastic. I don't deserve it to be, not at all. Teens and university getting home at late o'clock and not bothering to take makeup off and shit. But it's always bounced back amazingly.
These days I don't wear any makeup at all 99% of the time.
>>5564973 Not that anyone asked but the pub crawl went well and somehow, against all statistical odds, I met a great gay (or still somewhat questioning?) girl. To the disappointment of the guys in the group, we spent most of the night talking to each other instead of to them. It was really affirming and I'm so glad I pushed through my social anxiety.
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