hey guys. gay male here, and I'm wondering how I go about coping with the fact that I'm only attracted to straight guys? It makes being friends with them really difficult. Anyone in similar situation?
Not OP but:
1. Gays act like a bunch of faggots. Straight men are really men, they like the pussy, they're not sexually broken like me.
I have too friends and I'm attracted to them both, one has a massive dick and is a total geek, the other is a really hot and fit and has a big ego and we are very close and talk about everything execpt that I'm gay. I think he suspects that I'm queer because I can't stop talking about guys with massive dicks around him, and I once masturbated under the covers while he we where together I was watching porn and I tried to make him join me, he didn't but we talked about sex and what kind of porn we liked while i masturbated. I tried it once again when we were watching efukt, I suggest looking at x pornstar "so hot", he firmly told me that we were not gonna watch porn together. I felt like a such a faggot when he said that, a horny faggot. I was also just objectifying him and looking at his firm fucking body.
Fetish isn't a disease, it's a sexual fixation. The root causes are usually holding masculinity in an extremely high esteem, being turned on by the idea of being so sexually potent that you can turn them away from being straight and "corrupt" them in a sense, shit like that. In your case I really don't think you have a fetish as much as you just hate gays and being gay.
You need to work on being happy with yourself and later with meeting more men. Some of them are going to be shit, most of them will be fine, but not to your tastes, but eventually you'll probably meet someone good enough. But as long as you consider yourself broken and fixate on the negative, that just isn't going to happen.
In your experience, though I doubt you have too much of it, no offense. Most guys I met are fine. Seriously though, where are you from? I'm not hitting on you or anything, I'm curious. It might explain why you feel the way you do.
>Gays are pretty insufferable and annoying though
That is such an awkward notion, haha
IHow come "gay guys" are all the same?
How come "straight guys" are all the same?
Where do you put that married daddy with children that fools around with boys?
The /fit shaved guys leaves their girlfriends home earlier when they want a "feminine dick"?
I think people find gay guys to be annoying because the ones who are most vocal about their sexuality are the dumbest ones. Which makes sense, their sexual orientation is the only thing which makes them stand out.Still, they're just a vocal minority.
>heir sexual orientation is the only thing which makes them stand out
No, it doesn't.
First came the walk... Then the stereotype.
Thinking you are better because you "act straight" and is apologetic about your sexuality in social occasions is also a very known stereotype.
To each it's own.
There isn't anything about straight men in particular except there are more of them and there is more variation in them. Not having a culture that defines your person so much through body type and appearance makes straight men freer in my not so humble opinion. They don't give a fuck if they're a bear or a twink or this or that and there's a freedom in that.
I live in a very small town so after trying different apps and sites you get to know the amount of gay people that are here, maybe not everyone of course but you do have the numbers quite pinned down.
There's also no gay bars here, or rather there's a LGBT bar because gay was not inclusive enough so there's no designated night or anything for just men.
All in all I'd say that men that are straight come off as more appealing than the gays I've encountered.
Dude, you'll probably eventually find a herd of straight-acting "bros" that you'll be into
You'll find a lot of men that are reluctant to identify as gay/bi, who generally identify as "straight" (lol) that you'll be able to cop off with..
I can relate, though. In high school, I was literally the only gay-guy in my year level, and even though I experimented a couple of times with some str8-guys, it was always disheartening to realise that the cute, sweet straight guys who were nice to me simply weren't interested. (I was able to ascertain this whilst still being closeted, too.)
Most guys I met faggits men with whores mind. Or annoying little scrambled eggs, destroyed minds by social denial. I know some of them as a good listeners and talkers, but I never saw in any of them my bf. Cause of behaviour and attitude to themselves.
I'm from Russia (not OP) and here masculine gays are fucking quintessence of rarity as it is.
I find hetero russians to be so hot, I love it how barbaric and crude they are, I play csgo so I secretly get turned on when these brutes speak in chat, they're so aggressive "muttafukka cyka blyet, i got a big dick i fuk u mutter u gay boy... u com from gay country... noob team". I often get really mad when there's a russian on my team(because they're notoriously retarded and hotheaded when it comes to csgo, they most of the time don't even play as a team and just speak russian like some bunch of cunts).
I often give slavs shit in video games, but secretly I kinda enjoy these brutes.
Yep. Straight Russians are the "beary" type here. Whole our country rejecting femininity in men so they trying SO HARD to meet those expectations. So they are aggressive and overprotective about their ass virginity. But yeah. All mu crushes was straight russian guys. Never any gay guy (cause of the reasons I wrote above)
I was dmg, I've lost my rank due to inactivity. If I'll go back to ak ranks... I don't know what I'll do. Solo queuing in this game is such a nightmare, I don't think I have the patience for it while also studying at uni.
What rank are you bro?
>muttafukka cyka blyet, i got a big dick i fuk u mutter u gay boy... u com from gay country... noob team
That's awesome, I think I'll never reach global without putting hella lot of time in the game(hell I was even putting a lot of time in the game grinding towards dmg).
School is keeping me from playing video games all day... fuck this gruel world.