I can't masturbate traditional way. I only can reach orgasm by rubbing my penis against bed sheet. Is there something wrong with me? I'm 20 years old.
Used to do it the same way until I was about 15. If you wanna masturbate normally, just start off doing it with the bed sheet but when you're just about to cum, bring one of your hands under and stroke your dick really fast until you cum.
Then I know what's going on. Manual masturbation is comparable to vaginal sex. The sheet masturbation is probably more like anal sex. You're probably an anal sex guy. Most guys are.
OP, I used to do the same until I was 17.
There's a term for it, I totally forgot it. But lemme tell you how to not to it.
1. Stop masturbating for a week.
2. At the end of the week, try masturbating on your back with your hand and not the bed.
3. Keep trying until you get it. Use porn to make you go to the point of almost bursting.
4. Continue this. It's tempting to go back to the usual way, but eventually you completely forget that you ever did it the other way.
You will be unable to ejaculate during sex (topping) if you keep this current style. Additionally, years of this style will cause some severe sexual health problems later. Mainly, you will have trouble getting erections. The reason this is bad is because it adds unnatural pressure to the penis which stimulates it but can damage it over time and basically desensitize the penis during actual sex.
But you're young and can reverse it in two weeks!
Lemme know if you have anymore questions
Have to agree here. The longer I go without, the more I get turned on by my friends, coworkers, random people that walk by... I feel like going cold would be really dangerous.
Less often, yes, probably a good idea. Stopping altogether is bad though; if you're not actually getting sex regularly that is.
I'm the opposite
I've got hormone issues (not trans, just biological bullshit) and I'm on meds, don't feel the need to masterbate much.
Recently started doing it daily and sex was much more on my mind
Don't do this, this is not healthy for your penis. Doing it long term can cause erection and blood flow issues, the pressure is not good. This is assuming you're pushing down on the bed more than you're humping it or stroking, if you're just humping it like you would when you fuck you're fine
i once woke up with a boner at my hotel, i must have worked my boner inbetween the 2 makeshift beds (double) and started to push down....
before i know it im fully awake and loving the sensation so go at it pushing my member down with my hand and thrusting between the mattress'es... man if felt good and when i decided to cum i pulled up and shot my load on myself...
then looked down to see that i had cut my foreskin as i was so forcefull and the blood was on both bedsheets that i had just had sex with !!
man i panicked big time.. what an asshole !
took both white sheets off and made some crap up about spilling wine on the sheets... phewww felt awsome thought ;D
Breaking my cock? Hahahah
I'm doing it this way since I was a kid (XD) and my cock is still great and I derive a lot of pleasure from prone masturbation. I don't wanna change it just because you're telling me it's weird or I'm different. You don't have any concrete arguments, except for this is not healthy... I'm feeling really good. Even my doctor says that everything is fine with my penis.
Supine masturbation is more tiring because you have to use your hand and moisturize your cock from time to time if it's dry. Prone masturbation doesn't need that shit. You're just lying on your stomach, rubbing your cock against bed sheet like you're fucking someone and enjoying that untill you cum.
PS Sorry for my bad english if there are some mistakes...
Holy shit are you my ex?
He did the same thing. Could only cum by grinding on me or the bed.
He has phimosis and refused to get circumcised to fix it because of religious reasons.
Which is why he dumped me. For Jesus...
But I was talking only about orgasm from masturbation, not sex.
I proszę cię. Nie smiej się z mojego robienia błędów w twoim zakichanym języku, bo ja i tak umiem więcej powiedzieć w twoim niż ty w moim, fucking moron. <3 :*:*:* XD
This guy has it, but I would suggest to make it an even easier transition, buy a fleshlight, OP. My friend couldn't cum when fucking his girlfriend at all. Turns out he was just far too rough with his dick for masturbation. Bought a fleshlight and was cumming in a week.
I have always masturbated in my underwear, like i could and can masturbate the normal way but it just dosent feel the same after basically since i discovered myself doing it this one way.
Yeah I had this happen to me before. Not going to give out names of products cause of shit but basically go buy some lotion that helps your dick and use it and never rub on the bed again, and yeah what theyre saying as far as not masturbating for a week. im cut tho and i fucking hat eit