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how do I keep dudes off her
should I fatten her up?
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>>17853794
You should probably just prepare for the inevitable break-up.

inb4 jealous, nah, I've been there. If she's truly a trophy girlfriend that gets hit on constantly then it's likely she's high maintenance. You won't be able to deal with her shit.
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>Should I fatten her up
Uh bro what are you on right now

No you don't try to make your girlfriend fatter and make her health worse what are going on about man
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Niggha get swole.
Aint no better deterrent than a 6'4" by 6'4" wall of muscle and roid rage

Need advice about a girl, basically mums boss's daughter has a formal coming up (like a high school dance, happens when your 18 in your school) the boss asked my mum if id like to go with her, she instantly accepted, there are 2 problems, the girl likes nothing i like, and also has down syndrome. My mums said yes, so how the hell do i get out of going to a dance (where litterally only couples go) with a 18 year old downs girl (she looks like fucking moon man ffs, pic related) keep in mind its my mums bosses daughter

God help
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>>17853737
Pic also related
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lol owned by ur mom
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>>17853737
Fuck her

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So I have been dating this girl for about 2 months. I am a heterosexual man. I have an extremely high sex drive that I keep under control with frequent masturbation. However my girlfriend is the exact opposite. She has always had issues with her sexuality. She has never had sex, and has seen 2 dicks in her life, just giving handjobs or whatever. She says that she finds them repulsive, and the thought of sex as gross. She has stated she has literally no sex drive at all, and has no interest in sex. I am trying to be very considerate and understanding, but I have talked to her...
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find a different girl if sex life is important to you in relationships. there are plenty of girls who will agree with you and who you can form a relationship with.
she should also find a guy who doesn't enjoy sex rather then forcing you to be like her.
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>>17853643
Hate to say it but this relationship is not gonna work. Just be glad it's only a 2 month relationship and you're not married with kids.

Seriously fuck me.
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I have talked to her about sexually exploring herself. I told her that she can't know until she tries it. I think it was her upbringing and her shitty past relationships that caused her to become like this. She told me she used to be REALLY attracted to people when she was in middle school, like a raging nympho or something. She said she was attracted to their personalities, which is normal for a woman. She agrees with me that she needs to explore herself but she doesn't feel like doing it.We only talked about it last night, but I just don't want to have to let...
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I'm sixteen years old and I just dropped out of high school. I'm hoping to get my GED, which is apparently called hightest or some shit now, and I'm going to take classes at massassoit next year. I honestly couldn't handle all of the homework combined with my job, and this honestly seems like the way to go. I'm interested in cooking, but I also might want to be a welder since they make a lot of money and I've been interested in metalworking for years. I already have a car and everything seems like it's going to be great but I'm still having...
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You're apparently incapable of reading the rules too, so I don't think your future looks too bright.
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>>17853568
>Did I make the right choice?
>I'm sixteen years old and I just dropped out of high school.
no. no you did not.
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Is there an age restriction on here or something? And if so it's not like I'm on here for trap hentai or whatever you people like, I'm just here for honest advice.

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Is clubbing worth it?
>over-priced alcohol
>music is overshadowed by the people dancing, talking etc
>hearing damage as a result
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>>17853560
It's only worth it if you challenge your sexual game every time

Other wise might as well drink at a park
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>>17853560
I go to the club to dance, if I wanted a club girl I'd go on tinder

Most just go to post up and look cool

Key is to get pretty drunk before

If you aren't going to dance or help get a friend laid it's definitely not worth it
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>>17853560
Do molly and fuck girls
Just don't die

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Is the difference very noticeable?

I have an interview tomorrow, and I cant find the matching pants for a suit. So pic related is the suit jacket with black dress pants I have. Is the difference too noticeable?
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>>17853522
you can wear an odd jacket. I have a grey suit that I wear a blue jacket with. If you have a black shirt that would probably help.
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>>17853542
>black shirt
Unless OP is a member of an emo band from the mid 2000s, he shouldn't take fashion advice from you.
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>black on black
Unless you're an undertaker or on your way to meet one, never wear all black.

>>17853542
>black shirt to an all black suit
You need to stop

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Gf is going to be traveling and staying at a hotel for an expo thing for work. She'll be staying in the same hotel room as someone else from her work, not her boss but another employee, he's a middle-aged white guy like 40-45 or so years old. She says her boss just made the decision because it's cheaper than buying separate rooms.

Do I have the right to be a bit upset that she didn't tell me this until right before she leaves and do I have the right to worry at all?
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she probably hesitated to tell you because she knew you would react like this. no you don't need to worry. putting a man and a woman in a room together doesn't mean they're going to fuck.

it's not if x then y, people make decisions of their own. if she's going to cheat, she would cheat on you anyway some other time. if she isn't, she won't.

the only exception is if he is a rapist, and sexually assaults her. why is your relationship with her so shitty that you can't trust her?
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>>17853455
I believe open and honest communication is the key to any relationship. Yes I understand you being upset that she didn't tell you until last minute but perhaps she did that bc she didn't want to upset you. Also if you trust your woman and she is a good person she will not do anything even if this stranger tries. Do not whine about it do not make it a bug deal jealousy is a huge turn off for most women and will only drive her further from you.
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>>17853455
I have never heard of a company that will put opposite sex in the same room. She is pulling one over on you OP

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I feel suicidal about being mutilated, i feel like damaged goods, and i cant think about anything without it leading to that train of thought, Is ther anything i can do?, i cant restore cause ((they)) took my frenulum
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>>17853327

it sucks but its life. if it means so much that you'd kill yourself over than why not dedicate yourself to campaigning against it?
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>>17853327
Just remind yourself that you probably live in one of the most progressive countries in the world and that we've come so far promoting equality and women's rights! Hope that helps anon!
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>>17853346
>*womens privilage
Fixed that for you

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What do against thinning of your hair?
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>>17853322
minoxidil is apparently proven to work at least to some extent
finasteride has great chances of completely halting hair loss as long as you take it but it has/can have severe side effects. studies showed 2%-5% probability side effects that stopped after getting off it; however a metastudy found these studies to be somewhat biased towards a positive outcome. some men who used finasteride also reported of lasting side effects after getting off it
you should prob see a dermatologist and ask them; use minoxidil...
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1. Shave it.
2. Wear it proud.
There is an option 3 of a hair transplant or hair products, but I don't recommend either.

>>17853367
Also, monoxidil was only proven for balding that starts at the top of your head, like the center out - not for receding hairlines. (I happen to work at a vitamin reseller and it's a popular product, also part of the reason I don't recommend it)
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>>17853322
go bald

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I rarely use mayo, so what's in the fridge has been there for like a year. It's approaching its best by date, but I assume that as long as it looks and smells normal, it's fine, right?
Googling this sort of thing gives me mixed answers, which I assume is because any official source would tell you to toss it at that date to cover their own ass even if it was fine.
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>>17853246
Eat half of it in one go, probably with bread.
If you feel okay in the next 12h, eat the remains.

Bon appetit.
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Best by dates are usually much sooner than when it actually starts to degrade, give it a fookin shot, mate
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>>17853246
How expensive is mayo in your country? Because it might turn out that toilet paper you spend on your diarrhoea will cost you more than buying a new fucking jar of mayo.

If you still wanna gamble I'd say it's fine if it was closed and refrigerated. Also as previous anon said, best before dates are always too soon just for the extra bit of safety in court when someone dies after eating spoiled mayo

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For a little over a year or so i developed a sex addiction / fetish and it hasn't gone away. For some reason i have a fetish for black guys and i hate that i have it. I don't understand why i have this fetish and i really do feel embarrassed and ashamed by it. I want to overcome my fetish but i don't know how or what to do. I would like to understand why i have a fetish for black men so i can better get rid of this lame ass fetish. Again i hate that i have this and i'm ashamed, its self-destructive but i'm weak willed and act on my fetish often. I just...
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Lmao coal burner
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>>17853176
mmmm, that's some tasty bait.
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bait
said more shit about how liking black people is wrong than actually describing the problem or seeking advice
bait

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I want some entry tier philosophy literature recommendations to try to restructure my values and beliefs.

I can't quite explain my problem sufficiently, it just feels like I'm lost when it comes to my beliefs, I can't even figure myself out or answer questions like what defines me as a person, what are my values etc.

Sorry if my post was somewhat incoherent, english isn't my native language.
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I don't know, maybe you could check out some short podcasts like ethics bites and philosophy bites? Google them, each is like 15min long. You can always google more about the subject.

Also, I think it's okay if you don't have firm beliefs and opinions on every topic. To me, it's about being more knowledgeable and understanding where different sides come from. Hope it makes sense
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>>17853232
Alright thanks. It's just that I get confused about certain things, I can hardly tell "right" from "wrong" in some instances, it all just seems so gray.
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>>17853266
It is gray

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what do you spend most of ur time thinking about/talking about
different subjects
do any of you have no interests at all? WHY
but mainly what are ur interests and why.
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cooking, skincare and art

I'm currently going to culinary school and I want to be a menu designer mostly because food is a really important way to stay connected to my culture in diaspora and because making someone food and seeing their face light up when it's really good is what I fucking live for

I love skincare, but I read about it more than I really talk about it. I don't really know anyone irl who cares about it and acne is a sore spot for a lot of folks so I don't want to come across preachy. *(esp considering most of my peers can't...
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>>17853133
Nothing. I spend most of my free time on 4chan waiting for work to start again.
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VR
Music
Social Psych

>>17853469
Do you mean like the design on menus or creating a menu and cooking it lol

>>17853510
I feel you on that
I think I should stop coming here

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Already got it all. At least, the basic.

I have paid my house, my car, my private pension. Got the opportunity to raise half a million, it´s sitting there on the bank. That was the plan, and it was a success.
Raised two kids, always loving and caring, they are two nice human beings.
Now I´m bored to death, cause I lack all those "life challenges", I´m sick and tired of it all, barely have friends (and desu they are/were all co-workers), and I have no doubt I´m nobodies favorite.
Not a cranky guy, I´m usually quiet and pleasant and all. Very few...
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>>17853125
Do you have any hobbies or interests anon? Why not find new interests, set new goals and create new challenges if that is what drives you.
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>>17853125

Get a hobby that's easy to learn, but difficult to master. It gives you something to work towards. Even better if it's a sociable hobby where you can meet people and potentially befriend them. Do something you actually want to do, instead of working from a goal to goal. Human life is boring for most parts, that's why people do things that don't really count towards it for fun. Damn, go scuba diving or something.
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>>17853150
I used to have. Several, actually. But got tired of doing my things alone. There are stuff that we do together, but usually the stuff I end up choosing as hobby, even when we get enthusiastic together, I end up doing alone.

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>make house benefits claim online
>website says I can get £65 a week
>I need to go present some documents to the council
>go outside the council
>gut feeling says don't do it
>I came back home

Why do I feel that this will buy me some time to unJUST myself but will come back somehow in the future to bite me in the ass? (fucking up work opportunities or something else I might...
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get a job
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How the fuck will a housing benefit fuck you over in the future you mongoloid?
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>>17853007
Considering about it because it will buy me some time to actually start my self employment gig earlier than if I spend time on an unrelated job and eventually have a better paid and fun job.
I do work now but on this gig which only just now starting so I need the time and energy for it.

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Is it a bad idea to go to college to get a college loan just to use the extra free time and money to start a business

Any job I can get right now is about minimum wage and would require me to work more than going to school for the minimum amount of time

Extra benefit would be to take relevant classes
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>>17853000
Student loans don't work that way my man.
They go directly to the university and you just foot the bill later. Unless you mean private loans, which are harder to get.
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>>17853000
We get this a lot, it's fraud and as the above poster said you'll get only what remains after tuition is paid.

Fucking idiots I swear, if you "thought" about this idea as much as your business you're doomed to fail. Who am I kidding you were going to fail anyway.
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>>17853008
>>17853005
I was asking because my friend has been his FASFA money for a couple years to fund his dropshipping buisness and has been making a decent amount of money

So he's gonna get caught then?

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Guys, what's some genuine good first date ideas?
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Amusement park. Physiologically speaking, fear and attraction share a lot of the same characteristics (elevated heart rate, sweating, shortness of breath, etc.)

Being in a scary situation with someone, like say being on a rollercoaster, can cause the two feelings to be confused or mixed - even if she might not be that into you, her body's physiological response could trick her into thinking she is.
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I lack experience so I'm just going to tell you what you should avoid so you don't repeat my mistake. Cinema and crowded restaurants.
No I'm not a complete idiot, I'm just unlucky.
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I am kinda planning a first date as well, and my idea is basically to take her ice skating, then to a nice restaurant for dinner after

Not at the prospect of being "stable partners" but as potential fuck mates.
It's always the sports coach, the fitness instructor/personal trainer , the nature guide, the musician, the diving instructor, the yoga instructor or others that seem like the "fuckable" archetype of man. Not the blue collar welder or the white collar lawyer but something else entirely.


If I want to live a life surrounded by women who actually want me what's the best way to get out of the System?

>inb4 don't revolve your life around women
>millennia of society disagree with you and I want to get my dick wet
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>>17852942
you have a flawed worldview.
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>>17852942

What are you talking about? In my experience, blue collar guys are among the most fetishized. The hot greasy mechanic, the burly construction worker; all of those archetypes of hypermasculinity get basic bitches panties soaked. Maybe you're going after the wrong girls?
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>>17852944

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How do I end my porn addiction forever?
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Be the type of person that doesn't need to watch porn. There are no shortcuts.
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>>17852914
In the beginning you should avoid temptation get rid of anything that can be used for porn or put parental blocks on your computer after you get used to it youll be able to rely solely on willpower
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>>17852914

That picture makes me really sad.

Poor girl.

I'm about to fail college for the 2nd time. I don't know whats next for me.
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The college is not for you try something new and exciting. I dont know about your country but in mine there are lots of alternatives! Its not over yet Anon
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Generally higher salaries and job prospects for the rest of your life.

Wait, you said, "fail."

The opposite, then.
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>>17852818
Burgeristan.


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