Getting married /b/ ... thing is my future wife has stopped initiating

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>>592054494

>>592054494
lol get used to it.. you're in her world now

Not married yet not legal run man

What's her reasoning? How long have you two been together?

Don't marry her.

If you're with a chick who's definitely not fucking you anymore, she's either already fucking someone else or wants to.

>>592054494

Talk to her about it and not us? Or call it off.

>>592054494
Not married yet? Why go through with it?

>>592054494
Get a more horny wife, your wife is going to get fat if she doesnt fuck.

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>>592054494

http://youtu.be/swgU1x9T-EY

Talk with her about this. You should be comfortable with eachother about things like that by now. If not, you shouldn't marry her.

>>592054911
>this

Once you're married, she has no use for your cock anymore -- only your money.

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>>592054494
Time to set ground rules. Tell her you can't live in a sexless marriage. Maybe she will give some lame excuse about "not feeling attractive anymore" or some shit. My wife did the same thing, so I started waking her up in the middle of the night to fuck. After initiating while she was asleep, it was easy as shit because she'd be horny as hell. Then our sex life became much more about me being dominant, so what I say goes in the bedroom now. Maybe your fiance is craving that, I dunno, but I hope this helps.

tell her if she doesn't start putting out she's going to have an embarrassing wedding day when her ass is alone at the altar and you're laughing it up with your bros

RUN. Happened to me. I went through with the marriage, I wish I had called it off. I'm lucky if I can get her to fuck me once a month, and she bitches about everything all the time.

>>592054494
Over how long a period are we talking? If it's a week, maybe there is something going on with her and she hasnt figured out how to talk to you about it. If it's longer than that, I guess now that she has security she no longer sees the need to fuck you which demands for conversation.

Either way, talk to her about it and ask whats up.

>>592055165
this

>>592054494
Marriage is a buttfuck retarded proposition that can only serve to fuck you over. And having problems beforehand? Don't do it man.

Don't do it. Wasted 9 years of my life only to have her leave me anyway. Just don't fucking do it. It's too late for me. I wish I had been warned.

>>592054494
It's her job to make sure you're happy.

Communicate with her. Explain what the problem is and what she can do about it. You should also try and get her in the mood with romance etc.

You can try different tactics like saying ok you're going to the toilet for a wank. Usually most women will realise they're not doing their job and feel bad and behave themselves out of guilt and fear of inadequacy. This really works. Try this.

If she doesn't listen or respond dump her. There's only one conceivable reason why you would involve a woman in your life full stop, never mind marry one. And that's sex. If she can't even do that, get rid.

>>592055446
Best advice. And not like this >>592055457
asshole. His way you'll just get in a big fight with her with his demands and groundrules. Underage confirmed.

>>592054494
Tell her if it's going to be like that, you're find yourself a woman to fuck or start going to prostitutes. Also - have a distribution of wealth in your marriage, so she can't fuck you over and get your money in case you'll divorce. And from what you say, I predict a divorce.

>>592056047
>being afraid to argue about what you need in a relationship
You're a massive faggot and I'll bet you're not even married.

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>>592055148
She claims she is tired from work. I go out of my way for her regularly, try my best at being romantic but have been getting turned down. I've asked her straight up, have I done anything.
Are you mad at me? she claims she isn't so wtf is it ?

lmao at all the neckbeards that think this is a fixable situation..

she'll fuck you when she feels like it.. doesnt mean she's going to cheat on you, she just has control of the sex..

my wife tends to get super horny right before she rags out for the month.. tear that shit up for a week.. otherwise.. fleshlights and xvideo are a pretty good substitute...

>>592056298
cheating

>>592054494
Got any mutual resentment going on? That's a killer of every relationship.

If you want to really get married and make it work, go to counseling. Chances are she feels the way she does because either she is having second thoughts about the marriage, or is holding back feelings that she isn't sharing with you.

That, or you could just call it off and dump her ass, and save yourself the divorce in 3-10 years.

>>592056298
She no longer sounds sexually attracted to you. When this happens the relationship is over.

>>592056185
>you know me

I'm not afraid to argue. I'm just saying, start to talk with her instead of starting with rules and shit. If normal talk doesnt help, then you use that.

>>592055165
>>592055451
>>592055446
OP is a faggot.

>>592054865
Sauce?

>>592056492
Might be this, for real, no samefagging here bro...

>>592054494
what is name of that porn actress?

>>592055165

Agreed, this.

>>592054494
Cheat. Act like you don't care. She'll be begging.

>>592056787
Remy LaCroix

>>592054494

Then don't get married, because it gets even worse. Matter of fact, tell her you want to put the wedding off for now and need some space. That'll make her get her shit in gear real fucking quick. If you don't take control now, you will forever be a slave to her vagina, up until the part where it's someone else that has their dick in it. Don't be a faggot.

>>592056298
but you havent asked her why she turns you down all the time? Stop letting her fill in the blanks what you mean with that and ask her directly y u no sex?

>all the neckbeards that think this is a fixable situation

Confirmed autistic

That's a sneak peek at how the rest of your marriage is going to be like. If you don't think you can put up with that, call it off.

>>592056554
I'm really interested in making this work I really love this woman she has never given me any reason to doubt her other than the lack of sex, I've tried talking to her about it all but it never changes. How can I tell her that marriage is off the table unless something changes, without her having a fucking meltdown about the wedding?

>>592056298
Maybe she's tired from work. Or she has lost interest in you, you'd better find another woman before she realizes she can do better.

>>592056469

>Says the beta faggot whom gave up.

Just fucking talk to her about it. How is this even difficult.

>>592054494
>>592054911
>>592055451
>>592055457
>>592055686
>>592055983


Fucking retards and beta fags that don't understand women like dick just as much as men do.

>>592055165
this. Op, she's definitely fucking someone else and is not attracted to you anymore.

>>592055585
>>592055944

Who did she turn out to be fucking instead?

>>592056047
>why did girls always go for assholes?
>WAAAAA!!!

>>592056114
Pointless

>>592056298
Oh, my. I guess we found out who she's fucking. It's her boss or coworker. Got any coworkers in mind it could be?

Op, as a seasoned vet and vagologist, I suggest you leave her. When she asks why, tell her because you no longer have a sex life. If she doesn't try to rectify it or try hard to get you back, she obviously doesn't want you and you're better off not staying in the relationship. There are plenty of sexier girls out there that would love your dick more than her.

>>592054865
i need sauce on this

end it now clean, or end it in 7 years with child support + alimony

Basically OP - be alpha. Tell her - we're either having sex or I'm finding myself a woman, because I want and need sex. If you don't find me attractive anymore...

I know looking for advice on the internet is fucked up, but... Man to another man dude... I wish you best. This chick sounds like she's either cheating or lost her interest in you.

>>592054494
open honest communication with your future wife..
and then some soul searching to decide if being with this girl is more important to you than having sex every single time you want it. sex is a big part of a relationship, however if it's the only part of yours then I have some bad news for you.... if the answer to that previous question is you love her despite her not wanting to put out all the time... then congrats!!!! your already a click away from all the random porn to satisfy your urges till she gets back in the mood.

also if your like right before your wedding, then some girls (or at least in my experience my wife) will decline sex under the idea that it will make the wedding night banging a bit more special... they will also expect you to understand this without it being explained to you.... good luck

>>592057119
>without her having a fucking meltdown about the wedding?
Jesus Christ, thats the point. She has to fucking meltdown. She has to realise this relationship is a two-way street.

>>592057119
Honestly just tell her. Don't B.S. around it with sensitivity, because then she'll say why didn't you just say so when things blow up. Say it LOUD AND CLEAR NOW! Maybe try "why don't you start sucking my pecker more or we aren't going to work out." Pepper in a cunt or bitch to assert dominance.

>>592057119

Go to counseling, or else expect a meltdown. At least in counseling you have someone there trying to do the damage control.

>>592057256
This Fucking Faggot.

>>592054494
Then don't marry her op why would you make yourself suffer with a woman who doesn't care to satisfy you even though you would do anything for her without another question asked. How is that fair to yourself?
>real advice on /b/

>>592054494
Holy fuck that is me right here (minus getting married)

We think its down to her anxiety medication. Sometimes she is extremely horny and wants to be fucked long and hard, but most of the time she does not want anything at all.

What do i do? I love this girl but the amount of sex im getting is depressing and frustrating

Whatever is going on, don't expect getting married to improve or fix it, because it won't.

If you can't get it fixed, and you're hoping for more than jerking off to /b/ loli threads for the rest of your life, bail the fuck out.

>>592056920
Taking a break is a good idea, because as I said, I believe she is cheating. Take a break, and she will either re-evaluate what shes been doing (if she's been cheating) or she may realise intimacy is a big part of a relationship

>>592057256
cont. this is actually a winwin situation I set you up for. You'll be happier if you follow my advice.

If she rectifies it, you'll get what you want and she'll want you more for not overcatering to her. Girls love a man that stands up for themselves and one they're afraid has options other than her.

If she doesn't, I opened you up to the world of possibilities.

>>592054494
at the very least u have to hold off with wedding until this issue is settled.

also, u know u can get married without involving the state right? just make up ur own ceremony, that should be more romantic than having letting the goverment into ur lovelife.

if u do need to involve the state in ur marriage, sign a prenup.

>>592057204
I love my wife for who she is.. not the amount of sex she gives me..

she doesnt have access to my money.. and I have someone to spend my life with as an equal

as opposed to you who jerks off with his tears in a dank basement trying to be an internet tough guy.. faggot

>>592057632
Dump her, hard to hear but hey I'm in the exact situation and I'm ready to dump her too, your libido's aren't the same. Find someone who matches you.

>>592057119
just to let you know... she's female... if its not this it will be something else.. she will meltdown about the wedding at some point... just expect it, tell her it will be okay, and shockingly it usually will work itself out and you'll end up hitched... but yeah if your expecting a drama free wedding... good fucking luck

>>592057256
>>592056114
What's pointless? Talking about other women or having distribution of wealth? I for one would never want a bitch to go away with my hard earned money anon. No fucking way. Most of women I met are fucking LAZY. AS. FUCK! Bitches not getting away with my money after a failed marriage.

As for threatening with other women... If she's already cheating herself, that might trully evoke laughter and nothing more...

>>592054494
Play the "break up" game.

Jokingly imply a request for a handjob, or Blowjob, even plain-jane sex.

If she declines, jokingly state that you are going to get a hooker, or have an affair with unrealistic person (like a Hollywood actress), or the 10/10 coffee slinger that's 10 years younger, and out of your league.

Use psychology when "joking" around, if she takes it too seriously, then it's on her to step up her game.

>>592057379
lel

I like that last part where women are still these ambiguous bitches. Please.

>>592057119
Maybe she is testing you.
Bitches always test us.

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do this.

Tell her that you need to get laid every now and then. Start jerking off in front of her, start going out with the boys and coming home late. If it comes down to it, tell her that you will get sex somewhere else. I'm dead serious. Insight a little fear, women seem to not understand a mans need for sex.

>>592054494
Your libido is higher than hers most likely.

90% this will never, ever change but likely the gap increases.

If it's a problem now, it gets worse later.

If you are like me, you like mutual satisfaction opposed to a one way sexual pleasure thing.

That means you change your desires and focus on other things for the rest of your life or if it's an issue you need to deal with the fact that you'll never be satisfied.

You can try taking to her. My guy tells me she's reverting to a more natural (for her), less sexual state.

Women change after they marry a guy (as do men). The hunt is over.

Good luck...

>>592057806

>I love my wife for who she is.. not the amount of sex she gives me..

oh my god you are so fucking pathetic no wonder she cant stomach the idea of fucking you anymore

>>592057954
lol.. if you care for her in the slightest.. this is a good way to fuck it right up..

if all you want is sex.. why the fuck are you in a relationship..

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>>592057379

>>592057706
Taking a break means the end of a relationship, either immediately or down the line. And she's going to fuck ALOT of guys while you're in "break" mode.

That said, OP, things are only going to get worse after you get married. Be thankful that she's showing this side of her now, and don't marry her.

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check the manosphere for your answers.

basically you arent acting like a man, so she isnt acting like your woman.

>>592058004
Oh god. If she's a tester, have fun, because your life is going to be an annoying nightmare. Those bitches are the worst of the worst. Like, you aren't testing love, you're just being a dumb cunt.

>>592057954
Joking around is for faggots who can't talk straight (no pun intended).

take an egg heads advice, its just cooling off, she's not having an affair.

http://www.thebookoflife.org/why-we-go-off-sex/

wow

Because she won't take him seriously. She'll take it as an out to fuck around on him more. She'll call his bluff.

Now if he leaves her, or tries to, she'll get the point and assume other women.

That's like me telling someone I have a gun as oppose to flashing the gun. Why would you tell someone you have a gun.

>>592054494
She's cheating on you. Don't marry her.

>>592057806
You may think your relationship doesn't have to be about sex, but uh yeah sex is actually kind of important. If she isn't fucking you then she's relieving herself another way OP. Unless you are about to marry someone who is asexual, she is either doing the business herself or cheating on you. <- and neither are fair to you.

>>592058098
who said she doesnt sleep with me?

shes not a horny fucking teenager anymore, and neither am I.. people grow up buddy.. maybe you should try it.. you might manage to get more than a pushbike that everyones had a crack at..

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>>592058051
and this. don't forget to kick her stomach though.

>>592056298
GETTING CUCKED BRO FUCKING LEL

ask her how she like the new young intern Jerome and Desean

>>592058183
Oh i most definitely agree, but it's probably a better way to do it then to just accuse her of cheating to her face. at least this way he may not have burned bridges.

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>>592058424

>>592057954
>wanting to play spiteful games in a "loving" relationship

Why would you do this to yourself?

>>592054865
need sauce

>>592058238
Again, this.

Regain your foothold as the man in the relationship. Her pussy will get wet if you do. If she really doesn't want it, and found someone she thinks is better than you, you won't deal with this problem anymore. You'll be open to the world of possibilities I mentioned and realize how you've been missing out and how much girls will do to cater to their man.

When a girl lives in a bubble by only dating betas, she fancies herself as a high commodity and doesn't have to deal with competitors, therefore doesn't need to try to please you.

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>>592057256

Obvious beta pretending to be a sex expert online

>>592058424
This guy is mad. How old are you guy? If you're in college or let's say less than 35, you should still be pretty fucking horny. Also, your use of incomplete ellipsis, implies you're definitely not the age you're letting on to.

>>592054494
>Write down the most recent great sex you BOTH had
>Put down every detail from hours before to hours after
>Now write down the last bad sex you BOTH had
>Etc put down all the details
>cross out similar details and see what makes sex good/bad
>do good things avoid bad things
>win when ur wife is wet

>>592057119
Here's the problem - what about YOU?

What about YOUR feelings?

What about YOUR desires?

If you don't put yourself first, and if you don't make your desires a priority, she's going to walk all over you for the duration of your marriage.

Let her have her fucking meltdown. She needs to realized that THIS IS A VERY REAL AND SERIOUS PROBLEM IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT *NEEDS* TO BE ADDRESSED.

You only hear that people are unhappy with marriage because they're the ones spending time whining rather than having sex. NORMAL REGULAR COUPLES HAVE REGULAR SEX. COUPLES THAT HAVE PROBLEMS DO NOT.

Your options:

1. Talk it out (try to), I doubt it'll work if you haven't dragged "what you did wrong" out of her already.

2. End it. Burn it to the ground and start over.

3. GO TO COUNSELING. Hell, have her arrange it, but you need to demand it. If she balks, or says no, or throws a fucking fit, then she might not be ready for marriage.

TLDR: You have a VERY SERIOUS AND REAL PROBLEM in your relationship and speaking with a qualified counselor will help. Hopefully you can learn to communicate your feelings better so that you won't let resentment destroy your marriage like I did.

>>592056298
sauce

>>592058075
>The hunt is over

Fuck, of course it is. In my last relationship... After 2 years together most of the time we just cuddled, but when one of us felt like it... the other almost never refused... Fuck... Anon, sex isn't the most important thing, but people in a relationship, and foremost those getting married... I think they need it.

>>592058911
If you read what I wrote, and you weren't a beta, you'd know better.

>>592058406
i love how the first conclusion insecure fags come to is 'shes cheating'...

you need to look at yourself if thats what you first think because the sex drops off.. way too insecure in yourself if you think the woman you're about to marry is cheating just because you arent getting any.. really quite pathetic

>>592056575
marriage has nothing to do with sexual pleasure
, thats why you have children

>>592056298
She doesn't love you anymore dumbfuck

>>592056710
>>592057278
>>592058820
i found it xbabe com/ videos/graceful-solo-with-beauty-from-digital-desire/

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>>592058424
.

>>592058706
reroll

Dont get married.

>>592058998
Yeah nigger, relationships aren't 100/0 they are 100/100 not even 50/50 you both need to be happy. You already told us faggots that you aren't happy. Isn't that enough of a reason for you to go and have a talk with your woman dude?

>>592058998

This

>>592054494
advice?
don't get married to that bitch you fool!

>>592054494
Confront her, she is probably no longer attracted to you. Don't marry her until you found the cause. There is no point in marriage if someone in the relationship no longer feels love for his/her partner.

>>592059254
I think he wants to change the situation without doing anything. Makes sense.

>>592058998
>>592057119
>>592054494

Also, it's not "what YOU did wrong". This has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her. If she can't let go of shit you did, or if she can't communicate her feelings, then she needs to start packing her shit.

Seriously, YOU did NOTHING WRONG, OP. You just want what everyone in a NORMAL, HAPPY, HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP has.

>>592054494
cheat on her before the wedding, get her to call it off. If you wait until after , she gets half of your shit.

captcha- mensa

>>592058305
>http://www.thebookoflife.org/why-we-go-off-sex/
thanks for this, good read

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Your future wife is letting the feminist infection close her legs.

She "wont initiate, she not in the mood"? WTF,

you a cuckold you fucking beta cunt?

You take that shit. Next time you hard, you go

and you slap her ass with the cock (if you are

bigger than 2 inches) and tell her to suck it for

her reward.

If she says "not in mood" grab her hand and make her touch it. Make her fuck it.

My fucks you males have become pussyfied by tv, and western merican women.

>>592058831
This, stop giving her attention and see how she reacts. If she doesn't react then start going friends and not coming home till late. If not that then straight up tell her your going to fuck other women until she puts out or just end the relationship.

>>592059082

Everything about what you wrote leads me to believe you're a teenage pony fag and closet homo