Hey /b/, ask me anything about sex. Want to make a girl leave marks on your back? Wondering why your cock won't go up? Trying to spice things up in bed? I'll help you out.
Don't ask me how to pick up girls, I'm not a fucking pick-up artist.
If you actually had much experience you'd know women vary hugely in what actually works/turns them on.
There are a few basics which will never go down badly, but there's no golden key.
You can be a God to one woman and average/poor to another.
not OP - but some things that work with literally almost every person you'll fuck is:
1. be relaxed. let them be relaxed. just flow into it, it's a completely natural state and try to just be in the moment.
2. talk about shit! what do you both like?
3. an addition to step 2: realize that not all communication is verbal, especially during sex, so get good at reading body language. some people compare sex to tuning an instrument in that you're just kind of trying to figure out what works and what doesn't.
You can't stop thoughts from coming, either learn to accept them and deal with them and make it manageable, or spend your life fighting yourself.
It's different for every woman. Some are more prone to it, some are prone but stop themselves from doing it because they are embarrassed, some desperately want to but can't.
If you want a girl to squirt, be fucking relentless, take control of her and find out what she likes the most by watching her reaction (or communicating and asking her). Take control of her and make her beg you stop and keep going at the same time, if she says no with a smile on her face you're on the right track.
You can be a god to every woman as long as you want to please her and are open to what she wants.
I feel that my penis is unattractive
Too short(about 6-7 inches), tiny(diameter of 2 fingers) and uncut.
I want her to leave marks on my back.
I want to fuck a neighbour, she's 25+ and I'm 19
I want to fuck classmate
Well yes but that takes time to learn, you have to communicate. That doesn't counter anything I said.
You have to re-learn for most women, there aren't "moves" that will just make anyone think you are amazing.
Try taking MAOIs/SSRIs. Try switching up, playing your strengths, using your fingers and your hands, take control of a girl, make her want your cock inside her very badly so it's more of a blessing for her than for you.
Find out what GETS you hard and do that in sex. If your gf/partner is shit at getting you hard, just go down on her and do it with your hand if you want to fuck her. If you feel yourself go limp again, switch things around and start fingering her or licking her again. Do things purposefully and use your erection whenever you can, that way she won't even notice when it goes away and you'll stay harder anyway.
>I'm not a fucking pick-up artist
Don't look, at it, think about other things. To quote Big Narstie:
"I can't look at what I'm doing or I'll pop. I've gotta think about other things. All those man I lent £5 to? I'm tryna find em"
The more YOU care about it, the more the girl will care about it. The less you let her care, the more you do with her whatever the fuck ever regardless, the more she will love your cock.
I don't have to, you're just attacking me for no reason and talking nonsense.
Of course there are fucking things that every single girl fucking likes, we're all fucking human. Fool around with a girl, slide your hand in her panties and cup it over her pussy and it doesn't matter whether you have your horny classmate, Kim Kardashian or a Japanese hooker, she will WANT you to touch her. By going through the moves and trying foolproof things you WILL find out what a girl likes, then you focus on that.
Assuming you won't get a girl off because you don't know what she likes will get you nowhere because she notices. If a girl feels like you're a man who knows how to pleasure her, whether you've just met her or known her for years, she will let you do just that.
>Want to make a girl leave marks on your back?
op, why do most guys have so much difficulty doing any of this. Hell I was a virgin until I was 18, and then the first time I screwed i got her to climax 3 times with just my dick.
My question is, do you think the men that cant perform naturally are barely men at all like i do?
Press your tongue on her clit and moan and hum against it, wrap your arms around her thighs and throw her back and forth, slamming her clit against your tongue, play gently with her clit with the tip of your tongue, then dig it inside her pussy, get a good taste, and trace it up slowly and flick her clit. Gently grab her clit between your teeth (GENTLY FOR FUCKS SAKE) and roll it around.
Tease the FUCK out of her. Don't dive in, but kiss her inner thighs, her tummy, kiss on either side of her labia, kiss her pubic bone, look her in the eye and breathe on her clit, stick out your tongue and hold it a fraction of an inch from her pussy, and when you do touch it, make it the lightest of touches possible. The more she wants it, the better it'll feel for her.
Don't underestimate spanking. Make her feel like she's actually being punished and she will love it. Also pick her up once in a while or put all your weight over her to dominate her. Basically let her know who her daddy is.
I enjoy the way you dealt with your faggy heckler.
What is the best position in your opinion to get a girl to cum? The one I go to is missionary (sorry) with a pillow under her hips
i did that to my girl while her hands were tied to the couch while she layed and she had her eyes covered with a scarf and she was out of herself, i've never seen her as horny as that time
best sex we ever had right after that
Most guys think they have to do certain specific things to measure up to a girl's sexual standards which makes them nervous and insecure.
Girls want a guy who can bring them pleasure and they get off on giving a guy pleasure. It's different for every girl and really, all you have to do is try different things, test the water and see how she responds (physically and verbally). Any guy who relies on his instincts will have no trouble getting a girl off.
Does it decrease your pleasure or do you feel you need to stay hard for her?
Anything where a girl has her legs together. I fucking LOVE fucking a girl awake. I used to have an ex who was extremely fucking tight in the morning but also extremely fucking wet, I could slide right in and I'd feel her labia peel my fucking foreskin away as I'd slide inside her. Then she'd wake up and her pussy would squeeze all around my cock, but especially the tip.
It's a sign she's having a great fucking time.
It differs per girl, but what I've noticed works best is the following: Lie her down face-down and put a pillow underneath her stomach, enough for her hips to tilt just a bit. Fuck her not straight from behind, but from above, so in a position that you can kiss her neck. Try not to go up-down, but rather back-forth. That way you'll perfectly rub the tip of your cock back and forth over her gspot. For bonus points, reach around and grab her neck and squeeze it with one hand, and with the other reach below her legs and turn her clit with every thrust you make.
>It's a sign she's having a great fucking time.
so what? the romans had a great fucking time, that didn't make it feel better to have your back slashed into bloody strips of loose meat.
Hah, I surprised one of my exes with handcuffs, a blindfold and a ballgag for valentine's day. I kissed her around her pussy so much she ended up grabbing my head with her legs and thrusting it into her pussy.
Depends on the girl whether she will actually like it or not, but make sure if you convince her you do it for HER. You want to give HER pleasure she's never felt before and you KNOW how to do it by fucking her ass. Convince her that by denying you, she's missing out on a world of pleasure.
Pretty much anything I've said in this thread. If you tease a girl enough and get her pussy wet and swollen as fuck, it won't matter whether you've got a horse cock or a poodle cock, she'll fucking crave it.
Big cocks are only good for GETTING a girl horny, something you can do with your mouth, fingers and body anyhow.
My girl is prone to UTIs. I've tried everything, including brushing, flossing, and using mouthwash literally minutes before going down on her. I'm generally very hygienic, but she won't allow me to go down for fear of getting another UTI.
Also, she's really tight. Because of relationship issues, we've gone a while without sex, and now I can't fit my dick inside her without causing pain, but she doesn't want my fingers, and she's afraid of my tongue. Wat do?
Try focusing less on your pleasure on more on hers. And no in a desperate sense like "oh god I have to please her and I'm going soft oh no", just be convinced that you can get her off and your cock is a tool for doing it. Try different things for yourself as well, find out what your real fetishes are and work them into your sexual escapades.
Varying. Some guys are just most sensitive, but it's also a mental thing. Switch things up, play some of your strengths using your fingers, your tongue, dirty talk. Before going in grab your dick and slap her clit, then slide in, pull out again, slap her clit again, lean over her, kiss her neck and finger her. Play around with her and get her so worked up that she too will cum as soon as you fuck her.
MAOIs will also help, they can be found in St John's wort or passionflower supplements, which you can buy in almost any general store or pharmacy.
Been dating a girl for 4 months. Shes 32 im 26. The sex was nothing less than perfect in the beginning. Now I'm finding it more difficult to last longer. She's told me I make her cum harder than any other guy she's ever been with. I think the pressure has got to me. Tips?
Then you have to find out what you really like, what your strongest fetishes are, what gets you off the most, what keeps you the hardest, do that with her. It sounds like your partner is sufficiently satisfied so I'm sure she'll be more than willing to indulge to give the same to you. Girls LOVE getting their guys off.
Is her middle name Catharina?
Don't worry so much. She's figures out your buttons and she LOVES that she knows how to get you off. If you really want to last longer you'll have to switch things up, fuck her intermittently and go down on her more during sex or finger her more. Or switch between fucking her fucking brains out and pulling her her, or getting close to her, body-to body, sliding in and out of gently.
Thank fuck, because you described 1:1 what I went through with my first girlfriend. It's actually because of her that I became borderline obsessed with how to pleasure a girl.
With her it was because she was really fucked up in the head, her parents were both nuts and she'd been sexually abused as a kid by her stepsister. Your gf MIGHT, MIGHT, MIGHT have similar issues which is why her pussy will contract very hard. Try talking to her, with concern and care and ask her what she thinks might cause her to be so tight and painful. Ask her what she wants most out of sex, what pleases her.
As for the UTIs, get cranberry concentrate.
I have no trouble getting my girl to cum multiple times through penetration alone, but (including foreplay) it takes me upwards of 40 minutes to have sex because I can't finish.
Actually, her mom ignores her and her dad is overbearing. And she was sexually abused by her stepdad.
Well fuck, maybe they're more similar than I thought. You think it's the fear of abuse that's making her contract?
google it. it's not any type of drug, it's a supplement that keeps the lining of her urethra from becoming irritated. sounds weird but it works. should be taken daily, about one teaspoon
It takes you 40 minutes INCLUDING foreplay? God, I'm jealous. My girl takes upwards of an hour of EXCLUSIVE foreplay before she'll even consider doing anything.
Well, now it's more than that. I haven't had sex in a year, and haven't received a blowjob in longer than that.
opinions on positions to make her enjoy it more? I already have about two but I just want to be able to do a bit more for future reference
nigga, either leave that bitch or fuck someone else. I'm not even joking. I never condone cheating, but if my girlfriend fucking withheld like that for longer than a Year I'd either speak to her and tell her I'm considering breaking up with her or I'd fuck someone else and just say it's her fault for not fucking me while she had the chance.Shit frustrates me.
this has to be a troll.
there is no way your dick is that small you can't tear a woman's hymen.
And guess what? Sticking it in the pink makes you a NOT virgin.
So deal with it
So I am in sort of a relationship with my step sister. We didn't grow up together and there is a 10 yr age gap.
6-7 months ago we fucked and then dated for a month before I ended it cause of reasons. Ever since then we've been close cause of what we've been through. Want to officially date her again but shes said no each time. Here recently we've been closer than ever. Text all the time, sit/cuddle on couch each night, I love you every night and morning, when I come home she runs to hug me.
Pic is of our conversation talking about how I am in trouble with dad.
Any pic soon.
What can I do? Ask me anything
Simple, you like this girl right?
She wants your hot prince bod right?
Man up and tell her you can't picture life without her.
Then kiss her deeply, ect. ect. Congrats you're in a relationship with the woman. Enjoy your happy life.
after 45 minutes, she's just plain tired.
She can keep having sex, but she ain't doing any work.
Average time? if you work on your diet? I say 15 minutes tops, no condom.
For her? You best put effort if you care about her enjoying it.
Agreed, I just suggest he do it in person over dinner or the movies.
Bitches love that shit. hell even over a phone call,
It's not a problem, it's a blessing. Most girls would kill to have guys who can last that long.
Not the fear of abuse, but the association with it. You'll have to be gentle and find out what will please her but not make her uncomfortable.
Also if they are THAT similar she'll be a sub type of girl, try and be a bit dom if she is.
Don't make it a give and take sort of thing, tit for tat. Eat her out because it pleases you, because you want to please her, because it gets you off. Stick your cock in your mouth and have her suck it for HER AND YOUR pleasure.
Try different things, it depends on her really. Spoon her, fuck her from behind on her knees, fuck her from behind with her lying own, spoonfuck her from behind, fuck her sideways, missionary, throw her legs over her shoulders, experiment and see what she likes.
This has to be a troll and if it isn't you're underage.
Don't know, you could have an insensitive cock, it could be a mental thing, maybe she just doesn't get you off.
About 5-10 minutes.
Whether a girl thinks it's too long or too short REALLY depends on the girl. I've had 6-hour fucking sessions and I've had girls that could barely take more than a few hard poundings.
Alright round 2!
Dating this current chick right now for a bit over a year. Now I love her, and she loves me. I know this much for a fact, but I'm having second thoughts whenever I hang out with my childhood friend who's a girl, who I'm fond of very much.
tl;dr thinking about ditching gf 1yr for childhood friend
Do it but don't do it for too long. Fuck her brains out, pull the fuck out, slap her clit with your cock then dive on it with your tongue. When your cock is desensitized enough, fuck her brains out again. Keep her stimulated non-stop and keep switching up and you will outlast her and make her beg for your cum to finally come out of you.
Its what I want. Last time we talked about it was about two months ago and she i said to her if we can't be together for her to tell me and she said we couldn't. I told her id not mention it again.
We almost had a sexual experience not long ago but living at home makes things hard.
im taking her out to eat monday on her lunch break.
I can't fucking tell you. Look in the mirror, look in your eyes and ask yourself: what do I really want?
Don't be with a girl you don't want to be with because it will hurt you both, don't confuse feelings of friendship with love. Figure it out.
Yeah look, I'm all about the fucking and making love and stuff. But I ain't about to put my mouth JUST where my dick was.
Just a pet peeve of mine, but yeah switching it up is a good idea
I need help op, me and my girlfriend met online and we havent seen each other, she is coming to see me in a few weeks and we are planning on having a lot of sex. I am a pretty small guy unfortunately and she wants me to be really rough with her, are there any tips and tricks you could recommend?
>on a 2 month nofap to cure my fetishes. will this work? if it doesnt how can i cure the fuck out of myself?
yep it will work if you don't relapse, don't listen to those 2 fucktards atlking about shit they don't know, been there done that it works.
OP OP OP OP QUESTION
I am male, just had sex for first time in over six months. Day after, back of legs are sore as fuck.
Why? and what do?
I hate being an adult, why can't I just let everyone else make my choices for me and just let me drink my juice!?
But yeah thanks for the words. I definitely have to figure this out
Good job OP.
You're giving decent advice which doesn't happen too often here.
I agree with everything you say.
Call me weird, look if it was after a day and ya know. Showers were taken sure I'm down, I just don't like that idea, hell I find it crazy hard to kiss her after she gives me a blowjob.
Hey OP, just a question, I have no problem staying hard when I'm fucking my gf but I do have some trouble with other girls
I've cheated her 3 times...
First time was with my ex (I still had feelings for her at the moment) and I had no problem staying hard.
Second time was a slutty experienced girl from work, at first I thought I had no chance with her, turns out she liked me too, we tried to fuck but I got hard only when she gave me a great bj, after that when I tried to penetrate her I went soft... Shit sucked a lot, I got pretty traumatized (first time it happened) and she was a cunt about it.
Third third time was with a girl I met in the mall, I stayed hard at first, then went soft, then she said something "anon aren't you exited?" I said to her "you need to work a little bit harder", she gave me a bj and got hard, but not when I was trying to fuck her.
But that never happens with my gf, I always stay hard with her, what the fuck is wrong with me?
Right me not sucking my own dick. I am pretty disgusting,
>Yeah look, I'm all about the fucking and making love and stuff. But I ain't about to put my mouth JUST where my dick was.
If you don't want your mouth where your dick just was you probably aren't keeping it clean enough...
Also, you expect her to take it in her mouth but yourself to be too good to go on her pussy after having touched it with your dick...?
Be rough with her. That's pretty much it. BE rough, TAKE her.
Because those muscles are underused and weak. Go bikeriding more often. Also, not unsurprisingly, doing lying hip thrusts will help too. Don't feel retarded about it, just see it as a workout, which it is.
Not wanting it doesn't make it go away. Either you deal with it or it deals with you.
Ok OP you seem legit. Let's give it a go.
I always ore-cum loads. Takes me a while to cum (thankfully) but I can rarely use condoms because there is so much fucking precum the condom slides off. I've tried big ones, small ones, same result. I've tried varying shapes of condoms and ones with different stuff on the inside. No change really.
Chicks don't seem to mind - would rather not have to wipe my cock on the sly every few minutes when we're getting jiggy though so she doesn't get slopped with pre-cum.
It's load man, like a crying child.
faggot, you wouldn't suck your own dick?
Op what r ur thoughts?
>Not sucking dick.
Yeah I must be one of those gays I keep hearing about
I've never had or heard of this problem, but fapping before you're with a girl will decrease the amount of cum you'll release for a few hours, that might help. Also supplements like zinc and vitamin D will make your boners harder, which will make it harder for precum to come out (make sure you get zincgluconate, not zincoxide, gluconate allows it to be absorbed in your body better)
I myself have the opposite: I have NO pre-cum, never had it. I myself don't have to use condoms that much because I only have cum coming out when I really cum.
QUESTION: so i broke up with my first gf 6 months ago and since then have tried to get with 3 girls since but each time couldnt get into it because i just cant find any other girls attractive.
My first girlfriend was really hot, but its gotten to the point now where i cant find anyone else attractive, and we broke up for good reason so im never going back to her.
how do you recommend regaining my attraction to other girls? Has anyone else had this issue? and dont say oneitis, I know thats what this is but i want to cure it.
Really, do whatever you want, where is your sexual question though?
Your dick IS your brain. Your brain and body aren't separate entities, they are one thing. When you're in love you get butterflies in your stomach, when you're sad your body feels heavy, and when you're cheating on the girl you with and you have unconscious feelings of guilt you won't get hard.
I rarely use them, and if I do just the standard durex one, can't help you too much with this, sorry :-/
Also, the largest part of going soft during sex is being scared of going soft.
Obviously you're not over your ex and you're comparing other girls to her. It takes time.
Also there will NEVER EVER be a girl like your first, sorry to break it to you, but once you truly accept all this it'll get easier for you. The first is always special, because it's the fucking first. Every guy has a sort of instinctual urge to put his first girl on a pedestal. Once you accept it and stop caring that your brain does that you'll find it easier to get with other girls.
I rarely use condoms myself, but it's really a mental thing. You don't like condoms so you don't like how they feel, learn to like them somehow, maybe find a fetish and do it for the first time with a condom on.
Zinc and vitamin D supplements.
You're not small, any position is good. If you want to go really deep, use positions that have your body close to hers. The deepest I can do is when I raise one of my girl's legs, put mine between, and go as close to her as possible.
hey thanks man. Im kinda happy cause we broke up from her cheating on me with my brother, which makes me FUCKING HATE her, so emotional loving feelings are mostly gone but her body still just ugh, pops into my head whenever i see another girl. Always comparing.
but hey if thats normal for a guys first then im not as worried about it. Thanks.
My girl and I aren't having sex because in college and want careers before babies.
That said, how do I get her more interested in oral? I eat her out all the time because I like it but she isn't all that in to sucking me, and always has excuses like cuts on her lips or cheeks or something.
Also, how do I confront her about shaving? She shaves the bush but not the labia/ ground zero and the hair is ~inch. I've learned to ignore it but i hate getting the hairs in my mouth. I asked ehy once and she says she "doesnt want to look like a 5 year old".
okay, op listen to as follows.
Same sort of issue here. Im fat, 5.5 length and 4 girth.
We fucked once and haven't since then.
fingered her on the couch and she likes it rough.
im very strong, could bench press her
what are some good moves or positions.
She likes it doggy but haven't been able to use that one on her.
I wanna eat that pussy but I don't think shes ever let anyone, I know she would enjoy cause she told me a story about how she spilled some jelly on her thigh and the dog ate it then her.
>Don't make it a give and take sort of thing, tit for tat. Eat her out because it pleases you, because you want to please her, because it gets you off. Stick your cock in your mouth and have her suck it for HER AND YOUR pleasure.
Convince her that if she does shave you will go down on her more enthusiastically, bringing her all new kinds of a pleasure. Tell her that with the hair going down on her feels like a chore, while it's something you really love doing to her if it weren't for the hairs and you really want to make her feel amazing.
The park is amazing. Sit on a bench on a cold day and have eachother's hands down eachother's pants. Get eachother worked up. Or have a picnic and have her wear a dress, lie down next to her, take your cock out of your pants and fuck her with people passing by, without a clue.
Hold her down by her throat with one hand and finger her with the other by curling up your middle finger and ring finger inside her and pulling your hand up and down. The harder you go, the faster you go, the harder you squeeze her throat.
Fuck her in doggystyle, then pull her head up by her hair until she's straight, wrap your arm around her and slap her clit while fucking her.
When fucking her in missionary, pull her legs back and have her knees on her shoulders, put your weight on your cock and literally bounce off her while fucking her. Throw all your weight down on your cock and when you're the deepest, bounce off and go up until only the tip is of your cock is still inside her, then plunge inside her.
Fuck her from beside, stick your arm under her knee and pull up her leg and hold your arm up up by holding her throat.
Lol nice. She likes choking. Found out by mistake one night by grabbing her neck as my hand reaches around both sides of her neck she whispered careful or you'll turn me on so ill probably do this.