So basically I dont interact with girls bc im scared of being labeled a creep. Like I'll look at a girl and look away if she looks my way and try my best to not talk to her without her talking first. This therefore fucks me over bc girls want me to make the first move but I can't because what if they just think im creepy for doing so. It's kind of a trap and i was wondering if any of you guys know how to get out of said trap.
Eh, they can still feel your attraction to them. Use your words to develop your emotions towards them to more than just "wish shed fuck me".
T. Someone who has to start doing this with my mom and brothers gf because they hate me since I act how you describe
>Are you attractive? If so, you aren't creepy. If not, then you're creepy.
Solution: Just stop giving a fuck and start doing it until you get over it. Confidence goes a long way in curtailing creepiness.
When looking at a girl, if she makes eye contact, hold it until she looks away. Then go talk to her.
If you look at her, and she avoids eye contact, then don't ever stare at her again. (You can go talk to her. Now or later. She either was shy and interested, or just not interested... either way just don't stare at her over and over. What's creepy is when you don't move on.)
The author takes an experience and tries to say that what that person experienced was invalid. So, did that person make it up? Funny enough, I've experienced things similar to what was described in that story. Did I imagine those things as well? The author is trying to downplay the effectiveness of being attractive in order to give ugly people hope. It's disgusting.
don't worry about it the only girls that will call people creepy are the ugly bitter girls who don't get enough attention but say it anyways to give off the allusion that guys are desperate for them. honestly don't even take women seriously they are just over grown children.
Not going to post beyond this, because you're probably one of those hell bent on just arguing whatever negative viewpoint they have until the day they die (Just like that chick who comes here every night bitching about how men are untrustworthy)
I'll just say, he never aid it wasn't at all factor (in fact, he admits the opposite), just that it isn't binary. Which is the assertion that YOU made.
Mother fucker I worked a data entry job as my first job out of high school and all the new girls who started thought I was creepy because I was a slightly overweight nerd who sat at his desk and did his work. That's right: I was creepy for doing my job. Yet after they talked to me for two minutes they realized I wasn't creepy at all. Many years later they laughed about how wrong they were.
So when chucklefucks like you come on here and say that looks are not what determines people's perception of creepiness it pisses me the fuck off.