At least what I'm about to ask is not about how to fuck

>>19014598
Bump for porn addiction cure

>>19014649
Are there any good porns that center around high priestesses or witches or anything that isn't about them being completely dominated by Rome? Because at this rate maybe I should just start suggesting porn to him that has a fragment of what I desire in it, too. Otherwise maybe I'll have to try out this incubus thing... har har... bad joke, he says he dated a girl who was followed by one since she was a kid.

>>19014689
Sorry, I always look for amateur stuff, mostly pov...like you said, it's like the need to fuck not every but most of girls, and the only way to do that in monogamy izmahpron

>>19014689
Btw I keep a folder on vaulty and pc with OC, you should check for his

>>19014864
Well, I guess I'm just going to have to be straight forward with him, let him know his porn addiction is getting in the way of real sex with a real person as well as our relationship as magic practitioners. Guess I'll have to research how to do solo sex magic or something until he realizes he's pushing me away.

>>19014598
you guys should learn Star Sapphire

>>19014867
I look at his download folder maybe once a month to see if there's anything worthy of trying in the bedroom besides his stupid daddy kink, he downloads like 5+ videos a day usually. He doesn't hide it at all and I walk in on him jacking off all the time.

>>19014875
Hey he's been doing it all his life and maybe he doesnt believe in that stuff.I want an alternative to let me love her more, he should understand that he is the most interested part

>>19014877
I googled it and got a DC comic, care to elaborate?

Also I guess I should mention that I'm not trying to make him drink his own cum or anything, a lot of occultists seemed to have creates some twisted form of sex magic by way of just making people do weird shit for their entertainment, I'm talking on a purely energetic realm of passion.

>>19014882
Oh thats hardcore, forget about what I said, get pro help

>>19014888
You're right on the first part, he's said it's because he was single for so long. But he definitely "believes" in that stuff, it's how we met. The rest of your post I don't understand.

>>19014898
I haven't got that far on muh addiction....jerking off that way it's plainly disrespectful

Porn addict here. You don't get back from porn addiction especially if you fell into it at an early developmental stage. You can tone it down but it'll always be there. Sex with a woman will never be as good as porn for us. It's a sad difficult truth to swallow, I know. The best thing you can do is warn others about it so they don't make the same mistake.

>>19014894
>>19014908
It's usually in the mornings, but what gets me is he'll turn a blind eye to my sexual advances or just fall asleep early sometimes at night. When we do have sex it's nice, now that I think about it neither of us have been finishing lately and not for trying, as we'll go for hours until we're both just too tired to go on. And I understand the stress of recent events like moving into a new place, on top of just being straight up tired... I get that. But it feels this way about 75% of the time.

Also, I know he feels guilt on some level, at least depending on the kink. He knows it's damaging to his spiritual growth putting energy into this stuff. And I don't mean porn in general, just the tacky / demeaning porn he's drawn to. He wanted to roleplay some priest confessional kink he was interested in but it got weird because it was too close to home for him as someone who wants to be a spiritual teacher of some sort, like deep down he knows it's fucked up but only when he can't separate himself from it as a person. I suppose I need to tell him how I feel degraded because he separates and objectifies me by projecting kinks I'm not into.

OP, read the Book of Magic Love, by the great troubadour Miguel Serrano. It's likely right up your alley.

>>19014946
Thanks for the advice, but do you have any advice on how to talk to him about it? Because I'm not just going to roll over and be okay with him jacking off every morning and only fucking me once a week if I'm lucky. I want to get serious about magic, as he is, but I can't do that without a supportive partner that takes my needs into consideration as much as I try to be aware of theirs. He's at a point in live where he's been fucked over by so many women, I'm the closest to wife material he's ever had, like we see a future together our sex life just took a dive.

>>19014950
Found a PDF, thanks. Definitely looks like an interesting read.

Sex magic is making love.
If I have to go into it further than that, you have much to learn

>>19014958
I just met a woman for the first time in my life recently so I don't know a lot about relationships but my guess is that you have to be honest about it. I've talk to this girl about her problems but I think what made her receptive and made her want to change is that I said I was willing to work with her on these problems. I'm guessing the best way to go about it is to talk to him about it not as a threat but as a way of recovering. If you're willing to wait for him to get better he might want to do the necessary changes. As I said I don't know much about this stuff. It's a scary thought because I know not every women are willing to wait especially when their biological clock is ticking. Maybe you could make him read about how to increase his libido without the use of porn.

>>19014598
I'm glad your not asking about succubi cause that's mostly all I've been seeing on here for ages

>>19014976
You don't, so how do I get my boyfriend to start seeing me as a divine partner and not daddy's little slut? We've had amazing sex I would consider sex magic maybe three times since we've been together, and the rest is just wild kinky nonsense. How do I put love back into a sex life that has become dominated by pornographic fantasies that tend to have the opposite effect on me than they do for him?


>>19014990
For someone with little experience, you sound pretty wise. I'd be willing to wait and work with him, the question is, would he be willing to work with me? The last thing I want right now is a child so we're on the same page with that, and again it's not pornography in general just the subjects he seems drawn to. There is plenty of passionate erotica I'd like to show him but I feel like he'll miss the point because he doesn't see sex as spiritual bonding, either because he's removed himself so much from that concept he doesn't know how to get back, or he honestly just doesn't care. So I guess the only thing to do, like you said, us just be honest about it.


Thanks for hearing me out /x/ maybe this wasn't the place for this discussion but this went way better than it did on /adv/

>>19015030
>me as a divine partner and not daddy's little slut?

You have to appeal to his heart, romanticize yourself. See if you can get him to stop watching porn for like a week or something aswell, that'll heat things up

>>19014598
>implying that anyone on /x/ has a girlfriend

Kek.

>>19015030
You have to make him release oxytocin. Do you cuddle before sex? I never thought it was possible but when I cuddle with my girlfriend and she licks my ear and touches me and whatnot, I get a boner. It's not just about physical appearances and fantasies, there is a real biological phenomenon going on when you do that.

>>19014598
from personal experience porn addiction ruined my relationships and any potentially interesting intimate relationships with people. I'm an addict and it's destroying my life.

As for sexual magic, I think I've done some by accident. Weird coincidences related to what I was thinking about or what was in the environment at the time of ejaculation. I'm probably nuts but I'm thinking I've got some sort of lust demon that I'm feeding right now. I tend to get nympholeptic. Also after a porn binge I start seeing things and I often got sexually assaulted by a feminine presence during sleep paralysis. It's also jealous of other women as I uncontrollably declined dates I dream to have.

Otherwise get your bf off porn, for both of you. I've seen something in the book "No more Mr. Nice Guy" called healthy masturbation. It can probably help. For me I literally ended up making love to myself and it was weird. Otherwise /r/NoFap has a lot of info.

I'm a nutcase. Don't watch porn or you'll end up like me.