Hey guys.
I had a rough day and I am surprised by humanity once again.
Can you guys post pictures that cheer up?
Thank you in advance.
>>30781379
Aww that one is adorable! Thank you
What happened anon
>>30782314
Probably sounds stupid to you guys.
But I am pretty much an outcaster lol.
Today I took all my courage to ask someone if I may sit next to him/her since the table is free. And He/She was totally kind and said it was no problem etc. After 10 minutes I got a message that it was not possible, he/she doesn't want me next to their group, he/she was only trying to be nice because others were there before and that I can gtfo.
I was literally shocked because I never expected humans to act like that. Would you literally do that to someone that just took all the courage, just to get btfo'd ?
Well yes, it might sounds ridiculous to a lot of people here. So I was just asking for pictures in the end.
Hope you feel better OP
>>30782446
Anon how old are you? I can't tell if this is bait or not.
>>30782446
:/ people are cunts gl anyway
>>30782494
20.
I'm not the person who'd bait. I just don't know how to make friends as easily as other people do. Any recommendations? Asking if I can join their talk didn't quite work out.
>>30781324
I hope you feel better anon
>>30781324
This always makes me smile
>>30782532
Here, this might help you.
Thank you all for the great pictures. They are really adorable!
>>30782532
>Any recommendations?
See a doctor about that autism.
>>30782446
What, did they text you on their phone or something?
What gave you the message? It really sounds like you were just misinterpreting.
Even then, so what if this one group isn't for you. Find more groups, just jump in and with the right people, you'll eventually click.
Even, even, if the prom queen stood up on the table to holler to the whole school how insufferable you are, there's no reason to blame "humanity" or any general thing just because you encountered a bitch on a bad day.
also, >>>/globalrule2/
>>30782446
Try it again but with someone else, this time someone with similar intrests or a small friend group. Try and start a conversation with them about a subject they will know about that you have an intrest in too, if you don't know what they like ask them something general like "do you watch game of thrones" or something like that.
I know its tough not to have many friends OP, but if you try hard enough you will find someone you like who likes you back.
>>30782446
Just going to assume you're in high school or something OP.
The kind of stuff that you're describing never really happens once you get into college. I remember being a dick in high school, and having dickish things happen to me. We're all just kind of cruel at that age because we lack real empathy.
Once you get into college and especially adulthood, all of the people who are dicks like that either change their ways or are ridiculed by other people for being dicks.
tl;dr
I know it sounds dumb, but it really does get better. High School sucks man, but it's only like 4 years. It's normal for that stuff to bother you, but don't let it define you. I say this having been in your position, having been a bully, having been a middle school teacher, a high school teacher, and disciplinarian.
This one always makes me laugh
https://youtu.be/fpl1fP_1fOw
>>30782596
I asked in person and I got a "kind" yes. Later I got a message saying that kind of stuff. I really like that picture though! Thank you!
>>30782605
Thanks a lot! Yes I am still in highschool, and I am older than my classmates. They are around 17. But I am happy to have read your message!
>>30782667
Great one!
>>30782446
You sound like your in highschool dude. That's fine, I'm 18 and a senior in HS. All I can say is try to be a better judge of character of who is and isn't a dick. Alot of people don't like me, I don't like them. I know who I'm cool with and just converse with the few people I do.
>>30782702
How is Zika going to cheer the OP?
>>30782728
Anon, I'm 21, so I'm only an year older than you.
When I was in high school I've always seen that the younger guys were total dicks, that's probably because of their age.
I've been a dick too, sometimes.
Can't you try and befriend someone of your age? Maybe like, go out and drink something and see if you can get to know someone.
Also have this pic, I like it a lot.
>>30781324
What exactly happened?
Hey Anon, sorry to hear about people giving you shit. It's tough being the odd one out in high school. I was the weird kid growing up due to abuse at home, and I was bullied a ton because of it.
Just know that anyone who acts like that is just being a passive-aggressive asshole. Hopefully when those kids are older they'll realize what asswipes they were to you. You probably didn't do anything wrong.
Try joining a club if you haven't. Clubs are great ways to make friends as well as to find some longtime hobbies.
Don't let them get you down!
>>30782963
>>30783217
Thank you! You really still made my day somehow!
>>30782702
Amazing!
>>30782532
Just get used to having no friends like the rest of us.
You can try joining some hobby clubs though. That's how I had "friends" for a few years until they got bored of me.
>>30782865
Leave the cute bugs alone!
>>30782667
>get transferred to a new home
>suddenly the small one starts screaming
this is why adoption should be discussed beforehand
>>30783339
not OP but this is some good shit anon
>>30782728
Once you get to college you will likely meet more likeminded people. Ego's and reputations matter less than in high school. I found friends who accepted me for who I was, and vice versa. My social anxiety and low self esteem vanished over the years. 23y now and I'm actually a happy confident person now, I do truly hope you find your own path anon. Best of luck.
>>30783283
Frienfly reminder that internet friends are still friends; I probably live far from you and even I lived near you I rarely leave the house if I don't have to go to university or hang out in the weekend with my 5 friends. But the anonymous people you get to know online throught videogames are still people and playing together with someone else is a hundred times better than alone, so live on and make friends on /vp/ (using a tripcode gives you enemies and not the attention you seek)
>>30782446
>he/she
What kind of faggotry is that
Tell the story likr a normal person
>>30783644
I hope so! Thanks for taking your time.
...Wow. Looking back on all the continuations of the story, I'm truly speechless. And in spite of my age, due to a similar condition, I can relate.
Aaaaaand here you go, BTW. :D
>>30783651
Great advice anon. I will try. But thank you for your kind words though.
>>30783714
>He thinks 4chan is for normies/normal people
>>30781324
It's okay anon. You want some comfy music too?
>>30782446
>I got a message that it was not possible
I don't get it. Did she give you a bad look so you btfo? Was exactly was it?
>>30783818
Yea, >>30783651 is right. You can even consider dropping your friend code, you never know where you can find new friends.
Years ago I was very shy and introvert, but the harder you try to get out of that numb and self-awkwardness, the more you get confident, and things get easier, I swear.