>tfw 26 year-old virgin >too depressed to enjoy video games

you don't . trust me

Tell me about it

When the fire goes out nothing can bring it back.

>>380376515
take a break, do some other things and then come back to it. I'd also recommend seeking help if you're depressed, clinical or other wise. No one should suffer through life every day.

>>380376515
Read a book, Vic.

>>380377181
this.

>>380377181
To live is to suffer

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>muh depression

>>380376515
work out or do something productive and treat vidyaing as a treat afterwards

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>>380377181
Psychologists are useless

>>380377384
must you insert this shit into every thread?

>>380377384
/pol/ fuck off.

>>380376515
stop masturbating

>>380377735
8 years.

>>380377735
Until your stupid little hugbox narrative comes down. Yep. Sorry snowflake.

>>380377604
This. All they do is talk and antidepressants only go so far and introduce a bunch of side effects.

You're screwed. Once you get depresssd you never go back. It's better to just accept it.

>>380376515
Get a job.

>>380377265
>>380377532
>>380377785
this

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>>380376515
Third year wizard here
The enjoyment never comes back.
Live your life already, you fool, and put away the childish things. You only get 1 shot at this, so don't waste it like I did.

>>380377824
byebye to your post :)

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>tfw 27 year-old not virgin
>too busy with my gf to play video games anymore
>no reason to get excited about E3
Feels good, broseph.

Back to /r/incels for you, OP.

>>380378614
hope getting your dick touched now and again is worth it cucky

>>380378015
I like how the 30 year old wizard in that pic is a Chaos Sorcerer from Dawn of War.

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>27yo touchless virgin
>unemployed
>playing videogames everyday
>masturbating with a good onahole and VR porn everyday
>leech from parents and have good food and computer always available
>when money runs out I just suicide and carry on

I regret nothing

>>380377902
I guess it depends on the person. I suffer from depression and talking with my doctor was the best decision I ever made. They gave me a lot of different exercises that have really helped reign it in. I'd be lying if I said I didn't have my bad days but at least I have bright ones as well now.

If I'm gay and I've only done oral does that count as losing my virginity? Me and my partner aren't into anal.

>tfw still addicted to 4chan but don't find it fun anymore

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>>380376515
>20 year old virgin that has never kissed a girl before

How do I avoid your fate?

>>380381947
Quit 4chan.

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>>380376515
>tfw 25
>NEET for 2 years
>can't enjoy video games anymore, but play them anyway because I don't know what else to do with my time
>when I don't play video games, I just shitpost on 4chan for 14 hours a day and sleep the rest
>tfw don't live in the USA, so I can't even shoot myself for a quick, painless suicide

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>>380380825
>When money runs out I'll just commit suicide

I believe you're mentally running into a hole in the ground. You're crafting having a job into an excruciating thing when it's easy if you just look at the positive instead.

After you take your little break, you should get back on the saddle with a different perspective. I did, and I was surprised to find my head to be screwed back-on afterwards.

>>380377785
How does that help?

>>380382302
nah man fuck working.

its gonna be a painless suicide.
fuck this gay earth.

>>380382278
Pick-up a hobby that feels like "working". (Drawing, writing, etc)

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>>380381947
I imagine you have to put some effort into it.
But I'm content to just coast through life so I wouldn't know.
It really gets to me sometimes

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>>380376515
I WISH THAT I COULD TURN BACK TIME

Fix your life. That's the only way. Eat better, go out more, find a job, new hobby, etc anything that betters you as a person. I was in the same place so I had to change. I have been eating healthier and feel better

>>380382479
>Fuck working

It's all up to your mental attitude.
It's easy to turn a visit to the dentist's into a horrible affair, but if you moderate your thoughts, you can actually find yourself enjoying it.

It sucks, but thought control is the best tool I've found to get through life.

Be sure to learn about mindfulness. This is the best way to dispel thoughts and emotions.

Leave /v/.
Try new games and genres.

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>>380376515
go exercise, fuck dont depress us and make us kill ourselves too. Buy some fucking pussy or something. and this is coming from a 22 year old kissless virgin.

>>380382278
>tfw I just lurk 4chan most of the time because I can't even be bothered to post most of the time

Also because I just don't care about most of the stuff that /v/ goes on about these days, like all the identity politics stuff

>>380376515
have more than one fucking hobby

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>>380382648
>get cucked, that'll fix your life
Wonder who's behind this post?

>>380376515
Sorry anon, but the only way to feel emotion anymore is to take up a political cause and shovel it into everything you do. It doesn't matter what the cause is, whether it be alt-right, far left, extremely religious or otherwise, the only way for you to enjoy yourself anymore is to use the ideology of your choice to ruin everyone else's fun.

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>>380382702
too much work for shit I don't care about, I rather kill myself.

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>>380383010
>What do you do on your computer all day anon
>Realize I can't answer

>>380383137
go back to pol you fucking jew obsessed cock whore.

>>380376515
Masturbate more.

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Make sure you have good hygiene bros.
Get some exercise.
Start trying to be a little more social with everyone you meet.
Do a little research into fashion and put a little effort into your clothes.
The PUA stuff is useful only so far in that it gets you talking to girls. Don't get into the negging shit or trying to love-em-and-leave em. You'll look tryhard and desperate. Just work on getting dates and being flirty. Try to be a fun and positive version of yourself.
Don't dwell on past failures. Easier than it sounds but fixating on old wounds can drag you down.

Good luck bros. I'm rooting for each and every one of you.

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>>380382078
The issue here is that before I posted on 4chan all day, I shit-posted on Newgrounds.

Fuck off to /r9k/ or kill yourself, pathetic loser. Nobody likes you.

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>>380383308
feels good man.

I honestly don't understand how you can still be a virgin past the age of 25 unless you've actively avoided women or are just unbeluevably hideous.

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>>380383203
If you ever find yourself without the strength to go ka-splat or whatever, you know what to try.

>>380383241
I'm a fucking dark wizard you nigger.
All i want is the world to burn in nuclear hellfire.

>>380377943
yeah because it's that easy

>>380382496
I sometimes play around in Photoshop, but I feel like I've hit a wall with my skills. I wrote a 40k fetish novel that I posted online last year though, but my brain feels like mush now and I feel like I can't even string my thoughts together most of the time.

I'm afraid of what's it going to be like when I'm a 10 year NEET. I bet I'll have gone feral by then.

>>380383474
I've passively avoided women.

>>380383474
People just don't like to socialize

>>380383187
Very true.

Come settle in brother, we can watch The Greatest Story Never Told together and you can join our discord for right-wing radicals - every night of the week it's a new co-op or multiplayer game.

>>380383210
>tfw I wouldn't be able to answer that question because I literally can't remember most of my time spend on the computer. It's all one big blur at this point. If you asked me to think of a /v/ thread specifically from last month, I would not be able to answer.

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>>380383505
no I take the helium way.
very peaceful transition into comfy death.

>>380383570
Your brain is mush because you don't give it exercise.

It gets hard to write and analyze when I never do it.

If you put the time in, you'll amaze yourself with what you can cook-up.

>>380383474
i very rarely go outside and don't interact with women

when i do, i doubt i make a good impression on them

ya fkn kill yerself

>23, not bad looking, but student w/o GF
>spend entire life playing vidya
>been remembering a lot of places I would sit and play GB that are now being knocked down
>absolutely no games bring joy
>trophies give me the feeling I'll never truly complete a game, so why bother
>have low firmware PS3, Vita & 3DS

worst one of them all

>haven't worked out in 2 weeks, just got the flu

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>>380383797
When you start nodding off and realize you're about to get brain-damage or die, you might just change your mind.

>>380383889
no u

>>380376515
Do you also smoke weed alot? If so, reduce it drastically. Don't quit if you can't, but don't 24/7 anymore. It won't help.

>>380376515
Go get blood work done. You could have a thyroid or testosterone problem tht can be fixed. It will turn your life around.

>>380382648
this

>>380383474
I'm extremely reclusive, literally autistic, and spend most of my spare time on vidya and Internet

>>380383474
I'm 27 year old virgin and yes I also avoided some "girls".
really don't see why I should bother with some 3/10 or some shit.

and at this point its the only shit that is left. no thank you.

I was that way too, got tired of video games and became very bored. Then I took up programming and drawing. 4 years later I released a game and it's making decent money, more than any job I ever had.

Use your free time to learn skills that will someday bring in money, art is good, both 2D or 3D and you can pirate almost any resource/tutorial. I'd recommend 3D characters so you can make porn get on that patreon cash train

>>380383474
I've literally put zero effort into it.
The only girl I've ever dated asked me out, and then left without a word a month later.

>>380383474
Some people are just introverted and don't want to put in the effort to woo a girl. If you're really good looking then effort is probably minimal so it's easy for you, but anyone unattractive would have to do a ton of work making it not worth it. Women are picky.

You don't. Let's face it, vidya development has been infitrated by SJWs and cultural marxists who don't care about quality or gameplay anymore, for them it's all about their anti-white political agenda. But the vidya is just a small part of it all, they are corroding the society on every possible level, doing their best to undermine the continuity of white race.

So wake up politically and resist! Exercise that you will be fit when the day of reckoning comes, practice wth guns, try to redpill others. Vidya is fucked, but you can always find a new meaning for your life.

>>380384161
>Use your free time to learn skills that will someday bring in money, art is good, both 2D or 3D and you can pirate almost any resource/tutorial.
Any guides or resources you recommend? What's your game if you're willing to share?

>>380384540
Fuck off, /pol/.

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>>380383474
I don't get how people can be so incredulous about it in this day and age. Is it really so hard to believe that men have it 100x harder when it comes to courting the opposite sex? In this superficial and ultra-judgmental society, where people can actually choose dates based solely on their attractiveness (Tinder), you STILL find it hard to believe that men are finding it harder and harder to land women?

Fuck off.

stop playing video games till you feel like playing them again. It might take days, months or years... For the time being find a job, a new hobby or something.

>>380383474

I haven't left my house in a week except to go to burger king and the store. how am I supposed to have sex with strangers I meet at burger king?

Should I get a Xar, Spritz, or Kippy senpai

>>380384540
shut the fuck up. politics is a labyrinth destine to steal your soul and mental abilities. its all scripted. its all fake. just shut the fuck up and let us play our vidya its the only thing that tgives us joy you motherfucking sisterfucking brotherfucking piece of sealshit. yes i want to kill myself too and you should too.

>>380384789
>If you hate one end of the extreme, you must be on the exact opposite end of the extreme

Fuck off with your argumentative fallacies.

>>380383975
Why would that matter when all of existance is meaningless; Only the suffering of others brings one power.

>>380377785
Tried it. Doesnt work.

>>380385140
fuck off liberal pol fag

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>>380384828
A true lion of the tribe of Judah.

>>380385235
reddit is that way idiot

>>380384828
touched nerves aside, I'd honestly say the chief reason why most anons, my self included, don't have a qt gf is lack of effort. I see people all the time that are less than 10/10 in happy relationships.

>>380376515
first find what is causing your depression

>>380384717
I'd rather not post it since this is /v/ and all, for resources it depends on what you want to do, but I'd say get a good foundation in 2D art first, the /ic/ sticky is good. Also get a cgpeers account, it has everything.

Keep in mind it will take a while, but treat it like any video game, just look at your steam library and add up the hours played, it's really not that much if you apply those same hours to learning to draw or write code.

I feel guilty when I play games for too long. Sometimes "too long" is hours, sometimes just 15 minutes. Something keeps telling me "you're wasting your time, you're a horrible person".

>>380385189
>Only the suffering of others brings one power

This isn't true.
People bring people into power just because of the fact that they diminish their suffering.

Not caring about E3 is an actual reasonable sensible move.

>>380385291
It may be because of a lack of effort for some, but it's not the case with many others.

>>380384932
>stop playing video games till you feel like playing them again. It might take days, months or years

I feel like it would be a good idea for me to quit 4chan for a few years, so that this place gets fresh and new to me again.

Also I end up wasting way more time here than on vidya these days.

>>380385282
nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger kyke nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger nigger HITLER DID NOTHING WRONG I WANT TO SUCK FEMININE COCK.

>>380385482
This is how autistic anti-anti sjws are.

>>380383975
alright alright, I will just crash with 200km/h into incoming traffic.
with turned off airbags and no seatbelt, this should do the job better than the helium.

thank you very much for improving my suicide method.

>>380385189
>>380385408
To be totally honest,

I see a recurring pattern.
Did you hear about that guy that shot-up his supermarket for his Danny Phantom waifu?

He had the same, negative thoughts on humanity, etc.

You can either choose to hit yourself in the face with a hammer, or you can try and enjoy the limited time you have in existence.

Your life is all you have. It's not provisional. Treat it as such.

To who's benefit is it that you dwell on a darker aspect of life?

It's good to visit, but it's a bad idea to stay there.

>>380385576
fuck off /qa/

>>380385592
Just kill yourself alone. Don't take innocents with you selfish fuck.

>>380385291

because you're judging them based on male-standards of attractiveness, not from female-standards. A female would date a high-status confident/cool ugly guy over a "hot" autistic shut in virgin 100% of the time

>>380385576
Since when is autism a problem. Its a fucking gift.

>>380385083
Please respond felllow ronrey-fags

>>380385864
why should I care?
I will be dead anyway

>>380386073
you dumb nigger kys>>380385576
>>380385747

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>>380376515

>shower daily
>look for a job every day
You can find a job no matter how autistic you are. I've worked with plenty. Try a temp agency and they will find one for you.
>work as many hours as possible
>save as much money as you can til you have a couple thousand
>buy a decent looking hooker $300 max
>play vidya on your day off

>>380376515
Uh? Many people loose their cherry in their 30s, dont feel so bad OP

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>>380376515
>28 years old
>work full time at a shitty retail job that I hate
>failed college multiple times
>extremely depressed
>can't talk about it to anyone because they just say 'try harder' like I haven't already for over a decade
>don't have nay career I want to pursue so college was a waste after all
>barely competent enough at my shitty job
>quitting would just mean starting over as a wageslave at some other mcjob
>begin hiding from friends and family because I don't want them to see what a loser I've become
>suicidal thoughts grow more and more as I edge closer to 30 without even having kissed a girl

I do still enjoy video games somehow, one of the few things that takes my mind off thinking about how pointless my life is.

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>>380376515
>>380377181
>>380377604
>>380377902

>>380385018
are you me

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>>380386167
because i drive on 2 way roads sometimes and don't want to die. Just use a damn gun its easier. But don't shoot yourself in the head or else you won't get that sweet hit of DMT. Slit your wrists or shoot yourself in the heart. But seriously don't do any of that just fuck a hooker or become a vagrant. Life is the most detailed RPG ever made. Thats how you have to look at it, just level your character. This is a vidya board after all.

>shower every day
>go outside at least once a day
>actively look for work

Once you land a job, even at a maccas or some shit, you'll enjoy playing vidja in your spare time.

>>380383474
I'm insecure about my body, don't have anything interesting about my life, and I'm afraid to get close to them. It's perfectly easy not that I'd expect someone like you to even understand the feeling.

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Hey people, remember that you have /soc/ for fast fuck-n-go's

>>380386625
alright I will make sure to aim for the family instead and not the lonely guy in his car on the way back from work, deal?

>>380386827
>Legit have nothing to offer
Is there a worse feeling?

>>380386334
>losing your virginity to a hooker

That's like bragging about beating a super difficult game when you used Gameshark

>>380376515
Play Nier Automata

>>380386868
I met my ex on soc. Best sex ever. Ruined my life.

>>380376515
You're stuck in the 90s with your self pitying depression OP, and noone empathizes with you anymore. Come into the 21st century; get a job, go into debt, quit the self pitying bullshit and join the rest of us taking anxiety meds.

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>>380387224
Heh... that's what you get for going STATION TO STATION

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cTTghKkNnO0

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>tfw still interested in video games, but lack the willpower to actually start playing them myself
>instead just watch Let's Plays by people who are better and more enthusiastic about the game than I would ever be
>it almost feels like I have a friend that I'm enjoying the vidya with
>almost

sigh

>>380387097

who said anything about bragging? This is just to cure your head and maybe make you feel better about yourself, not to brag to other people that you had sex because I can assure you nobody cares

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>>380383474
The only time I interacted with people in high school was during band practice and I never talked to anyone in college unless I had to. Now I just talk to no one period.

>>380387097

Not even that, it just doesn't feel great, trust me, thats sort of how I did it

I got my dick sucked when I was 20 and ate a girl out but I didnt have any condoms and didn't trust her enough to stick it in so I didn't

A year later in a completely different situation I got dumped by this other girl I was dating and it was pretty bad, little communication, gave me lots of self doubt

I had extra money so I just went to see a hooker, was probably one of the worst mistakes I made, but I don't regret it.

It didn't help that she was a fucking rude bitch, but that was before I knew what The Escort Review was

Used condoms and got checked after so I didn't catch anything, just learned me a lot about that stuff

Anyways, hookers aren't great,

OP I'm also 26, I've no idea what to tell you

Also a 26 yo kissless virgin shut-in

Man having a GF must be sweet not just because of the sex but just having someone with you enjoying stuff.
Im scared that if I ever get one and she leaves I will be completely broken. Like losing a Unicorn. And im such a boring person of course it will happen I know it.

>>380387479
Having to pay someone to sleep with you would most likely not make you feel better about yourself. It makes no fucking sense why you would.

>>380388108

because it physically feels good and it's psychologically damaging to go long periods of time with no sex

>>380387903
this is why i try to have the mentality that the other person will always remain the other person, no matter how close we are or amount of hardships we went through together

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>>380387823
>I just went to see a hooker, was probably one of the worst mistakes I made, but I don't regret it.

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>>380376515
31 y/o kiss less virgin here, still able to enjoy video games some how, killing my self sees just to troublesome for me, even when I think about it every day.

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>>380387903

You need to learn to value yourself friend. That's not saying that a relationship can't make you happier but you need to learn to recognize what does and doesn't make you happy on your own. Because what if you do get a relationship and it makes you happy, but it does end...what then, you're unhappy again, because you've bought into the unfortunate social stigma that "relationships=happiness"

Learn to love yourself and you'll be able to face what ever comes your way

>>380376515
This is not your personal blog you neckbeard.

Fuck off.

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>>380376515
Learn to live with it OP

>>380388378

I just mean that I learned from it. I probably would have been better off not doing it and felt like absolute shit at the time but it's an experience that I gained something from and don't regret that it happened. That's life bud

>>380381947
Quit anime
Quit internet non normal people
Quit videogamew
Quit begin alone in your room
Never goes back

>>380376515
Buy a shitton of games on steam sale . That's the only motivation I have. Cant play video games if I'm dead.

>>380382463

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

www.yourbrainonporn.com

>>380388441

>blog

lol youre so fucking triggered, Use another buzz word, maybe you'll fit in better

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>>380377516
>muh comfort food

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>>380385725
I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't really hate anyone either. I just don't have the strength to change myself and I've failed so much that I feel like I've just sort of broke. I get no enjoyment out of life besides vidya and I have no desire to do anything. Nothing short of outside divine intervention could maybe change me but I just feel like a shell pretending I'm still a person. I've tried eating better, excercising, schooling but I can't do any of it more than a short time before I realize how futile it is and give up again. I can't even try anymore because it's easier to just put on my headphones and zone out til I'm forced back to work by society.
I've enjoyed killing floor 2 at least lately. Shit's pretty fun.

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>>380382551
Neck yourself pronto you whiny fag

>>380388709

>implying

The mindset here is what's important, nothing wrong with porn but you have to understand the potentially dangerous perceptions it creates for you. If you can learn and recognize that and realize that its unrealistic, then fapping is ok

>>380388434
I really hate myself and wish I was someone else, every day. I feel like someone worthwhile died instead of me somewhere along the way and the roles of npc and hero were mixed up.

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>>380376515
Stop fapping

>>380389113
Fapping and food are the only two things that I enjoy anymore

>>380388465
What the hell is up with that triple jointed arm lmao

>>380376515
you shouldn't want to be excited about an advertising event anyway. perhaps that's why you're a virigin. if you were a girl would you want to sleep with someone who wants to be excited about ads for expensive toys. come on.

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>>380376515
Anon, do something for me. Get off the computer. Stop playing video games, stop jerking off, stop doing anything. Just sit or stand or take a walk, and let your mind roam. Let your mind find focus on something. What is that thing? What is it that yaps on and on in your brain?

Whatever it is, you need to focus on fixing that before you can be mentally healthy. When I was younger, it was "losing my virginity." The thought was in my head over and over and over again until it finally happened. Then, the thought left. I didn't even realize it was gone until like a week afterwards. Last year, it was "move out of my parents' house." Again, non-stop, to the point where I didn't even realize it was gone until I had been in my own apartment for a week.

Video games can be a lot of fun and fairly healthy. However, if you find no enjoyment in them, then that means that you have problems in your life you need to focus on and fix.

Regarding losing your virginity, you need to get out more often. Go on meetup or something and find some reason to leave the house, even if it's something dumb like yoga or a writing session. Just find a reason to gain friends -- even male ones. The larger your social circle, the more likelier you are of finding a gal willing to sleep with you.

Video games aren't gonna go away, anon. Clear your mind of this depression, and then come back.

>>380389073

Where are you in life? Did you go to school? Do you work? What are your finances like? What skills do you have? Do you have something you're working toward?

There's no right or wrong answer here

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>>380388612
>Quit internet
>Have been using it since I was 6

This is probably the biggest hurtle.
It's my greatest joy in this existence.

>>380389379
this is some quality advice

>>380388916

It causes real, physical damage to the brain. There is nothing psychosomatic about it.

https://yourbrainonporn.com/brain-scan-studies-porn-users

>>380389383
see
>>380386375
>>380388779

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>>380376515
kill yourself /r9k/ faggot

No deal, if you don't care about your life anymore you can do whatever the fuck you want. Like I said fuck a hooker. Go to a strip club and fondle the hottest stripper until the bouncer beats the shit out of you and throws you out. Go to your local supermarket/department store and break everything you can within the 90-500 seconds it takes cops to get there. Seriously though, I have contemplated suicide and realized there are many life changing things possible, both positive and negative that could completely change your life.

I don't know your family but I doubt you have been brutally honest to them about the way you are feeling. People are naive and they unconsciously protect that, acting weird and trying to display warning signs are not enough to get help from someone, you need to bear your soul. Now you came online and decided to bear your soul, that is if you are OP which I think you are, and as a result we have reached an agreement for you not to drive your car into oncoming traffic which I appreciate. So instead of killing yourself and others just go fucking crazy, get institutionalized and collect disability from the government so you don't have to deal with the monotony of a job. Like I said before fuck a hooker, shit rape a random girl thats better than killing someone. leave your life the second you read this and walk until you can't walk anymore then start begging for money. Share your feelings with strangers because its easier than talking to those that know you. Get naked and run around in public. Grope strangers on the bus/train/street. If you have decided your life is over than make a drastic change instead of ending your life or the lives of others.

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>>380378614
>l-l-let me tell you about how i'm the exact opposite of this little niche reddit board that i have absolutely, positively nothing to do with!

>>380389379

This aint bad, I'd say I generally agree. Everyone is at a different point in life. (I'm 26 and still live at home but I'm in grad school, and my fiance is in nursing school, she still lives at home as well, we both come from lower middle class/upper lower class familiys)

But focusing on goals is important in life, vidya is all good and fine but at the end its not everything, even pro/mlg/esports game players have other hobbies, granted, thats a unique example but still, even if you only have one other thing or goal, its still your thing

Find it

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>>380389379

>>380389672
>>380389379
Listen to this nigger

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>>380389215
You should try NoFap for a week anon. 99% of it is pseudoscience but there are benefits to gain. Not trying to shove it down your throat but its just an idea

>>380386910
if forgot to tag your comment but you know which comment was mine if your watching like i think you were. If your life is over you can do whatever you want with it without killing yourself or others.

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>27 virg
>No job at the moment
>Looking for better opportunities
>Pet birbs keep me company on shitty days
>Think the future will suck, but I've got to do my part to make it a little less shitty for myself and the people I love.
>Video games are still a big time sink for me, because I genuinely enjoy them

Negative thoughts lead to a negative life.
Life is a tragic experience, a sky covered in darkness, but every now and again the sky clears and makes the struggle worth it. Don't give up anons.

>>380389379
This doesn't work

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>>380389379
>Do this
>Wind up day-dreaming and having a blast
>Can't think about real life for a minute

>>380390350
Why didn't it work for you, anon?

>taking advice from the people who call you nigger and post crying console war wojaks when there is limitless self help available online created by professionals

>>380390329
I agree with you, and I'm a 20 year old virgin btw desu senpai.

The darkest pit I ever found myself in was dug by my own hands.

You can suddenly understand why mass killers do what they do once you find yourself contemplating suicide over irreparable shit in the world.

>>380390447
Because I just keep failing, no matter what I do, so why bother I just chose to do nothing

>>380386910
>>380389906
this was meant for you, I was half joking half meant it. Don't make others suffer the consequences of your emotions.

>>380390701
Meant to reply this
>>380390454
Keep failing you see.

>>380388779
Same. Never had a gf, work as a wage slave, have worthless degree because was pressured into it and 1/4 of paycheck goes into it, Dying of high blood pressure because why give a fuck about health. Can only distract myself with video games or whatever art project I'll never finish. I accepted I'll never be happy,
And it pisses me off to hear people say it will get better, it's been 27 years, it will never get better.

>>380391096
It's all good, anon, I'm the same way. I failed the same class in college five times and dropped out.

I fucked up at work last week, at a job I've had for several years now. It's frustrating.

I went on my first date in years a few months back and she texted me the next day saying that we should just be friends.

As awful as all these were, they were learning experiences. I would like to try that class again. I'd like to go back to work and do better. I want to go on another date and act differently.

Applying this to video games, when you fail at a game, do you go back to it and do the same thing over and over again? If you do, you shouldn't, 'cause I used to all the time until I realized it was dumb. You gotta take a step back, look at what caused you to fail, and attempt to rectify that at your next go.

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26 non-virgin (it was shit) NEET here. I enjoy vidya every now and then, but not as much as I used to. I need to get off my ass, but I'm sure I'll fuck something up like usual.

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>>380386375
You need to say fuck school and go get a real job at a trade.

You can be a barber or a bartender, and that's better than where you're at right now.

I'm not saying go make 100k a year, but you're too valuable to waste away at a Mcdonald's without a criminal record.

>>380386375
>>380392285
You're better off than the NEETs on here that never got jobs after high-school.

Just the fact that you work fast-food means you're good enough with people that you can survive in this world.

The only thing you need to do is to get a basic education to help you make money in life.

That's should be the primary goal in your life, but you're likely making excuses.

>>380383474
I don't like most girls. The few I do like are amazing but of course amazing girls have already been snatched up by amazing guys and have a wonderful relationship. Unrequited love is my entire existence. Every girl I have ever liked is already with someone else, and those relationships have always lasted.

What the hell am I supposed to do? Go for girls I don't even like?

>>380392834
>>380392285
>>380386375
You can probably take a little bit of debt to attain that education on top of this.

Just don't let your brain get the better of you, and moderate what you think.

Learn to practice mindfulness. Don't let your ego control you. You're just an animal like me, and you can take advantage of that mental clarity.

>>380376515
>2017 still virgin
From my experience, in the long run, hiring prostitutes is safe, and less expensive than having a wife.

>>380387903
Women bend and change their tastes and actions to perceived authority/masculinity, at least more easily than men. There's statistically enough women out there that there's no "perfect one" Think about all the games you've enjoyed. Did you worry about them being "the perfect game" when you were with it? No
Higher socialization decreases inhibition and increases intuition, and inhibition is a root cause of a lot of these problems because of a lack of intuitive belief that on average you can cut the mustard on the fly, and so you feel uncertain and overthink it in an attempt to carve a path to "guaranteed" success, and very often that's a completely legitimate way to do it, but you should be able to discern when you're emotionally sobbing on it and oversizing versus actual apprehension in the face of a legitimately sized issue. Depression amplifies overthinking.
You have to adopt a sort of "blank face" and just do some things, like clean dishes. Don't bother waiting for the mood or anything, blank face and don't feel any emotion like Goku, and do it. Of course don't be a mongrel and act on normally stupid things. It's about intuition. Just don't get in your own head so much. You don't think out every action in a game, it's generally an instinctual series of responses coming from habituation and reward and prediction(and successful prediction and control is part of where some reward comes from), and blank facing is a way to introduce that habituation elsewhere to where it's no longer new or scary to begin in it until you're acclimated enough, but merely established and commonplace. Would you sit there and think about the process it takes to click on a certain area of your screen, or do you just swipe over and click?
Besides, video games aren't as fun if there's no contrast of having to do something or did something that was more physically encompassing or less "fun". If you drink nothing but milk it stops tasting like anything.

>>380393102
You know, just build upon yourself, your success and your time and effort putting into bettering your self, will bring you enough women for you to choose from.

Either that, or you become someone influential in society, or your circle of friends and someone will come to you.
Guaranteed.

>26 year old virgin
>Tfw not aesthetic
>Tfw stalling on OHP
>Tfw I look like a fatass
>Tfw my life is in shambles
>Tfw no gf

I'm not going to make it guys. I'm done.

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>improve self
>get in shape
>get well paying job doing something i don't hate (95k/year)
>6'6, above average looks
>still socially retarded and massively introverted, still completely alone after clocking out for the day

"it will definitely come to you if you improve yourself" is bullshit. remember this one thing, anon, and this one thing alone. the only absolute in life is that there is no absolute.

31 virgin, fat and no studies but elementary
Should I end it memes aside?

>>380392834
>>380393106
I did try school multiple times and flunked out 3 times of the same college because I couldn't do the work. I have no delusions that it's anyone else's fault or problem. I can't just fix a decade of mistakes because I lack the drive to try anymore.

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Why can't I just die in my sleep.

>>380394130
there must be something you are doing terribly wrong.
Nobody cares about your income, what is your networth?

>>380381280
My own doctor told me directly that meds won't magically solved my problems and I have 0 will or motivation to go on.
Guess it is time to kill self.

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>>380376515
From what I've seen, the best way to get out of depression is to change your life. Even little things. I was depressed for four months in my early twenties and making a new friend out of nowhere bumped me out of the depression. These days, just changing up my routine helps my anxiety. Go on walks. Get out of the house, even if it's just to go around the block. It really does help.

Vidja game wise, change it up there too. If you're on new consoles, pull out some of your old stuff. Play your favorite game again or try out an older, cheaper game that you'd been willing to try and just never got to. Don't play games because of hype. Just try and enjoy what you want to enjoy right now.

Virginity is a meme, the real thing you lose is your ignorance of what love and intimacy is. After experiencing it once you'll want nothing more than to have it again, odds are you won't find it though.

Get busy doing something else. People who complain that they can't do anything else just don't have the willpower to start doing something new. I have deeply seated social anxiety, got molested when I was 5 by another guy, had an alcoholic father, lost most of my friends by 14 because of aforementioned anxiety, but I still managed to get a job traveling around the country and doing lectures for more than 300 students at a time. It pays well. Your decision to change can make such a big difference.

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>>380376515
After marathoning a bunch of games to get off my backlog rather than enjoying them/E3, I've picked up the Nep games and the latest one worked its magic on me. Just find some cute SOL games/VNs OP

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>>380394932
anon you should change your doctor

>>380394238

I'm 33 year old 9th grade dropout and I make 40k a year, have qt younger gf and have no problem getting pussy. My problem is that I miss being a NEET than can.play games all day if I want to.

>>380395614
I did four times already.
>>380395658
I have some money but what's the fucking point of it if I am mentally ill with schizophrenia too? everyday I go to sleep hoping I die sleeping.

>>380395807

I used to go to sleep to the thought of a bullet going through my head every night. You can feel better.

>>380395807
>Schizophrenia
I'm sorry anon. From my knowledge, the best thing you can do is stick with a psychiatrist as long as it fucking takes to get the best possible combination of meds for your condition. A lot of people manage to get out of the cycle, anon. You can do it.

>>380396368
I don't have any motivation.
All my life I have never been able to forge myself a realistic goal.
I give up when the music starts to sound loud.
I tried and tried everything and it seems like you just can't win this.
Thanks anyways for your words.

>>380376515
>26
>had sex last night
>played Prey demo just now
>purchased full game after
>hyped for a bunch of e3 announcements

SUCKS TO BE YOU, OP

>>380396332
They told me that 16 years ago.

>>380396368
Lol way to give him false hope you faglord because schizos never make it out alive. They are marked for death more so then anyone else on the face of the earth. No amount of drugs and talking bullshit can fix the broken people.

>>380376515
It's not video games, it's you. Sorry you're unhappy anon

>>380396613
I heard hanging is a pretty good way to go out during this time of the year.

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>>380396768
Thanks for the truth anon.
I just want to play metal gear solid 4 by myself before I go.

>26 Touchless
>Thoroughly enjoy vidya
>Absolutely no ambition beyond vidya and spending time with family/friends

The only time I ever get hit with "tfw no gf" is when watching or playing something that has half decent romance plots, and even then that feeling fades fast. Pretty much to the point that friends and family think I'm asexual when the truth is I like women, but I'm a mixture of too apathetic and too socially stunted to want to do anything about it.

My real issue is basically having no skills and I'm more content to daydream than do anything. I've been screwed by college multiple times and working a menial 40 hour a week job messes with me because it'll mean I spend more conscious time at work hating life than being home doing literally nothing of importance.

>>380377181
If you don't suffer on a daily basis, you're doing something wrong.

>>380396873
I really appreciate it.

Success IS the best revenge, if you have no one to show your success off to, then do it to your self.

Prove to yourself that you are better than you think you are.

>>380397167
There is someone hanging from their mother rafters of the garage anon, hes been there going on three weeks now and nobody knows hes gone. Take comfort in the thought that you too can do the same as he did. Do so with pride in your heart.

>>380396942
maybe playing shitty games is why you're so depressed

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>>380376515
Videogames get more enjoyable if they aren't your main activity and just something you do on the side.
I used to only shitpost here and only play some Dota games here and there when I was a neet with a lot of free time. You simply get burned off of being all day in front of the screen playing videogames and simply don't have the strength to do anything, not even videogames.
But now that I got a job I have learned to appreciate vidya once again. Nothing beats returning home and playing some vidya. Same goes for anime.
Take this from a fellow virgin who lived the neet life for a couple of years.

>>380396768
Says the fuck who? By you? I hate the bullshit that fags like you spread without backing it up with the right statistical and scientific evidence. I know my shit and I have sufficient background to say that a lot of schizophrenics do get better.

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>>380397557
Heh
Never change, anons.

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I love how all the failures at life like me come out of the woodworks at night.
/v/ is the comfiest when its like that.

>>380397534

Bullshit. Gravity would have pulled him down by down.

>>380397883
That's only because the janitors are less active at serve night time.
I have seen people running these during european time.

>>380397829
>I hate the bullshit that fags like you spread without backing it up with the right statistical and scientific evidence.
>I know my shit and I have sufficient background to say that a lot of schizophrenics do get better.
lel go preach to the choir

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>tfw want to lose weight because I'm a 270 lb fat fuck but don't know where to start and food tastes too good
It'll probably never happen.

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You guys gave me hope for a few more years
Thank for everything.

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>>380376515
You're burnt out on games OP, just take a break. And E3 is fucking dumb no one should be excited for it. Videogames shouldn't be the main thing in your life, try and find other things to spend your time on.

>>380389379
I'll print this and read it everyday.

My life has gone to shit. I was in college, had a nice job, and the love of my life. I've lost everything in the last two years. I'm literally sitting on my ass doing fucking nothing. Failing interviews. Have no money to pay for college anymore. My parents dissing me every single day. Games just aren't fun anymore, I can't focus on them with all of these problems.

I'm fucking tired. Sometimes I just feel like dying.

>>380398278
kys

Idk op, i'm a neet and starting to go to the gym is the best thing i've ever done for myself, especially when I used to be crazy insecure that i'd have my hood up while liftan. It's nice to see the same people at the gym grinding away, the glances you knowingly give eachother without saying anything, prove them wrong you fucking faggot, stop being a pussy, if I can do it then you can too

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>Can sit in front of the computer all damn day and still play video games no problem, my life is only depressing because I can't play them all
>Have the desire to do nothing but buy figures, new games and other vidya/anime related shit
>Can't because low funds
God damn it, I fucking love video games, what's wrong with you faggots?

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>>380398484
Count on it.

>>380386391
this sounds like a great way to kill yourself

>>380376515
If you're depressed, definitely get counseling and possibly start anti-depressants. You don't have to be suicidal or anything to get them and trust me if it helps even a little bit you'll feel much better. Also start going on walks/runs/hikes or something, just get some sunlight.

>>380398278
It's not worth it Anon
I love you

>>380398248
Did you try tracking calories on a spreadsheet? You can still eat good food this will just let you know when to stop.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CREMBDZDHeU&t=98s

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>>380389379
Maybe some little weak faggot in the near future will be saved from your post, maybe they won't but then who really cares since what you said has been already posted a thousand times before in a hundred different places.

>>380377902
I hit a point of no return once. I started seeing a counselor and started taking anti-depressants. It was the best decision I've ever made.

>>380398875
I know anon.
And I am thankful for that.
But this load is too much.
It is not your fault, just carry on without me.

Won't we eventually run out of sperm from jacking off so damn much? Surely sperm won't last us our entire lifespans

>>380398248
Learn to love roast vegetables. Use seasonings rather than sauces. Avoid anything with corn syrup in it like the plague. Corn syrup is the biggest contributer to the obesity problem.
For exercise just grab a 5kilo weight and use it whenever you got time to kill or aren't using your hands for anything

>>380398248

Do this
>>380398926

And exercise. Start with the basics. Pushups, squats, crunches. Look up youtube for advice. I couldn't even do a single pushup when I started, so I began by doing Wall Push-ups.

Just exercise. As long as you're tiring yourself it'll work. You don't even need to kill yourself doing it. 3-4 exercises focusing different muscle groups 3 times a week is enough.

>>380399071
Yes you actually do and become sterile.

>>380399071
As long as femdom manga keeps getting drawn I will never stop producing semen

>>380376515
Read some visual novels like Nekopara.

>>380398663

Bullshit. Just invest your damn dollars on better things, and money can't remedy nor cure your depression, nor can it buy you happiness

>>380398867
>anti-depressants
they thing about those is one your body gets used to them they don't work anymore and some are very hard to get off of

>>380377604
All they do is get you to talk about your problems. "What do you think about this?"
\Then you tell them how you feel about it, then they say good job.

You don't need a fucking therapist or a psychologist. They are con artists.

>>380398248
Forgot to say I use this to get my maintenance limit, which you slash 500 calories off to start losing weight.

http://www.fitnessfrog.com/calculators/tdee-calculator.html

>>380382302
the best perspective change i've had is me becoming so pissed off at how helpless i felt that i decided i wanted to find any way i could to make life my bitch
anger at the hand life deals you is the best motivator to change it

Get fit or get a job or both

>>380399071
nigga this some 1800s shit. That's not true at all.

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>>380383474
>All friends through my life have been male nerds like me
>Be a super passive, non aggresive beta, basically no masculine traits
>Self concious over girly body
>Only females I have talked to view me as a little faggy brother because I can't into flirting
Its like I was destined to be a bottom gay but god made me heterosexual for some reason.

>>380394709
because you're making excuses not to go to the trouble of killing yourself.

Seriously though anon I've been there and you should get some help. We don't want you to leave us.

>>380399614
>Bullshit.
Why?
>Just invest your damn dollars on better things,
For what? All of my bills are paid off, I have multiple saving accounts and I'm not hurting for money I just don't overspend on vidya/anime.
>and money can't remedy nor cure your depression, nor can it buy you happiness
I know this.

>>380399676
You are right, no more excuses.
It is time to face the music.

>>380399393
I won't lie, when I first started them I was given prozac. Within half an hour I'd jump between suicidal sobbing and uncontrollable laughter on 30 second intervals. I immediately went back and started zoloft. it took a couple of months, but food started to taste better and I started laughing again. That was 5 years ago and they haven't stopped working. I also have no problem with taking them until I die since I would've probably killed myself long ago if I had never taken them.

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>>380383936
>>haven't worked out in 2 weeks, just got the flu
Fuck I know this feel. Ate pizza two times this weekend while sick AND watching e3 sitting on my ass. I feel absolutely terrible because I havent worked out in almost a week.


Atleast I made out with a girl for the first time last week, and she was way out of my league. God bless Tinder.

>>380376515
If it's already gone it's never coming back bud. You need to just find another hobby. I traded gaming for anime when I was 16 and ever since gaming has just been "the thing I do when I'm bored of watching cartoons". I wouldn't even say I find them all that fun either, it's more just to say I've played certain games.

>>380398248

Buy yourself a stationary bike, a cheap one from Amazon for like $150-180. Do an hour every single night on that (or if you really can't like I couldn't, go for 20 minutes, then gradually increase to an hour each night).

Do this (yeah I know the name is cringe but whatever) https://darebee.com/workouts/link-workout.html every night as well.

Limit yourself to 1500 calories a day. Replace soda and everything with water.

Yeah it's gonna suck at first, but eventually you'll feel great. I did this and went from 285 lbs in Februrary to 210lbs today. Went from a 2XL shirt to wearing large now. I'm still overweight yeah, but the mental boost you get from people you work with or haven't seen in forever telling you how good you look now is worth it and makes you want to keep going.

If I did it, you can do it too anon.

>>380376515
>Enjoying video games

Now sit there and think about what you've done.

>WAAAAH WHY AM I DEPRESSED

Because you choose to be. Thank me when you realize it.

>>380400225

>need a facebook for tinder

man fuck that shit

>>380383474
Some of us have nothing to offer.

I can't believe there are still people that think everyone on Earth is fuckable.

>>380400571

That's not how it works, shitlord

>>380400571
>just b urself

>>380400784
It fucking is and always will be.
Depression is a choice.
You know I'm fucking right.

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TAKE THOSE FEELINGS
FOCUS ON THAT THOUGHT THAT BUGS YOU MOST
THAT ONE THOUGHT THAT YOU KEEP THINKING "IF ONLY I COULD DO THIS, I COULD GET ON WITH A NORMAL LIFE AND BE HAPPY"
TAKE THAT FUCKING THOUGHT AND FUCK IT
IT
IS
NOT
IMPORTANT
YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE
YOU HAVE ALL THE POWER TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE AT LITERALLY ANY MOMENT
DO IT
TAKE POWER OVER YOUR OWN FUCKING LIFE AND MAKE IT YOUR BITCH

>>380400724
They cant see your facebook so dont worry, I never use mine and only have like 15 friendsish.

Its so worth it anon, if you're not absolutely hideous there is always a girl with low self esteem on there. You just gotta lower your standards a bit, unless you get lucky like me.

>>380400225
>spoiler
I kinda want to do the same, but I am a virgin, do I need to be honest and tell her or make a fake confidence and jam it in?

>>380400854

I suggest you stop talking out of your ass

>>380401053

Ok, now how about the pictures you put up. I have none of me doing anything interesting. Will that matter? lol

>>380376515
I'm you after 10 years.

>>380401185
Kid, I've experienced more than you ever will in my life so far.
Trust me, it's a fucking choice. You just don't want to admit it because you like walling in your self pity.

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>>380383474
>be me
>25 year old dk virgin
>no problems socializing
>go out with friends at least twice a week
>talk to women all the time
>not a single sign of interest from any of them

I'm incredibly average looking, I sometimes feel like that's even worse than being ugly. You wouldn't believe the number of times a woman, or anyone really, has just stopped paying attention to me if there's even a hint of someone better looking/more interesting around. I must also be very boring, though the other people they talk to don't really say anything more interesting than I do, from what I've noticed.

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>24
>made $70,000 canabux last year
>collected 6 months of employment insurance this year
>had sex with 2 girls

feels good man

>>380376515
self improvement. most video games, especially modern games, are self-masturbatory.

>>380401382

My problem was the opposite. I was extremely fat until very recently, still slightly fat, but I look good in clothes if that makes sense. Girls somehow showed interest in me when I was fat, but my lack of self confidence didn't let me try to get close. I didn't want anyone seeing my flabby ass naked.

Now I seem to get less attention now that I'm not fat, but it's whatever I feel better at least and I'm already used to being a virgin.

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>>380399594
Rough.

>>380401332
>things I have no experience with aren't real
Clinical depression is real and can be caused by chemical imbalances in your body that you have no control over. Medication can help control it but getting the right stuff and correct dosage can be a long process, and this is only if you decide to seek help in the first place.

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>>380401382

>current year
>expecting a woman to care about you
>implying its not a complete sellers market

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>>380378614
>tfw 19 year-old not virgin
>perfect balance of time with girlfriend and game time so i get to enjoy sex and video games
>excited for e3 and gf is happy for me
Feels even better.

>>380398248
I had a friend who was a fat fuck in high school. I went away to college and came back six months later to find out he had lost 50+ pounds.

All he told me he did was cut down on sugar and bike everywhere.

It really isn't that difficult. I would also suggest getting used to less sweet foods. Drink sugarless tea, coffee, and energy drinks.

>>380401738
It's not real you moron.
Stop believing bullshit you read on WebMD.

>b-but my doctor diagnosed me
No, he met his fucking quota for medication he had to prescribe. Think of it as a sales woman working on commission.
It's a business and you're just a customer.
Open your fucking eyes.

>>380401083
Im a virgin myself but Im pretty sure itll be super obvious that you're a virgin. It depends on the person really, if you think they;ll be cool with it then come out. You probably wouldnt get with a slut anyways if you're a virgin so just try to stick with normal looking girls. Also ONLY SWIPE RIGHT, practice talking with the girls and seeing the different personalities, even if theyre hideous.
>>380401213
My meta is only 1 selfie and the rest taken with the regular camera. In your case I guess a selfie is your only option but you should try and get atleast 1 normal pic. Atleast 3 pictures is required imo.

>>380401976
Just stop. I wasn't even who you were originally replying to. I don't even have depression but I've seen how it effects someone and how big of a difference the right medication makes.

>>380381947
>>380382078
this
>about 2 years ago
>browse 4chan frequently
>virgin, only kissed a girl once (it was a peck)
>one day decide to stop browsing 4chan
>start socializing more
>go on a school trip
>finds out qt friend has had a crush on me since freshman year
>get together after trip
>after 4 months of dating, lose virginity
>2 years later still together and really happy
I'm back now for the E3 hype, but quitting 4chan helped. Of course little doses never hurt anyone but browsing all day every day is bad.

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>this thread

>>380376515
>23 year-old virgin
>completely shun other humans
>starting to hate video games
>no other passions
>gave up on getting laid
Is there any hope or should I just kill myself?I'm being serious.

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>>380383474
>>380401382

Should also note that there HAS been a chick I work with showing interest in me lately, but I made a promise to myself that no matter how desperate I get, I'd never fuck a girl that weighs more than me, and I'm not exactly skinny at 5'10" 180lbs. Used to be 230lbs.

>>380383474
How did you do it then, fuckface? I went through high school, got rejected by girls, dropped out of college after two years, then got a job where no woman under the age of 40 worked until I quit that and became a NEET. I seriously don't understand how you're supposed to get a romantic relationship with a girl unless you get in a time machine and make sure to become best friends with one in preschool then wait it out until you become adults.

>>380402342
You don't have depression and neither do your friends.
I bet they complain to you how they can't even afford the cost of the drugs they've been lead to believe they need to survive.
It's a business and the people you've seen taking those drugs are addicts, just as was intended.
Wake up before you get scammed by having to pay for pills the rest of your life that do absolutely nothing.

>>380400370
>1500 calories a day
There is no need to turn it into torture, he could probably do fine starting at over 2000 even without exercise.

It's also better to spend that money on the right tools to start the diet in the first place, like a kitchen scale.

>>380402716
>not fucking the older ladies
They're experienced and can teach you lots of things. You missed out.

>>380402624
I had a friend who lost his virginity to a chick who weighed more than him. They got into a relationship and she lost a lot of weight. I got to see her topless once after the weight loss and goddamn were her tits incredible. So if you get with this chick, you got that to look forward to!

you also get to look forward to her being a terrible roommate, cheating on you, and getting pregnant by some other dude just a few months after you two break up

>>380402759
wake up sheeple
vaccine is autism

>>380402769

I admit that might be pretty extreme, personally I've laxed from that quite a bit but when I started I just wanted to lose weight real fast because I was just tired of being so fat.

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>>380376515
My advice: stop indulging in self-pity and a "woe is me" attitude, or you will never recover.

>>380402759
No, my friend had a baby and had postpartum depression. She couldn't function day to day and had anxiety attacks that she couldn't control. She started taking medication and went back to normal. It was completely covered by her insurance and she stopped taking it after a few months when her body wasn't a disaster from having a baby.

>>380402843
Yeah man I should have tried harder to fuck the 50 year old overweight and hideous female cashiers and managers just like in my doujins. What the fuck is the point of having sex without a long-lasting relationship with someone you enjoy spending time around?

>>380376515
Stop videogames for a year and go work out, find other hobby's such as going out in nature, running, fitness

But you're probably too weak to even consider this advice

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>>380400370
>75lbs in 4 months

Anon, I...

I went from 230lbs to 180lbs in about a year just from changing my eating habits alone

>>380403191
Lower your standards and try again

>>380376515
>tfw 26 year-host virgin
>happen to still enjoy good videogames
>E3 isn't an event about good videogames so I've no reason to care about it

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>>380386625
>Slit your wrists
Don't bother with this bullshit, it doesn't work

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>>380402558

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>tfw 29 year-old virgin
>still enjoy playing video games
>don't give a fiddler's fuck about E3 until it's over

Play better games, OP.

>>380403313
why do i do all of these things? ;_;

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>>380402917
Never gonna happen. Besides, I'm an ass man, and for a big girl she's lacking in that department and the tit department as well, for her size so I can't imagine her losing weight would help much there.

>>380403313

Nice, my goal is to get down to 180 pounds.

>>380402917
I gave up oin the pusyy game a whirtmkl ago
currently drinking myself to sleep ieverynight
dont given gu afuck anymore im fodone with living
just want to due

>>380402558
Start by looking at yourself, everything about you.

Try to work on seeing how you can change something about yourself at first. I suggest seeing first how your mentality can change or how your personality can change. Find something to motivate you, like working out or even just walking outside for an hour. Give yourself a reason to wake up in the morning. As you improve your physical health and mental health you'll hopefully get a little confidence to try doing other things. Take it step by step, try to see where you are at fault and start building from there to establish good habits.

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>>380403623
That's GOTTA hurt!

happiness doesn't fucking exist. The only thing guaranteed in life is that all your loved ones are going get sick and die.

Stop trying to chase this idea of "being happy" and start trying to improve your lot in life every day.

Eat better, eat less, don't drink soda. Go for a walk in the mornings or at night.

Find a hobby you can share with people. Learn a musical instrument.

DO SOMETHING

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>>380376515
I'm 24 and went through this exact phase a few years back. You just have to work on improving yourself, that's it really. Eventually, you'll decide on a whim to boot up a game after a long day at school or work and something will just click in your brain and games will be fun again.

I think everyone goes through this at one point or another.

>>380403980
I already did all that shit.
Now I drink a liter a day, I don't give a fuck anymore
I'm done with being alive, this life wanst for emmne
maye the next one will be better, if not who cares
just kill msyself again and start a new one

>>380403935
>I gave up oin the pusyy game a whirtmkl ago

Why? It's an acquired skill like everything else in life. It's a numbers game. You ask a 100 chick and 1 say yes. Use that as a learning experience.

Failure is part of life. Don't give up, learn from it.

>>380404340
>ask 100 girls in my life time to go out with me
>they either laugh or tell me im not as hot as i think i am
>never though i was to begin with
>woman flat out telling me i have no chnace
no fuck it dude i n done
fuck life
fuck it all
i have a rop-e
its ready, im reayd
im just something to be pokes to see if its done, and i am
fuck it all

>>380404137
To expand on this any NEETs with this problem should probably force themselves to get jobs. After years of limitless free time and access to tons of games, this is pretty much the only way I've found to turn them back into a fun past time again. There's a reason why the years I enjoyed gaming so much were all years I was in school, you need moderation.

>>380404605
How do you get a job after years of not having one?

I'm too afraid to explain my laziness to employers.

>>380404747
Just lie and make shit up. Mcdonalds isn't going to check.

>tfw recently turned 27yo KV
>another year alone
>another year suffering
Existence is a curse. I am ready to die but not ready to suicide.

>>380404826
I don't have any friends to pretend to be references.

I wish there was a secret neet organization where we all covered for each other in interviews.

>>380405050

just apply at a retail/fast food/movie theater we literally do not call other jobs to check that shit

I lied about it when I applied. just bullshit your way through

>>380402558
I lost mine at 24, just do what's in your control and don't stress too much. Enjoy yourself, enjoy life and things will work out. Good luck m8, I believe in you.

>tfw your posting got you targeted by a shitty gang and they try daily at getting at you and fail everytime.
lel

>>380376515

Viva pinata

>>380404747
I just said I had been taking care of a sick relative since finishing high school but I probably didn't even need to lie. It's minimum wage shit, dude. They don't care as long as you aren't a violent felon who will jack off in the women's bathroom and sell crack at the register and actually show up on time.

>>380403623
did he died?

>>380405050
You don't need any real references. Anywhere entry level isn't going to bother checking. I work loss prevention at a retailer that doesn't even bother background checking employees. I spend the holidays checking online court records and facebook to make sure the black people we hire are clean.