Is monogamy possible?
The more I grow as a man, the more I feel it isn't
>>85848175
yes in cases of true love
Yes but it requires an immense amount of sacrifice and hard work on your part. Only worthwhile if you intend to have many children.
why would the mods on /ck/ ban me?
>>85848175
Did he love her,/tv/?
>>85848391
Peter Morgan does
>>85848671
Petes based.
>>85848671
what's he looking for?
>>85848804
The truth
>>85848804
pusy
>>85848866
>>85848941
He found both
>>85848866
I want to believe.
I thought it'd be best to fuck a many girls as possible before settling down, turns out the opposite is true, all I think about when I do fuck my girl now is other girls I've fucked that were hotter and better than her. It makes me resent her.
>>85848671
This real?
>>85848175
Yes, but it's certainly not our natural state. Even more so now that the survival aspect is largely missing.
>>85849009
Don't get married.
>>85848175
>The more I grow
You aren't growing then.
>>85848175
Polygamy is a sign of societal decay and immaturity, if you are "growing" as a man like you say, you would cherish monogamy instead of polygamy
>>85849131
Yeah she is pushing for it but idk. We have great times and I love being around her and I love her family. I just don't feel like fucking her anymore, I rather go fap in the bathroom. We only do it when I'm drunk pretty much. This shit tears me apart.
>>85849018
Yes.
>>85849608
I don't understand these feels but it sounds like you're not attracted to her anymore.
>>85849145
>>85849551
I mean grow in attractiveness, as a man
When I was younger, I was an awkward nerd, if a girl liked me I would stay with her forever
Now I'm quite good at getting girls
It's making it harder to stay and deal with the shit of a single one, knowing that a new one is just a few drinks away
>>85849009
do some research next time
>>85850042
I'll do that next time around, good looking out.
>>85850042
So it's only brides?
I've fucked 7 slags, not really looking to settle down next few years, so i'm in the clear with my 7 whores as long my future wife is a virgin? or am I reading this wrong
>>85849018
>This real?
are your eyes?
>>85850382
nah I think it's both partners
the 1 partner are the special cases
>>85850042
what this graph ACTUALLY tells you:
when you are not monogamous YOU ARE LIKELY SLEEPING WITH MORE PEOPLE.
wew thats depp man
As a psychfag I find it interesting that the first thing a man always does when a woman breaks down under the knowledge that her husband cheated on her is to usually tell her some variation of: "It was just sex. I don't love her, I love you." If you were a cynic that would lead you to believe that the spur-of-the-moment lust is more powerful than ten years of devoted love, but I've come to think otherwise. If you love somebody, that's all good and well, but your drive for sex is something completely different altogether. It's the difference between eating and drinking, and not matter how amazing you may be at keeping your husband fed, if he's thirsty he's going to go looking for water. Sex isn't more powerful than love, it's CLEARLY not, but it's a different need altogether and needs to be treated as such.
This is such a hard problem to solve, because the obvious issue here is that partners really just don't want to feel like they're being scammed. It's more so the fear of being taken advantage of than the sheer idea of someone else touching their partner that gets people riled up. It's quite often a pain in the ass to be monogamous, and if they're going to make that sacrifice they want to know the other person is, too. Hell, when they don't it's called "cheating." I hate that term, but it's highly expressive.
>>85850042
Always hated how this info gets tossed around like that. All this means is that people who have a history of hopping partners are more likely to hop partners in the future. It's a behavioral thing. Not that sex poisons you to monogamy.
>>85850465
>>85850581
yes, everyone knows that correlation doesn't equal causation, but it's still quite telling
>>85848175
You aren't growing If you have to ask that question.
Please don't become one of those polyamory cucks who can't handle or don't know the concept of commitment.