How do you deal with player that doesn't know what they want and can't come up with ideas on their own?
Throw a little of everything on the wall and see what sticks.
>>54946065
Tell them their options, suggest the one you think is simplest or most effective, and don't pressure them
You mean a woman?I have no idea.
>>54946065
Ask them simpler questions, possibly about their favorite books/tv shows and their characters. List off some party roles and see if anything catches their attention.
If they are actually completely neutral, then pick something easy for them. They'll get to see how they like it, and get to see what the other players picked. By the time they make their second character, they should have more of an idea of what the options entail.
>>54946065
By choosing to play with that people that want and can play.
Show some self-respect, dude.