Right now there is this sort of trend in fantasy of 'human

There's the Dagger and Coin series by Daniel Abraham.

Ringworld by Larry Niven gets into it in an interesting way. Instead of fixating on what the humans think of the aliums, sometimes the aliums will be surprised or interested or whatever about something weird that the humans did. One example that springs to mind is when the warrior alien is shocked and kind of impressed by a human climbing up some precarious thing. The warrior race guy is part of a species not descended from apes, and doing something like that is unthinkable for him.

Why is the gnome trying to magic away the half-orcs penis?

>>46266796
Oh hey, is that any good? I had been meaning to check it out after reading his Long Price quartet but forgot about it and never got around to it.

>>46267888
Magical circumcision. Gnomes are just fantasy Jews after all.