Should I text my ex? I told her to fuck off a year ago and she

What did she do?

Congrats on having an option dude. Very happy for you getting drunk texted by an ex.

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>>25636961
Literally used me up in every way imaginable.
>Financially
>Socially
>Emotionally
>Recreationally
>Occupationally
And then after she had bettered her life in every way imaginable she fucked off and said, "I didn't mean to fall in love with someone else".

>>25636972
Then why are you replying to her at all? You said all that was worth saying a year ago. Nothing is going to fuck her up more than completely ignoring her.

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A year ago she pleaded that she still wanted to be friends and used the death of someone to guilt me into it saying how she's now reevaluated life and considers me one of her dear friends. Fucking insane.

>>25636981
Because I want to be petty for once. And ignoring her is only so satisfying.

I'm going to drink on it and see if the more rational part of my brain starts saying it's a stupid idea. Silence is indeed a valid response. It just isn't satisfying in the slightest.

>>25636989
Yeah okay sounds more like Ur being a bitch by even considering txting her back

Anon, your brain wants revenge for things just because you think of it as unfinished business.

The more you think about it (and text her), the more you'll want to keep doing it. And it will make you feel angrier and angrier over time. It took me a long time to realise this with my ex

It never really goes away; it will come back from time to time but ignoring it helps keep you ignoring it

>>25636952
>>25636972
No, you shouldn't.
There, you have your answer.

>>25637054
>>25637070
I've had a bit to drink and mull it over and I'm starting to agree that it's a bad idea. I just really don't wanna get another message a year down the line. I thought she would have had enough of a soul to never contact me again.

>>25637086
Block her number.

O I'd find out why she is texting... Get to the core... Wait for her to ask a question or make a leading statement and THEN ignore her.... Worked for me with my ex and was very satisfying

>>25637086
Dude do the smart thing and just block her number. Why you even have it still after so long is just asinine.

>>25637086

That's good anon, its the right thing to do.

My ex still messages me out of the blue from time to time. Just think about that it comes from either guilt or regret on their part, let it be their problem only

>>25637121
I never delete a number so I always know who to ignore and who to respond to.

>>25637120
I really want to but I don't think there's a way I could get her talking unless she explicitly wanted to. She refused to see me in person and every message is specifically crafted to get you on her side. She mentioned that she was watching a TV show we used to watch together, smoking some weed like we used to (I actually quit), and she ended with I miss you. That message seems deliberately crafted to get a reaction out of me and I just kept silent.

>>25637140
Better to keep silent than and have another beverage. Stay classy my friend :)

>>25637170
MORE ALCOHOL IS NEEDED!!! I gotta go to work at 8AM but my liver can take it.

>>25637140
My ex did the same thing. Ignore and move on. Get a better gf and put your bepis in her vagoo. That will help

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