So /soc/ maybe I'm having a semi life crisis I'm worried I'm outta touch I use to be the cool /b/ro always partying always had mad friends "associates" whatever. Now I'm older.. I don't have barely any friends the few I do talk to only want to buy drugs off me, which idc I'm making money, but I'm worried am I still hot? Am I still with it? Am I still the cool /b/ro I'm not really sure anymore.. I use to be so self confident.. But now idk. I work all the time, I'm in bed by 9, doing 60 hour work weeks for the last year has completely destroyed my social life. I feel out of touch with myself, not my self and out of touch with people.. What's happening to me?
Do I still have style? Am I still good looking?? These are all questions I cannot answer and before, I knew so confidently the answers to these questions.. Is this what happens when u get older?
So I come to u soc
Please boost my confidence tell me everything is gonna be okay or don't tell me I'm losing myself
Just tell something
Nothing can be worse than not knowing
how od are you ? its not hard to dress like a grown man
What hapoened to your friends? grew apart? adulthood seems to do that to people, everyone jhst gets busy. You have to find time for yourself though, develop some hobbies, find an interest outside of work. You havnt lost yourself, its only in the moment that you are afraid of what you might have missed. Get outside, find some new people to talk to, build yourself up again.
Maybe I'm being over dramatic maybe this is the way my life is nd I should get use to it..
I use be able to walk up to any girl and striking up a conversation about anything her looks her t-shirt her shoes now I don't feel as confident I'm worried, I'm anxious about everything about myself which holds me back from talking to new people..
>>25617609
This is solid advice thank u
Yes we jus grew apart every year it seems like it jus gets worse
I'm in the same boat mate
The drugs changed my likable personality and I have alienated many of my old friends or they outright turned into/ always were cunts
Have some of my cat anon
>>25617686
I actually don't get high any more I jus sell for extra money atm..
But this really don't have much to do with drugs.. I still had alot of friends and always had a huge social life drugs or not..
I'm just one of those people that can talk to anyone about anything..
>>25617686
But thanks for the cat anon... And it's not even caturday
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>>25617592
You look like a fucking loser desu. Go an-hero.
You are still you and you will always be you. Only you know if you have changed or not since those days. If it is not you, then it is the people around you that have changed: for the better or the worst. The world is full of people that you can meet, find a way to get out there and maximize your chance of meeting people that you want to associate yourself with. I'll tell you that you won't find those people in drugs, but in the hobbies and interests that you have. And if you don't have any make some - everyone has things they have always wanted to do.
You look like a cool guy. Everyone has ups and downs. Now it's up to you to figure out how to organize your life again and get back on that up.