There's got to be girls on /soc/ into this? Where

>Girls on /soc/

No, they have been chased away.

Girls are in the shadow.

>>25496599
The girls left this board because of the amount of fags.

>>25496599
Love getting flogged and caned, but I developed a clotting disorder and have to hold off until it's resolved. Getting electrocuted is still pretty great tho

>>25496599
They're most of the girls on /soc/ except none of them are interested in a fat, virgin pseudo-dom cuck who has to try to prove his masculinity.

You'll find plenty of them if you actually have a conversation and it comes up naturally.

Femanon here. Not a sub by any means, but I find most of the guys who watch this type of porn and claim to be doms are actually people who are "only interested" in the BDSM scene, and are usually virgins.

They have no idea what actually goes on, all the prepwork and the continual consent and the aftercare, so on and so forth. And when they finally get there? They pussy out.

"Oh geez I thought I'd be into this or okay with it but I don't know anymore..." type shit.

>>25496881
Definitely get where you're coming from, I've seen and hear it happen a few times. Not all men are that way though, I'm dom and proud on how i handle it.

>>25496898
>Having to tell people how dom you think you are
Yeah have fun with that insecurity.

>>25496910
I don't "think" i am, i know. Plenty guys think they are dominant and end up being not what females think/weaker than assumed. Sorry i feel proud of myself anon.

>>25496844
>>25496881
That wasn't the point of the thread.
Thanks for your input though.

>>25496940
I'm saving the time of real subs by warning them about make-believe doms.

>>25497131
Good work I'd say. How old are you?

caning a woman should be a special occasion. once, a bamboo cane (her's) broke and a splinter stuck in her left buttock... I pulled it out... there was blood... I didn't dig it. She seemed happy about it? Drawing blood in any way is not sexy to me.

>>25497138
24

>>25497131
You're lonely and bitching about your neckbeard-filled dating pool.

>>25496881
That's why I only like broken girls who are into this without the aftercare. Girls who just want to be beat up relentlessly.

I get that tumblr is obsessed with this, but I kind this to be 100% theatrical in sex.

There's nothing dominant about a physically abusive lover and I'm pretty sure that there's nothing dominant about beating women, even if they get off to that kind of thing.

BDSM is pretty much as vanilla as kinks get and I've had partners insinuate I'm vanilla for not being into pretend roles during sex.

>>25497391
I'm married and have a committed submissive, but keep projecting.

>>25497601
No one really wants that. At that point, you're a sociopath and need to be put away.

>>25496599
Not me *shrug*

>>25497623
Either way, thanks for derailing the thread.

>>25497660
Oh my gosh, you are like, so welcome!

>>25497667
i like you

>>25497131
The e-dom thing as of late has become really annoying. So many non lifestyle losers who want to beat someone up and don't understand what the fuck they are doing. Ive spent years honing my abilities to inflict pain with precision and making sure after I break them the fuck down, I build them back up.

>>25497601
this guy is a fucking virgin, typing down his fantasies. My guess is he hates his mother

>>25498889
You're giving off major red flags here

>>25496728
This. Can confirm, have stopped myself from posting in threads taken over by gay boys

>>25498889
> Complains about e-doms
> Speaks like a typical wannabe e-dom.

Sure thing buddy. Stop trying to be such a macho man and go out and talk to an actual fucking human being once in a while.
BDSM is all about trust and developing a strong sexual relationship based on understanding what the participants all actually want.

>>25498974
bdsm is whatever you want it to be people need to stop taking them self's so seriously

>>25498974
What part of what I wrote implied I didn't understand or actually have a clue what all participants want?
I not a macho man, I'm annoyed. The popping up of 19 yo Daddy Doms and dudes who think a girl will submit or should submit just because they say they are Dom is bullshit.
25 years in the lifestyle, 10 with the same woman, I think I know what I am doing and saying. That being said, you're absolutely correct about trust and developing a strong sexual relationship. Trust is everything.

>>25498991
Bdsm: Safe, Sane, Consensual
Rape/Abuse: Not BDSM

>>25499108
consensual rape and abuse is fine
you're not every one and everyone is not you
bdsm is an art form not an instruction manual

I'm not defending the guy you replied to I barely skimmed through his post and he sounds like a tool it's just I'm tired of people acting like bdsm is another form of safe space which it can be but does not have to be

>>25499180
oh and to add on to this nothing is sane about bdsm

the girl my boyfriend of 6 years cheated on me with was into this sort of stuff

lol

borderline personality disorder, drugs, alcohol, intense BDSM, into being "treated like shit", and often makes statuses talking about how she loves to be told she's worthless

i guess i was too vanilla for him :D

>>25499180
>>25499189
You're a bad dom and you should feel bad.

Theres no such thing as consensual rape you sperglord.

>>25497623
I know. But that's just what I want.

>>25498889
Nice p r o j e c t i o n

>>25499229
you need to get your head out of the box if you've never heard of rapeplay or even spontaneous rapeplay
I swear sjws need to gtfo out of the scene they're worse then ddlg

>>25499229
wait it's summer gtfo off of 4chan little girl you know nothing of bdsm