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What things immediately put you off someone or make them unattractive

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What things immediately put you off someone or make them unattractive to you? Be it physical appearance, personality, habits, hobbies, etc.
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>>25468046
When a girl talks about emotional attachment, starts flirting, and admits to fucking 3 other people.
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Body hair.
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Piercings
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materialism and being basic
its a bit hard to explain, but the character line is obvious irl

when they blindly accept some things and shit on everyone having opinion different than others in some way

and the single biggest redflag of all - telling anyone in any case whatsoever to shut up or silencing someone because of his opinion, especially if done in group

i want to murder those people
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Men who desperately attempt to assert their masculinity by overdoing it
"I'm not a pussy bRUH
My dick is 8 1/2 inches"
Probably showing off non-existing muscle in profile pictures

Overly-sexual people

Girls who try hard to appear "cute"
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Lack of intelligence
Body hair
Judge people based off their likes and dislikes and not their actualy personality e.g. taste in music
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when people have to point out every fucking detail of everything. like shit i notice everything too, no need to tell me evreyyyyyyyyyything.
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Girls who color their hair unnatural colors.
Guys with big potbellies
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Fake nails. I admittedly prefer girls not have nail polish,but fake nails immediately makes me wanna avoid a girl
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tattoos take about 3 points off so a girl has to be pretty hot to overlook them
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as a shallow female i'm turned off if:

>he's shorter than me
>he's stinky or dirty, got bad breath, or bad teeth
>he's ungroomed e.g. unkempt beard/hair, ill-fitted clothes
>he has a lot of acne or acne scars
>confidence is good until it's even a little bit egotistical
>he's dumb/untraveled/boring
>he's immature or inappropriate, e.g compelled to make crude sexual remarks or jokes often
>i hate it when people pick at my food without asking so that's an instant turn off
>he's a chatterbox. but i probably dislike shy/jaded guys more
>he brags or boasts about his achievements or possessions. much more attractive to be humble
>he's lazy/has no ambition. i think having dreams and hopes is extremely important

that's all i can think of rn
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>>25470581
>cunt
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>>25470581
You better be at least a 7 for those standards
>chatter boxes are a turn off but shy people even worse
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>>25468046
guys believing anything they're told as long as it fits their narrative.
guys talking about how awesome sex with another person was. I think opening up to what you like is important but if you're going to tell me stories of your past sexual encounters don't make it colorful.
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>>25468046
Chewing with your mouth open. thats it, will give anyone the benefit if the doubt.
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Idolization of a brand - i.e Apple, Razer, Alienware, AMD

Buying anime merch, using an anime pic, basically being public about your anime hobby in any way

Watching a lot of porn/porn addiction. Being a pervert in general
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>>25470621
I'm just monogamous, heathen.
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>>25468046
both men and women

/pol/ rhetoric or hardcore leftist/identity politics
pleb music taste
lack of "depth" (i know saying that makes me sound like a pretentious cunt but i've been with a few people i feel were on a completely different page than i was for our time together)
this usually manifests as having no real drive, no curiosity, sometimes in really obvious ways like how you speak and behave every day, your emotional maturity, etc

i don't like guys that want to think of themselves as alpha
i don't like really really submissive girls

being overweight or really underweight is bad
not taking care of yourself is bad
not taking care of your pets is fucking terrible
not sticking up for me when i need you to hurts.
if your friends are all dicks to me and you just accept it i will probably just leave you
i ignored this as a red flag before and i regretted it a lot

other than that, i'm not that picky
most of what i want out of a partner is emotional maturity and mutual respect
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>>25470999
>most of what i want out of a partner is emotional maturity and mutual respect
But those are hard qualities to have when youre young and havent learned how to be emotionally mature or respect. I guess thats why women go after older men.
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>>25471036
>But those are hard qualities to have when youre young and havent learned how to be emotionally mature or respect.

That's true, mostly. Some level of respect should be inherent, if you were raised right. Some people develop emotional maturity more quickly than others, some never do. It's just a shitshoot.

Though there shouldn't be a "but" at the beginning of your post; it might not be a standard that is easy for everyone to meet, but it doesn't have to be. Needing your partner to be emotionally mature and respectful is completely valid. If you can't meet either of those, that isn't my fault, and it isn't up to me to force you to develop them by starting an unfulfilling relationship with you. You cannot create a healthy relationship with someone else unless you are willing to take on the burden of your own issues.

a lot of my most fulfilling relationships, since i was 13 and e-dating pedos, have been with people much older than me, so i may have more of a bent towards older partners.

am tranny btw
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>Dyed hair
>Fake nails
>Piercing
>Tatoo
>Too much make up
>High heels
>Fake eye lashes
>Fake breasts
>Nothing but skin and bones
>Bad posture

>Entitled
>Self centered
>Lazy
>Mean
>Self loathing
>Closed minded
>Whorish
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Long fingernails on both men or women.
shaved guys. Especially arms, legs and pubes. wtf.
Long bears. Anything longer than an inch or that isn't a nice thick well groomed one. If you can't grow one theres no shame, just shave ffs

Mentioning height when it comes to partner selection (I'm 6'5) you're just delusional if you think people really are bothered if the guy is taller than you.

writing you're chubby or a little chubby but you are just plain fat.

Demanding your partner gets circumcised for you or being turned off by either cut or uncut. Bc that's what you want on a date and during sex, medical advice from a stranger
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>>25470581
pic related is you, just a full of shit brained narcistic millennial who only cares about herself and having man as some materialistic trophy. i´d rather go to hell than spend a day with you
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>>25468046
As a default, I find most people unattractive.
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In no particular order of turn offs:
>fake nails (seriously, makes me want to get some pliers)
>piercings besides ears
>tattoos
>make up
>fake tits
>unnatural hair
>shaved pussy
>nail biting

Really, all but the last one makes women appear like a dumb, vapid skank. When you care so much about your appearance, it shows that you care about nothing else.
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Asexual People.
Girls that don't do anal.
Overweight people.
Tryhards/ people who put way too much effort into being someone they are not.
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I had a crush on my friend until I went to her apartment and saw how much of a pigsty it was. Food on the floor in her room, random garbage on the floor and her balcony was an ashtray. There was probably at least 100 cigarette butts on the ground. I don't think she vacuumed her house once since she moved in.

Also overweight people and internet meme-y people
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>>25468046
Being offended when I say certain things

being sluts in the past

small boobs.
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Assuming male and similar age to me
>Not very bright and ambitious
>(Ex-)slut
>Piercings (unless not faggy and earlobes only) and faggy tattoos
>Twinks and skinnyness
>No facial hair
>Vapid/self-centred/campy/etc. personalities
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>>25471169
>i´d rather go to hell than spend a day with you
you will
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Girls who smell.
Not being slightly submissive.
I cant tell if thats a character trait or just a way chicks show interest/flirt.
When she doesnt suck dick.

I am a bad person, no need to point that out.
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>>25470931
This
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>>25470581
hahahaha
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Smoking and perfume. That shit gives me migraines.
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Weebs. People who over obsess with anime, have a super obsession with hentai, or just Japanese stuff in general when they're really not appreciating Japanese culture aside from cute girls with big eyes. Maybe it's from shitty exs but it gets tiring.
People who can't hold a conversation or are prentious dicks that think it's okay to be rude in everything they say.
People who aren't open to hearing new opinions or ideologies.
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>Drinking in excess
>Smoking anything at all
>Uses drugs
>Country gals
>Listens to nigger rap
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>>25468046
>Rude to service workers like waiters, cashiers, cab drivers, etc
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>Doesn't look after their skin
>Doesn't say please or thank you
>Refuses to socialise (I understand being shy and even having social anxiety but you have to at least be open to meeting my friends)
>Homophobic, racist, or sexist
>Wears clothes that doesn't fit them
>Doesn't have a job and isn't trying to get one
>Visible bones or quite overweight
I think that's it.
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>>25468350
That hair thing is so true
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>Fake nails
>Tattoos
>Piercings
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Related topic:
Im dating a girl atm and we are totally in love.
But she has really bad breath, I know she brushes her teeth etc. But its pretty constant.
How can I tell gently as she is a bit of a cryer?
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itt: a bunch of people who will die alone because of their unrealistic expectations and/or people that view other humans as holes to fuck or things to own
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>>25475975
It could be a number of things. Get her to start drinking water, tell her you want her to brush with you like make it a cute thing, get her to floss while you are flossing.

Encourage her by telling her you want the both of you to do it together
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>poor hygiene
>a closed shell
>vapid and/or vacant in personality
>fat or "heafty" (imma slim chap, dont wanna woman who could eat me by accident)
>"hates this" or "loves that" without ANY explanation if ever asked
and the most important of all
>is generally closed minded

that sums it up pretty much
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Do men not like women who put effort into their appearances or what?
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>>25476188
4chan beta males don't represent all men
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As an attractive guy:
>lack of intellect
>conformity to taboos
>trying to hard to appease
>not liking anime
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>>25476227
Shit, *too. I'm a bit drunk. Also
>can't handle their alcohol, wants to fight people
>drinks
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>>25476227
>>25476238
lol but like really tho, there has to be more
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>>25476245
Your ID looks too much like smeagle from LOTR. I'm fucking dying over here m8.
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>>25471124
>demanding your partner is cut/uncut

Does this actually happen in real life?
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>>25476252
is that a good thing?
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>poor/no family values
If you can't bond with my damily in a genuine way, you have no business in my life.
>making fun of the handicapped
My brother is DS and I've been in social care. Inb4 edgy replies. Being callous to them shows an inherent lack of empathy or emotional maturity in general.
>anxiety/neurosis
Last relationship has devolved into me being a carer instead pf a lpver or partner. Every day was a new struggle and I was burnt out. Leaving your mental health to rot is just as bad as
>being obese.
Its not a glandular problem. It is gross and indicitive of a laundry list of dysfunction.
>codependant
If you cant go on and do anything in your life without me, you're not an adult.
>addicted to [substance]
Being a weekend warrior and being unable to finish your day without a drink/toke/pill are two different things.
>actually desire me
I hold myself to high standards, in grooming, attitude and career. If you aren't into me, dont reel me in with an act just because you are lonely/unprovided for.

Late twenties here, been in three 3+ year relationahips that rotted from the inside out because she got lazy or unhinged from ignoring/mistreating problems she already had.

Never again.
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Saying something like "lol I'm so dumb" or "I'm not smart enough for that". It just instantly tells me that this person won't understand things that I find to be intuitive, or is lazy as fuck - especially if they dismiss all attempts at explanation. Fuck that.
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New York, New jersey, or strong boston accents.

Anyone speaking Ebonics.
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If you can't laugh at /pol/-tier jokes in private I cannot understand you.
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>>25475999
She always carries a bottle of water with her, we live in Australia so everyone usually drinks water.
But I know she brushes, i've seen her do it, just during the day and into the night her breath is terrible
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>>25470581
ha she dont like the Chad
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WHEN SHE IS A FILTHY NIGGER-WOMAN
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If she had any type of sexual or romantic experience with someone.
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>ITT, I have no chance with anyone.
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anyone who believes they are somehow superior or just general shit talkers in any way mainly girls who buddy up with other girls then shit talk them
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Lack of ethics
Lack of empathy and compassion for others
Lack of self-confidence
Lack of curiosity and drive
Overuse of the word "never" in his/her thoughts and beliefs
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>>25477797
Is she on a low carb/keto diet? My ex had terrible breath when she tried that shit. Google it, if so, it's a side effect.
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>>25479042
Not that im aware of, I dont moniter her food.
But from what I have seen her diet is pretty poor, and shes a little on the heavy side.
Maybe it's that. Thanks
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ITT: Projecting
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If they reply to "how are you doing/whats up" with "nothing"
Fucking help me continue the conversation cunts
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People that only give a shit about themselves.

Live and work in San Franicsco, the most hypocritical city in the US.
>"We want to help each other man..."
> Cool, give me more of your paycheck
> "You're infringing on me... I'm triggered"
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