TLDR: How to stop infatuation to fuck up my life I'm a

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TLDR: How to stop infatuation to fuck up my life

I'm a succesful (job with very good prospects, getting close to 100k a year) male anon, decent looking (bit chubby, but apparently super cute face). I speak 3 languages fluently, i'm very respectful, play an instrument and get plenty of dates.

Problem is, whenever i start dating somebody that i connect with, i get insanely infatuated. I become obsessed with a person. My mind will be racing 24/7 waiting for the next text from this person. When it takes a few hours, all kinds of scenarios pop up in my head. I'm no double-texter, i have the discipline to wait until she texts me. But it fucks with me so hard.

Then after a month i get bored and break up.

However, this process happens every time. How do i stop it? I get plenty of dates but i'm ruining my own life going on these dates. It fucks with my head so much.

I tend to date below my standards as i just want somebody to cudde and feel secure with. I'm chasing that feeling.