/soc/ chicks did you ever get to know the properly measured lenght

No, because I don't care. The majority of us do not give a fuck aslong as it feels good.
The obession some guys have with this has to be borderline fetish/mental illness.

>>25364482
Have you ever whipped out a tape measure and fitted a girl for a bra when you asked what size they were?

>>25364657
and of course size matters to wether it felt good for you or not

>>25364683
Who needs a tape measure I can just pick the bra up and read it. But I'm an ass man tits dun matter.

>>25364482
Women don't have spatial awareness

>>25364482
My husband is about 4.5 in length... and no I wouldn't measure otherwise but after years it just happened

>>25364716
>he doesn't know what vanity sizing is

>>25364741
He knows when bras don't fit.

>>25364738
Is that ever dissapointing?

>>25364686
Not really. I've had mind blowing sex with below average guys and meh sex with above average. A guy who knows how to fuck will outshine any length/girth

>>25364747
Why??

>>25364777
mouth and hands sex doesnt count here ok

>mouth to pussy and hands to pussy
fixd

>>25364828
You do realize that there's more to fucking than just shoving it in don't you?

>>25364838
Not for men.

I agree with you though, I'm just average and never heard a single complain from a girl.

>>25364838
yes for sure
its shoving it in what i'm insecure about though

>>25364686
I have a preference for over 4 and relatively girthy but I'll take a guy with a 3 inch skinny dick, good oral skills, and confidence over an insecure dude with a big dick any day.

>>25365318
what is an insecure dude

>tfw pencil dick

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>>25364777
>A guy who knows how to fuck will outshine any length/girth
Trips of truth.

However, just as with any other physical activity, size and strength matters. While a guy who knows how to fuck is better than a bigger guy who doesn't, given two men of similar sexual skill the man with the bigger cock will be preferred most of the time.

Also, as the Kama Sutra said centuries ago, what matters is the *relative* size of penis and vagina. A huge cock in a tiny pussy is horrible, just as is a cocktail weenie tossed down the Lincoln Tunnel. It's when the two sizes match that sexual pleasure is maximized.

Only with the one ex who actually showed me him measuring himself (at my suggestion). He was 7 inches long, don't know about girth. Others I would just have to guess in comparison to him or to everyday items.

>>25365379
The guy who made this thread. The kind of guy who will be with a girl and get so nervous about her rejecting him for his tiny dick that he's angry with her for rejecting him before he's even asked her. Don't mention that you're insecure about your dick, it's the only one you have and you can't change it so try to use/enjoy what you have. (I'm sure that sounds like bullshit to somebody with a 2 inch dick, but the anger and resentment some of these guys carry around towards women they assume will belittle them and not like them before they give them a shot is insane and WAY more of a problem than their dick could ever be.) All assumptions made about a guy who's insecure about his dick will be bad ones, case in point...the ones I'm making.

I dated a guy who was like this, he NEEDED to know if he was the biggest I've ever had, cried when he wasn't. If he had just been like "hey this is MY dick do you like it?" I would've responded with an emphatic Yes! But he's all... "Is my dick not as good as the other dicks?" "Are the bitchy size queens not going to talk to me because I'm not huge?" Whenever he asked me for verbal reassurance that his dick was above average size it's just like....I feel bad for being turned off by insecurity but if you can even convince yourself to fake it til you make it do it.
He's got 6 and a half inches with 6 inch girth and he's STILL a whiny baby about it even after I tell him he hits my cervix and hurts me if we don't warm up first. It isn't about the size of his dick, he's using his dick as an excuse to not deal with his fragile fucking ego. He watched way too much porn as a young teenager so has no idea what realistic expectations are. He's a musician for fucks sake he would be so hot if he could just act like he likes himself I don't want to spend all my time with someone feeling like they're fishing for compliments.

If you can reliably make me cum I don't give a shit if you even HAVE a dick.

>>25367700
This chick knows what's up.

>>25367721
>>25367700
Fortunately I've never had to put up with a guy being that ridiculous, but it is noticeable how if you even mention the slightest thing about size they make it out to be a way bigger deal than it is!

>>25364844
I disagree with that, if you know how to do it you can get aroused by all sorts of stuff besides thrusting.

>>25367792
It's hilarious really because however big the guy is there will always be some root vegetable that's bigger. As if bigger is better just completely without limit, until I have the trunk of a giant redwood in my vagina and every man can feel equally insecure.

>>25367775 #
Oh my goodness he got sad when I joked about things that are bigger than him (cucumber, extendable umbrella) being my dick because those jokes "perpetuate an unrealistic expectation" :'D

I should have said "way to project dude. You're the ONLY person who thinks you're inadequate because you don't have an 8 inch dick. People think you're inadequate because you think you are."

>>25367775
If a guy said you weren't the prettiest or most attractive girl he's dated you'd lose your shit....

>>25367826
That's why I never ASK. Don't put someone in the position of having to choose between making you feel bad and lying to you.

>>25367831
Wish you could tell that to the girls I've been with

ITT: Insecurities.

>>25364482
i've never really cared that much. if i had to guess i'd say most of my boyfriends have been average except for one guy who was honesty the size of my thumb when he was hard, and i have small hands. it didn't last long, and yes that was a major factor, sorry :(

>>25366858
>the man with the bigger cock will be preferred most of the time.

Wrongo bucko. There is an upper limit on how much size is preferred. There is no hard and fast rule.

Seriously, even gay men aren't huge on huge dicks that much, the general consensus is that Average Dick is pretty fucking good at getting the job done. We just think bigger=better, in actuality, bigger can lead to problems such as bottoming out, hitting some parts that really, REALLY don't want to be hit, not being able to get decent oral, etc.

Own your average dick. It's average for a reason.

Women typically cannot feel any physical pleasure past 2 to 3 inches into the vagina. Any other pleasure is a psychosomatic effect. Honestly you're more likely to injure a woman if your dick is longer than 5-6 inches through bruising the cervix or stressing the vaginal walls. Width is honestly more important given the position of the clitoris.

>>25367888
what is a good width/girth for vaginas then

>>25367892
My arm after lifting for 10 years and taking steroids.

>>25367892
I really like 4.5-5 circumference or more but I can fist myself so please don't fucking listen to me.

>>25367921
i fit then
pls have my dick in

>>25367921
That's the average, nothing strange about your preference, I'd say most women like that range.

I've never measured. But I'd be curious to play the game of: "here's the dick pic I was just sent, here's the size they said they are...are they bluffing?"

>>25364482
No because I don't actually care about dick size at all. Most of us don't.

>>25367700
As another female, this chick has summed it up nicely

My wife measured mine after she saw the latest study for average dick size.

It was super hot. Would gladly do again.

>>25367921
You wouldn't mind posting image of your clenched fist now would you?

>>25367989
In fact ive been measured by 3 girls prior to that also. My wife doing it was way more exciting though.

>>25367989
>>25367998
Wow senpai you're such an alpha PLEASE tell us more!

>>25367872
>>25368003
Your insecurity is showing. Just adding to the conversation; it does happen. Fuck off

>>25368007
>is an insecure faggot
>calls others insecure
You're adding to a convo full of insecure cucks, also someone got mad :^)

>>25368016
Haha, you're the mad one. I'm very secure with myself. You get all butthurt because I said it has happened to me. Not once did I boast anything or make size claims lol. Autists are so interesting

>>25367989
Can confirm, my ex got really turned on by us measuring him together. Still so many more important things about a guy though.

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>>25368033
>tells me to fuck off
>I am the mad one

>>25368033
>heh you're the mad one and the insecure one heh
Hey, whatever helps you sleep at night big guy.

>>25368037
Yeah it is pretty exciting. It is like put up or shut up mode.

>>25368079
He'd already measured and hadn't been exaggerating his size. He just liked anything that flattered him for having a big dick.

>>25368084
Yeah, never really exaggerated either. Hard to tell what the turnon is...maybe because it is just something so personal to me. The fact there was interest i suppose

>>25368094
He just seemed to get off on anything I would say or do to stroke his cock-related ego. He liked knowing he was the biggest I'd had, liked me touching and holding it, I think measuring was just an extension of that and with all this emphasis on his size.

>>25368116
Well yes all that is nice, I am the same. We are very simple minded.

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>>25367952
Thanks, good. Insecure dude I mentioned manages to make me feel bad about it. He'll say "You can fist yourself do you even feel me?" when feeling shitty and I have to be like..."you're insinuating I'm a stretched out judgemental whore not insulting your dick here and it's still all about you."
>>25367990
I feel like things have derailed a bit to the point that I can answer this now. Obviously I can't jam it in like that and it is somewhat uncomfy until I get the whole thing in but once it is my wrist is like 6" around and it's roomier further inside and it's pretty fun

>>25368136
Makes things straightforward for me at least!

>>25368150
i have a small penis. id never be able to satisfy you

>>25368158
Then again, some dudes like being made fun of for being small, or like to get kicked in the nuts....so hey, maybe it isn't so simple.

>>25368161
It's like people forget lesbians are a thing. Vaginas are versatile in what they like.

Have a mouth and hands? Focused on making sure both parties have a good time? I'm good to go.

"I have a small penis" isn't a turn off but "I'd never be able to satisfy you" IS.

>>25368199
>says its a turn off
>i was right

i told you

>>25368240
Just dont be a dweeb who is super concerned about his dick. Act like you know what youre doing (even if you dont, they probably suck at sex too), tell partner to give input on what they like and you do the same to them. You are more concerned about your cock than they are

I wish many orgasms in your future sir.

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>mfw have above average penis size
>mfw also a manlet.
>mfw penis now looks 'huge' as opposed to 'above average' by relative comparison.

Feels like a very hollow achievement, tbqh.

>>25368240
Read it again.

>>25368275
This.

>>25368279
Ok?

>>25368383

Don't mind me, there's simply not many places I can express this truth, so I took the liberty t do so.

>>25368150
Cute, thanks for sharing. I guess the whole size thing is partially fueled by porn, where size does matter because it's visual medium. Yeah, you should never just jam it in like that even if you could, because where's fun with that?
Though there is something hot about the depravity of admitting you can comfortably fist yourself with a bit of stretching.
>and it's roomier further inside and it's pretty fun
Especially when you put it like that.

Bonus question: Got any toys and gadgets or it's all handiwork?

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>>25367888
Not entirely true.
The thing is, 80% of the pleasurable nervous tissue is concentrated in the first 2-3 inches, with most of that being in the clit and its anchor tissue, which lies behind the labia on either side of the vagina, and up behind the back of the pubic bone.

That other 20% matters. It's just spread around the entire rest of the vagina beyond those first 2-3 inches.

The g-spot trumps it, though. It's got its own nervous tissue, which is why women can have a clit orgasm and a g-spot orgasm that are entirely different, and are even on their own timers. With skill, you can give a woman a clitoral orgasm and a g-spot orgasm at the same time, which WILL cause screams. Some women find it too powerful.

The thing is, the g-spot is only 3-4 inches in on most women. So it's entirely possible for a 4" dick to stimulate those first 2-3 inches of clitoral tissue and its anchor AND the g-spot at the same time.

>>25368150
Get yourself a man who will fist you and jerk off inside of you.
Some of us know that sometimes you need the 8" girth, and sometimes you only want the 4" girth. Vaginas are magically elastic.

Ask anyone who gives you shit about being "loose" if their asshole doesn't close back up after they take a dump.

>>25364482
>measured myself at 7 inches
>girlfriend thought I was 9 because in about the same as a previous partner she had
>all insists that I'm 9 even though I told her I've measured with a ruler
>not worth arguing about though

>>25370155
Sounds like her ex was talking himself up

>>25364482
>ITT femanons don't understand why men are insecure about their dicks

A femanon mentioned that guys can't control their size, so they should be confident about it, but if anything that's the worst part. If you ever notice, a common insult from a woman (generally speaking) to a man is usually about the lack of women in their life, or having a small penis. If people know that you have small penis, you're viewed as less of a person, for something you can't fix or control. It's worse than being short as a guy. There have been a few women that weren't comfortable with me staring at their vaginas, and to me it seems sort of insecure but I think it makes complete sense. I do see how worrying about your size comes off as insecure but the concern is completely rational

>>25371181
this

>>25364828
Good because I wasn't talking about them, I mean actual penetration.

>>25367785
Hehe I agree with you there that's for sure :)

>>25371181
The people using "small dick" as an insult have "small brains" so fuck em? If you're going to insult someone insult their character not an unchangeable physical characteristic. Women say that shit when they are feeling insecure and want to cut you down, it doesn't actually have anything to do with your dick size.

The insecurity is rational but a comparable one is boobs. Women get made fun of for being flat chested often. You don't see me getting angry at my guy because he points out attractive girls with better tits than me. I simply enjoy them for what they are.
I'm insecure about my body but it's what I have to work with and not liking it isn't going to do anything about it yknow? Sure there's stigma about having a small dick but it's also probably in general shittier to have a vagina overall sorry not sorry.
It's fine if you are insecure, I'm saying don't tell the girl you're hoping to sleep with about it and don't be angry about what you were given. If you talk about it with a partner and can't trust their "you are enough for me" that is a problem.
A mild insecurity based on percieved societal expectations? Cool, fine, normal even.
I used to be one of those women who was uncomfortable having somebody get up close and personal with my vag (real beef curtains, dark mauve) but after a while I wanted to be eaten out with the lights on and I can't bleach it so my only option was to be cool with it. Sometimes I'm viewed as less of a person because I have tits and a vag, something I also can't fix or control, welcome to the club lol. I'm not at all saying "women have bigger problems" I'm saying "it's hard to have sympathy when we've been dealing with these feelings of inadequacy since before we grew tits and so often when your insecurity is brought up it's used to passively insult us or you're MAD about something you can't change and that you've known about for long enough to get over."