Tinder Thread. Never had a match for almost 3 months.Yesterday

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>>25351429

>>25351429
Superlike is shit it does nothing. She's Russian so:

1) Is a bit lower value compared to normal women.

2) Should care more about money/status and less about appearance, generally speaking.

She's worthy of the superlike it just doesn't work.

>>25351465
Shes not russian, wtf dude?

>>25351532
Oh I just saw the Russian characters and assumed she was Russki. Your odds of matching that are very low, maybe 1 in 100. Superlike doesn't do anything probably even makes you look desperate.

Because legit attractive women are uncommon on there it can take a while to find enough of them to swipe enough to match one. Everyone is frauding pictures these days so it's no wonder shit's harder online. Obese women using iPhone selfies and filters to look like models, guys doing the same shit. I refuse to do it because I'd be too nervousto meet irl if I looked uglier than pics.

>>25351549
The interesting thing is im from Bulgaria, there only ugly slav girls i encounter because i havent seen any action on tinder.the system of the program introduces you with profiles that are on your level.Mine is the lowest because i dont have matches and im not selective.So this paradox just sucks you down if your not attractive enough.I see girls with her looks like once in a week, what else couldve i done

>>25351569
Oh probably nothing then. If you're ugly there's nothing you can do...

Unfortunately a lot of guys are using like topless pics of them tanned and buff in Ibiza. Or fraud iPhone selfies that look nothing like them. They also have huge Instagram collections to choose from.

Reality is much better, much easier, nobody can cheat the human eye.

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>>25351618
Thats me.Am i too ugly?Rate me objectively

>>25351658
>rating appearance objectively
bro

>>25351672
Am i that ugly?

I've used tinder for YEARS

and I'm a new area I moved to half a fucking year ago and still can't get one legitimate tinder match. I am not picky.. I only just do not find fat firls attractive. That's it. And with patience and even focusing on my own life before going back and fourth to tinder.... nobody likes me.... I never even had a date or a gril show interest in me irl. How do I accept that my life is meant to be alone? Online dating is the easiest way to meet people now and my social anxiety is soooooo much worse now that I know nobody in multiple states that are fake would even match and see how it goes in a talk, let alone date?

>>25351658
You won't do well online with photos like that. Easiest option is to stick to real life. Taking drugs can make you act like the coolest guy in the room which will be the easiest route. Depends what you take though... Men who are more average are only really going to pick up really hot women through extremely high status which is easy to fake with stimulant drugs. Almost impossible without if you haven't had a life of constant positive reinforcement and popularity. It's nearly impossible to act like Conor McGregor if it's not who you really are, but drugs will do it.

>>25351658
You would be cute if you smiled.

Try a different picture, you look like a 6/10 but a smile would make you a 7

>>25351781
Dude....lol...so your telling me my best bet is not being myself, thus take drugs..

>>25351826
Yes! Precisely... This isn't fairytale land... An internet dweller kind of guy with looks on the average side is NEVER going to pull an elite girl in a real life place i.e. nightclub. Those types of women are used to hunky guys and popular cool dudes. Drugs can make you the most popular guy on Earth for long enough to pull it off.

>>25351847
Well, seems like ill be sticking with being alone

>>25351847
It looks like your speaking from experience

>>25351866
Well, for a relationship, consider lowering your standards. But for one nighters you can pick up really hot women with drug use.

If you just want a girlfriend in your league then skip on the drugs but DO swap to real life still. If you're dead set on the best drop a pill, you're just not gonna compete with alpha popular jocks as a 4channer with low confidence.

Then again I'm sure it's possible in some way to overcome a life of low confidence etc. without drugs... But would take years and years and not sure if you can ever catch up to guys who've had an entire lifetime of reinforcement.

>>25351875
Yes I'm out all the time. I use alcohol usually but also Ecstasy on rare occasions, like in Ibiza I used it. Alcohol compared to Ecstasy is like a peashooter compared to a nuclear bomb in what it will do for you.

I hit on women often both online and irl, and have years of experience going to clubs and stuff.

>>25351429
Absolutely gorgeous Harvard student didn't match with you
What's the confusion dude

>>25351465
superlike can work if it is plausible they'll match you, puts you at the top of their stack. i'd say i have better success with superlike - im superliking girls i think are hot but not the 10/10model im not sure if real ..
because any hot girl already has a full stack of profiles that have liked her which start above profiles that havent swiped her yet. so if you swipe reuglarly, then she doesn't see it within the day, she might not even see your profile it goes so far down the pile before she ends up deleting temporarily

>>25351658
a lot of it is the type of photograph. A LOT.
obviously looking like an adonis it doesnt matter to much, but this is a drab colourless photo just mirror selfie. u gotta get people take a picture of you out in the world or at an event (even if like thanksgiving dinner or some shit). or fuck around with the quality of the image

>>25351429
Major?

>>25351429
>be ugly fat me
>go on tinder
>nothing
>go on okc
>fuck a fit tight girl raw after one dates

Tinder is trash.

>>25351866
Another option is to maybe lower your standards a little. I'm not saying you should go for the first land-whale that gives you the time of day, but maybe dream blonde isn't happening. And maybe never is happening

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>>25354019
I cant lower them...Id actually find a hot guy more appealing than a girl thats beneath my expectations, and believe me- im no queer

>>25354019
It's never happening, for certain. Not without dropping a pill. No chance of it ever.

>>25354913
Ok ok ill kill myself already

>>25354913
I know im trash dude, just give me a few minutes to sharpen the knife.It wont take long

>>25354921
If you're killing yourself, why not drop a pill then? Worst that can happen in a very very unlikely scenario is it kills you, so you won't have lost nothing. In the very likely scenario that it actually helps you, it will give you Superman-level swagger so you can achieve your dreams.

Obviously you have to take it in a club. Don't worry about the fear, as soon as the pill hits you won't feel any fear. No matter how shy and socially anxious you are. Even if you're too nervous to even say hi to your own dad. The second the drug hits you will be the biggest party animal on Earth.

Then dream blondes will be yours for the taking.

>>25354938
How often do you swipe right? If you didn't know, you're penalized by swiping right too often. It lowers your internal Tinder ELO.
It goes by how often you swipe right vs how many matches you get out of it. So if you swipe right on everyone, you're going to get nothing. Show your entire profile anon.

>>25354939
How old are you?and from where are you?

>>25354971
24, UK. Sorry but I can't supply, I only get it from random hookups like festivals, Ibiza clubs (you will be offered there), certain clubs here where drugs are big.

Certain darknet sites sell it.

Once you have used it once and felt and experienced what it's like to be on that level, it SHOULD give you a kickstart to be able to change your natural and sober persona too. It is quite eye-opening of an experience. But you will have to keep going out to clubs.

You ca drink etc. on most nights but nothing will outdo an Ecstasy high.

Then again because I get random hookups it's possible I've been given pills mixed with Speed etc. hard to tell. But you can and SHOULD use test kits, which can be purchased online, to ensure the pill is safe.

Rollsafe.org (I think it is) has info you should read before using.

>>25354968
I know about that, and im fully aware that ive been part of the shit leauge for like a month and a half now.I encounter only profiles that are also the lowest reasons being either their new and are just starting or are like me.No i wont be showing you my profile because i only have 2 pics- one of em the showed above.Also i dont have a quallity camera at my current disposal so people will have to go with solely seeing how my face looks like.Saddly i dont own any discription and really dont know what to type in that box thats supposed to characterize me.If you have any ideas what a good info would be, feel free to say

>>25355000
Dude, find your corrupted soul another thread to inhabbit, please

>>25355014
If you wish... But I promise you that if you're looking for women like this:

>>25351429
>>25351435

Then you will have a basically impossible time doing so via online dating (Tinder ESPECIALLY) and will be better off with my suggestion. But should also just work on yourself in general in either case. That's the only path to salvation believe me. You're competing with guys like Brody Jenner for that type of girl so it will take heroic amounts of effort.

Meh, for me looks aren't really that important. It's mind blowing how personality and style can shape the perception of a person's looks.

Frustrating as shit also, how people stoop to different levels based off of the attractiveness of a person when finding a potential mate. It only proves we are a bunch of literal animals that don't beyond biologically assigned looks.

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>>25355006
Restart your profile then. Make sure you go to your FB and remove Tinder permissions so it actually resets. Get a phone tripod, I got one online for $7 with shipping included. After every photo run it through a couple filters/change exposure until satisfied. Actually write a description, but one just sounds kind of funny while actually saying nothing about yourself. Don't google "tinder bios" because everyone does that and everyone has the same garbage. If you're ripped, post one shirtless photo. Get their Snapchat on message three or four and flirt with pics. I just restarted my Tinder three days ago and am meeting with a girl who told me she wants to fuck already. I have faith in you, anon. You can do it.

>>25355028
>basically impossible time doing so via online dating

I second this. Tinder is basically choosing based on looks - your profile or whatever the fuck it is. If you want game, you need to meet people via socialising, irl. You will have better chances

>>25355043
How do you remove the permissions?where should i be looking for

>>25351687
Accept your subhumanity and join your incel brethrens on lookism.net, we have groundbreaking looksmaxxing discoveries and eons of studying how easy chad has a pick of the litter with all his tinder cumdumpsters

>>25355072
Settings in your FB, friend

>>2535516
Removed the app from my settings category on facebook and deleted the profile on the app, and now i just readded my facebook.

>>25355028
You sound like one of those dudes my DARE officer warned me about.

I match with 2+ girls a day or so, but rarely they respond. They don't mention on their profile that they want someone to open with something specific, so usually I just introduce myself with a hey, and ask what they are up to. Sometimes if they have something notable on their profile, I'll ask a question about that, or comment on it in some way. I know it is hard sometimes for some to respond to basic "Hey there, how are you today? Nice to 'meet' you", so I try to give them something to work with.

Maybe they find what they are looking for and stop using the app, or maybe I'm just really boring. How do you guys open?

>>25355372
I say something dumb. If they respond then they're usually interested enough to work with.
The girl I'm seeing now, I opened with "I swear I'm not a murderer" and left it at that.

How to get good pictures if neither you or friends take photos? I'm not photogenic.

>>25355533
Get a phone tripod, good clothes/be buff, and apply filters. Then trial and error until you find what makes you look good.

>>25355511
Hhaahhahaha.that actualy made me laugh.its fun y cuz its unexpected

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Going to Mexico for a month on the 26th.

Doing pretty well, despite not speaking much Spanish.

Would still appreciate tips or suggestions. If you give me decent feedback and link to your profile, I'll return the favor as best I can.

>>25351658
im a girl and youre cute, just need help taking pics

>>25355873
get rid of 5th pic and youre perf

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I've had for a few weeks and I'm around130 matches. I've only capitalized on it twice though. I'll answer any questions if you guys would like.

I don't even bother with it.
TInder has become like POS of okstupid.