My wife and I are traveling to Miami in July and I'd like to try and convince her to go to a swingers club (Miami Velvet or Trapeze). We have never swung before but love to go clubbing and dancing. Any suggestions on how to convince her to try it?
>>25311922
Ask her to go. Don't say you want to participate, Just that you are curious and want to see what it's like.
If she agrees then gauge her reaction there.
>>25311928
Has anyone actually been to one of these places? If I could convince her it's just a dance club more or less I think she'd go.
Miamifag here.
Trapeze is better. Velvet is full of old Venezuelans and is outrageously priced.
>>25311938
Good to know
>>25311928
This. Be open about your curiosity. Lying about thinking it's just a normal nightclub will make her feel like she can't trust you, which will pretty much ruin your chances of going again.
Just stick to "we don't have to do anything, I just want to see what goes on".