Cheating thread. I'm curious how common cheating really

>m/25
>All partners
>Haven't cheated for a long time (over a year) but usually I get the urge every few months
>No one ever has found out
>Other partners have cheated, current has not to my knowledge
>Currently looking for some bimbo to gag on my cock for a night

Any pro tips? Tinder is okay but it has my real name. I can only lie about so much.

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>>25282416
>M/26
>3/3
>not often but often enough
>not as far as I know
>none that I know of
>If women did not want me to cheat then be open about the fact that you do not want to fuck anymore. I do so I will, is not like I make it a secret in my relationship what I will do if the sex weans

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
26/M
>On how many partners have you cheated
0. Other peoples partners have cheated with me but I will not cheat on any of mine.
>How often did you cheat
see above
>Do they know?
I would hope all of my partners know that i would never do that.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
It almost happened once. I am confident the physical act never occurred, but it was clearly heading that direction beyond any reasonable doubt, so the damage was done.
>Anything you want to add/stories

>>25282439
0 out of 6, to be clear.

>Your sex/age
19/M
>On how many partners have you cheated
2/2
>How often did you cheat
Not often
>Do they know?
Nope. Both of them are clueless.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
No idea
>Anything you want to add/stories
Cheated on both girlfriends with the same girl

>>25282439
same senpai, regarding the other people cheating on their BFs with me.

Yet I feel disgusted by the thought of cheating on someone or getting cucked

>F/23
>3/6
>Not often, usually once at the end of the relationships.
>Some know, some don't.
>Yes, but just one of them.
>All 3 times I've cheated have been at the end of a relationship (Planning on leaving the person anyway kind of thing)

>Your sex/age
31M
>On how many partners have you cheated
4/5
>How often did you cheat
only a couple of times until the last two partners, then it became habitual
>Do they know?
#2 suspected and #4 i told
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
i only suspect #1 of cheating
>Anything you want to add/stories
last two partners i've cheated on with multiple girls, but there has been one girl who i've cheated with throughout those two relationships and i have no intention of letting her go for future relationships

>M/29
>kissless virgin
>the end

>>25282529
why not just save the poor fuck some heart and break up with him before u cheat?

fucking whore

>Your sex/age
male 25
>On how many partners have you cheated
0
>How often did you cheat
0
>Do they know?
No need
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes, 2/2
>Anything you want to add/stories
Both turned out to lie through their teeth.

>Your sex/age
f/22
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
like once per month
>Do they know?
not even suspecting
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
don't know for sure, but there was a rumor once
>Anything you want to add/stories
I hate thinking about it, but it does turn me on in the end

>m/34
>All partners
>Haven't cheated for 4 months
>No one ever has found out
>My partners have not cheated
>I mostly just look for head
>Protip - create fake Facebook account for tinder, use Ashley Madison and Craigslist is great for finding girls at the last minute. Also make a routine of working late and going to the gym so they are used to you smelling different than when you left home

You deserve to be single and lonely if you cheat on people, honestly. Integrity is dead.

>Your sex/age
Male 25
>On how many partners have you cheated
Just one
>How often did you cheat
Probably twice now
>Do they know?
No
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
No
>Anything you want to add/stories
I was kinda always the ugly duckling during my middle school to high school years and then finally bloomed around the time I got to university. Long story short I have a great relationship with my girlfriend and one day an old love interest messaged me on snapchat (she was kinda drunk) and asked me to send her a pic of my dick (I have done that before I met my gf). I took a pic of a dick similar to mine on the internet cause I didn't want to show my own and then it backfire. However I kinda asked for tits and got them honestly for the lulz and to share with my boys.

Another time I asked the waitress for her number just to see if I could and I did. We spoke but I didn't think much of the girl she just had a really nice ass. I sent her a dick pic and it was odd, she said she thought it was big but uncalled for and we cut it off which I was fine with it, nothing serious.

I feel like a piece of shit because I love my girlfriend and we are going to have a family but I have feelings of trying to get other girls number to I guess "catch up" on the times I lost during middle school to high school and part of university.

>>25282955
>I feel like a piece of shit because I love my girlfriend and we are going to have a family but I have feelings of trying to get other girls number to I guess "catch up" on the times I lost during middle school to high school and part of university.
>a 25-year-old man wrote this

You're hopeless.

>>25282963
Really? How so?

It's hard to cheat when you've never had a girlfriend.

>>25282975
Not very self-aware either, I see. Read what you wrote out loud and ask yourself if you're really 25 and not just 16.

>>25282980
I think that was the point I was trying to come across? Lol

You even highlighted it lol

>>25282991
>passive-aggressive question mark and acronyms

You are mentally a teen. Please, don't have a family.

>>25282997
Ok :(

I don't get it, are y'all proud of cheating like wtf

>>25282955
No dude you're doing alright, fuck >>25282963
and that voice in your head that want to make you feel inadequate. Most people cheat because they dont experience that kind of relationship you and your gf seem to have and try to make up for their lack emotional bond.
Also maybe send less dick pics.

M - 22
Cheated on every girl i been with dated like 8. Some knew and still stayed lol
Best feeling is fucking a chick that has a boyfriend

im 27 m, never cheated on anyone. someone cheated on me once and it felt pretty god damn bad

this girl is cheating on her boyfriend with me right now, im single. i dont feel great about it but im not really disgusted with myself either. especially since the guy is in his 50's and shes my age, somehow that makes it seem a little better because i cant imagine their relationship is a legitimate partnership because of the age gap. maybe not true but thats how i look at it

i decided today im not gonna contact her anymore, so if she makes first contact we can go from there, otherwise im not gonna see her anymore. i wanted to date her but thinking about it more im just setting myself up to fail, so fuck that

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
M/29
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
Varies usually no more than a couple of times a month
>Do they know?
God, no
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
She broke up with me to date a guy she had started talking to while we were together
>Anything you want to add/stories

>Your sex/age
29/m in 2yr relationship
>On how many partners have you cheated
None, dated 17 and 15 of which either had boyfriends or cheated on me.
>How often did you cheat
0, current girl cheated twice
>Do they know?
The girls who had boyfriends usually let it slip they were cheating on him with me. Like clockwork within 2-3 months the guy would find out. I had one guy call me begging me in tears not to fuck his girlfriend while she was sitting right next to me.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Found out current partner was cheating when I called her and she whispered a reply "I'm cleaning at my moms" meanwhile I'm in her moms doing handywork unannounced to her. She now pays 2/3rds all bills, buys all groceries, does laundry/cleans, and gives me sex at my request while I look for a replacement
>Anything you want to add/stories
Every single time someone's cheated all parties eventually find out. Women are complete whores and cheat on men at seemingly every chance. I have literally hundreds of stories. I can count the number of truly honest women I've met on one hand. Once hilariously a beta friend of mine offered his girl up to me when she was telling everyone how she cheats on all her boyfriends. His reason was "Well I guess she'll just cheat on me anyway..."

>>25282529
Wow, you are a raging thundercuntlet.

-M/30
-2 in the past, none in this relationship
-never regularly, only if I was extremely pissed, hurt or unhappy with my current lover
-not that I'm aware of

I wanted to think myself above cheating once upon a time, but I realize now why people do it. Most cheaters are unhappy and want someone else but won't break it off with their current relationship. There's nothing wrong with that either, fuck society and their taboos on relationships.

The other cheaters are habitual cheaters, the type that love the thrill of it. And while I used to believe myself above it, I'm not. My lifelong female friend/bestie were secret lovers, and I loved every second we spent together. Everyday we would have the most insanely passionate sex for hours on end, her locking her legs around my waist and her huge tits shaking while I fucked her. She would kiss me and beg me to knock her the fuck up. I would ram my cock as deep as possible and explode inside her pussy as hard as I could, wishing I could get her pregnant so that the two of us could get married.

It never happened. We loved eachother and we still do, but we've had a falling out. I love her and miss her terribly...

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>>25282529

>>25282900
>>25283495
literally 90% of this thread is guys saying they cheated
>1 girl
>lmao fucking whore
wew lad

>>25283668
what this guy said

I've been with my girl for around 8 years

I've never cheated on her, I've had a couple of chances but I've never taken them.

Lately, she's been very sick with a certain condition. She can't perform in bed at all both physically and mentally. Her drive has barely been there. She tries to make up for it by forcing herself to have sex but it's usually really bad and sad sex which just leaves me frustrated and longing for the good old days.

I downloaded Tinder on a whim and I've had a couple of girls hit me up. I have some potential no-strings-attatched hook-ups lined up. I'm just looking to get laid and move on. I love my GF, but her situation is very frustrating. Should I cheat on her to get this backed-up frustration out of my system? What if I regret and feel bad later? I don't want to ruin a 8 year old relationship over busting a nut. Help?

>>25283750
What condition?

>>25283758
Fibromyalgia, she can't move her body at all some times. Disabled.

>>25283750
I'm pretty much on the same boat with my boyfriend of 3 years... i don't know what to do anymore, ive never cheated and the thought makes me regretful but i have a really high sex drive and the no sex thing is killing me.
someone please advise

>>25283750
I'm in a similar situation, gf of several years has endometriosis.. I've cheated and have found it personally beneficial. I know it would destroy her if she found out. Cheating was a selfish decision that ends up helping the relationship in the long run.

>>25283750
>>25283774
y'all are fucking gross, man the fuck up and deal with dry spells for the person you love or admit you don't love them that much and end it

>>25283769
Got a kik?
>>25283767
I'm sorry anon. It would break her heart if she ever found out. She likely depends on you and loves you more than you possibly know. Please, for her, stay strong. You'd feel horrible if you did afterwards

>>25283769
I hear ya on the high sex drive. It went from having sex in the morning AND before bed to maybe getting a sad handjob once a week if I'm lucky. I wish I wasn't so horny all the time.

>>25283782
It's not a dry spell. It's a lifelong thing, that they are not capable of performing. I'm my case, she can't even take penetration for weeks on end.

>>25283782
Go back to Tumblr.

>>25283785
no

>>25283792
It's the exacttt same! Except he doesn't have a physical condition, it's more mentally i guess, but like you said going from having passionate intimacy everyday to now barely once every 2 weeks if im lucky (mind im in my 20s), its disheartening af when you love them but cant help feel miserable.
ugh idek what to do

>>25283798
Honestly, I'd talk to your girl about this.

You have needs, and they need to be met. She's trying, but she's unable to fulfill. It doesn't mean you need to end things with her, im sure you both love each other deeply, especially after 8 years together. Sex is part of the equation when you're with someone, but it is never the end all be all to determine a relationship.

She may be open to the idea of an open relationship. The sex doesn't have to be meaningful in the least, just to fulfill a carnal need you have. But you need to communicate with her, and show her the respect she deserves in this situation. It's a shitty scenario, I know, and it may cause a rift between you two, but if she can't perform for you and it's a lifelong issue, there needs to be some sort of solution to it, and a fleshlight ain't gonna cut it obviously.

You need to breach the subject. It isn't to insult her or demean her or to make her feel less than she's worth to you. It's to fulfill needs you as an individual have so you can be your best for her.

>>25283808
It seems we're on the same boat. I guess we just have to suck it up. My issue is not just busting a nut. I miss feeling intimate with someone :(

>>25283814
I assume that post was directed to me and not to the person you quoted?

I've touched on the subject before, she's 100% not cool with open relationships. I've talked to her about a FFM threesome numerous times and she's not cool with the idea.

>>25283815
I get ya, really the intimacy itself is what makes it. i try to masturbate to porn but it's the saddest orgasm everytime.
ultimately it is best to suck it up but it gets so hard at times, i just want the good ol days...
its nice to have other anons that understand the pain

>>25283829
I'm not trying to be a contactfag but
Do you have skype or something?
Would you be cool if I add you? I don't think there's many people in the position we're both at

>>25283822
Yeah, my bad.

How long ago was this conversation? Depending on how long ago the talk was, things have changed drastically since then, and people's opinions change.

Like I said. Communicate, man. Better to leave it out all on the table than to leave things unsaid. In this particular case, it is much better to ask permission than forgiveness.

>>25283840
As recent as 6 months ago

Trust me, that particular part is 100% a no-go for her

>>25283834
i do have skype but don't really use it much, that said i can add you if you want.
ive never once contactfagged but you seem alright

>>25283750
How long as she known she's had fibro and what medications is she on?

>>25283961
1 year

I'm not sure

>>25283750
can she not blow you? tell her that you need some satisfaction before you start fucking other people. if she refuses to please you tell her youre looking elsewhere.

I am so disgusted by how selfish and weak willed you people are. cheating isn't something to be proud of, it just shows you're weak and have no respect for the person who cares about you.

Cheated once. Wish I never had. Hurt the best girl I'll probably ever know and I'll never see her again. Ga**a, if you happen to browse this hell hole and see this, I'm sorry

>>25284050
Find out what she's on. Crap like cymbalta and lyrica have side effects that are same as the symptoms they treat and honestly make people with fibro worse. My advice to try to help your sex life with her(and more importanty) to help her life in general is fer her to use medical marijuana daily. Indicas will make her capable of getting through the day normally.

>Your sex/age
M, 32
>On how many partners have you cheated
I was single at the time but had sex with 2 married women from work
>How often did you cheat
Daily
>Do they know?
1 husband never knew, the other eventually found out
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Not that I'm aware of
>Anything you want to add/stories
Both wives didn't want to use condoms because it gave them a rush knowing they were coming home from work with another man's seed swimming inside them. I still get off thinking about this.

>>25283862
If your bf has checked out intimately, it's possible he's highly stressed or has found a different means to vent and express intimacy. I hope he's not involved with an office wife.

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>Your sex/age
22/F
>On how many partners have you cheated
0
>How often did you cheat
-
>Do they know?
-
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
I hope not
>Anything you want to add/stories
I've had alot of chances but if I ever cheated the guilt would probably eat away at me.
Also his sex drive is non existant and I've got a sky rocketing libido but shit like that isn't an excuse, just suck it up and masturbate. Pretty dissapointed at alot of people in this thread who've cheated for that reason.

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>>25285186

>>25282416
>>Your sex/age
27m
>>On how many partners have you cheated
2/8
>>How often did you cheat
To one almost every week
to the seconds one just two times
>>Do they know?
the seconds one knew because I told her
>>Has your partner ever cheated on you
yes one curiously I didn't cheat her
>>Anything you want to add/stories
the one that I cheated every week I cheated her with a co-worker, we worked until pretty night and she said that she was addict to my cock, and she was an 8/10 that's why we fucked all the time

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
26/f
>On how many partners have you cheated
1/2
>How often did you cheat
with how many people or total number of times? 6 people over a 8 year relationship
>Do they know?
yes
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
no
>Anything you want to add/stories
>>25283769
Was like her. Actually started on year 3 too, wonder if that is a common thread. Things get samey, he feels less interested and suddenly I'm noticing a lot of attention from other guys at work. That new person wanting you high kicks in and things happen.

Your sex/age
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
3 times per week
>Do they know?
no
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Probably not. she has no sex drive
>Anything you want to add/stories
not proud of cheating but told my wife that I would not live a celibate.
just to add, I'm bi and the three people I have sex with each week are guys
>inb4 biscum

19m
4/5
Whenever I felt like it
Don't know don't care
They definitely do, that's why I don't feel guilty
Walked in on gf cheating once and I cheated on the same day so it was awkward

>Your sex/age
27/F.
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
Three so far, probably will be more. One is a fwb status so if we count each time that we have had sex, I've cheated way more than three times.
>Do they know?
She only knows of one time as I told her. She thinks it was just a one time thing/there were no feelings involved.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Not sure. We're in a long-distance relationship so I can say if she has or not. I wouldn't be surprised if she has.
>Anything you want to add/stories
The only thing I really feel guilty about is the emotional cheating with the fwb. Sex is just sex to me.

>>25285284

Lesbians in a nutshell

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>>25282416
Would a guy cheat on me? I'm so cute

>>25285289
We're both bisexual.

>>25285324

Uh huh and I bet at least one of you has a funny haircut. Tattoos are almost a given. Which one of you is the boy?

>>25285336
Actually, both of us don't have funny haircuts. And I'm the one with the tattoos.

lol @ which of us is the boy

What are you, twelve?

>>25285289
>Lesbians in a nutshell
Thats all women bruh, women are all cheating whore from birth

>>25285295
I'd cheat on you

>>25285342

What's your standard of "not a funny haircut"? Nailed it on the tattoos. Also don't even act like one of you isn't the boy. Most likely it's you.

>>25285343
Why is everyone ignoring the pretty girl

>>25285295

I'd cheat on you because you look like a slut but probably kinda suck in bed, so I'd have to get my deepthroats from someone else.

>>25285346
What pretty girl?

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>>25285350
I'm pretty

>>25285355
Where

>>25285362
My pretty blue eyes

>>25285345
Nothing shaved on the side/back of the hair. We both have relatively long hair, past shoulders. And I had my tattoos before I met my girlfriend. Nice try. Pretty feminine save for some of my interests, actually.

>>25285346
Probably because that's not them posting the picture?

>>Your sex/age
male, 24
>>On how many partners have you cheated
three as far as i remember
>>How often did you cheat
not often on the first one, i just met a girl at uni and fucked her. second one i cheated on with the first one a lot. can't count the amount of times she used to fuck me while my cock was covered in the first one.
third and current girlfriend, not often at all. fucked two girls when we first started dating. now i kind of talk to people on kik? not sexting, mostly just talking behind her back or whatever.
>>Do they know?
first one did.
>>Has your partner ever cheated on you
not as far as i'm aware. all of my partners have been awkward virgins, except the second one, and that didnt last long.
>>Anything you want to add/stories
nah

>>25283808
If this is jenna I'm running over to your house and I'm gonna murder you yo

>>25283815
>>25285497
Legit tho

>Your sex/age
m/34
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
Every once in a while
>Do they know?
No
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Not that I'm aware of
>Anything you want to add/stories
I'm not sure how much mine actually counts. heh. Mostly I'm a straight male and the one was my (now ex, unrelated) wife. Twice a year or so I'd get an urge and dress up in girlie clothes and sneak off to suck dick and get fucked up the ass at a gloryhole in a local adult bookstore. Never cheated with another woman, just nameless faceless cock.

30/male
1 partner, currently still with
Ive cheated prolly 5x and one is a current side piece. Would have more if I could make time.
She knows of 1, the first but it was so fresh in our relationship that she let it go.
I can give stories for days. You'll have to ask specifically.

>>25285794
that turned me the fuck on

>>25285895
hehe thanks?

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>m 24
>1...ish
>never but i got chances and impulses
>yep
>nope
>I have a very driving sexting kink, and for a time I did it with my gf knowing. She wasn't all that ok with it but she looked the other way. However after breaking up and coming back, she asked me to not do it again, but a few months in I gave in to my impulses and sent pics and chatted with other girls. She was really disappointed, as I am too, but ugh nothing gives me that rush, it's really frustrating. We broke up recently.

>>25284288
Did the same thing. Hurt more people than just her, but the guilt from hurting her kills me more each day.

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>>25286367
why would a man cheat? he could have perfection

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>>25285794
>I'm a straight male
>Twice a year or so I'd get an urge and dress up in girlie clothes and sneak off to suck dick and get fucked up the ass

>>25286369
Really kinky and self destructive

>>25286369
because 6's and 7s will be a pornstar for 8s and up and that's why we love them

>>25285295
>>25285355
>>25285370
Stop lying to yourself.

>>25283668
Oh shit, Internet White Knight to the whores rescue!

Nigga hoping she'll suck his dick next!

Is random sexting on omegle and kik cheating?

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>>25283668
M-men are shitty and cheat too! That negates this girl's bad decisions!

>>25286516
did that nigga steal that bentley

>>25286380
I like how you edited out the word "Mostly" to twist my post into fitting your narrative.

>Your sex/age
Female, 20
>On how many partners have you cheated
0. Thinking of cheating.
>Do they know?
Not at all.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
I saw him looking for girls on an app the very day before he asked me to be his girlfriend so it's tricky.
>Anything you want to add/stories
I currently live about a 9 hour drive away from him and I've been away from him about two months now. He's still really commited to me and wants me to come back, and I do too, but I met this other guy who I'm sure wants to get in my pants. I've only had sex with my current boyfriend and the whore in me wants to explore. I feel like a scum because I think what he doesn't know won't hurt him.

>>25286571
you are entitled to explore, don't let that voice inside your head make you feel guilty. you're young, you can be allowed a time to fuck shit up and make mistakes and learn about yourself. just stay safe.

>>25286571
you are not entitled to explore if you have told someone you are with them, you lose that right unless you are honest enough to tell them. its not about being a whore its about hurting someone and not being a shitty person because of that. if you wanna have sex either find an open relationship or stay single. da fuck

>>25286571
Just try some sexting and if youre okay with that move on to next level

>>25286621
i thought it was obvious that i meant outside a relationship. my comment was directed towards the second to last sentence. my bad.

>Your sex/age
26/m
>On how many partners have you cheated
never, i have been cheated on and been ther other guy(didnt know)
>How often did you cheat
>Do they know?
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes
>Anything you want to add/storie
I think i want to just like a one night holiday hook up once before i find tgh for ever girl but eh..

>Your sex/age: M23
>On how many partners have you cheated 1
>How often did you cheat: about once or twice a month
>Do they know? Naw
>Has your partner ever cheated on you: nope. She's completely devoted
>Anything you want to add/stories: I go to med school in the North (originally from Georgia) so I get a sex buddy to keep me satisfied while I'm away from her. I keep it super casual and the second a girl wants to get to know me better I cut her off. I genuinely lovemy gf, and will probably end up marrying her. The only reason I started cheating was because I'm away from her most of the year.

>>25286571
If you're not currently together, that's one thing.

But if you're committed, you'd be a bitch and a whore to cheat.

Cheating, at all, is the mark of a scumbag. Point blank. This is regardless of age, sex, gender, religion, creed, what the fuck ever.

This is because "cheating" is deception and betrayal. If you are neither deceiving nor betraying your partner, it's not cheating. This is why open relationships "work" (as well as such things can, anyway).

Ask yourself this:
Would you be betraying him if you did it? If the answer is yes and you try to justify it with "but I bet he did too," you just want an excuse to be a traitor and suck some strange dick. If he's a traitor, leave him. If he's not, don't be a traitor. That's where it ends.

>>25286713
You're a whore and a traitor, bud. Your girl deserves better, and I hope she finds it. I also hope his dick is bigger than yours.

>>25283074
HES 25! youre legit programed to behave in this way you fucking cuck

>Your sex/age
28/m
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
Every few months
>Do they know?
Suspected once, but lied my way out.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
When we dated in high school.
>Anything you want to add/stories
She's kind of boring in bed, and I'm a whore. I've hooked up with women, fucked hookers, hired pro dommes, and sucked off so many guys. Best is when I can get fucked by a married couple.

>male 25
>1 (the first and only gf I have)
>cheated on her with 2 girls and planning to fuck this chick soon
>no
>no
>the very same day we first kissed I slept at another girl's place and had sex with her
is that considered cheating? I mean we weren't bf/gf yet, I guess
>shagged a fat polish girl
>plan on shagging a chubby 5/10

I don't know why but I can't help it, maybe it's because my gf gained a bit of weight (10kg, she is now 70kg and like 165cm tall) I love her though but I keep using apps like tinder to find some other chicks to fuck. Even though I know it's wrong.

>>25287657
Wanting to cheat is natural and basically unavoidable. Who doesn't want more of a good thing?

Acting on it makes you a shitty person.

>>25286874
Found out today my gf was dating some dude for 3 months when she was already 5 months into "getting to know me".

We are in LDR and we planned to meet some weeks from now. I'll make this really simple, how do I stop feeling disgust, pain and anguish over other guys touching her, and shoving their shit inside her in the past? Especially because it happened when we knew each other.

It is unbearably revolting... just thinking of it twists my gut in every possible direction, and the worst is that she did this while talking to me about trust, respect, values, connection and so on. I have asked her multiple times if she's dating someone and she just lied to me over and over. I really loved and wanted to be with this person but I don't know how to make the pain go away, I don't even want to see this person anymore, especially since they keep coming up with every possible excuse to justify this. The fact of the matter is that she let some dude in her body, and then came back home to talk to me about our connection. I know society in general is pretty lenient to this sort of shit but we both spent hours discussing how this kind of shit is inexcusable.

>>25287668
Sorry to say, buddy, but guys like you and I aren't gonna be able to agree with that sort of bullshit.

A major thing is that it wasn't your fault and that you appreciated who you thought she was. That this was shocking to you proves that it wasn't actually with who she is. It's unfortunate that you got tricked by a bitch, but you don't have to compromise or be told that your opinions and feelings on the matter are invalid.

Desiring honesty and loyalty is nothing to be ashamed of. Unfortunately, you're a better person than she is that valued your relationship more. I'd say move on to greener pastures.

>>25286571
the first thing you should consider is just breaking up with your bf and being a whore. it will be temporary pain for everlasting gain.There's no reason to feel guilty about breaking up so you can fuck around. Cheating is bad though. I've done it and I regret it.

>>25285355
are you a tranny?

>>25287683
>>25286571
This. Entertaining the notion damns you already, whore. If you're looking for a justification, there isn't one.

Your only chance at not being nothing more than a whore is to:
>Get over it and stop trying to fuck around
>Break up and fuck everyone that wants to fuck you until you're satisfied but hopefully, for you, before all the tread's off the tire and you've wasted all of your youth gagging on anonymous cock and end up U S E D G O O D S trying to hit on frumpy guys with a nice car at Denny's
>Convince him of an open relationship and you both fuck around
>Gain his permission to fuck around
>Declare intent to fuck around and he can deal with it

The biggest issues are deceit and treachery. If you're gonna be a whore, at least don't be a coward.

NTR really turns people on, nice.

If you want to cheat your boyfriend, first check some lewd doujins and imagine how good it will be, don't feel bad about your pervert fetish.

>>25287678
I know, it hurts deep man. I want to say that I didnt add all the facts, that I wasn't perfect first few months and all that shit. But it's all excuses I keep trying to make for her because we really loved and cared for each other deeply and it was genuine. I even got my shit together and we made plans around each other to be together, get a place stuff like that. She really made me feel like I have a home and shit with her, but while warming up to me at night she let some dude into her by day. What the fuck man...

She says she feels regret and she cried and tells me I mean the world to her, and that she will never cheat on me now that we are actually together, but then immediately has an excuse- that I was mean to her in the beginning, that I didnt really like her.. What the fuck was I supposed to do, fall in love on the first message? She spent so much time with me talking about trust and connection and shit and that's what hurts the most. I could've lived with some dude she fucked before me even though it's unpleasant, but this is something else man, I asked her multiple times if she's seeing someone, and she said no. She said she was afraid to tell me. Another excuse. I just. I don't know what to do anymore man, I planned my whole life around this person.

>>25282416
>M/23
>3
>One figured it out, not that I was all too secretive about it
>Current one no, and I haven't on her
>GF from HS cheated on me while I was in Afghan, came back and stopped giving a fuck.
Cheated on my next girl with 2 in the space of a day, cheated on the next girl but she was a loser burnout and I was done with her anyway, cheated on my last girl before the one I'm with.
Been with someone for 4 years, been a good boy since then. No intentions of going back to that behavior

>>25287699
You don't have to make excuses, man. It's a shame that a good person got betrayed.

>Feels regret
That she got caught. Not that she did it.
>Actually together
Entering a relationship at all is the starting line. If you were dating with any expectation of exclusivity, that's the bottom line.
>Asked multiple times
Cinches it.
>Afraid to tell me
Another lie. She wanted to have her cake and eat it, too.
>I planned my whole life around this person.
It's not your fault that you got tricked. Take time to yourself, grow as an individual. Don't waste any more of your life on someone that isn't worth it. Seek experiences, have casual relationships for example, but not the way she tried. Don't compromise, don't relent. If you go into it now, you'll need the forgiveness and patience of a saint or you'll end up quickly hating her. Every time her phone rings and she leaves the room, you'll wonder who it is this time.

To reiterate:
Biggest advice is to take time for yourself. A strong, exclusive relationship is two individuals choosing to share their experiences with one another. It is not two halves of a person forming a whole. Become "you."

>>25287709
Hurt people hurt people. Glad you got your head straight. Keep it up.

>>25287718
Me too, this one's definitely a keeper. I fell into a mindfuck trap where I figured any girl was gonna do it to me anyway, so I might as well do it first. I had to crawl out of that hole before I could fix myself.

>>25282416
>21 M
>0
>Never
>how often did you cheat
I Make it perfectly clear that I will never cheat, out of respect for the other person and I expect the same
>has your partner ever cheated on you
Yeah every time
>stories?
Cheating is bull shit, ruins trust. I hate cheating and people who cheat, to me they're literally the scum of the earth

>>25287722
That's fantastic, man, "saw the light" in a much better way.

I don't recommend ever revealing that shit to her or anyone else IRL, as well as cutting ties with anyone related to it.

But I'm just some cunt on a Malaysian Backgammon forum.

>>25282416
F/25
0/2
Never, flirted with another boy during the last month of my first relationship of four years but nothing came of it, kinda regret flirting though even though my first bf was a dick
N/A
No they haven't, but I want my current bf to cheat
I get really turned on by the idea of my bf fucking a hotter girl

>>25287717
> Every time her phone rings and she leaves the room, you'll wonder who it is this time.
I thought I could trust her, and the part that loved her still wants to trust her, but this is stronger than anything I've dealt with. And you're right I can just never know.

Do you have any advice how to stop feeling insecure though? I would still prefer to not feel this
>how do I stop feeling disgust, pain and anguish over other guys touching her, and shoving their shit inside

every time I think of someone I care for being touched and shoved shit inside of them, I always feel this for some time.

>>25285295
bait but wouldn´t

>>25287741
My advice for dealing with that is the exact thing I already said.

Take some time to work on yourself and live your own, independent life. Gain experiences. Love people shallowly and have it returned and repaid in kind.

It'll get easier with time, and I'm telling you right now that not every girl is like that. The problem is that most people, male or female, are and that a female that's like that will thrive. It's an endless cock carousel for them until they're burnt out, but by then they've got one or two baby daddies anyway, so they're greenlit to abuse their kids and raise two or three more little hoodrats.

But I've seen it, man. I've seen relationships strong enough to weather any storm. I've helped a couple of those relationships get off the ground or recover from a crisis. They're real, but they take work. The biggest issue is that women aren't used to working anymore, especially not for relationships. Not as a whole.

Take some time and work on yourself. Be self-centered and introspective. Seek experiences for yourself and to share. Live your own life, become a more complete person, and then with your new frame of mind you'll be able to find someone more worthy.

The hard part is realizing that men are the romantics and that very often who we love is not who they are. The insecurity will stop once you let go and live for yourself for a while. Just remember not to compromise on your values and such. Your objective is to become a better you, not to become a different person.

>>25287763
I've always felt insecure about this but never opened up to anyone because it's "unmanly" or whatever. I genuinely hope that I can be rid of this with the right person.

I'm already making some list of things to do career wise but now I think it's just better if I take a trip somewhere, anywhere and just take a breather where she can't reach me.

Thanks again for taking the time to reply.

>>25287777
>I've always felt insecure about this but never opened up to anyone because it's "unmanly" or whatever.
A real man doesn't compromise. Don't be ashamed of sticking to your values, especially not at the whim of traitors and liars.

>I genuinely hope that I can be rid of this with the right person.
You can be. I've seen it happen plenty. "Good ones" by our standards are absolutely out there.

>Trip
That's a fantastic idea, actually, and a very effective solution. Good luck, bud.

>Thanks for taking the time to reply.
You're welcome, man. Don't let that shit stop you. You've got a plan, just keep putting one foot in front of the other and always keep your head high.

Don't let her drag you down or force you to step back. Leave her in the dust.

>>25287668

Another viewpoint: You are being unreasonable by expecting her to understand and agree with your beliefs and values. She has every right to do what she wants, and if you don't/can't accept that then YOU have to move on.

You probably need to "find yourself" too, as when you respect yourself then you automatically attract people that will respect you.

I mean, it's a fucking slutty thing to do, and I wouldn't put up with any of that shit, but there you are.

As the other good gentleman suggested, take time out for yourself, allow yourself forgiveness and don't let it harm your future. I'd say 20% or less people are shitty, there's plenty of nice people.

Good luck!

>>25287802
Speakin' the truth.

>>25287786
>A real man doesn't compromise. Don't be ashamed of sticking to your values, especially not at the whim of traitors and liars.

This is the only thing I disagree with. Two of the most important things in a relationship:
- Compromise
- Communication

Your partner will never be a perfect match to you - You'll have some disjointed. And finding ways to bridge those disjoints is the fun bit.

Sometimes though, yes, a core value is intractable - At which point, the other person has to be flexible -- Or move on.

>>25287812
Compromise on what's for dinner or what to name the kid is not at the same level as compromising on whether or not she can gargle someone else's cock.

As a man, as a complete human being, you need to draw a line somewhere. There are of course things for which there are degrees. There are other things for which there are not.

A true partner is willing to compromise and one that matches with you is willing to cede those matters about which you are uncompromising. Fucking other men is a reasonable line in the sand.

As for "moving on," that's a given. "Leave her in the dust," I've said, and my suggestion of not compromising wasn't to say "force your ideology on others" it was "do not abandon the ideals you hold dear." If that means leaving someone behind that doesn't fit, so be it.

Better to be alone than to be with a traitor.

>>25287818
In your (and my) map of the world, yes. Swingers make it work, though the difference is respect. I can imagine there is some dynamic that would work for a "cheater".

I think we're of the same thinking, and I expect the rest of this discussion would become academic

>>25287849
Definitely, my man.

The shit I've been bitching about the whole time is deceit and treachery. Open relationships, polygamy, polyamory, just fucking around, it's worked all throughout history.

But a lie is a lie, a betrayal is a betrayal, and you can never unsuck a dick. The kind of person that betrays you in that regard is the same that will in many others. It's utter disrespect, spitting literal semen on the foundation of the relationship.

I'd shoot a Jodie in a heartbeat.

>Your sex/age
M/25
>On how many partners have you cheated
1/5
>How often did you cheat
Once
>Do they know?
No
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Don't know, I don't think so
>Anything you want to add/stories
Only ever cheated once, was living in another country doing long distance, and there was a girl also from my country who had major hots for me. Every time we were out with friends she'd be teasing like mad. One night after a lot of drinks and drugs I caved, but the guilt the next day was the worst I've ever felt. Stopped speaking to her and am still with my gf (6 years now). The bottom line is, there will always be hotter, younger girls who want to fuck you, but at some stage in your life you'll have to learn to settle for one, and given I'm very happy at the moment I'd never want to throw that all away for a fuck

>>25285289
Lesbians don't cheat you fucknut, it's always the bishits that cheat

this thread is disgusting and I hope all you cheaters kys

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>>25286516
>thread about cheating
>all are guys and get no shit
>one girl comes along
>MUH WOMEN ARE EVIL AND INCAPABLE OF LOVE
yeah real moral to be judging her when there's posts way worse on this thread lmao

>>25285497
No but this is lol
Justice

>>25282945
lets talk...

>>25287860
I like you

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>>25288960

>>25282416
>m/21
>1
>once every 6 months
>nope
>yep

>anything you want to add
Never give your partner anything that is going to take away from your own life, they aren't worth it. Cheat, and when you cheat, know that you're only beating them to it and will only make them want you more by doing so.
Always assume your partners already cheating and act accordingly, the moment i stopped doing this is the only time i've ever been cheated on.

everyone wants to be a bull

but no one wants to be a cuck

>>25288176
because we assume the guys know they're pieces of shit.
These posts only show that you dont believe you're a piece of shit as you are trying to justify your actions with the wrong doings of others.
>every body was murdering people! it doesnt matter if i did too!

>>25283309
If she's cheating on him who says she'd be loyal to you?

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
M/27
>On how many partners have you cheated
0. But got really close several times, and had one serious 'emotional affair' (which maybe even worse than actual cheating).
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
I really trusted all my partners, but we are all human, so who knows. Well I hope not, but its irrelevant, because I don't know and never had any suspicion.

>>25282416
M/37
1/3 of the long term relationships, current is wife.
As often as possible, about 50 times in the last year, from sex to just getting sucked off before work, once or twice a week.
Yeah, she knows now.
Shes on tinder, has been for a while, gets fucked once or twice a week.
Its ok. Wish I was better looking so I could fuck more often.

>>25285186
you sound smart, and honnest, and loyal.
My bet: this can't be true.

I wish I'd meet a real person like that thou.

>Your sex/age
M/22
>On how many partners have you cheated
On 1 partner out of the 5 I've had
>How often did you cheat
Four times with the same girl
>Do they know?
Yeah, I'd actually started feeling incredibly guilty and stopped, but my girlfriend at the time got very paranoid due to mental health factors and started interrogating us and it came out
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes, twice, once was a kiss which she told me about right after it happened and I got very stroppy but ultimately forgave her, the second time she had sex with someone and didn't tell me until after we'd broken up. It had devolved into a long-distance thing and she wasn't quite right in the head by that point so I just stopped talking to her.

>Anything you want to add/stories
I was really confused with myself as to why I cheated on her at the time, but looking back it's simple. I was pretty fat, my girlfriend was pretty fat, and the girl I cheated on her with was really hot. It was the first time in my life that someone attractive had actually displayed any interest in me at all, and I didn't really know how to handle that. Since then I've lost a lot of weight and found a lot more confidence in myself, so I'm determined never to let it happen again. I think cheating is reprehensible and I'm deeply ashamed of myself for doing it.

This might come off as really autistic and weird but if I start dating a girl now I make it a point to tell her early on that I've cheated on a past partner. I've managed to cuck myself out of relationships with 3 really awesome girls by doing that but I think it's probably for the best, they should know what they're getting into.

>>25290428
that's not her you idiot
also you just proved his point
he was saying she receieved a dispropritonately negative response because she was a woman and you literally responded "that's because men are moral enough to know cheating is bad, women are too evil to feel remorse though"
Meanwhile half the dudes in this thread are practically bragging about it, and were cheating in supposedly "comitted" LTRs rather than right before breaking up anyway
Just admit you have some ass-backwards double standards senpai

27/m in a relationship for 6 years.

Got really trashed and made out with a female friend a few years back during low point. Didn't go any further than that but I still feel a tad guilty about it.

>>25290562
That last part. It is autistic. A confession like that can't be said when you're just casually dating, it would scare off anyone. You're just openly admitting that you're a cheater, so the girl thinks it wouldn't be suprising if you cheated on her too. You need to be in a relationship for some time, build the trust. Then you can confess about that, hoping that your partner will understand your regret instead of getting scared away.

>>25282529
Sorry for people's response hun.
>>25282416
M/22
Like half I've cheated.
Rarely cheated unless I was planning to leave.
One knew cus I admitted it, wanted to get serious but felt she had the right to know. One found out.
I've heard one way or another almost every girl I was with cheated on me.

Something to add: Cheating sucks, but especially when you're cheated on. It's weak, but so is the mortal shell

I cheated on my girlfriend once and it absoulty ruined me. I had crazy severe depression and I honest to God wanted to be hit by a car and paralyzed from the wait down.
I wanted Devine punishment.
My girlfriend is literally perfect and I was just a horny fucking manhore
I've since changed and become a much better boyfriend but oh my God. I hate knowing I stooped so low.
Guys if you have a good girl please please please don't cheat on her. You will hate yourself forever

25/m
1
With the same person every night for 8 mo.
Yes
No
I miss the shit out of my mistress.

>>25286571
you're 20. better to explore now than married. dump him and slut it up.

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
F/19
>On how many partners have you cheated
4
>How often did you cheat
Usually it was one night stands, the most often I did it was three times in a week.
>Do they know?
Only one did and it was because I told him
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yeah
>Anything you want to add/stories
Nothing really, I can answer more questions if anyone has any.

>>25294110
Yes, I have a further question and it calls into question nudes and you sending them to me.

>M/33
>8
>Often
>Do they know? Sometimes...but sometimes they were also curious and wanted to get to know them :)
>Has your partner ever cheated on you. Yes...and I had to smile because she had every right.
>I used to be a real nerd (part of me still is I guess since I visit 4chan) and had problems hooking up with girls. But when I grew older and became more confident I started to realize that girls are real fun and I like them...a lot. Too much to have a steady relationship. Maybe later

>>25294110
My question to you is, why are you still with your partner if you continually cheat?

For what reason are you still with him?

>>25294110
Is there any reason why did you cheat?

>>25290427
um

i LOVE being a cuck

19/F
0
never
nothing to know bro
no
what the fuck is wrong with y'all cheating is disgusting I love my SO I could never do anything like that to her y'all must be some terrible people.

>>25282416

>M/23
>all of them
>rarely, but constant dirty texting with other girls
>no
>not to my knowledge
>i want to have sex with other women. i dont want the girl im with to have sex with other men. so i cheat.

>Your sex/age
M/29
>On how many partners have you cheated
0
>How often did you cheat
0
>Do they know?
N/a
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Not as far as I know
>Anything you want to add/stories
Imma good boy!

P.s. for me cheating is physical things kissing, touching, sex, etc. Don't consider flirting cheating and I don't consider a girl sleeping with another girl cheating, since I can't offer the same physical things. (My opinion!)

>>25294391
what if your girl would become emotionally attached to another gir? Would that be cheating?

>>25294459
Yes of course, that's the same as with a man, if there are feelings involved or they grow. I would like if she showed the respect of ending the relationship with me. But purely the physical aspect, I'm not bothered.

My ex used to tease me with things like "only if you get to watch or join in?", and honestly not even that, not very interested in a threesome desu.

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
F/19
>On how many partners have you cheated
0/1
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes. It was heartbreaking.

>>25283523
>There's nothing wrong with that either
yeah, there is. if you see it, you're retarded.

m/27
1/6
never since
yes i told them
not that i know of
cheating is something i regret doing as i hurt someone i actually truly loved

>>25286571
>>25293772
And end up burnt out, used up, with little prospects for marriage while the upcoming generation of girls see the mistakes you made and actually marry when they have something to offer instead of squandering it riding the cock carousel.

These threads always are a mixed bag. On one hand, I find cheating horrible! On the other, I'm a submissive cuck...

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
M/19
>On how many partners have you cheated
0/2
>How often did you cheat

>Do they know?

>Has your partner ever cheated on you
As I know, no
>Anything you want to add/stories
Don't go in much relationships so don't have experience and currently in relationship

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Threads like these remind me why """privacy""" in relationships is bullshit. Fuck trust, I go full NSA on all of my GFs shit for the first year or so until I know that I'm not getting cucked. Once I'm comfortable, I do periodic checks to make sure everything is square.

Is it cheating if I occasionally go to Omegle and find some slut showing her tits and bust a nut? I never connect with the Omegle girl on an emotional level, I cum and get out.

I tell myself it's not cheating because it's like interactive porn.

Am I cheating?

>>25282416
>>Your sex/age
m/28
>>On how many partners have you cheated
2
>>How often did you cheat
A few times each
>>Do they know?
One does, the other remains ignorant
>>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Probably, but I haven't found out
>>Anything you want to add/stories
Blind spot in your quiz: "how many people have you slept with who were in a relationship?" To this I could add: 3.

>>25282900
Obvious cuck has joined the thread.

>>25283848
It's tough but just because she's disabled doesn't give her to right to make you celibate. She's being unreasonable in expecting you to pretty much never have sex again.

>Your sex/age
27/M
>On how many partners have you cheated
One, sorta. But I've been with a lot of taken and married women, it's hot.
>Do they know?
Admitting it to your woman is rude.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Not that I know of
>Anything you want to add/stories
Cheating women never ever want to use condoms, birth control or not
Don't touch married women, it's in the Ten Commandments

>>25282416
M/28
At least 2.
On again off again for months. Multiple woman at the same time.
They knew of some of the girls.

>>25297101
>I've been with a lot of taken and married women, it's hot
>Don't touch married women, it's in the Ten Commandments

Well which is it

>>25285295
I'm so sorry to say this but you look really cheateable

>>25294487
*Hugs you*

>Your sex/age
m/28
>On how many partners have you cheated
1
>How often did you cheat
a lot
>Do they know?
No
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes
>Anything you want to add/stories
Been fucking chicks all over the world for the last 4 years.
Mostly met them on Tinder and a couple of escorts.
Literally fucked the shit of a 10 year older completely wasted Kuwaiti chick and had to sleep in the of shit smelling hotel room.

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>>25293546
> I wanted Devine punishment.
Prepare you anus, then.

-Male/26
-3/4
-For the first two, not that often (wasn't exactly the smoothest dude in high school). The last one, quite a bit.
-I eventually told them or they found out.
-As far as I know, my current partner has not cheated on me, and I find it highly unlikely that she will any time soon. Every other one has, multiple times.
-I started dating my previous girlfriend toward the end of high school. We were both pretty loyal, but once I got to college, the relationship had already been going south for a while, we barely saw eachother, and that led to a lot of things happening behind our backs. Wasn't the best thing in the world. I've been with my current girlfriend for over 3 years. I get the urge occasionally but I'm much better at controlling it. As far as I can tell, she doesn't even get any kind of urge. We both have a history of cheating, but this is something we've both confronted. She said if I had a strong urge to cheat on her, I could tell her and we could maybe arrange something (and vice versa) although I'm not sure how that would play out, given every time I've cheated it's been an impulsive in the moment kind of thing. She's okay with me flirting with other girls, and I'm okay with her flirting with whoever. She's going out of the country for three months later this year (she's a grad student) and we've come to the agreement that we can both fuck whoever during that period. So I guess the biggest thing that sets this relationship apart is that we don't treat strong sexual attraction to other people like this absolutely forbidden feeling punishable by exile or anything. We're both very aware that it may (and most likely will) happen one day, and we should be ready to handle it responsibly.
Also, the sex is great and she isn't an emotionally neglecting cunt, which is a big plus.

>>25296894
Lol

>>25287738
>want my bf to fuck a hotter girl, turns me on.
Tell him.

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>cucking your partner
Don't give a shit about your gender, you deserve to be hanged.

Bumps

>>25297530
Just because it's hot, doesn't mean it's right

>>25295513
(Television add voice-over) "Finding out is actually really easy: Just imagine it isn't you, but your gf flicking the pea for some dude on Omegle.
How would you feel?"

>>25283309
>kissing a girl whos had old man dick in her mouth possibly only hours before hand.

I will never understand guys who fuck girls with boyfriends.

You people are what's wrong with society. Your genitals are more important than your integrity.

Absolutely disgusting. I wish we could purge these kinds of people to make the world a better place. You're all fucking animals.

>>25288176
Cottage hats because there literally one bitch here being honest, hoes cheat as much if not more then dudes

>>25300164
Both are scum. Most people are scum. I'm aware of what I'm saying.

>>25283668
Yer the real mvp

>>25301020
Whore.

>>25282416
>21/male
>0
>Never have and never will
>No, since I don't cheat.
>Not to my knowledge.
>Cheating is dumb, just fucking break up.

>>25295021
Give advice on how to do it.

>>25282945
You a fucking cunt

>Your sex/age
Female, 21
>On how many partners have you cheated
None
>How often did you cheat
Never
>Do they know?
Yes
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Not that i knew of but unlikely
>Anything you want to add/stories
Honestly i'm just surprised how common it seems to be. I know a bunch of guys that happily cheat on their girlfriends and it makes me sad
Then again, i know lots of couples with lovely relationships

>>25297013
the girl is afraid that she might loose him for someone. being intimate can possibly lead to bigger

>>25294477
I can understand that. There's a lot going on when it's just two people. A third is a bit much for some. I would honestly rather my wife munch rug than fuck the asshole she started seeing when I was off my meds. I'm back on them, and he's very quickly making himself plainly a liability, so I see this resolving itself favorably. I love that bitch, and she loves me back, and he's just a complication working itself out.

>>25282416
>>Your sex/age Male/25
>>On how many partners have you cheated - Two
>>How often did you cheat - Not often. The second one (current) multiple times but with the same 4 women more or less)
>>Do they know? Nope.
>>Has your partner ever cheated on you - I believe so. ironically im cheating on my current GF with the one that did. she appeared randomly again and demanded my seed. funny how life works that way.
>>Anything you want to add/stories - i feel awful. idk how people can do this with a clean conscience. im legitimately going to break up with my gf this week because i just cant anymore. i tried to rationalize it, tried to justify it, but honestly i cant. i feel like shit, i cant sleep, im starting to become slightly paranoid that they might catch onto each other. i just cant man, im sleeping with 5 women at any given time of the week and this shit really gets to me. i go to school full time and work a full time job. i have no fucking clue how im even managing this but i cant anymore. i actually feel better now that i ranted a bit, but i still will break up with my GF. that part kills me, she doesnt deserve it but im not the man for her if i do this. im shit man, and i know i am. Dont cleat /soc/ its really not worth it. if you even have the slightest conscience, it will eat you up.

>>25303243
im a guy and ive only been in relationships where my gf cheated. im
still a virgin. i guess you could say im a cuck.
hehe

seriously though it hurts but its fun

>>25294110
Got kik?

>>25282416
M/32 cheated once.... cause the relationship wasn't going well, should have just broken up with her... it lasted for two years after that moment. i was such a pussy

>>25282416
I cheat constantly but my gf never finds out, one time I waited until she was asleep and had group sex with three girls in the next room over

>M 30
>1/6
>Just once
>Yah
>Probably
>I was in a love triangle like 10 years ago, so I ended up cheating once. Left the relationship the same weekend and went back to my ex (who I cheated with).

>>25290457
How did your relationship end up that way?

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>Your sex/age
M/Founding Member
>On how many partners have you cheated
See Stories
>How often did you cheat
See Stories
>Do they know?
See Stories
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
See Stories
>Anything you want to add/stories
Generally speaking, when I am in a completely monogamous relationship, I am committed.

If, in the beginning of the relationship, it is open terms, I use it to the fullest of my ability. This being said, there have been plenty of females that I have done the open relationship thing with that thought they were going to game me for money or materialism, and wound up butthurt because I would outdo them on the open relationship part. They would start to attempt to demand monogamy, and I would tell them no.

The second factor are bitches that fuck up. Again, in a committed relationship, I am committed. I do not lie or cheat. The first lie I catch them in, the first whiff of cheating, and it's an open playing field. I tell them this much in the beginning. Most times, the ladies have survived. Several of them haven't, and wound up feeling salty.

General example: Dating a waitress. She thought she was going to try and cheat on me. Found out she was making arrangements. Wound up taking another chick into her restaurant for dinner. The chick I took to the restaurant knew what it was. Pounded her brains out. Sent pics to the waitress.

The rules of engagement must be clear and succinct. Part of a relationship is about trust/love/respect. Another part is about investment. The third part is expectations/return on investment. If any of these are out of balance, then you aren't in a real relationship.

Get over the idea that love wins all. Bitches are out here to use and abuse you if they can. They are out here to lock you down after they fuck away their 20s, if they can. I learned this before I was even 20, and have used it to the best of my abilities.

Have I fucked up things? Maybe. Have I regretted it? No. Was it worth it? Yes.

I want to be the person married men cheat with. I'm a gay guy and I'm basically a slut. But I wanna keep me slutting out low-key. So married men are the best. NSA and no fuss. Just fuck and go. I don't think I ever want to be in a relationship

>>25304934
How about you look for open relationships instead of fucking up homes, you trash? Or is it that the "forbidden fruit" angle is the only one you can work?

>>25304944
It's fun ticking off people like you.

>>25304979
Whatever you have to tell yourself to claim any sort of high ground you can acquire. Remember, if you're smug, you win.

Guess you can be gay, scum, and autistic all at the same time. Congrats.

>>25282439
You're a good seed. Thank you

>>25282942
You're a good dude. Fuck those cheaters

>>25282949
Amen. I'm so sad reading this thread.

> M/24
> 0/3
> Never
> Yes
> Yes
> Wife cheated on me while I was stationed in texas

> M/24
> 0
> Never
> Yes
> Yes
> Wife cheated on me while I was away in the army

>male 19
>2/3
>Often but I wasn't close with my gf when I cheated and the one I have now is really just around for appearances, the whole thing is fake af, but I like it because I don't have to worry about getting attached or committing to her, right now I cheat more than I fuck her
>Idk she never asks about it but we barely talk about things we do that don't involve each other, if she knows she doesn't care
>First one cheated on me and I was head over heels, that fucked me up, I don't try with relationships anymore
>Not really, I just hook up with chicks I meet at bars and stuff no affairs or anything
All the virgins in this thread getting triggered by women cheating but don't say anything when a guy does it is pathetic as hell, especially when the thread is about cheating

>>25294110
Which partner did you tell about your cheating?
Was it the one who cheated on you?
If you were cheating on someone who you thought was loyal and found out they were also cheating would you be upset?
What if you thought he was loyal but he found out and cheated without saying anything?
Asking for a freind

>>25294110
>>25285284
>>25285245
>>25282945
>>25282529

can i just ask why ? can i just know why you cheated on men ? what is it in those guys that made you decide to cheat ?

>>25282801
still better than being a cuck

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>>25304701
>boyfriend posting multiple times all over /soc/ to find out if my ID is in the thread

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>Your sex/age
24/f
>On how many partners have you cheated
2
>How often did you cheat
Once on both
>Do they know?
I told the second one
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes, 2 of them
>Anything you want to add/stories
1. So I was with this guy I had a crush on in middle school, we met at some party when we were both in high school and hit it off. I was his 1st gf (I wasn't that experienced either, neither of us had sex). It was weird and we didn't kiss for like 2 months. So there was a friend's bday party I went to and I got pretty drunk and kissed a guy I who talked to me all night.
I felt so guilty and broke up with the bf.

2. I was with a dude a year after, my first sex was with him. I was so into him. So one year passed and I bumped into ex-bf from story no1. We started hanging out. My realtionship was going bad so I spent more time with an ex. One time we both went to a mutual friend bday party and got very drunk and high and had sex...but I told him I don't want to be with him (stupidest decision ever) I felt guilty again and ended the relationship with my bf. When I wanted to patch up things with the ex it was already too late. I never realized it before I lost him but he was the great buffalo.

I was fucked up for like 2 years after.
Fucked guys left and right just to get over it.

>>25305493
Those types of stories are always the saddest.
I feel ya

>>25306265
At least I learned something from it.
Now, 5 years later I'm in a happy relationship :)

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>love gf
>not even remotely turned on by her anymore
>we haven't had sex since...late last summer?
>she has depression and takes meds so she had zero sex drive even when I was attracted to her
>says she has some condition that makes her muscles tense up during sex, making sex very painful even when I go slow
>I admitted to jerking off when she asked if I do
It's kinda driving me crazy at this point because she means a lot to me but at the same time I really just want to start fucking other chicks.

>>25283488
Still there m8? Wanna expand with your stories?

>>25306517
i know that feel. not quite the situation that youre in tho. i love my gf, but i want to explore relationships and sex with other women, but dont necessarily want to give up my current gf to do so. while we do still have sex on occasion, im not as attracted to her as i should be, as i was when we started fucking about 1.5 years ago; but am totally turned on by the notion of seeing other women naked and fucking them, even if it's just porn. can't decide on what to do: stay with her and potentially cheat at some point and break her heart, or leave and potentially get nothing. i've also tried talking to her about threesomes and/or open relationships but she's def not into it.

tldr; i know how you feel. it sucks. im fucked.

>>25305493
why does majority of girls have slut phase in their life? Why is fucking around a viable way to deal with problems?

>>25307957
Because we're all fucked up, not just girls.
I see more males here kek

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>male 19
>1/1
>every week or so
> has no clue
> most likely not
>
I developed a fetish ever since i was 14 of sending dick pics and vids and such stuff to random girls i dont know on kik and snapchat, because dick is big and nice i get compliments and nudes back, i hate doing it in the end but when i get horny i lose all sense of reason and start doing it again, and it sucks so much because in the end I feel like absolute trash, I love my girl with all my heart but my nuts take control and i find some bullshit excuse while doing the deed, i would never cheat physicly irl, but if she found this out it would break her, I was her first everything, can anyone give advice on how to stop doing this shit?

M/18
1
Kissed and hung out a lot, only fucked once but ended the relationship I was in a few days later.
Yeh they know
I get paranoid they all have but that's just me overthinking
Met the girl playing pokemonGO, we would hang out a lot and she somehow ended up attracted to me. Had the house to myself for a week and invited her over (same day gf left from staying over the night) we ended up drinking and showering together and ended up fucking (no regrets) She went home the next day and I went to my friends party. Broke up with gf at 4am and got with the girl a week later. This was almost a year ago at this point and now we've broken up. Fun times

29 years old here.
Married for 5.
Together for 12.
We have kids together.
I love her very much.

First time I cheated was some fat philipino bitch from Canada, met her through Craigslist. I couldn't go through with actually fucking her after she sucked my dick and made me cum. It made me realize how desperate I was and I bailed.

Second time was with Vicky from Reddit, glorious girl from Germany. A hotwife, her husband got off on the idea. The cuck. I feel bad about this one because she was amazing, great sex.. Very good girl in general. Very nervous. She didn't know I was married and, in the end I don't think it would have mattered but after only meeting once I got the flu and the nausea made me feel like shit. I thought it was remorse or guilt.. I came clean in the worst possible way and then she ghosted me. No idea what happened to her, still think about her from time.

Third time was Gina from the UK. If you use craigslist in Belgium you probably know her. She sucked me off in a restroom and that was it. I think she goes from guy to guy. Doesn't matter. Good girl though.

Fourth was a fat chick from FEELD. I was desperate again. Worst thing that ever happened to me.

Fifth was a Romanian beauty I met through Craigslist when I was in a different country. I think part of me loves her.

Sixth was a local girl, young. Inexperienced. Met her through Tinder, fucked her and by then I got it out of my system. Last time was 7 months ago and I haven't cheated since.

In the end I think it was a binge year of adultery. Hopefully I can say it is the end for good.

>>25282416
>age/sex
22/M
># of partners i cheated on
7 (had 5 relationships simultaneously at one point)
>how frequent
Daily when i had the simultaneous ones, now its maybe once a year
>did they find out
I think 2 or 3 of the 5 found out. The rest believed i was being slandered. After that, no. Ive gotten away with it easily.
>stories
If you want some. The juiciest i can think of is when one of the 5 called me while i was fucking another, and i answered.

>>25308606
Oh i forgot
>had someone cheated on you
First girlfriend. Kinda sparked my whole cheating escapades. After she did i thought sex was meaningless and just used people as a way to get off.

>>25308295
You wanna share some of these girls? Lol

>Your sex/age
m 22
>On how many partners have you cheated
one
>How often did you cheat
once
>Do they know?
nope. she almost found out but I was able to convince her otherwise
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
not that I know about it. I would be okay with it if she did though, as Long as she doesn't fall in love with the other Person.
>Anything you want to add/stories
nothing really Special. I logged in to delete my old tinder account and by Chance i saw a Girl there who was gorgeous. we chatted, met and fucked once. we were both in a relationship and were both looking for a one night stand to spice it up. Would do it again.

>>25283750
Uh, masturbate.
If you need more than that with a girl you've been with for 8 years who's forcing herself to please you, who needs you now more than ever with what she's going through, you're absolute human garbage.
I don't understand how you could even reconcile the thought: nobody with a twinge of morality could.
If you have some shred of decency, don't do it. If you do, God help her.

>>25283750
Oh hi James Sunderland. How did you get out of Silent Hill?

>>25282529
>>All 3 times I've cheated have been at the end of a relationship (Planning on leaving the person anyway kind of thing)
Your a fucking cunt honestly
>>25282801
Not kissless virgin but honestly i'd rather stay a virgin then get cucked by some roastie

>>25282416
>28/m
>1
>Nope. Just did it once, broke up out of guilt. Never told her though. Made up some bullshit excuse.
>At least 5 that I know of.
>Nothing else to add.

>>25308608
U too man?
I fucking loved that girl and she did that shit to me, so I just decided it was all meaningless and now I keep all girls at an arms length away. Idc how many genuinely good girls I hurt now because it doesn't matter

>>25282980

Nobody cares about your opinion you selfish, sociopathic cunt.

>>25282997

I really hope you get raped.

>>25308207
But majority of guys here didn't have all that many partners. I'm not talking about cheating, I'm talking about a girl having 20 different partners in a month. I've never found a guy who would do something like this, but I know quite a few girls who had a phase like this.

>>25311086
I do this and I'm a guy. I just look at it pragmatically and decided that it doesn't matter what could hurt her if it doesn't. I'll feel bad when and if she finds out. In the meantime I just make sure to treat her right, aside from cheating on her every week. Lol

I cheated on my fiance .
With 4 girls
Met them all on tinder
Turns out one of them are friends with my mutual friend
My mutual friend found out and told my gf that I cheated on her she said it's a rumor I told both of sluts it wasn't me she didn't have any proof

>Your sex/age
23 M
>On how many partners have you cheated
0/4
>How often did you cheat
never
>Do they know?
doesn't apply
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
not that i know of
>Anything you want to add/stories
Never got why the fuck to cheat on someone. When i'm no longer happy with them i just break up and move on.

>M/18
>Haven't cheated - Flirted with girl in another state years ago while in relationship though
>Never
>GF of 5yr has cheated on me - Sent nudes and flirted with "friend"
>Feels bad to be cheated on

>>25287053
lol psychopatic fuck.. back to /r/incels

>>25282416
m/21
0
Never have
Nothing to know, but it's been suspected anytime I get chummy with someone. I'm usually pretty oblivious to getting hit on unless it's overt, but she still thinks I'm just running with it, even though it makes me extremely uncomfortable.
Yes, plenty of times.
I'm with my first gf now. I moved all the way across the country just to be with her, in spite of some cheating shit that happened mainly when we were still ldr. Even now, it's still happening, and she gets pissed when I bring it up or get upset over it. I always try to give her the benefit of the doubt: she's quite clearly BPD, and she's had all kinds of awful shit happen to her. Nevertheless, it feels like it's becoming more of an issue of me being a weight on her keeping her from doing what she really wants to do and less of an issue of her problems making her do stupid shit.
I mean, she's camwhored on /soc/ before. She's smeared me and shared private pics of me just to laugh at me and I've forgiven her for it.
It's not like I can't find anyone else. It's just that I sincerely love her and I don't want anyone else. I just want to help. I'm just sick of feeling like some exploited, abused cuckshit. I feel like I'm about ready to leave.

>>25312109
Trust me, dealing with women like that is not worth it, there's no future with her, find yourself a nice smart girl and you'll be a lot happier than with some daddy issues sucide girl, i've been genuinly in love with one like and she cheated on me so I left instantly, never looked back, cheating is fun to read about but is no joke when it happens to you

>>25285284
Broke up with said girlfriend yesterday.

Cheaters: do yourself a favor and just end whatever relationship you have.

How do some of you people lack so much willpower to resist cheating? It shouldn't even be an option whether to cheat or not. Those who haven't cheated, I aplaud to you even though that's something a normal human does.

>>25282945
It's crazy how much of a turn on it is!

>Your sex/age
M/26
>On how many partners have you cheated
Cheated on 1st real gf with busty petite trashy girl
Cheated on big titty Jew gf with another big titty Jew (best BJ I've ever had)
Cheated on petite/athletic gf with freaky 18 yo (best sex I've ever had)
Cheated on chubby sweetheart gf with petite Asian lawyer
Cheated on same chubby sweetheart gf with (ironically) 1st gf
>How often did you cheat
On 1st gf, 5+ times
On big titty Jew, once
On petite/athletic gf, 10+ times
On chubby sweetheart, twice, but had sex 3 times (2x with 1st gf)
>Do they know?
All but chubby sweetheart on both accounts -- petite/athletic walked in on me cheating on her
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Petite/athletic cheated on me with two guys that I know of, probably more
>Anything you want to add/stories
Any story surrounding the above is pretty good IMO with the exception of Asian lawyer. The trashy girl used to be a lesbian when we hooked up, so she was super tight. Nice D cups on a tiny frame. Big titty Jew hook up happened in a swanky hotel bathroom while her bf slept in the next room. Petite/athletic walked in on me and the 18 yo while we were just "talking" on Halloween, but the 18 yo's face was covered in my Halloween makeup, so it was kind of a giveaway that we'd been fooling around. Also, about 3 years ago me and 2 of my buddies had an orgy of sorts with 4 of her friends because of this hook up. 1st gf redux was weird and sweet. She became a body builder like a year previous to the hook up, so she was super jacked. Would love to go into more detail if there's interest.

I bet y'all are all fuckin white, absolutely disgusting.

>>25312946
Yeah, because if there's one thing the black community is known for it's fidelity and long-lasting relationships. Lol

>>25312227
Tell us about the orgy and details of that freaky sex with 18yo

>>25312227
Haha, I cheated on almost every gf with the then current former gf. Kinda sentimental.

>>25283750
dude

8 years don't do that unless you don't like her anymore

>>25283750


Imagine walking in on your girl, hearing it before you even see her. If you're fine with this, congratulations you don't love her. Break it off and start fucking around.

Otherwise discuss it with her (don't "Lel got tinder, can I go?") and be very honest about your needs. Hopefully she will be very honest and reflect.

I don't know what her situation is or if she will get better, but remember one thing:

Everything you do, is for yourself. For your own character building. Getting lazy, bratty, taking shortcuts in life, will all show up later.

Like those hot girls who drink, smoke and party, and are shrivelled up by 30. That's true for the body, as well as your mind and soul.

----
As for the rest:

The truth is cheating is mostly about revenge or having your cake and eating it too. It's a butterfly effect that creates more shitty people. Don't be slaves to your impulses because you will miss out on life.
Some think it's hot, I'd argue it's an intimacy issue. We aren't as original as we all want to be. Most cheaters come from broken homes (even if your parents are together if they fight, yell, they probably cheated too). Look at your history and ask if your parents are good role models. The truth will set you free.

----

Genuinely glad I didn't read spam from dude-bros who spend $$$ on pick-up training. Those people are the worst - acting manly by being tough & "alpha" - while deathly afraid to place trust and be vulnerable with a woman.

I'll post mine soon.

>>25283309
Seriously, you need a cape and a costume with a big red "S" on the front for "Supercuck". You got cheated on and dumped by ez-mode and now a 50 yr oldfag has taken your place. And you've graduated to side ass because you're still chasing it!

Pls tell us you're not eating that shit and getting his leftovers too.

>>25314079
Did you even read what he wrote? He was never with the girl, he didn't get cheated on. She's the one cheating with him.

I'm 27 yr old guy. I got into first actual relationship with this girl (21) a year ago. we are still together but I'm not sure.

Honestly I only got into a relationship with her because I am lonely and was desperate being 26 and never really finding anyone. It was better than nothing..

But at the same time I had trust issues because she had a lot of party friends. We'd go to raves a lot. She got me into it. We were reckless with drugs and alcohol.

Shit kinda went south a lot of times. I would get into fights with her and eventually we broke up for a couple weeks, she ran away and was with friends. She lied to me and betrayed me during this time. I mean, I was physical with her too before. I felt like I was really loyal to her still.

Since getting back she told me she never did anything. Even though when she ran away from me, she went to a club that night and I even saw her do it, leaving with her friends and walking with one of her "guy friends".

I always had a feeling she was playing games with me. I'm not sure if I overreacted by being an asshole to her early on, that I was "controlling", but I just had that gut feeling every guy gets. I wasn't strong enough to just leave tho and still ain't.

It hurts a lot honestly. I want something better. But I feel stuck.

>>25314226
She deserves to be fucking guys behind your selfish ass. You want something better? So does she. Lol you fucking loser. Think about someone other than yourself you depressed fuck.

>>25314252

Nothing wrong with having feelings.


That's simply not how I think a relationship should work. But at the end of the day we all just wanna be happy. If she wanted other guys she could stop talking to me altogether. Of course I'm frustrated.

>>25313856
This reads like psuedo intellectual, projecting bullshit disguised as "hard truth". You know less about anyone's situation than they do and offering this kind of pointless insight into your mind helps nobody.
Leave this shit alone before somebody stupid enough to not see through your nonsense takes notice and fucks up their shit.

25/M
none but im fucking my roomate and she is engaged
usually once a day
Occasionally ill have her send him pics and
he tends to forgive her cause he knows deep down she loves him.

>she messages him to tell him shes about to suck me off and swallow my cum
>proceeds to suck me off and i bust all over her face mouth
>send him pics and a video of her being a whore and talking about how much she loves to be used by me and suck cock
>he says its fine because she probably didnt enjoy it

>>25285295
I'd cheat on my girlfriend with you, you've got a good dick sucking look in your eyes

>>25316078
He loves it

>Your sex/age
male 25
>On how many partners have you cheated
on the only and only gf I ever had
>How often did you cheat
I did it with 3 different girls multiple times
>Do they know?
they who? she might suspect, but nothing serious
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
probably
>Anything you want to add/stories
Now our relationship is ended because of reasons, but I think if we would have been more open to explore our sexualities (maybe with an open relationship/poliamorous couple) it would have ended in a better way

>>25314904

Which part do you find as pseudo-intellectual?

21 f

lovelyBored


>On how many partners have you cheated
Almost all
>How often did you cheat
As often as I can

>Do they know?
Two

>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Some have

>Anything you want to add/stories

>>25282955
I have the same problem, I have a great relationship with my gf but it's fun getting girls just because you can

>>25285295
I would cheat WITH you, you've got that innocent girl look guys go crazy over

Male, 18
Cheated on all partners
Only one knew
They never cheated on me
Nothing else to add cause I regret it but want to do it again. Weird huh?

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
26/m
>On how many partners have you cheated
Lost count
Basically every serious girlfriend I've had
>How often did you cheat
A lot. My longest relationship(3 years) I probably fucked a dozen different girls behind her back.
>Do they know?
Nope
Longest relationship used to accuse me of cheating on her all the time, but it was always with girls I wasn't involved with at all. It was the weirdest thing.
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Nope
>Anything you want to add/stories
Best cheating story was probably taking my girlfriend's little sister's virginity
That was a lot of fun
Also had quite a few girls cheat on their boyfriends with me, which I also love

>>25317511
give us the story on her sister you sicko

>>25317520
Well their mom used to go away for work all the time and I would crash at their house
Anyway one night my gf was at work so no one was there except me and her sister and we started talking because I was bored and ended up having this deep fucking heart to heart (she'd hated me before this because she hated her sister and so hated me by extension)
I ended up kinda admitting I thought my gf was a cunt too and she asked why I stayed with her and I jokingly told her the sex was good and she said something "Well I wouldn't know"
Started flattering her like all hell and she ended up deciding she wanted to know and I took her virginity
It was pretty good. She was kinda a butterface but had a really nice thin runner's body. I went really slow with her and by the end of it she was loving it.

>>25282416
>Sex/Age
20

>Partners cheated
1 I guess. It was me talking to someone that shared mutual interest during the beginning of my relationship with the 2nd party. Never met. Only flirted over text. She lives 4 hours away and literally have never met her in person. Only through friends.

>how often
Not sure what counts.

>do they know?
Yes. She went through my phone. And read it all. Its still old blood to this day. 2 years so far.

>has your partner ever cheated?
Not sure. Highly doubt it but she does do stupid shit when she's angry. Kinda like 7 year old.

>anything you want to add
Honestly I really feel the urge to cheat and want to be wanted again. I strike out with most people and this girlfriend is really on my ass. I have literally no friends to talk to because of her. And half the time any person that even resembles a female is shoved away by her.

Maybe I long for female attention because of motherly issues. But even then. I have never had sex with another girl beside my current gf. Just not sure I made the right choice.

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>>25282416
>>Your sex/age
20/Male
>>On how many partners have you cheated
None.
>>How often did you cheat
Never.
>>Do they know?
Yes, but they think I cheat anyway.
>>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Yes, my first partner cheated on me pretty badly, and the other cheated on me during our break.
>>Anything you want to add/stories
Nope. If you cheat you can rot in Hell.

>>25290427
I love being a beta little dick cuck

>>25308606
holy fuck, how big is your dick?!

>Your sex/age
M/28
>On how many partners have you cheated
0/5
>How often did you cheat
0
>Do they know?
See above
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
7/5 (last one cheated on me 3 times with different people before I found out)
>Anything you want to add/stories
Haven't been in a relationship in almost 3 years. I've totally given up on not only women but relationships in general.

>>25313735
>details of that freaky sex with 18yo
So as I mentioned, my gf walked in on me and the 18 yo in my room on Halloween. Petite/athletic had left my party to go to another party, a fight ensued, blah blah. The 18 yo was dressed as a crayon, so basically just wearing this strapless tight black dress. I was a zombie in a fucked up suit. We hit it off after my gf left, one thing lead to another and we were making out a bit in my room. The gf came back to the party (as she had promised) and walked in on me and the 18 yo talking on the couch, the 18 yo's face covered in my zombie makeup since we had been making out for a bit. Gf flipped out and stormed out, 18 yo stayed with me -- she thought the whole thing was hilarious. 18 yo slipped out of her clothes and into some of my own. Her body was phenomenal; perky 34 C's and a tight little tan lined butt. I was too drunk to fuck, but we got after it in the morning. I worked things out with the gf and everything was cool, but I'd get texts from the 18 yo every couple of weeks and I'd go around to her place and fuck or she'd come over and fuck. She liked being spanked and scratched, later on I found she liked hair pulling and light choking. Doggy was her preferred style and she was the type of girl to clean up with a dirty t-shirt. She was insatiable. If we weren't her in dorm, we'd fuck in the most immediate location. We once fucked on my roommate's bed. I remember her head buried in his pillows, dress pulled halfway up her back, and I overshot my load and ended up cumming on my buddy's pillow. Oh well. We kept an ongoing sexual relationship for the rest of my college career and in my final year, she started blowing one of my best friends/roommates.

>>25313735
>Tell us about the orgy
By the time I found out the former 18 yo started blowing my buddy, she and I had stopped fucking or talking. We graduated, she graduated, life had moved on. My buddy still kept in contact with her and had actually started sexting/fucking one of her best friends (it was a long distance thing). We had another buddy who lived in the same city as the former 18 yo and her friends, so my buddy organized a get together between the former 18 yo, 4 of her friends, and me, him, and our other buddy.

Our group bar hopped for a few hours and had a nice time. The former 18 yo got too drunk and had to leave, but we kept on with her friends. We all went back to my buddy's place where we all drunkenly split off with our respective girls. The guy who lived there took a girl up to his room and promptly got a blowjob. The guy who had been sexting/hooking up with the girl took to fucking her on an air mattress nestled behind the love seat in the living. This left me cuddling the two other girls on the couch (none of us cared to sleep on the love seat with my buddy and his girl fucking directly behind it/against it). I was in boxer briefs and a t-shirt. One of the girls on the couch with me was fully nude, the other was in one of my t-shirts and her panties. The nude girl was up near my face so I sucked on her little titties a bit and fingered her before passing out. The mostly dressed girl made out with me when the other girl was getting naked and played with my dick a little bit. One of the dude's who lived at the place came back early in the morning and found me on the couch with the two girls and my buddy completely naked with his equally naked girl on the air mattress. He was the one to officially dub the experience an orgy and regretted not going out with us.

>>25317569
It doesn't seem like you're to happy. You need to think if that's what you want for you. It's not being selfish because if you're not feeling good in life you won't be able to do/be good to the ones you love. The way you described it seems toxic for you. Really take a look if it worth it to feel like that. My two cents on this mate

>>25308668
Whomever raised you did a stellar job

>>25282949
Nah, gf is a abusive bitch, I'm so close to cheating on her

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
39
>On how many partners have you cheated
Several
>How often did you cheat
Not that often, but just did Friday
>Do they know?
Only 1 ever caught me
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
A few have.
>Anything you want to add/stories
>be Friday, grab a few beers with sexy as hell co-worker, she's 5'5", like a size 2, C/D cup fake boobs, nice tight yoga ass
>wearing yoga pants and a tight workout tanktop
>A few beers in she says she's got a stiff neck so I offered to rub it for her
>as I'm giving her neck massage she says her lower back is stiff too
>massage that as well, she starts moaning. I took my queue and started kissing her on the neck and shoulders while continuing the massage
>she says get the tab, do that, and we head back to her place
>walk in the door and she immediately peels off her top and turns back around
>This time I pull out my gentle biting on the neck and shoulder, basically like kiss pressure but with your teeth, drives most women crazy
>works on her and I reach around her grab her fantastic tits while doing this
>slowly kiss down her back to her ass and then slowly slide off her yoga pants and panties as well
>she bends over and leans on the back of the couch and I start licking/fingering her pussy and licking her ass and rubbing her clit
>after a few minutes of that she says she wants to come with me inside her
>unzip and drop pants/boxers
>go straight in as she's well warmed up, feels so fucking hot and wet
>fuck her doggy for 5-6 minutes while slapping her ass and rubbing her clit
>she starts cumming and I the clenching of her pussy drives me right over the edge so I cum with her
>finish cumming together and she stands up straight as I pull out. Kiss her some more on the neck and shoulders
>she goes on a date with some guy she just met full of my semen
>I'll see her at work monday and act like nothing happened.

>>25283750
I suggest you just cheat on her then if she's a handicap how's she ever going to know? A man has natural needs that if his partner can't provide he's gonna look elsewhere. It's just natural for you to find other girls now and you don't want to go against nature right?

33/M
Just my wife.
I do kik and email roleplay sex all the time. On three business trips I've paid for actual sex at massage parlors.
She doesn't know...she's also very asexual and I've looked at her phone before. I don't think she's cheating cause I really don't think she's interested in sex.

>>25282416
>m/21
>never cheated on any of my past 3 gfs

>>25285186
legit where are you girls

>>25282416
>Your sex/age
m/24
>On how many partners have you cheated
2
>How often did you cheat
2
>Do they know?
no
>Has your partner ever cheated on you
yes
>Anything you want to add/stories
would do again

protip: monogamy in humans isnt in our nature like birds

t. psychology student

>>25320514

>psychology student
>giving protips

Lol.
Until you know Donald Schon's work back-to-back, you won't be able to distinguish reality from bullshit socialist misinformation.

f/24
2/3
a few times with each bf
no
not that im aware of
i cheated on both bfs with the same guy

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>>25282416

>23
>0 because I'm not a slut you fucking degenerates

>24 year old female
>have cheated on 4 partners
>cheating was relatively non-recurring within the same relationship, mostly
>I always told them
>I've had multiple partners cheat on me.
>Poly life is for me. I just want to form strong emotional bonds with multiple people which may lead to sex occasionally. And I want that to be okay. Thinking one person can meet all my needs and desires all the time is naive.

>>25282416
>>Your sex/age
m/27
>>On how many partners have you cheated
0 out of 1
>>How often did you cheat
Never
>>Do they know?
I hope so
>>Has your partner ever cheated on you
Doubt it
>>Anything you want to add/stories
Really wanted a threesome with her and another girl as she was bi as a way for us to explore the idea of having sex with other people because we lost our virginity to each other 4 years ago but broke up 6 months ago, still want her back and not had sex since, maybe never will again