virgin thread wether you want to take it or lose it or simply

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>>25253481
kik: bloodeagle93
been skinnyfat my whole life, been going to the gym for a while , waiting to get atleast skinnyfit to jump into the dating scene. Nobody but you guys know i'm virgin, keeping this secret is killing me so i have to post in this thread to vent a bit.

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>>25253481
Yo.
Same boat, but getting my body into shape hasn't really helped when you look like me lmao

kik: vampcass

I want to stretch out a hymen gradually with my finger

You're good looking dudes.

I'm far too self-conscious to post my face--wouldn't want anyone I know to see me.

At 21 I planned to kill myself when I turned 22; I didn't want to match Elliot Rodger.

At 23 I've accepted that not every pet leaves the proverbial shelf. There must be something wrong with me--something that just isn't clicking right, in my brain or somewhere else--something I'm totally blind to that others can just subconsciously sniff out with ease like dogs--something that makes me less desirable than murderers, rapists, addicts, abusers, cripples and the mentally disabled.

Feeling fundamentally rejected hurts, but that's life, and how else would you enjoy it if it weren't shit sometimes.

>>25253511
you don't look that bad, the main complaint i heard from girls that i tried my hand with was that i was both too short (5'7" or 173 cm) and too skinny, so i'm guessing that's your problem too.

>>25253481
i had the chance to lose it but i beta'd out like a true autismo-sperg lord in fact i probably would've had a gf from it too.
But i pissed that away now trying to find someone to fill that void is impossible.
>>25253548
desu i know this feel

>>25253550
I'm 6'2 and skinny, maybe that's it then. Always assumed its cause I'm uggo.
I know I need to sort out my fashion too.

>>25253580
i've had some complaints about my personality aswell, i've been told i play victim too much and posting in these sort of thread kinda makes me think they are right.

>>25253585
Thats a good point, I've definitely caught myself fishing for compliments.
Tbh I think I'm just going to quit coming here for a year or so while I sort myself out. No even to stop being a virgin, just to stop wallowing and improve a little.

For the record dude, you've definitely got a handsome face, if you bulk up a little you'll be set

>>25253616
yeah i'll do the same, i'd rather be bored than be here, this place is just too weird. Thanks man i will bulk up, good luck with your self improvement

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18/m/Netherlands/6'2

I just fucked up early in high school, and now am in a position where random encounters are my only chance to find someone. Tried tinder and such but too much effort when there just arent alot of tinderwhores around and nobody is ever taking the app serious besides people i dont match with(regardless of whether its me not liking them or the other way around).

Been told to lose the beard, and i will, but pretty sure that'll not change anythin lol

20/m/5'6 ish
i'd be down to lose it if any fem anons are in the 607/315 area

>>25253511
put those faggot lips to good use and suck a big black cock

>>25253844
Shit, I thought having girly lips was in my head lmao

I've never understood why virginity has been such a big thing, whenever I tell people I'm a virgin, I either get "you're lying, there's no way" or I get "that's hot"

Ive never understood the appeal of virgins, I'm quite attractive and could lose it in a couple hours if I wanted to but it's just kinda eh

22/m/indiana/straight
Looking to lose. Currently in school but have always been too "busy" to lose it.
Kik: 97ujt113

21/m/England
5'11 slim
Virgin looking for a female to take it. Don't care too much about looks. I have pics available but don't want to post them for everyone too see.
Kik danielspaldin
Discord ds902022#1842

>>25253481
Anyone have more art to share?

24
Black
3 inch dick
NEET


What am I doing wrong?

>>25253663
Do you have discord?

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>>25254197
Heres a WIP but shouldnt you make an art thread?

>>25254241
Great linework.

>>25254270
Thank you, I'm trying to practice anatomy but I like doing anime shit as a warm up

>>25254275
Keep it up.

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What am I doing wrong? I'm 20. Have my own job, studying, paying for own studies as well. I am a kind person though I'm not the nicest. I have nice breasts and a nice bum. I'm a little bit difficult sometimes. This might sound conceded but considering all I have to offer... why can't I just get someone who likes me enough to put a dick in me. Honestly.

>>25254303
Have you ever asked for it?

>>25254318
The only action I get is sexting, long talks on the phone, dick pics, and some hand action -- my own hand action. If you don't think I'm being forward enough, you should see my less than subtle hints whenever I do get some physical action in person.

>>25254303
Next time you see a cutie, tell him to take you to the bonezone

>>25254303

You sound a bit too cocky for a virgin girl. That's what would prevent me from approaching you, if I had to be honest.
You do look pretty attractive, and the fact that you like your own body and assets is also a good thing. You'll meet someone soon enough.

>>25254303
You probably are a bit too straightforward or they're totally faggots. I wouldn't let a hint go unnoticed if pic is related lol

>>25254303
Sounds like you're looking for a relationship rather than a fwb one night get some dick thing

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>>25253481
>22 / M / Chicago
no idea what's going wrong. I've been on pretty much every dating site and app I can think of but can't get a date. Barely get any matches and the ones who do match just ghost.

only makes it worse that I have a morbidly obese sister-in-law who likes to make fun of me saying I'll die without every having been on a date, and brags about the guys who still chase after her.

At this point I am literally a dog chasing cars, I have been single and alone for so long I have no idea what to do with social contact even if it happened. Been posting in here for about 2 years now, with the same shit luck. I'm honestly convinced that literally no one gets laid from /soc/ or these threads, just women seeking validation. But, it's still basically the only hope I have, just like spamming messages on OKC and Tinder

>>25254217
fastest reaction ever, sure do haha

Matej#0994

>>25253663
>>25254197
ID Change, still same guy :P

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27/M
I know I need a haircut, will get one soon. Been pretty shy my whole life, especially towards women.
Kik is MaverickSWAT

>>25255283
The top 10% of men are fucking the majority of the women. You gotta climb the totem pole first

>>25254303
It's probably because you're fat and unshapely.

>>25253481
I don't think losing your virginity should be on such a high pedestal so I could care less about losing it.

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28/M/?

Doesn't matter. Just like to shitpost in here with my contemporaries

>>25255283
As someone who used to also live in Chicago...I don't know what to tell you man. I definitely know people personally who I'd say are worse off looks wise than you(or me for that manner) that do well with dating apps in Chicago. I was never able to crack that egg myself and got literally no non-bot matches on Tinder even right swiping everyone. And I had people were successful with it helping. I don't know if it's just because of the large amount of wealthy/privileged people there

Also your sister in law can fuck off holy shit


And well yeah anyone posting in here looking specifically to get laid from this thread is asking for a bad time dude. But if you ever see a girl post it doesn't hurt to talk to them and see if you get along. People get laid from soc but probably not often from these threads for obvious reasons.

>>25255348
Okay, added you.

Any girl here in Texas?

26 straight male here.
Not kissless virgin, but a virgin nonetheless. Just been putting my family first before myself lately.
I know this is a longshot as /soc/ is mostly a thirsty homo sausagefest.

[email protected]

>>25254332
How to contact you?

kik: triannaperezz

>>25254303
>Fingers

I found the problem. You're xbox hueg

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24/M/US

Fat manlet with a lazy eye, unibrow, jacked teeth, and little dick.

At least I've got a good sense of humor.

>>25255283
I would think you were really cute if it wasn't for your whiney post, but if you kept your mouth shut I could molest you... You need to pretend to be surprised and confused as you wake up one day and you are tied to the bed and I ride you and take all of your mana. ;-; And I have to keep soothing you as you whimper.

26/m/US/gay

sup

Super self-loathing. Exclusively attracted to masculine straight guys. I have seen masculine guys who I was into but the minute I learn they're gay I think of them as a subhuman sissy with a shitload of faggy mannerisms and hobbies just lurking in the shadows. (That's often true btw.)

I am cool with it most of the time. I have a good career I'm focusing on. But every once in a while I get the urge, and I go on chaturbate for a semblance of connection versus pre-recorded porn. Then I make the urge go away and I'm good for a few more months.

Anyway, that's me.

Oh, I'm not a looker either of course. Obese, small dick (related I'm sure), 5'8. I've actually been told that my face is handsome enough that I believe it, but it doesn't make up for the obesity, or dick, or height - and it doesn't matter because I'll never be interested in a guy interested in guys, anyway.

1(8) highschool grill. Kissless virgin, kill me swiftly

Male 19. 9" cock. Add me on Snapchat. hant8549

20 virgin ggnore life

>>25256487

Me again.

Honestly my dream is shacking up with a straight foreveraloner. We could cuddle for human intimacy and just be live-in friends and life "partners" in the non-gay, non-sexual sense of the word.

>>25256600 add me hant8549 on Snapchat I'll give u a good time

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>>25253481
m/21
I'm aiming at being a virgin till i die or pop on an oxygen mask hooked up to a helium tank and take the easy way out. shouldn't be too hard

18/M/The Netherlands

Searcing for a woman to take it... Kinda fucked up in social life so I am here. Have tried Tinder, but don't have any good pictures / don't look good enough to get someone on there. Like to smoke weed though :)

kik: hiiamdanse83

>>25255838
You got bot matches cause you swiped right on everyone dude, thats how they pick up on bots. When they do that they just match you with other bots.
Delete you tinder and try again and I bet youll have more luck

M/21/Italy
I'm a memelord that lives with anime and vidya
I've never had a female friend
Sometimes I feel lonely
I wish I knew what people mean when they say "dude wanna get laid? Just go out lamo"

I'm really into inexperienced guys, but it always seems I live way too far away from y'all. :(
(F/25/Finland)

>>25257373
can always just talk and have some fun ;)

>>25257136
I got bots when I didn't right swipe everyone. Also not right swiping everyone got me zero non bot matches over the course of like a year. So the guys and girls I knew who put me on Tinder told me I couldn't afford to be selective. That's the only reason I did it at all.

I don't have any interest in bothering with it. I was on it for like 2 and a half years and got nothing at all when I didn't right swipe everyone.

I don't actually enjoy going out or meeting people anyway anymore.

But I don't think that's how it works since people still get bots when they dont do that and also I've seen people get non bot matches using an auto swiper many times before. I don't think that had anything to do with it.

>>25257445
Also just wanted to point out that I tried it out in multiple states and 3 different countries lol

>>25257389
I'm a sucker for touchy feelies, though. Online chatting doesn't really get me far, I'm more of a hands on person.

My issue with this shit is also that I really just want an inexperienced younger guy (19-20 year olds are most attractive to me, idk) that would actually get serious with me and probably marry that guy too. I've been sexually active with my ex boyfriends, but the last time I had intercourse was almost 6,5 years ago, decided then that I want to save that til the wedding night. Oh woe is me lol

Turned 27 last month, I think I'm never going to lose it. Just not a hook up or bf material.

19/m/Calgary
never talked to girls, so never got a chance.
Kik is larvinato
discord is boi#6774

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20/m/EU

Fuck this shit. I have guaranteed no hope for like the next 2 years at least

jingus

m here, when i got devirginated i became a massive prick who played girls, always warned them about my characteristics and that i only wanted physical relationship. Once i put that on the table i also played nice, and they kept falling for me.... when i tried to play nice from the beginning, i only attracted virgins (3) so far, my friends call me the Devirginator 5000.

>>25257469
i feel you, personally a touchy feely kind of person as well but beggars can't be choosers :P

i would be totally okay with plans like that but shit's unlikely haha. Good luck finding the man you're looking for :)

>>25257982
Trust me mate, it's more than just 2 years

>>25257982
mate, as long as you go out and have fun, rest will happen by itself. even if you are shy, just grab a beer or 10 and go with the flow

21 male and still a virgin

Is this normal?

>>25258033
Just kinda bummed out that after 6 years of dating with guys it's never ended up too deep (hue hue get it, *deep*, gdi I'm a loser).
Thanks :)

>>25258309
Yes. Very much so. You're no less of a man being a virgin at any age in my opinion but I understand there's a fuckton of stress.

Oldest virgin I knew in my personal life was 28 till he had sex. For a female, 27.

>>25258332
20 Male Virgin here. Why do you prefer younger inexperienced guys? Is it like a control thing or something else? I'm kinda curious cause most girls around here prefer older guys who are experienced :P

Honestly the whole being a virgin thing doesn't get to me, it's never having been in a relationship with someone. I just really want to fall in love with someone and have them love me back.

>>25257982
I'd fuck you

>>25258043
Well in 2 years I hope to have a job and an own place and live somewhere in North America.

>>25258349
It's not about control at least in my mind. When I'm with a guy I want to be gentle with them, go about based on what they are comfortable with and respect their boundaries. For example my one of my exes wasn't ready to be without our boxers and panties which was totally ok for me, I'm in no rush. Sorta unrelated, but he was a year younger me but looked like he was 20. lol.

As for the younger guys... it's just something about the looks, I suppose. I don't want to say babyface since it's not what I mean... uhh. Kinda hard to explain without showing pictures. Even googling "20 year old male" doesn't give the best results as it's full of models. I love young men that have the "guy next door" look.

My only concern in being with a younger guy is the emotional level of things. I'm honestly always concerned if the young man understands everything that is going on as well as responding to my needs of commitment, continuity and deep emotions of love and affection. Does a young guy, especially inexperienced know if he wants to be with me for, let's be honest, the rest of his life? Is he for real? Will he regret this? Does he want to be a young father as I'd love to have my first kid before I'm 30? I feel so insecure.
My latest ex is 19 and although we synched in every way, he was too young to make the commitment which I understood completely, both agreed that he is just not ready to commit his time to a relationship at all.

>>25258426
>but he was a year younger me but looked like he was 20

Derp I mean he's a year older than me. We were together for year and a bit.

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23, khv eternal incel

I'm pretty sure I have schizoid personality disorder at this point

A lot of you look really attractive (in my opinion), and desu, being virgin it's not a bad thing is just about waiting the right person.

>>25258666
>666 congrats

But, yeah. I wish everyone that's stressed about their virginity could calm down (with the lack of a better term, saying that sounds way aggressive than what I mean) and know that someone is there for them.

I want to give everyone here a hug ...

Femanon here
Just wanted to say - if you look average don't stress about your looks, girls who are looking for a relationship care about your personality way more.
And if you're looking just to lose your V-card just go out, to a club or whatever and if you meet a girl don't hide that you're a virgin, most girls find that hot.

>>25258723
Both good and bad advice. Not everyone is the clubbing type or wants to lose their virginity in a quick one night stand setting. And it's good to "stress" about your looks to a certain extent. Get rid of that oh so famous BO, have tidy clothes (style doesn't matter), the regular.

I'm not so sure about the whole "most girls find that hot". It's so subjective. Some find it attractive, others don't, and some don't care.

What I'm getting at is that it's not as simple of a process as you have seemed to word it.

>>25258831
that's not stressing about your looks, that's having a decent standard of hygiene

>>25258723
>just go out to a club
>just wait for the right person
I get that you're trying to be nice, but this is not very good advice for guys.
Most dating advice for guys from women isn't very helpful for them. Women can just go to a bar or go out in public, and be guaranteed to go home with someone. Guys can't do that.
There was even a book about this. A woman pretended to be a man for a year and thought that with her intuition on being a woman and "personality" she could easily get dates and woman as a guy, but she had very poor luck from the other side, even with knowing what "women want".

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18. Had a chance when I was younger but basically went out of my way fuck it up

There still hope for me?

>>25258998
>There still hope for me?

You're really good looking, your looks definitely will be attractive to others. Otherwise it's hard to say since I know nothing about your personality. And you're only 18, there's plenty of time.

25/M/Vancouver

Overweight, but have rugby strength, awkward around people I don't know, and basically never really dated because of work and not having many friends to go out with. I'm not much of an outgoing person and most of my hobbies are indoor, too.

Kik is BL3FW, have discord as well.

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>>25258874

>>25259177
I also didn't realize the person said that women love virgins, which pretty much means they're a troll trying to give bad advice on purpose

>>25259177
I feel like this sums up every time ive tried.

im gay, male, 21
Im bottom, submissive, 5'7" 99lbs, feminine looking body... but I havent had the chance to meet a gay or bi guy irl thats manly enough for my taste. All the men Ive liked irl are straight. All the manly gays live way too far away from me. I think I should take hormones and become female so I can have sex with straight guys.

>>25259182
Girls talk about this stuff, out of 10 girl friends I have 8 would rather fuck a virgin or not experienced boys over macho guys

Idk dude mingle a bit

>>25258831
That's why I first said the relationship part, and if you're average or above.

It actually is pretty simple, go out talk to girls at least 1/10 will like you

>>25259222
>5'7"
>99lbs
go away mr skeltal

>>25259233
Pls introduce me to them lol
Anytime it ever gets brought up i recieve an "oh thats cute", but they seemed turned off by it.

>>25259251
>just go outside
>1/10 people will like you
This is why I said women really don't give good advice to men about dating. Just going outside does nothing. Women don't approach guys, and guys who approach have to stand out from the hundreds of other guys that are approaching or catching this girl's eye. Simply going out in public is not enough to get relationships and laid as a guy. If it was, I wouldn't have been posting here for the last 2 years.

>>25259261
Maybe you're just trying with thr wrong girls
I would like to help but you gotta find out on your own what are you doing wrong, but most importan thing is confidence, don't feel sorry for yourself people can pick up on that

>>25259266
Darn it anon don't go out to find a date, just hang out with people make friends go from there you can't just jump from 'hello' to sex if you're not at least an 8 and have amazing personality

>>25259266
Also, women do approach guys, especially in this day and age, you're just too oblivious usually and some guys just don't believe a girl could like them so she just eventually gives up

>>25259273
>>25259282
Your advice really isn't helping these anons. You're just pumping out motivational poster slogans and "be yourself" level platitudes. We have heard them before. If it was as simple of a solution as "be yourself" or "just go outside" there wouldn't be this thread full of guys bitter and sad about being rejected over and over. Dating, sex, and relationships for guys is a whole different world than it is for women.

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>>25259266
>>25259282
I mean, the problem here is actually meeting these girls to become friends with them in the first place. I'm pretty confident most people here aren't the most charismatic bunch, so even if they're in a public setting it's hit or miss if they sperge out on someone, but that's beside the point. The thing I feel most people might struggle with is the hanging out part. If you don't have any/very many friends, or if those friends aren't exactly social butterflies who are willing to go out to bars, or parks, or public entertainment, then finding yourself in a situation where you could feel comfortable enough to "make friends" with girls is difficult.

And I sympathize with the other anons' claims that girls really don't often approach guys. I mean, if you're not really attractive, or at least have some weird, positive quirk about you I don't see much reason why a girl would walk up to you and suddenly want to chat, and relying on that chance is like hoping you win the lottery.

>>25259273
Im 100% confident lol. I mean its not like i shoot for the same copy girl evry single time its just on mutiple occasions as soon as its brought up by either side its downhill.

>>25259295
Women do not approach. I have never in my entire life seen an example of a woman genuinely approaching a guy in the same way a guy would approach a woman. Touching your hair three times is not making the first move. Saying the word "Hi" and handing the conversation to him to entertain you is not approaching. Asking him to buy you a drink is not approaching. All of those are common ways I hear women "approach" along with standing near a guy she wants to talk to her. That's not how it works. Approaching involves putting yourself out there and allowing for rejection. Guys have to deal with rejection on a daily basis when it comes to this, so why should the definition of approaching change so that women can say they do it, when every way they attempt it gives them a convenient excuse and out to protect their ego? It just seems like even when it comes to approaching and "making the first move" women still think selfishly and with their egos in mind. Even on Bumble, that forces women to message first, they literally just send "Hi" or the least possible content in a message they physically can. Just saying, "hey look at me, entertain me now".

oh, and by the way, asking a guy to buy you a $15 drink at a bar/club is literally the WORST way in the world to try to get a guy to like you or even react positively.

How do I stop being a social deviant? Can anyone explain to me, like to a little kid, how does relationship go from "hey I like you/I like you back" to sex? I've had lots of girls I've flirted and heavily over the internet, few nudes, but it never got real.

>>25259370
as a 22 year old male i've been approached 2 times in my lifetime
but i gay

>>25259371
>over the internet
I mean, that basically sums it up.
Why deal with an LDR if they can just hit someone up locally and not have to worry about traveling for hours or never seeing one another. I don't think very many girls, or really people in general, are all too interested in LDR's what with distance and loyalty concerns.

Unless of course you mean you're interacting with people on the internet through like okcupid, which to me it doesn't sound like it, but in that case, just negotiate a time to meet in person, not necessarily for sex, but if you're close enough that it's feasible to meet regularly, than go to a park or go see a movie together.

>>25258723
>>25258831

I guess the thing about me is that I would prefer to be with someone who is looking for something long term and not the typical 'One night stand'. It seems like that is a odd thing for a 20 year old guy to ask. I personally feel you should date a person for eventual marriage...not sex. I never have actually been on a date due to the fact that most girls my age don't have that view. They also don't want to date someone with zero experience.

I don't know...maybe I have to the desire for a emotional connection and that's weird for a guy?

Or Social Awkwardness? I don't know anymore.

>>25259370
Sounds like you were only watching american movies kek

Example 1: I tried to hook up with a guy, we made out he chickened out cuz he tought I was trolling him or something
Example 2: I found out a friend of a friend was a virgin and he was cute so I went to his place to hang out, we had sex
Example 3: I slept over at a friend's house (we even kissed once before) and I was literally rubbing my ass in his dick and nothing happened...

Enough?
I could go on

>>25259403
Do you really think I would believe some fake stories you came up with to prove a point?
why would I believe someone who actually claims that women think virgins are hot, or that going to a club and standing around is a viable way for a guy to get laid, or that walking out in public will result in a guy getting approached.

for real, how gullible do you think we are kek?

>>25259421
Wtf

When did I ever say just standing will get you anywhere

Sound like you just want to feel sorry for yourself and miserable
I like virgin bois I deflowered like 6 of them, maybe I'm crazy idk but then most of my girl friends are too

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>>25259421
Slow down bro, why would you doubt these stories are real? You literally made a point of saying "girls have it easier" when it comes to relationships. So what would stop an experienced girl from just choosing who she wants to hook up with?

This is no new thing, there ARE girls out there specifically, or at least passively interested in virgin guys, it's just that it typically comes with either a price tag, or the fact that it's going to be a one time thing. And if you're not willing/able to pay or you're looking for something more than just having sex once, you're not going to follow through with it. But don't tweak out and call her a liar for having her own sexual interests.

>>25259435
Thank you for your kind words anon I got really triggered for a second there

>>25259435
>what would stop a girl from choosing a guy she wants
Mainly because they already have hundreds of guys willing to buy them shit and compete for their attention, why would they even think about risking their fragile little ego to try to get someone when they have countless people who would bend over backwards for them?
Why would they want a virgin when they can have a guy who already knows about sex and lets them just lay back?

why are you defending some non-virgin "woman" who came in here to troll anyways?

>>25259443
How do you find a girl that loves Virgins?

>>25259451
>You should date ME because I deserve it MORE
At this point I think I've figured out why you might be a virgin, but you do you.

>>25259457
I literally never said that anon. You asked why women don't approach and that's the answer. They have a steady stream of guys willing to prostrate themselves for even the slightest bit of attention. Why would a woman risk even the slightest bit of embarrassment or bit of her ego by putting herself out there if she doesn't need to?
I'm not saying I deserve it more anon. Maybe you need to clear out some pre-conceived notions of me?

>>25259451
Because I don't want to feel like an achievement on some guy's belt of scores and I can fucking pay everything I need by my self

And maybe I just wanna help?
Whatevs I'm done with you I'll help to those who want it

>>25259454
Ahhh that's kinda hard just because you can't just ask a girl right away, you just need to search
I could help only if you're in a situation where you're trying to be involved with a girl so go step by step
Each situation is different there's no textbook rules unfortunately

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>>25259476
There's literally a femdom thread going on right now on this exact board and you're trying to tell me that not a single girl in the world might enjoy being the dominant one in a relationship? I mean yeah sure, go ahead and make the claim that most girls are subs, most girls don't approach guys, that human nature has created a society where the men need to go out and find a mate while the women just wait around, but if you're seriously going to try and tell me that this girl is lying about the fact that she talks to boys...

Just, delete yourself.

>>25259396
Yeeeah this is the stuff I've been thinking about, but from the other side, being a woman in my mid-20s and being attracted towards guys that are 20 (or ones that look like that). And looking up you were actually the person to ask me about why I'm attracted to younger guys, I gave an answer here in case you missed it:
>>25258426
Also jfc ppl talking about women not takin initiative, I've been doing that pretty much every time and would like to have a guy do the do for a change. ... but I suppose it's the downside of liking inexperienced men, not many dare to take the first step. rip

>>25259502
Top kek
Thanks for the laugh anon *tips fedora*

Also, I'm a switch so I can be both dom and sub yey for me

>>25259502
the femdom thread is always 95% male what's your point?

>>25259511
wew boy, I'm out, this autism is too much for the likes of me.

>>25259505
Yeah me too, I got approached maybe 30% of time

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>>25253492
Love me

>>25259516
There's always at least kek

>>25259523
at least one*

>>25259505
You seem like a pretty cool girl. Would you be interested in talking more on Discord, Skype or Kik? :)

>>25259391
You misunderstood me. Relationship not as in emotionally connected pair, that I'd rather avoid (not all the girls though). I think I'm actually traumatized because I keep re-reading what I'm trying to convey and I see how autistic it sounds. My friend had a girlfriend back when I was 16 (8 years ago HUH). We almost fucked on multiple occasions. We would talk on phone for hours, she would come over to me with her friend when she was skipping school and do me a fucking massage, I remember one time we all were driving in a taxi somewhere late at night and we were holding hands with interlocked fingers all ride with her boyfriend in a car. So I took flowers and asked her to date me and she said no and made it seem in a manner like I've been in a friend-zone all along. So I guess I'm really insecure now whenever females like me and if so how they like me exactly and how much exactly. So for example tinder -> flirt -> meet-up -> flirt -> hey lets go to my place is a socially acceptable thing nowadays? What if she likes me but not ready? How do I not make it awkward?

>>25259506
what's your fucking deal? why do you come in here to poke fun at the virgins?
literally all I've ever wanted in these threads was the answer to why I can't get a date for anything, and that's somethign I can literally never get and answer to

Imagine for a minute if you will
>you are a complete social outcast
>no friends
>no relationships
>seen as a complete loser by society no matter how hard you try
>you are forced to live in social isolation for years
>you try your best to find out why this is happening to you
>the only posts and replies you get are "be yourself"
>you slowly get madder and madder over time
>years later after continuing this you don't know why
>desperately searching for this missing flaw, is it your face? your body? your job? your description? your city?
>tearing yourself up, going insane from this
>the "advice:" still keeps rolling in
>people start trolling you, making fun of you, poking you for fun and "keks"
>some person comes in and says that everything you have ever lived and experienced is wrong just because they say so
>everyone defends them because they claimed to be female with nothing but their word

tell me honestly, would you not be in the same position as me here? literally crawling around looking for a reason about why you're cursed to have this status? mad that some person claims that it's desired when you have been rejected hundreds of times because of it?

whatever, I guess this thread really does just exist to poke and make fun of virgins

>>25259544
Brandon?

>>25259549
what?

>>25259552
You sound just like him

Idk how to help you and to prove that I'm not trolling, you're just gonna believe what you want apparently

>>25259537
Aaand this is how you make initiative!
Would rather not use my actual Discord/Skype acco so I guess I'll muster up a kik username... since I've completely forgotten what my original kik was, been years since I used it.

>>25259568
Sweet! I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask :P

I gotta redownload Kik but I will add you there :)

Kik is Rance100

>>25259563
I believe what I have experienced. i have experienced literally nothing that you've said. I seriously doubt you came here to help anyone, and instead came here to bait and poke fun at funny virgins like me. I honestly shouldn't have posted here, no one gives good advice or lets you know what's wrong with you.

Just seems like people like you come here to either troll the virgins or to jerk themselves off about how great they are, when they say literally nothing that helps at all.

>>25259519
You are all over these boards begging for attention. Need someone to talk to?

Anyone know of good mobile sites or apps like Omegle video chat? 18 and a virgin, porn doesnt do it for me anymore. I need the interactivity, passively watching is a big turn off.

>>25259563
you know what, it was my fault for getting so messed up and worked up, but I really hate when people do this. They come in where their life seems all sunshine and rainbows. They have tons of friends and never have to worry about relationships, and through their non-understanding try to tell someone else how their life currently is and what they have experienced

probably doesn't even matter though, because I can't erase my face from the internet and you sound like this is going to end up like a meme. People love to bully and pick on virgins, so I assume this is no different.

>>25259651
you sound really pathetic, i hope you don't talk to people like this

>>25259651
Why do you assume my life is sunshine and rainbows, I work hard as hell for what I got and it's not much
You just need some self respect only one who is hating on you is yourself

I'm sorry but I'm not gonna argue with you, peace out friendo :)

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>>25259690
from the way you talk, it sounds like you have your tier 3 needs on lock. You have no shortage of friends, support structure, and relationships. You have people praising you a large amount of the time. You may think that you have a tough time because you have trouble with your tier 4 and above needs, but for someone who doesn't even have friends or a relationship, that's pretty much sunshine and rainbows.

The only two times I've been asked out on a date in through dating sites. I'm not saying it doesn't happen where women approach men, but it is certainly a lot less often than men approach women. As a shy person myself, I would love it if a lady approached me to strike up a conversation.
This is just my experience from living in LA though, maybe it's different elsewhere or I'm just not good looking enough for someone to want to approach me lol

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>>25257982
Ur reeeally cute. I'd fuck you but I'm almost 30 tho... ;-;

>>25259902
Btw I didn't read this whole thread and I'm not gonna cos I don't have time but I'm in the femdom thread too. Virgins are THE BEST for gentle femdom. Cute.

>>25259902
I took that picture yesterday btw.

>>25259910
>>25259902
Love your body and size. Want to talk to a virgin male? I'm really subby too. Kik youngcaesar24

>>25259902
I almost gave you my virginity, but I chickened out, you didn't really seem to like me anyway.

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22/M/USA state without a coastline

Turns out that getting a dadbod to attract women is a meme. Should I get fat again or should I just give up trying? At this point I feel like trying just makes me more depressed anyway.

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Look at it this way - you've ALREADY been "rejected..." There is now ZERO social repercussion for just going wild and living however you want.

Go out and rage your dream

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Virgin and proud. No stinky women will take my precious pure boy bod

23/M/Canada I'm currently a virgin, and I'm into ABDL and gentle femdom in general. I'm not exactly looking for sex, but more realistically for someone who shares similar interests, and maybe talk and see where things go.

sexless virgin and don't actually care about it

grow some balls

>>25259519
ubaba i love you :)

>>25259252
im underweight but its not as bad as it sounds. My body and shoulders are really small thats why. I got a decent butt, thats what matters the most.

>>25259378
Hah, same. But straight guy by gay dudes, not that Im not flattered when it happens

>>25259443
Man I wish I could meet a girl like you dude, Ive tried putting myself out there loads of time now but I get too nervous to make the first move

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tfw just turned 20 yesterday and last time I kissed a girl was when I was 17, left her to focus on my schooling and fixing my heart problem at the time but man did that back fire. bit sad desu

>>25259902
Hi I'm 21 m and would love it if you could take my virginity.
Kik danielspaldin

>>25258496
you're cute and you have great shoulders, surely you won't be an eternal incel!

>>25259902
That'd basically be a dream come true. Personally always wanted to be guided by an older woman.

>>25259902
I actually love older woman, and getting gentle fendomed is what Im looking for lol
Kik vampcass if you wanna chat

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>Me Brown, 21, male, straight
>Looking for a chick with a good head on herself and can hold a conversation, as well as a women to call to when im down on my luck
>I can keep a clean convo, If needed I can keep a 18+ convo, up to the person.
> Kik What2Ya

>>25259902
Thanks for the offer. I don't really care about age desu. I care more about finding a loyal gf than a random fuck ;-;

>>25259370
I'm a guy who has never had physical contact with a woman I'm not related to and I have absolutely seen women approach guys. It definitely happens.

People need to realize that just because something doesn't happen to you doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

You're only partially correct in the sense that the societal expectation is for men to be the assertive ones/ones doing the approaching.

I should also point that some women get desperate. Sure given how easy it is to find a guy compared to findingb a woman this shouldn't be even a concept that exists. But I'm also not so blind as to ignore the fact it obviously does happen.

>>25259362
Just being confident is a pretty bad meme yeah. I mean obviously it's better to be confident than not but I'd argue some of the most insecure people I know are some of the most successful in this area of life. Plus feeling self confident isn't a guarantee. I've had people tell me they dont think I'm lacking confidence but that I shouldn't be confident.

A lot of it is just straight up luck anyway it feels like.

>>25259371
>nudes

lol I don't even understand how people get nudes. I just avoid asking altogether since it just seems to offend epople and doesn't do much for me anyway(there are nudes of women all over the internet). The only time I've seen a girl I knew nude was when she posted nudes on tumblr.

One time I had someone from soc send me a contact request on skype though and we talked all the time for like half a year. But then she got mad one day and said that obviously I have interest in talking to her because I never asked for nudes and I was like lol well I don't ask because It almost 100 percent of the time offends people/causes them to disappear and also because I had no experience with getting them at all. She seemed like she understood but then when I was like well it doesn't mean I don't find you attractive and I'm not disinterested if she wanted me to see them.

Then she was like nah it's fine and shrugged it off and pretended she never said anything and I was like why would you bring this up then if you don't want me to see them/have sent them to people before? She just ignored it lol Made no sense whatsoever

>>25259370
also how likely they are to approach is somewhat inversely proportionate to how physically attractive they or how much attention they get normally. Obviously even with women someone who doesn't ever have anyone approach them(and this does happen) or has it happen infrequently is more likely to initiate themselves. Or if the person they are approaching is just especially attractive lol

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22/M/USA

I don't like to talk about it.


Kik me @ commandersalamander if you'd like to talk about it.

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Do I look bangable?
20 y/o virgin from Romania, with some pretty weird kinks.

>>25259963
Jared? I fapped to you for weeks after we met. Lol.

>>25261013
Yes. But it depends on what the kinks are.

>>25261013
Hit the gym and grow a beard little more, then I think you'll look really good.

>>25259519
kiss me

>>25259370
I've approached men. In most of my fantasies I randomly stumble upon a really nervous guy that I can spot easily from a distance and basically I just keep being pushy and in a few hours of teasing I get to take his virginity. Of course I've never done this it's just a fantasy. Everyone who's virginity I've taken I've talked to weeks beforehand.

But during a conversation I will up the flirting level to see how a guy responds. Starting off really really small, I can already spot a really shy guy by how he's carrying himself and eye contact and all that. But something small would be maybe adjusting my bra while wearing a low cut shirt and I pretend I'm not trying to draw his attention to my breasts I just need to adjust my bra right? I then judge all his reactions.

So I'll be in the midst of a normal conversation. I always try to open with things I know about mainly being art (like painters) or animators like asking 'do you watch Rick and Morty?' but books, movies, anime, music, philosophy, religion, or psychology usually gets a good conversation going. But you know how conversation will naturally come to a stopping point? This is when I'll try to up the flirting if I've already targeted him as my prey. I'll say something like 'Oh, I'm really sore from walking around today I could use a massage' but if I'm feeling ballsy I'll just say something like 'I haven't cum in ages and I'm really horny'. I'm kind of the type who is naturally and always has been really shy but yes you can still be an outgoing person while also being shy it's all about forcing yourself through it anyway. And so I'll always try to maintain intense eye contact. If he's the right target he will react in a way that makes me even hornier. If he's the wrong target he will usually maintain eye contact and say something like 'lets change that now' at which point I'd just sort of find ways to leave without being too rude because that's the sort of guy who is too dominate for me...

>>25261194
When a guy is too dom of course I don't judge this that would be hypocritical because I am dom. But I will sort of go into a tomboy mode where I just write him off. Obviously can still have a good conversation and even a friendship at best but it's not the type I can really toy with the way I want. The type who is a good target for me will usually become very uncomfortable at the mention of something so lewd. It sort of snowballs from that point. If I see him giggling a lot its a really good sign for me. Because I want him to want it no matter how shy he is or how aggressive I am. So the giggling, smiling, blushing, shifty eyes, maybe even literally backs into a corner. I like when his muscles get all rigid just from being close but then trembly... and I really like when I'm either sitting very close or cuddling a guy for the first time and you can almost literally see his heart start to race just from the proximity. I notice when he becomes self conscious about the sudden increase of his breathing and he sort of tries to hold his breath momentarily but then when he realizes hes doing that he takes little gasps. That's the hottest thing. Or when that happens as I slide my finger tips down his torso for the first time and he's a little ticklish from being so sensitive from anticipation and never having been touched before.

When I finally do get him in bed those little gasps and squirming is so hot especially if I can pin him down and sooth/comfort him right in his ear as he squirms.

>when you aren't shy enough for Opal so she just stops talking to you

>>25261214
>being unhappy about not being a fetish
yeah nothing wrong with that

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>>25261174
ID change but this is me:
>>25259902

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>>25261214
No, you just don't like the same things I do.

>>25261232

I know, and that's fair enough.

>>25261232
desu i wouldn't either

>>25261229
i'm attracted to you for no other reason other than you're into femdom and use a nikon.

>>25261229
yo kick me please at woodbrick

>>25261262
Is that supposed to be a sentence that makes sense?
>>25261259
I need a little more than that to like someone personally.
>>25261226
Do you have that backwards? No one should be unhappy about not being a fetish. Because you probably are to someone. Don't change if you aren't right for someone cos someone else will like you for who you are. But sex and evolution only work through selection, a girl without standards doesn't exist and prob shouldn't.

>>25261289
i mean it's just a gut check physical reaction. i posted in the femdom thread too, but not much since it was mostly women talking about the fetish and guys swarming them for contact info and that put me off.

i'd talk more about myself here but i'm really not a virgin, just shy and introverted and like female feet and enjoy being bossed around and gentle dommed.

>>25259097
Idk, I'm pretty awkward in general. I make people laugh but sometimes I got a tough time telling if they're laughing with me or at me.

Thanks for the compliments tho

as a 20 year old thats been with 23 different women I can promise you that staying at home and beating off will help you in the long run, virgins save more money and have better careers, also you don't get fucked over by coldhearted women, congrats for denying your own biological desires and taking the more intelligent path through life.

>>25261329
>20 year old
>long run
uhhh

>>25261356
You don't need to be old to look to the future and understand a compromise when you see one, getting pussy is a compromise, hold out for a good classic girl that isn't out to use you and you'll thank yourself

>>25261179
Guro, leaning more towards peril.

>>25261329
Well I don't think

I mean yeah I've given up now that I'm nearly 30 and not had a lot of success. But I would never save it was because I denied my urges or didn't put forth any effort. Not even close

But you're right it doesn't seem worth the money/emotion sink that it is for a lot of people.

>>25261174
No I'm not Jared, we never met in person and I'm pretty sure that you never fapped to me, you said my face was cute, I'm pretty sure it was me as a person who you didn't like, but I was drinking too much then.

>>25261364
I agree, good advice yo.

>>25261329
yeah i've realized the same. The loneliness is killing me, but i realized that finding a girlfriend won't stop me from feeling alone

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18/M/6'3/England

Send moods

But seriously, I think these sort of threads are kinda useless.
Prove me wrong.
Or don't.
Am straight

/\
Kik: ProfRobofrog

>These positive commments of encouragement
>People talkinga about how theyre interested in virgins
>My pic gets me called a faggot
Seems par for the course lmao

>>25261488
>I almost gave you my virginity
>>25261488
>we never met in person

If we never met how could you of almost given me your virginity?

>>25261580
At least you got a (You) lol

>>25256324
24 is still early enough to fix your life bro, personally i don't want to pass my thirties like i'm passing my twenties, so i started working out and fixing my style and getting my feet wet in the dating scene, you should try too before it really becomes too late

>>25261614
His cyber virginity.


I'm post:

>>25260965


Feel free to add me if I look cute and shy enough for you.

>>25261614
Where do you live?
I'm not a virgin but i'd hella fuk u lmfao

SC: johnsoncastle

>>25261673
Working afternoons and nights makes dating even harder than it has to be. I'm working when people are dating and I'm asleep during the mornings and early afternoons.

Anyone in Auckland willing to take mine
M/sad age

>>25261289
i think that being a fetish for the right reasons is ok, like having a nice body, being rich or being fun... while being a fetish for the wrong reasons is not, like being unhealthily fat aka "chubby", being depressed/suicidal, or being so broken with social problems so big that you prefer binding yourself to a life of chastity rather than having to interact with other people. Are we saying the same thing?

>>25256324
Supermang? Didn't you used to lift at least?

>>25261614
We lived pretty close to each other and talked online a lot.

>>25264481
My mobile data keeps giving me new ID's.

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25 year old male. Live in Texas. Always been too much of a pussy to talk to or approach women. I'm not totally ugly, just a bit skinnyfat. Kik: lolmaskget
I'm from Texas

>>25264232
Idk? I have a fetish for their their disposition/our interaction/mannerisms is like I explained in detail here:
>>25261194
>>25261204
But also I'd say my kinks are for shyness, blushing, stammering, can't make eye contact, trembling, and assortment of other idiosyncrasies.

>>25264481
I don't think we talked a lot if I just called you cute. That's not the same as almost giving me your virginity. I called plenty of people cute in this thread doesn't mean they gave me their virginity.

>>25264534
My ID keeps changing too cos I'm traveling around Holland.

>>25264232
>being unhealthily fat aka "chubby", being depressed/suicidal
Well I'm chubby so someone having that wouldn't really have an impact on if I'm attracted to them plus I've seen attractive chubby people.
I've been depressed in the past so if someone had also been I might consider that a good thing because they would understand the struggle. But not someone actively suicidal, you can't maintain a relationship in that mind state.
>being so broken with social problems so big that you prefer binding yourself to a life of chastity rather than having to interact with other people.
Idk about that but I do really love priests who take vows of chastity, that's hot. I don't consider them broken though(?) But I'm sure there's lots psychological of reasons that could be explored about why someone would want to take those vows.

>>25264568
k check ur discord i'm gokukek

>>25259544
Based on all your posts it's your personality that's the problem because physically based off that one face pic you are attractive.

You do get into conversations on dating sites right? But then they stop talking to you after a few messages? If yes, does that not indicate to you that your saying something wrong(?)

>no friends
There's a problem. If you have no friendships and worse if you've never had friendships than you have no idea how to interact with people.

>seen as a complete loser by society no matter how hard you try
I would completely believe this if I had not seen your picture. Based on the one picture you look fine, I'd have no reason to believe you weren't normal from the picture. You are like an 8. lol.

>desperately searching for this missing flaw, is it your face? your body? your job? your description? your city?
Do you have an okay cupid profile, cos I'd want to read your description. But your message to them is more important. I get tons of messages on okcupid. Here is the ONLY ONLY way I will reply is if a guy has all these things down in his opening message:

-Writes at least a paragraph. Less than that he doesn't care didnt read my profile and is just spamming girls.
-Doesn't mention/compliment my looks in any way for the first 6 sentences at the very least. It's best to throw it in at the end that you like someone's looks, otherwise again you look shallow like you are just spamming girls.
-Points out at LEAST 3 shows/books/games/etc we have in common. The more the better. The more description he goes into about specifically what he likes about those things the better.

If you don't interact with people sort of along these lines they will not reply. Because basically there's hundreds of guys sending messages a day just saying 'hey your cute wanna talk?' You make yourself stand out by having a brain basically. You make yourself way more common and meaningless when you spam the same thing to every girl.

>>25264618
If you do all that I mentioned then you will get more messages back. Also when browsing don't just choose any girl that looks good, actually read their profile. If you get those three things down that I mentioned then you have to read it anyway.

>>25264287
I mean, back in high school when I had weightlifting class.

I tried working out since then; weights cardio, diet, etc. But always wound up quitting from lack of motivation. It's been about two or three years since I was last trying to work out.

>>25264618
>-Doesn't mention/compliment my looks in any way for the first 6 sentences at the very least. It's best to throw it in at the end that you like someone's looks, otherwise again you look shallow like you are just spamming girls.

One doesn't have to mention my looks at all btw but if he does he should at the very end and down play it. Because I get messages hundreds a day saying 'you are beautiful' just that and nothing else. I wont even reply with a 'thank you' back because there's so many and almost every time it's from a blank profile (only a picture) or just a guy who has no interests or hobbies other than maybe one athletic thing that he does alone.

One makes himself actually attractive by being interesting and intelligent. For an even average girl there is an endless supply of dick. It's so common that it's meaningless. Anything that's found so easily has a low value. Basic economy right? So you have to make yourself interesting by having hobbies/interests in common. Be friendly and optimistic/kind, it will make up for any kind of awkwardness or inexperience. DO NOT have low self esteem. You don't have to be confident but you can not be actively self hating. You have to be accepting of yourself as you currently are even if you are constantly working on self improvement. If you are self hating you can not maintain any relationship, even a friendship. Any time that even a conversation will emotionally go to a deeper level you wont be able to accept or understand it because you don't like yourself you wont be able to actually grasp that someone else could like you (regardless of if they do or not). This seems basic, but a lot of people have trouble understanding it when they think their problem is that they just need someone to love them. If after reading that you are thinking "Oh, but that is my problem all I really need is a gf then I'll be completely happy, I like myself'' But you are still very unhappy in life you might consider what I call

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I don't really have looks going for me, but eh, I'm trying to put myself out there as best I can.

>Be virgin
>see some, not all but some posters are hyper cringe
> decide better not post.

>>25264735
What I call a wildly swinging ego. Basically it's when a single individual has both narcissism and insecurity/low self esteem at the same time. The times of narcissism happen as a way of coping for the lows. Sort of like bi polar but having to do with how you feel about yourSELF, not just your emotions in general. A lot of shrinks might just call this regular narcissism but often a regular narcissist will be on the sociopathic side and just not able to feel bad about themselves ever where as someone with a wildly swinging ego will sometimes get very insecure/depressed even suicidal.

The best (but extreme) example I can think of is Elliot Rodgers when he says 'I'm a supreme gentleman' but then went out and killed people and himself. Obviously not all people with this ego problem will go this far btw.

So, some simple logic behind this would be... if you think in your mind that you are great but then still feel very depressed, great people don't feel bad right? Great people aren't alone? Right...? The problem actually IS YOU. And you actually do need to change but the absolutely CRUEL ironic thing about this thought process is that the thing that needs changing is the idea that you need to change to be happy. The thing that needs to change is your self esteem. NOT job, face, body, whatever insert other worldly shallow things. Only a person who goes on a spiritual journey will find out how to do this. No one can have self esteem for you no matter what they do for you or how much they love you.

I'm not telling you to just be yourself. Though for some people it really is that easy. My advice would be ACTIVELY go on a spiritual path. Spiritual can be religious sure, it doesn't have to be. It can be hypnosis, meditation, medication, cognitive therapy, and hundreds of other kinds of therapy as well.

For me it was stuff like this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Noble_Eightfold_Path
A lot of eastern philosophy including the now and no-mind

>>25264764
dialectical behavior therapy, cognitive therapy, meditation, weed, and Alan Watts.

Also there's a sjw type of thing called aggressive self love (or radical self love) and it's when you rebel to social ideals of what you should and shouldn't love about yourself. It has nothing to do with becoming lazy/fat/whatever and everything to do with reprogramming your brain from whatever traumatic stuff happened (possibly bullying). It has to do with completely rejecting ideals that have been presented to you from people in your life when you were bullied or abused or ect by.

In the past I had depression, suicidal thoughts (cutting included), and anxiety attacks especially pertaining to goinig anywhere near actual people. What I did was (already mentioned) dialectical behavior therapy, cognitive therapy, meditation, weed, and Alan Watts. BTW disclaimer: none of these things are a cure all for everyone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SdSOroIJxVc

>>25261488
>>25259963
>>25264481
Hey self medicating Anon, one let it go, yall just weren't compatible, two I hope that you get some help, three once you are sober and get some help you'll be a lot more attractive to women, but you still won't jive with everyone.
Also in general why do yall hate on Opal or is it just one guy with a grudge? Is it that she wants something specific and it isn't you?

>>25259544
.... or you could swallow the red pill. you have a nice body? it means you have money to go to the gym and free time. You go to the club? means you can afford to waste money on overpriced drinks and waste time during the weekend. You have hobbies? means you have money and free time. But you also need to be passive, why? because otherwise the woman won't be able to cuck you into having a kid and sustaining him for the rest of his life. That's what women want, a guy with a stable career, lots of connections, lots of free time and lots of money in order to sustain them and the kids you'll have with them.... as long as you look like husband matrial you'll literally get swarmed, but show the slightiest bit of weakness and women will never look back at you. Personal experience, i talked with this girl for ages over facebook and nothing, one time i said "a mother has to be there for her kids, she shouldn't have to work" and now she's litterally moving countries to meet me. And if she's not looking for money she's looking for protection. Other two girls were really eager to meet me, guess why? One wanted to run away from her abusive father and the other was scared of her crazy ex, so if the only thing you have are muscles then these are the only kind of of girls you'll ever have .

Alright, i've been at a unisex school with only guys for the last 4 year and now I'm headed off to college. My social skills are not great either. Am I just screwed or what?
Kik: MileDeg4

>>25259910

>>25261194


>femdom virgin lover

You... you dont happen to be in the EU do you?

>>25253481
28/m/Toronto hoping to finally lose it.
If any ladies will be at Anime North this coming weekend let me know

20/f
actually losing my fucking mind over this

honestly about to fuck the first guy i meet / ask for a favour from a long time male friend

>>25264942
Hi, nice to meet you

>>25264948
hi anon

>>25264954
Do we fuck now?

>>25264956
yah sure

>>25264942
sell your virginity lol

>>25264964
would anyone who isn't a gross child molester actually pay for sex with someone as inexperienced as me? genuinely asking

>>25264942

What makes you want to lose it so badly? Is your internal clock ticking that loudly?

>>25264968
it is and a couple people now about it (i don't tell anyone i meet now, it's just some friends i've known my whole life), so as time passes i can see the pity in their eyes and i just feel awkward and weird and i want to stop it.

>>25264966
wtf you don't sell it to those they don't have money. Some arab shitbag would probably buy you a ferrari if you played your cards well, that you could sell for a lot of dosh

>>25264973
meh wouldn't know how to explain the money

>>25264973
>gross child molester
>arab shitbag

oh wait we were talking about the same kind of person. Yeah no, they're the only ones that care about that kind of shit

>>25264972

That mostly sounds like peer pressure, and not a desire for intimacy or companionship from your end. Do you feel an insatiable curiosity about sex in general that you can't satisfy on your own, or is it something different?

>>25264975
if people ask say you got lucky with a scratch-off ticket

29m/Atlanta/virgin

Just a older virgin that is a loser. Would love to lose it to a girl near me. Might visit Amsterdam as a last resort.

Kik: an0n9001

>>25264978
i am curious. i am also extremely lonely and depressed and suicidal so in the wonderful playground of my imagination being in a relationship or just getting some male attention kinda feels like an easy way out of these dark feelings. Rationally i know that's unhealthy but whatever

>>25264987

Well as odd as it sounds, I'd love to talk to you. Even if it were just to help you feel less lonely or depressed.
You shouldn't have to feel bad for wanting male attention, but there are more ways of doing that then sleeping with men that might not exactly care about you (sleeping with the closet thing to a man you can get your hands on).

>>25264989
i've got nothing to do tonight so i might as well. post you kid or whatever, i might make a throwaway account

>>25264994

I'm pretty much in the same boat. Just reading a book tonight and not doing much else. If you're just making a throwaway you might as well post it here for me to add.

>>25264994
kik*. obviously.

>>25265002
4chanisdumb

>>25264942
Where are you from? Or is that not something you'd want to share on the internet?

>>25265017
not in this thread

>>25264715
So this IS supermang?

>>25265020
That's reasonable

Do you do e-mail or would you prefer the kik only?

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I don't think i will ever lose my virginity, women just don't like me

>>25265026
why would i share my email if i'm not even sharing my location

>>25265036
I messaged you on Kik. I think. If that was yours. Let's talk!

I'm 18 and not interested in other people at all. Like I don't care. I also don't have any feelings for my family. I'm probably retarded lol

>>25265036
Yeah that was a bit of a dumb question, sorry.

I've got to make a kik now lol

>>25265030
you must be an asshole or a damn shy guy, because you look good

>>25265024
Nobody has ever called me that, but I do call people mang sometimes.

You more than likely have me confused with someone else.

Is going to a club or a bar alone to pick up girls normal?

>>25264744
Get a better haircut.

>>25265036
Throwaway emails, also don't do anything that you're going to regret, same thing for guys, sex isn't a huge deal and a good relationship is so much more than sex, just fucking won't make you less lonely or happier at least not for long.
Also
>4chanisdumb
It really is

>>25265082
Yeah it's a fairly normal tactic, you just need to be socialable and extroverted.

>>25265097
how bad can i screw up really? it's not like the person i lose it with will stay on some kind of record and everyone i ever meet will know about it. if i manage not to get any STDs or pregnant i'll be pretty much fine. and then i'll be able to do whatever i want and not worry about guys turning me down because they're afraid i'm some religious freak.

>>25265108
A guy that turns you down because you're a virgin is probably not someone who you want to be with anyways. I'm still a virgin and I'm about to turn 28 so I know what it's like to have this shit drive you crazy.
Losing it just to say you're not a virgin anymore won't really help you with your confidence. Find the right person first, then worry about the other stuff.

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Is my body ugly?

>>25265118
that reasoning makes sense in theory but let me tell you, if you start excluding gays, guys who are unavailable, guys who aren't attracted to you and so on, you're not really left with that much choice. so most guys you meet (at least ion my experience) will be scared you'll get clingy or just don't want to risk it and reject you. and you're left waiting for "the right one" with 27 cats and 100 pounds heavier

>>25265128
Respond on Kik, jfc.

>>25265134
calm down

>>25265121
>,
Nope, 20yo girl, and I'd bone you.

>>25265128
Wait till you turn 21 and are able to go to bars. Trust me, guys will approach you.
And if you're really that desperate, why not make a dating profile?

>>25265148
i've been going to bars since i was 15. not from the us. i have a dating profile.

>>25265154
You live in a small town or something?

>>25265108
I don't know, you might regret it, and with a friend it would be different, but having sex once or twice with like a stranger will still leave you inexperienced.
You seem pretty cool, what would you like to talk about

>>25265168
I live in a city of 1mln+ people
>>25265170
yeah you're not wrong, i know that. i'm just tired.

>>25265168
If she's in Europe it's easy enough to get into bars. Aside from the UK where they id EVERYONE but even then it's not that hard.

>>25265176
Well man you just gotta keep trying. Don't feel like you have to tell everyone that you're a virgin right away to anything like that. The most important thing is to not come off as desperate, it'll be very obvious.
Trust me, as a woman you're going to have a lot easier of a time finding someone than us guys.

>>25265196
guys say it's easier for girls and girls say it's easier for guys

>>25265094
What would you suggest?

>>25265211
Maybe for gay guys it is, but it's hard for straight guys to get laid if you're anywhere close to be shy.
At my work whenever a halfway decent looking lady starts working there the guys are all over her like vultures. Meanwhile I'm just wishing someone would start up a conversation with me. It sucks.

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24/m/Washington DC

Been in two relationships. First wanted to wait for marriage and I respected that. Second only lasted 3 weeks.


Kik wave.existence

>>25265262
Even if you're not shy unless you're well above average looking it's not that easy

I'm in las Vegas for the first time
In the 702 area
In 26 male would like to meet a female to loose my v card im only here for the weekend
Got weed and drinks
Kik/Skype wallace1090

>>25265121
Skinny>Obese

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>>25265245
Pic related.

I have a really strong fetish for taking advantage of virgins... if you want to play into my hands then say hi...
kik lazerftr

23 m student at Santa Cruz.

Studying math in university. I really wanna loose my virginity before I graduate. However everyone I know is a shut in so it's hard to expand my social circle. It doesn't help that almost everyone in this degree is a dude.

Other details:
6'3" 210 lbs
Not fat but not ultra fit either
Introverted but able to hold in my spaghetti when talking to people
Reply if u want my info

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I'm not sure if it's worth it to make a final try to find someone at this point, or if I should just accept celibacy. Even if I did find someone, once she finds out that I'm a virgin at my age, that might be the dealbreaker right there. My guess is that it's implied that I'll have a certain amount of sexual experience at this point in my life, enough to at least show some degree of competency, but I don't have any. I'm not even sure where to begin at this point anyway.

>>25265540
You spelled your username wrong

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Low quality picture, but yeah. I'm way too unattractive for anyone to take my virginity.

>>25254137
I completely understand what you're saying and I know that losing my virginity won't change my life, but sex sounds pretty fun anyways. Also, I can't help but feel like I'm missing out on something that most people my age that I know are part of.

>>25265525
I never noticed that Edward Snowden had such nice hair.

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19M, honestly I probably could've lost it by now but I keep going back and forth between "I just want to lose it" and "I'm waiting for the right person". I've turned down sexual advances from girls I didn't find attractive and I sometimes regret that and sometimes don't. I plan on losing it this summer, just gotta find someone and get it over with. Part of it is that I don't feel comfortable having sex with a drunk girl, like I've hooked up with a lot of girls but I feel really rapey going past like 2nd base with a girl who clearly isn't in a sober frame of mind.

I'm shy and generally keep to myself. I started dating in college and had my first relationship, but wasn't emotionally ready to have sex since I was so new to everything and was enjoying the more innocent stuff.

Now I am ready and it's constantly on my mind but the shy thing makes it hard to meet people. Ideally there would be chemistry and trust.

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22m the first girl I slept with wasn't a virgin and I've yet to sleep with another because I really wanna take a girls virginity it eats me alive

19/F northern California east bay
Haven't lost it because I'm chubby (five foot four, 148 lbs, maybe 35-28-35) and uggo.
Trying to get it over with. Respond with kik or e-mail if interested.

>>25266577
>Haven't lost it because I'm chubby

That's not really a reason I would say. There are a lot of guys that would happily girlfriend a more chubby girl and some actually prefer it.
I think you should work on loving your own body and overcoming your supposed ugly feeling. Just getting laid won't change that. Just try to be positive. Don't try to lose your virginity; instead aim for a relationship and experience that will make you a better person.

>>25265211

Kik: blackpoolgraves

Let's talk about suicide and sex if you want.

Kik- killtyrants
I live in Socal, but i make trips up to Norcal a lot. I want you to feel as comfortable as possible, so there is no need in rushing it. Also, we can ease into it by exchanging photos beforehand.

>>25266608
Honey bun, I've thought it over plenty. I have the outward appeal of a potato. I go to school on a large campus as a south Asian, why would anyone pick me when blonde perfect 10s are everywhere?

I'm just over it as a whole. I'm ready to accept myself as someone who is not and cannot be attractive, I think it's healthier than swelling and searching. I do appreciate the positivity though.

>>25266577
Down to chill

qwerty12345o

>>25266623
Because chubby waifu master race duh.

>>25266577
I'd respond with email but I'm 6 years older than you.

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I used to have chances to lose it but not anymore. Now with a body with mantits and stretch marks like this, I'll never have an opportunity again, even if I lost the weight.

>>25266623
>blonde perfect 10s

Very few of those are actually decent and well adjusted human beings. I would take a cute virgin chubby girl over some blonde that won the genetic lottery any day.
You have a lot to offer. More than women like that could. At least to me. It might be nice to try having coffee with a kind man from here that's in your area. Just try to enjoy the company, but don't focus too much on your virgin status.

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Will take female and male virginity's
21 M
live in 902 Nova Scotia
I don't bottom though
kik : waysidecrickets

>>25266631
That's what I'm trying to be
>>25266635
Go for it, maybe it'll work!
>>25266651
Maybe I'll meet someone...

[email protected]
>>25266738

>>25253481
Seeing as someone took mine, it's only fair I take someone else's

>>25267035
F/m?

M/22/Massachusetts

Grew up fat lost 100lbs during college but high school sorta fucked up my confidence .

Posted pic in last one, don't feel like doing it again. If anyone's interested
Kik/Discord: megacomma

705 Ontario - 22 M
Greengreysweater - kik
Wanna lose it and get drunk or high as fuck while doing so.

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19/M/California/5'7"
I think it's obvious why I am a virgin

>>25254303
Conceited. The word you're looking for is conceited.

male 28 janes88

>>25259902
Let pop that cherry

>>25266577
Kik Murdock666888
Email [email protected]

>>25265061
I'm none of those things actually

>>25253663
You look like a guy that used to be in the same class as me in school, what region do you live in?

>>25266577
emai is [email protected]

>>25267035
email me. [email protected]