FEMANON Q&A
Get in here femanons and answer our questions. I'll start, but here's some background first
>Go on date with cutie I met on tinder
>Dinner goes well, loads in common, she's laughing heaps. Just generally a good vibe
>Take her in river ferry, palpable sexual tension by this stage
>We start making out
>After ferry we walk around holding hands and just chatting for like an hour
>I realize I want something serious with her
>The topic of tinder comes up and she admits she uses it for shits and gigs, I'm still determined though. She tells me about all the gross dates she's been on
>I walk her to her car and we end up fooling around, she gives me bj and I finger her
>Before I go we makeout for like another 10 mins, she says shell text me
>She ghosts me later in the week. I persist and ask her what happened. She says the whole thing felt forced and she's not interested.
So femanons wtf happened, normally I can sense a rejection coming a mile off, but this felt like a great date. I mean would you make out with a guy, hold his hand and suck his cock if you weren't into him??? Please explain this to me
>>25219496
>she admits she uses it for shits and gigs
she admits she uses it for shits and gigs
>>25219496
>Take her in river ferry
Did you go on a date in Greek myth?
I'll answer some questions
>>25219496
She explicitly told you that she wasn't interested in anything serious or more than a one time thing. Sorry you weren't able to put her under a magic cock spell, but it's not her problem. You're just so vain that you though you could change her mind after she was upfront with you. Nothing to explain.
Nearly 28yo w/ lots of life experience. I can answer questions, my dudes.
>>25219496
Never go into things expecting more- no matter what happens during the "date"- and never allow yourself to develop strong feelings right off the bat.
Even if you feel like you really connected the first time, it still takes a while to genuinely get to know a person, and a lot of people put on masks to flatter partners initially but don't have the energy to keep up the charade.
Regardless, don't waste your energy dwelling on it, and don't take it personally. She's got commitment issues from the sounds of it.