People who lost their v really young: were you mentally ready? Physically?
Lost it at 14 here, if that counts as really young?
Mentally yeah I was ready. My high school was pretty sexually active. Prior to that I was completely kissless and people were kissing and making out years before. So there was a big pressure on me to get shit done because I was a fat kid so who knows when I could have got my chance.
Physically probably less so. Even though in typical teenage fashion I was glued to porn there was so much I was naive about and even worried about as far as not cumming to quickly, making her cum etc.
I don't regret doing it but I regret who it was with I guess.
15 here. Mentally I don't think I was really ready yet. I just knew he had a fantastic body and I needed to fuck him. Physically: well we enjoyed ourselves a lot so I'd say yes
I lost mine at 14? 15? I think
Although I was a horny teenager like everybody else, when it came to actual sex, I just wasn't into it. My 17 year old slut friend initiated it and I was too shy to say no. I didn't hate it though
Physically? Yeah
Well if girl on girl counts I lost it at 12. If not, 15, and yeah I was ready at both ages, kinda regret fucking girls cause they always caused so much drama after... Whatever :/
>>25189991
Idk about losing virginity but my cousin and I messed around from young ages. 5ish to about 13ish
depends how you define virginity
lost it around 9-12, don't remember
>were you mentally ready?
no
>Physically?
>no
Lost mine right after turning 15 with my friend's brother.
Physically I was ready
Mentally I wasn't ready for the consequences. He hit it & quit it, I got knocked up, miscarried.
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
I was 13 almost 14.
I was definitely ready physically.
Mentally, I definitely thought I was. She told me she couldn't get pregnant, so I came inside her the first time, and then many times after that - for about a year. I probably would not have done that had I been more mature. In any case, no kids so no problem.
I wouldn't change a thing.
>>25190000
>>25191274
if you regret who it was with you clearly weren't ready
as part of being ready, you have to have the ability to properly choose a life long parter
seeing as you chose the wrong person, you clearly weren't ready
and clearly had no clue what you were doing
>>25191099
if you didn't marry the person you chose, you obviously weren't ready
nor prepared to pick the right person
>>25191185
if you weren't into it clearly you weren't ready
>>25191297
>>25191335
>>25191396
basically everything here is prime examples why teenagers
are obviously too young to be having sex or even dating.
>>25189991
15, if that counts.
I wasn't 100% mentally ready, I was only exposed to porn from 4chan, so I didn't really know what to expect when it came to having vanilla sex.
Physically I wasn't ready because he had a huge cock and I hated my body.
Anyway, we've been dating for almost 6 years now.
>>25189991
15 y/o for me. (male btw)
mentally ready? eh, sure. i mean i used protection and discussed all the risks with my partner. i don't think she was mentally ready but she was really eager to do it. she was also 15 and it was her time as well, she seemed in a hurry to lose her virginity but idk if she knew everything that went with that desu. she ended up telling all her and my friends about my cock and i ended up getting a good deal of poon while in high school because of that, so i don't really mind that too much.
physically ready? yeah i was ready. but it's easier for a guy than for a teenage girl. no pain obviously.
desu i don't think teens should be having sex because the information and education on it is so scarce. sex is a basic component of life and i think it's fucking absurd that more isn't taught in schools on the subject. but then public schools are a sham and private schools are just more expensive shames. so how the fuck am i gonna know any better...
>>25191491
so obviously you think children should be home schooled
by illiterate parents like the 1800 and 1900's
>>25191491
>public schools are a sham and private schools are just more expensive shames
>shames
Probably true.
Graduate of 12 years of private school and 8 years at a very, very good public Uni. Plenty of sham/shame time invested there...
Regardless, in keeping with the thread, there was a lot of incest in my family, and in the families around me. First time I had my cock sucked I was 6. First time I put my cock in a girl I was 8. First time I came in a girl I was 11. None of it was violently forced, but all of it had an element of coercion to it. I would say that I was neither mentally nor physically "ready" for it, whatever that means. Some of it was really pretty hot/fun, but it did not contribute much to my normal socialization or ability to act sexually with my peers. Kinda stunted me, honestly, because I could not muster the mojo to get what I wanted from my innocent schoolgirl peers when I could easily have naked time with my sister, one of her friends or one of my neighbor girls.
Of course, I am all grown up and healthy sexually now. Heh.
>>25191274
Yeah i did a lot of lesbian stuff around that age too
Then I didnt fool around with another woman until like age 22.
I was 16 and I wish I could have lost it earlier.
Gf was 14, not sure if ready. We banged every other day for a year afterwards, though, and she always seemed real into it. No regrets.