>NEED SOME SEX ADVICE Girls of /soc/, and maybe guys if you

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>NEED SOME SEX ADVICE

Girls of /soc/, and maybe guys if you have any advice to offer.

I have a problem with getting very emotional after sex if I am unable or not allowed to cum.

I have always struggled to cum in the presence of anyone else, despite being with my partner for 7 years and us having done things with other people on multiple occasions. (basically I'm saying, we're pretty open)

I love and trust my partner and feel desire towards him, and he almost always leaves me feeling fulfilled with sex, but I have very rarely actually came from sex alone. Which I hear is normal, and often I get myself off, or he tries to help me get off (which most of the time it just makes it harder for me to do it)

I am still working on this, and being less shy in bed, and have taken great steps, but one nagging problem that I can't get any grips on is that sometimes I get very, VERY emotional if I get worked up and then cannot cum. To the point that I will leave to use the bathroom, and often have to sit and breathe for a few minutes so I don't start crying. And sometimes I do cry a little bit.

I don't understand this, and I struggle with it even though it doesn't happen often.

I like rough sex. I like my partner to be controlling in the bedroom and teaze me and deny me orgasms, and spank me. Usually this stuff turns me on like mad.

But once in a while...this shit happens.

How can I deal with this, if it's even possible. Or is it just a hormonal thing?