Return of the Weekend dom and little thread! /ddlg/ dd/lg

Is there an opposite version of this thread? New to soc

>>25067715
What do you mean opposite?

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>>25067719
Fem dom, I'm a male with a masochist/sadist kick, but id rather sub

>>25067727
There are female caregivers/doms in ddlg, as well as male littles.

====FAQ (umm.. I have a question!)====

>Q:What is /DDLG/?
DD/lg is a softer type of domination and submission. The “Daddy” plays the dominant role, acting as a sort of caregiver for the “little,” who maintains the submissive role with a more innocent, sometimes child-like nature about them. More than most other versions of the D/s pairing, DD/lg is one that focuses on nurturing, caring for, guiding, and supporting both players in the dynamic.

>Q: Do I have to be a ‘Little Girl/Boy’, do I have to call my Dom "Daddy" or “Mommy?”
A: No. “Daddy,” “Mommy,” and like terms are pet names, affectionate in nature and something that will develop naturally over time with your individual partners. These terms can make people feel uncomfortable, but feel free to use them with your partner.

>Q: Is DD/lg always sexual?
A: No. Not all caregiver / little dynamics involve sexual activity.
Some littles are comfortable with being sexual in their little personality, while others prefer to only be intimate when they are feeling more like their "adult self.” Some dominants make choose to take on a strictly non-sexual caregiver role.

DD/lg can also be MD/lb, isn't restricted to gender.

FAQ PART 2
>Q: Do I have to be older to be a Daddy / Mommy dom?
A: Age is just a number; your personality is much more relevant when determining how you will interact with any given little, although if you lack worldly experience, you may not be able to play the part as well as you might hope.

>Q: What's the difference between a sugar daddy and a DD/lg daddy?
A: A sugar daddy is an older man or woman, typically well-off, who lavishes gifts on their younger partner in exchange for sexual favors.
DD/lg is simply a subculture of the normal BDSM dom/sub relationship. Daddy, for those here, simply refers to a Dominant, while little refers to a submissive.

>Q: Do all DD/LG relationships include pacifiers, diapers? What is Age play?
A: No. This will vary based on individual tastes. These ideas stem from an interest in Ageplay, the term consenting adults use when they act or treat another as if they were older or younger than what they are, sexually or non-sexually. *Not be confused with age regression.* This is similar to “Pet Play” because you are acting, not regressing.
There is nothing wrong with being a little and and Ageplayer; while some littles like to “regress” to different ages, not all Ageplayers want diapers, pacifiers, stuffed toys, or coloring books.

>>25067734
Guess I'll hang out here, I'm bored

>>25067743
There is another femdom thread, if you're looking for something in that direction. I think ddlg really foucuses on the caregiving aspect of the relationship.

>A/S/L
22/f/ Canada
>Dom/Little/Other?
Other. I'm more of a Middle.
>Likes
Disney. Naps. Uhhh.... I guess Colouring?
>Dislikes
Pacis. Sippy cups. Diapers. like no pls. I'm not that little.

Lucy is guarding the bed. So I cant take a photo of her.

>>25067748
im good with either/or

>>25067758
Kik me
Joel.b_270

>A/S/L
29/m/southern US
>Dom/Little/Other?
Dom
>Likes
Being affectionate, providing guidance, gifting little things.
>Dislikes
Age play, diapers, sugar babies.

Really I'm just looking for an artistic insomniac to be sweet on and help through turbulent and awkward years. Can provide contact if wanted

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>>25067846
I mean. I could. but my phones plugged in and thats effort.

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This is Saurath and he's older than me and I love him

>>25067758
As a daddy/dom type, I would bond with you over your dislike of sippy cups. When I was a tot I climbed up on the counter with scissors and cut the nipples off my bottle tops. and then later because that wasn't enough, I... well actually I really failed to remove the sippy cup lids they were too strong for me. But I wanted to!

>>25069301
They're just impractical. Like if I want my drink I want my drink now.

>>25069368
what does Lucy look like?

>>25068579
this is adorable.

>A/S/L
20/m/usa
>Dom/Little/Other?
Caregiver
>Likes
Cute things, pink, plushies, cuddles, fashion cooking, and gardening
>Dislikes
diapers and people who use the word daddy quickly
>contact info
skype: saint.cas
kik: xxcasino
discord : casino#3436

>>25069368
Shut up and sit on my lap and cuddle while I pet you.

No sippycups.

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>>25069879
forgot my pic

>>25069884
>Ron Weasley wants to be a daddy dom

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Male little. Kind of shy...
Identify as a cuntboy
Looking for an older brother or a papa~
Just tell me your contact so I can talk to you.

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This is my teddy my mom got me for my 18th birthday~!

I guess it's kind of a weird present ;w;

>>25071004
kik: bennyblan.co <3

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Daddy Dom/26/Michigan

Experienced, educated, and cultured DD looking for a curious & local little girl.

Ideally looking for dark & morbid little girl. A little curious and masochistic Wednesday Adams of a little girl. Perhaps you fantasize abour deaperate & terrible things. But, ultimately--despite your masochism-- you can know I'm their for you. :)

Kik: umichguy

LITTLEPROCYONLOTOR here. I did not write that post. Some guy did. Don't contact me unless you want to pay for roleplay.

>A/S/L
42/M/NYC-based

>Dom/Little/Other?
Dom

>Likes
Photography, film, intelligent conversation, honesty, vulnerability, affection, willingness, fishnets.

>Dislike
Disingenuousness

Intelligent, wry, vgl, humane, strict, sensitive, intuitive, verbal, creative, experienced. All races, sizes, ages (over 18), levels of (in)experience, sexual preferences, kinks, fetishes welcome.

Email me at [email protected]
skype: Reddsir
tumblr: takechargedaddy

19m Toronto / Hamilton

Kind of a switch. Sometimes I like caring, sometimes I like to be cared for, but I'm not too picky.

Limits would be diapers, sippy cups, and literally acting like a child.

Kik: mybigfatkot

>>25067758
Where in Canada? What's your kik?

>>25071993
Do you only like girls or would you like boys...?

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>A/S/L
22/f/europe
>Dom/Little/Other?
I'm a little seeking a mommy. ( guys will be ignored )
>Likes
Being spoiled, getting pats and sleeping on laps. Besides that I love playing vidya.
>Dislikes
Unnecessary rudeness, people that don't respond or never have time.

Kik: mirei94
Skype: nunululu69
If you want my discord ask for it on either of those.

>>25069560
Rainbow alpaca. She's pretty cute. She has a brother named Alfie whose all blue
>>25069883
Uhhhhhhhhh
Not with that attitude
No thank

>tfw no teacher daddy
>tfw no teacher daddy fussing over my uniform
>tfw no teacher daddy making sure I write down all the fun things I learn at the aquarium or zoo or museum
>tfw no teacher daddy giving you study worksheets to do when he's not around
>tfw no teacher daddy maintaining eye contact and sloooowly rolling up his sleeves when you don't do them
>tfw no teacher daddy carrying you to bed when you fall asleep on your textbook

>>25073898
Whoops, switched perspective in the middle there.
>tfw no teacher daddy proofreading my writing
>tfw no teacher daddy showering me with praise for good writing
>tfw no teacher daddy giving frank criticism while holding me on his lap so I don't feel bad

>ASL?

29 / Trans MtF / Hollywood

>Dom/Little/Other?

Switch/middle. Like to be Mommy, like to be little. Don't need to be both with any one person.

>Likes

Giving and/or receiving comfort/therapy through "role play." Sexualizing it is cool with me, but not necessary.

Curious about everything, down for most things.

>Dislikes

Cis men. Total lesbo over here.

Kik: OceansOfNoise

46 Daddy Dom looking for his lg... prefer middle.

Dislikes: diapers, scat,

Loves: dress up, cuddles, hugs, and care for my princess.

Kik: hotsexydaddy46

f/us
discord: Ashu#5855
im cancerous lil

>A/S/L
24/mWI
>Dom/Little/Other?
Dom
>Likes
Bondage, Spanking, Facefucking, Anal, Public play, Teasing, girls, traps...open to pretty much anything
>Dislikes
blood/piss/scat/ect,

Skype: servantofbastet
sc: boringtriangle
Kik: pa130

>>25073898
>>25073903
>tfw no student little to guide and teach
>tfw no student little to discipline over not doing her homework
>tfw no student little to give me papers to grade and put big stickers on

19/female/USA
Small and cute :)
I prefer fit, handsome, and hairy men. Established careers are nice but my standards are rather high...
I'm also into women and would be willing to talk to mommies
I have KiK and Skype. If you post yours I'll reach out to you

>>25074993
So you're looking for sugar daddies

>>25075007
Not even slightly.

>>25074993
jakeyboy151 I meet your criteria...hmu

>>25075007
There's a difference between wanting a guy who can take care of himself and a sugar daddy. Probably just trying to avoid closeted NEET teenagers who like to pretend they're dominant.

>>25074993
What the hell, worth a shot. Kik is doppeldea

>>25075075
> Probably just trying to avoid closeted NEET teenagers who like to pretend they're dominant.

Pretty much this.

Same people who assume sugar daddies, etc.

You can't expect a closeted NEET to have a semblance over their life or be a stable individual, so it's nothing wrong for the smol to ask for someone who can actually provide stability.

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>>25076082
>for the smol
Why though.

>>25075007
The money's not the important part. What's important is that the guy has his life in order. A college professor or a small business owner is better Daddy material than a frat boy with a trust fund.

>>25067849
You sound fun but then you don't give your kik

Tsk tsk

>>25077805
ACCURATE

>>25077170
Unbalanced individual can be jealous, maybe someone likes that but they need friends too.

Daddies are supposed to serve their littles anyway, even when they are punishing the littles.

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>tfw not the tiny cute white girl with the flat chest and long hair that all daddies want

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Kik: veryshy666


>A/S/L
23/female/uk
>Dom/Little/Other?
Submissive. I don't know about the whole little thing, but hey, who doesn't like cute stuff? I'll try anything once, but only for the right guy ; o
>Likes
People who can spell properly. Older guys. The older the better. BDSM. Weird cults. Vidya, stuffy old books and kooky conspiracy theories.
>Dislikes
People who are too pushy about nudes. Or those who don't acknowledge that I have a life outside of kik and can't text back straight away -___-

I'm chubby. Just a heads up. Not obese or anything just on the cusp of overweight. My BMI is 25 ish. I have small breasts and a pear shape.

>>25078051
Not so for me. But yeah, in general, this seems to be the case. It's their loss - trite but true.

>>25078051
Well I think you're pretty cute. A healthy weight or a shorter height is attractive in general, but DDs who demand the little blonde minx are asking too much. They like the idea of ddlg rather than the actual dynamic.

>>25078051
No. Not all daddies want that. and no matter how little and sweet you are, confidence is the greatest gift. I love all little, sweet girls, because that's who they are.

Though admittedly I'm pickier about which one I want to be MINE.

And fuck society for having a problem with your hair it's beautiful.

>>25078029
I didn't take issue with what you were saying, just with the phrase "for the smol." It's cringey.

I agree that NEETs make shitty daddies.

>>25079564
Feeling 'cringe' is insecurity. Ideally, fix it. smol babs r cutiepies 2 and I have no problem expressing that.

Not that I wanna come across as a jerk.

>>25079569
I was just saying that the phrase "for the smol" is a little secondhand embarrassment-y. There's no need to fix any security, as I am small and petite and cute.

Didn't meant to start an argument.

>>25079614
No, I get it. and I was saying my perspective on embarrassment. Not that it's not natural, and cute, and potentially triggers my protective desires.

I like that you were reasonable. <3

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For my bumping contribution, I shall post not only Francisco my stuffie who sits on his throne above all over the other stuffies, but his stuffie aptly named Poop because of an inside joke.

... and I almost forgot to attach the picture. gg me

>>25080606
dats adorbs. Cherish his smile.

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Even Daddies have friends.

>>25081300
Poop's or Francisco's? (on my computer now)

Saving this for no good reason, really. My ideal little ghosted.

>>25083813
They always do.

>>25082115
both sure why not

>>25083813
Same thiing happened to someone I thought was my ideal daddy. It means they weren't that great from the start.

>>25085262
I mean I guess, in a broad way (because disappearing without contact isn't ideal), but still. She ticked off all my checkboxes. Such is life, sorry about your luck.

Tfw all I really want is a princess to sing latin to

22/m/Ontario Canada
Calling everyone living in cities with colleges in Canada!
I am looking for a parental figure in my life, male or female. I am an engineering student struggling with college and I need help. I lack self discipline, and need someone to help me in this area. I do well in courses where everything has to be done in class, but as soon as I am given a project, I procrastinate, I slack off until the last minute and then do a 2 week project in 3 hours. In some classes I get marks in the nineties, while in others I barely pass. I need to live with someone who can control my life and keep me on task. I am confident I could make it in university if I wasn't such a slacker.

The exact dynamic of our relationship is entirely negotiable, I am fairly open minded. A sexual/romantic component to the relationship is desirable but not necessary. If someone could help me through school by helicopter parenting me, I could support them financially afterwards in return.
Kik: Mjgci

Ours is pretty chill join if you want https://discord.gg/yxCMs

>>25086894
I didn't join, but this doesn't seem like a ddlg server at all. :/

>>25067692
>A/S/L
18/F/UK
>Dom/Little/Other?
Little
>Likes
Age play, being affectionate (non-lewd pls)
>Dislikes
Daddies that are *too* bossy, sex-obsessed people

Reply with your kik, I'll add you uwu

Hey, guys! I'm gay and I'm rather bored with the sexual component of BDSM interactions. So I do find this thread very interesting however it seems that mostly women and straight guys are interested in this sort of thing.

Anyone with some experience in the BDSM community or gay people care to inform me whether this can be achieved with guys to or are they strictly interested in fucking?

>>25088906
Yeah, this is totally a dynamic you can have between two guys since it's just a caregiver type relationship. The trick is really finding someone who fits you. Plenty of male littles our there who are at the least heteroflexible, and there are Daddy Doms out there who are looking for little boys too.

Is Princess Tease lurking?

It's snuggle bot. I just want to know that you're ok?

>>25089496
Heteroflexible, absolutely. A little wants to feel little. The more they want it, the more open they are. The really, really devoted ones are basically 90% bi even if they've never had the chance to realize it.

>>25088747
Kik me at rnddnm
45 m UK very affectionate and ashamed of the lewd

>>25088906
Bi little here, had an extremely chaste relationship with a gay Daddy. I wasn't super big on sex and he respected it, while still being extremely supportive of my little lifestyle.

So in a nutshell, yes it's possible. As >>25089496 mentioned, you just need to find someone that fits you.

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>A/S/L
My real age is 19 my little age is about 6 I'm a girl and I'm in jersey

>Dom/Little/Other?
I'm a little im kinda brat but it's cause I love you and think it's funny

>Likes story time, watching Sofia the first, my little pony, dragon tales, video games, bath time, dresses, animals, cooking, playdoh, slime, cuddles, coloring :3

>Dislikes mean people, diapers, not fond of pain, or name calling in mean ways or getting called princess or baby when idk you, or fake daddies.

I'm pretty lonely I like talking on the phone so if u do that I love u forever. I love my stuffies the two in the picture is Gregory he's a dinosaur and lemie he's the llama :3 of you want to talk just send me ur kik and I'll message you :3 I don't wanna post it

>>25078051
I love dark skin, it's exotic as fuck! :) very sexy, I'm a daddy that would love to have you.

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I'm a little. I like to talk to and follow Littles on Tumblr. Opalcocoon.tumblr.com is mine. My real age is 28.

>>25074993
regalst

>>25067758
what are you feelings on the subject of pajamas?

>>25071838
like a cynic i image-searched this, and i suggest nobody else make the same mistake, because the 'visually similar images' are all goddam disturbing

which is weird because it's such a cute picture.

>>25090567
omg they're so creepy!!!
aaaaa

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>A/S/L
29/m/california
>Dom/Little/Other?
Daddy Dom
>Likes
gaming, reading, going on drives and hiking. Cute girl girls , pastel princess, nerdy activities
>Dislikes
super brats, annoying people, rude people

Just a daddy dom looking for a cute little to game with and have fun. Someone who wants something serious and not just a fling. PC gaming is a plus , esp if you play overwatch or wanna teach this old dude how to play LoL

hit me up!

skype:evldcky1
kik:mcboots
discord: Boots#8251

>>25078051
Carly you're adorable so dont worry about that shit. Also aren't you dating someone already?

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24/M/CA

Dom

I like cooking and doing diy projects as well as work on my art and on lazy days cuddle up and watch movies or MST3K

I'm dislike littles that try to be the doms, just a preference I don't like to switch, consistency is nice lol

kik:profoaks
pic is my doggo

Bumped, be sure to join the Discord!

>>25091739
Last minute saaaaave from page 10

How do you get someone back into this when their ex totally fucked them up? I like a guy and want him to be my daddy or at least be able to call him daddy but his ex did that and now he shys away from it.

>>25093548
I feel like it would be best to ease him into it... The dynamic is ruined if it feels at all forced.

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Male/20's/US
Tall, athletic build, baby face, tattoos I play music and I'm in college. Wouldnt mind a little at all. Im very affectionate. kik is S_sagara hit me up any time.

>>25090131
I'm from NJ, but not there currently. HMU tho, kik is doppeldea

>>25093548
Could try other names like Sir, Mister or Master. This is a BDSM dynamic after all, the words matter less than the actions behind them.

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cutest GIF coming through.
Gets me right in my gut. unf.

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Here's my 6 foot tall teddy bear Steve.

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Timmy the sloth, Henrietta the hippo, peter the frog, Mr T(Rex) my pastel alpaca Pastel Alpaca, and Baldy.

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>>25093988
>>25093991

>Tfw my daddy's better than yours

21/M/Hong Kong

Dom, looking for all kinds of littles.

I’m not going to be a poser and pretend that I am very experienced, or guarantee that I will be perfect, but I am sure that if the connection is right, this might turn out to be a pretty unique experience.

Please reply with your Kik and I will add you. I may need a pic to prove your identity.

Шyхep!
This man is Chineski Shpion
watch your back, this is a trap.

>>25094843
You sure are pretty confident that a female is going to respond with her contact. Don't think that's how things work around here buddy. :^)

>>25096456
Thanks for your input buddy but I don’t need it ;) Why don’t you show me how successful you are?

>>25090131
23/m/nj

Justafunguyhere is my kik

>>25096706
Don't need to kiddo. I don't even have to be to know that no little is going to expose her contact for every mouthbreather internet "dom" to find. They're especially not going to do it for a young moron who doesn't even have enough experience to know that much. Grow up a bit, gain some real life experience, maybe you'll learn something.

>>25096706
Honestly, your best bet is to make a post that describes you and what you're looking for and provide your own contact info and see what comes from it. The females who post their info get swamped and it's difficult to have any kind of meaningful connection, while there's a lot of girls who are lurking and interested but want something more than a couple lines about you.

>>25096720
Fair - only you sounded like you were taking the piss in your previous post.

What’s your experience been of this? Is it lots of work?

>>25096818
You're responsible for the emotional, moral, and physical wellbeing of whatever girl you take on. If your email worried about how much work you have to do, you really aren't anywhere near ready for this.

>>25096841
Wow, missed that autocorrect gem. If you're worried, not if your email worried.

>>25096854
What’s the best way to get “ready” then?

>>25097169
Overwhelming confidence worked for me. I don't know what the fuck the deal would be for anyone else.

>>25097169
Like I said, grow up a bit. You'll be ready when you have some life experience to to actually provide the care you need to give. So grow up, maybe stick to basic D/s relationships if you want to keep your dom side up, and gain some basic experience at being a grown ass man. 21 tends to be too young for the time sort of thing.

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New onesie. Also save the "pictures are dangerous Wah. Have you got permission to post here" shit from last thread

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>>25097319
And my faves. Not a fan of the word stuffies desu

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>>25097323
Nearly forgot my other fave

>>25090131
Hey, I'm 22 M from New Jersey too. (:
My Kik is "ADeviousdeviant"