Hey guys, im feeling kinda sad and i have to ask you all a question.

>>25066624
wanna kik?

>>25066624
He sees how has broken your trust and how much this hurts you, yet he says he'll "try to not do it anymore". If he really loved you, he would have either not done it in the first place, or felt so guilty and horrible that he would do anything for your trust back and guarantee it would never happen again.

I think that everyone thinks about/fantasizes about other people, in dreams or by watching porn or whatever, but if you really love someone then the idea of actually carrying out those desires makes you feel sick inside.
I still watch porn and think people are hot, but when I think about actually initiating or trading nudes or something behind my partner's back, I feel so awful that I couldn't do it.
Maybe it's not like that for other people, but that's how I know whether or not I really love someone. It's one thing to "try" to be faithful, and it's another thing to want to be faithful.

>>25066642
What for?

>>25066685
Apparently he is kinda mad at me for making this a big deal, he dont understand why affects me this much, and im "worning out" the relationshio by acting like this. I feel sad, really sad about all of this, especially the fact that he doesnt realize what he did wrong, he tries to justify himself and make me look like im overreacting.

>>25066689
I would never be mad for him looking at porn, or watching a hot guy, i mean, we are all humans and he's not cheating on me by appreciating another guys looks. But there is a big leap between that and dirty talking and asking for nudesl from people that are into him. I know that if i was the one doing that, he would flip so fucking hard, but apparently im exagerating.

>>25066736
Yeah that's what I'm saying
Like porn and hot guys are harmless, but actually taking the step to exchange nudes is what makes it unfaithful imo

>>25066736
Yeah, he's a shitty partner and you deserve better. He doesn't even care how you feel. He knows it was wrong but is pretending he doesn't and turning it around on you to make you the bad guy. He's the one cheating

>>25066859
I just want anhonest apology from him, i want to be sure he really knows he was wrong. But when he said sorry he said "i dont understand what its such a big deal to you, why does it affect you this much?" so that basically ruined it.

>>25066624
Fidelity and monogamy are not normal among male homosexuals. (This is a feature not a bug.) He's probably having sex with other men. The best thing would be for you to accept this and have sex with other men as well.

Well....i dont know what to do. We fought real bad, he says "sorry" and that i have to "get over it" because im overreacting, so hes not really sorry.

If you're not okay with it, tell him. If he's talking to other people that way and you aren't okay with it, that's cheating. Dump him and move on. You can do better.

>>25066624
A gay man will never be a faithful companion...even you