Hi /soc/. Basics over with Just dulled out of life. I Only reason i have to get up in the morning is (after-college) the pseudo-achivement (debatable, i know and Im midway) as a person, through playing video games. As much as I've distanced myself from the society (no friends whatsoever since rejecting social gatherings and their discussions arent on the same level) Yet, despite my life of solitude and general 'fuck people' there are many intermittent seconds where I just want a warm hug without predisposition. From a complete or a near-complete stranger. Is this just nostalgia that will pass? Asking fellows with similar situations. Thx!
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So bitter
I am in the same situation but for me it's that around my friends I lose control of who I am which leads me to feel drained and sometimes cause they care too much or sometimes they don't understand I want time to be alone....eitherway I find that for me I miss the hug from one certain person not everyone but he is gone so since I know that the feeling has been getting less occupying my mind though I have been more concerned about being an adult and responsible so as long as you have more stuff to focus on that can push those thoughts but if you are stressed and need someone to feel less anxious I suggest maybe a therapist or someone that will help with that I remember once i was so stressed out I vented to a random taxi driver.i was too upset to notice if he was listening but it helped...Anyway as long as you feel okay being alone and life isn't stressful from my current experiance yes it gets easier to not want another human being
Sorry this was too long
Good luck
I understand this feeling all too well. I used to play video games, but im so burnt out on them. I basically do nothing but sit on my ass and listen to music all day when im off work.
Im an introvert, but now i just want physical contact too. I cant remember the last human ive hugged. I cant say whether this will pass, but only time will tell.