Virgin thread >asl >Why? >Are you ok with it? Also

22/m/socal

Because I have low self esteem, and whenever I look for women, I dont want some girl who is shallow or only focuses on their looks. I want someone who can genuinely I can hold a conversation with, Without resorting to typical small talk or observations.

Im not okay with it. I hate being lonley. At the same time, I don't even know what I would do if i actually got a girlfriend, and sex no less.

May as well post in my own thread

>21/M/UK
>Lack of social skills until like my second year of University (so like 19), now I just haven't met the right girl.
>I'm content since I've come close enough to know its only a matter of time. It'd be nice to stop having to lie ab out it when people ask though.

>>25016443
22/male/Boise, Idaho
I would love to lose my virginity.
Kik: ayylmaopokey

>>25016501
Kik if anyone wants it:
Gmbox

>>25016443
>20/m/midwest USA
>by choice, waiting for a meaningful relationship/marriage
>of course, given my reasons

>a/s/l
25/m/Europe
>Why are you still a virgin?
Never had a girlfriend and I have no idea where I'm supposed to meet decent women. I don't go out much and don't have any friends in real life, so chances of meeting single women are just very slim.
I don't believe in casual sex and have in fact turned it down in the past. By that definition I'm a 'virgin by choice'.
>Kissless?
Yes
>Hold hands?
No
>Made out?
No
>Do you masturbate?
Yes, once a week.
>What gets you off?
Just talking to women or listening to erotic audio. Sometimes I'll get off to something posted on /soc/, usually videos. I don't watch pornography and don't have any specific fetishes.
>What would your ideal first sex-partner be like?
I want her to be a virgin with an intact hymen that I'm in a loving relationship with, possibly wife-material. I don't have any interest in dating a non-virgin girl. I just don't see the point of doing so, for me.
>Pic
I'd rather not, but I'm good looking.
>Contact
If people are interested.

>>25016542
None of those questions were asked but I appreciate your initiative!

18/M/Canada
Previous gfs weren't ready, a tad fat and not that attractive (also small dicked)

I'm not okay with it, when I was about other get down to it, girl laughed at dick size and it ended there because I was a bit too hurt to get back to it although she was still willing to try.

>>25016548

Just pasting from a thread we had in January. I hope it's okay :D

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Danny's on sc

35/m/GA
I have a job with a schedule that makes it hard to meet people. Also I'm too much of a gentleman and I don't know many people. I like to talk too... Maybe abit too much. I'm not OK with it and want to loose it but would rather just find one girl to be with but I guess I would just do it if I got the chance because I'm really curious about sex. Ideally I would like to find a female virgin and learn about sex together but it's probably not possible.
Skype- live: jmdavies_5

20/m/MA

Just dunno how to talk to people. Low self esteem as well. Not much of a personality, don't have hobbies or interests, etc. Nothing to connect with.

Sort of I guess. It's something to work on. Irritating to talk about irl though.

>>25016575
OMG dawnnybb

21/f/europe.

I look pretty methinks but im too shy and socially awkward to go out and meet people. I feel uncomfortable real quick.

Have made out a few times before but never met anyone that i went all the way with. I also dont drink.

It sucks.

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>>25016443
22/M/Chicago
Never had a gf, barely had any friends, spent the last 4 years or so in isolation at uni
Moved far away from everyone I knew and it turns out the city is shit, no one cares about anyone else
even the girls on tinder and OKC are picky as fuck here since there are so many models and rich kids

>>25017518
Where in europe? Got kik?
Kik me up: Lassteskrachen

>>25017518
>Have made out a few times before

You can't have been too uncomfortable if that happened. You still have to meet people in order for that to happen, and apparently you don't have any problems meeting folks you can kiss.
I'd be interested to hear more from you. Are there any other reasons you feel that are preventing you from meeting someone special? Not drinking is a big plus in my book by the way. Good job on that!

23/m/Europe

Fell in love with person who didn't love me, and it took years to get over agony and depression that followed. Decided that I'll never try to make first move again as I expect too much and can't handle rejection well. Sex is interesting to me only within context of romantic relationship.

Yes. I'm upset but only because it's extremely hard to find the right person when too many people want only sex. And when you look good people think it's weird that you're a virgin guy who keeps his virginity.

19 / male / htown

Idk probably because of social anxiety plus I never really developed social skills to begin with

I'm ok with it because I don't mind saving it for someone special I can connect with. I'm waiting for someone I like as a person and not necessarily someone I find physically attractive

>>25017518
25/m what you're describing is basically me - from europe too. hit me up. kik: timzim5

>asl
32 m virgin los angeles
>Why?
fate? certainly not intentional
>Are you ok with it?
no id want it gone

kik: zsasza

>>asl
20/M/Eu

>>Why
Im suspecting im a schizoid. I cant really be bothered to do anything, sometimes i get horny but by the time i would do anything im just meh...

I dont really like talking to people for longer periods and im very straightforward. The few dates i had happened with girls i asked out, who I didnt even talk to beforehand just told them they are cute and if they want to have a coffee with me.

Im not kissless, have done a few things with girls who vere very straightforward

Yesterday i posted to a rate thread and got mostly 7+, so i cant be that bad looking.

>>Are you ok w it?
I would like to lose it. Im thinking about trying online dating

24/m/va heteroflexible (ie trap/trans etc welcome)
not really. kissless too.
always tried long distance, always met with failure irl. trying a lot of dating sits now, and it's hard.
kik whoadudenoway

>>25016443
>>asl
29/m/ct
>>Why?
shut in social autist and probably a creep
>>Are you ok with it?
no, it's fucking embarrassing

22/M/RI
I'm not good with people.
It doesn't really bother me too much, but I'd like to try it once just to see why it's such a big deal for some people.
It weirds me out to think that sex is central to so many peoples' lives and I barely even know what it's all about. I'm not sure I'd know what to do if I ever got offered sex.

>>25016443
>be me, 19, kv
>meet chick at dance club, get her number, date next week
>she's total slut, but senses i'm a strong male virgin and acts all submissive and proper
>tfw we just finger and hj each other for 9 months while she's aching for my cock inside her but I was too scared of STDs and pregnacy and burning in hell

did'nt actually lose v until 25 when i got married to another v, was rough going but super hot now

>asl
22,m,oh
>Why?
Haven't made a solid try at losing it and not looking to fuck some fat pig
>Are you ok with it?
Yes and no. I could give two shits less, but I have a hidden hatred because I feel like I'm branded.

19 f Columbus OH
I don't get approached by guys, I consider myself unattractive and I guess they do too. I have a very round stomach and look pregnant. Never been kissed.

>>25022355
I'm very bothered by it, personally. I feel like plenty of my friends and many girls my age receive positive attention. I just get told I look like a whore on the bus.ha.

>>25022360
>I just get told I look like a whore on the bus.ha.

Ehrm, what!? That's a little hard to believe. Without knowing what you look like it's a bit hard to think you'd get verbally abused like that.
I hope that you're exaggerating and that you are secretly a very beautiful girl that just goes unnoticed by most people. You might even have some time left to blossom; you're only 19 after all. Don't let this get you down. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age.

>>25022368
Sometimes I'll get bold and wear darker lipstick. I have no reason to lie about the comments I get.

>>25022387

You should try working on loving your own body. You said that you feel unattractive, and most guys sense that. It's perfectly okay to have some insecurities, but finding your entire body unattractive is a bit of a red flag.
What are some of your defining physical features? Do you go to college or university? Just trying to get a better picture of your situation.

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>>25022401
I'm at university. I'm 33-28-33. I have no hips, a very round stomach, small breasts, a double chin, and acne. It's not just how I feel, it's how I've been made to feel, always being called fat and ugly. Now I see it being backed up on the daily that despite my social nature, I am never approached.
This photo is with my stomach sucked in entirely. Why would a guy pick me when he has skinny white girls everywhere.

>>25022422

For what it's worth: you have a lovely back side and some nice legs. The other parts which you don't feel very satisfied with can be worked on by adopting a more active lifestyle and eating better. I wouldn't worry about the size of your chest either, because they certainly look ample to me.
I can only say that you shouldn't feel bad for the way you look. In the long run you need to work on being more happy and feeling better about yourself and your body. That's more important than finding a partner, in my opinion. I do want to thank you for sharing a picture. That's brave, certainly in a thread like this.

>>25016443
22/M/Denmark

I guess i had several opportunities, but I easily feel like im out of my comfortzone and I guess I am afraid to get rejected. So in my teen years, I just kind of waited for it to happen, and it didn't and now I feel like I'm too inexperienced not only in the actual intercourse-part but in the entire hooking-up thing. I feel like I don't know HOW to create a romantic relation to someone, and I am afraid of making a fool of myself.

I am not okay with this, and I feel like it is stopping me from moving on with my life. I litterally can't think of any other problems in my life than being a virgin. I feel flawed and embarrased and I am even afraid of having sex beccause of it.


Recently a friend of mine got a new roomie who's this very cute girl. We've partied together 2-3 times, and I think she may be into me. Now - however - because of my doubt I don't know whether I should invite her to a concert im going to tonight, because I'm afraid of coming off too strongly. What if I misunderstood? How do I clear it out ?


This is all so shitty.

>>25022422
Because you have a beautiful big ass. Suggestion - don't wait for a guy to pick you up. Pick up a guy

18/f/eu
I'm really shy, have social anxiety and live in a very small town. I was sexually abused as a child and never told anyone about it until recently.

I'm not okay with it. I know I could easily have sex with pretty much anyone, I just don't know how to talk to people.

>>25022824
I'm sorry to hear that. It can be hard talking to people sometimes

>>25022422
you are very attractive I don't think you are fat or ugly can you show a few more pics I would love to approach you and see what would happen

22/F/FL
I'm a virgin because I really want a serious and meaningful relationship. I'm not interested in casual hookups, FWB, one night stands, etc at all. I also wouldn't want to have actual sex until we're married and ready to have kids. I believe that's probably a deal breaker for any guy. I have messed up fetishes too which doesn't help my case.

>>25022934
What messed up. fetishes?

>>25022824
which part of Europe?

19/m/UK

>why
Girls rarely approach me, and I'm not really interested in them. It might be quite a wanky thing to say, but I think I'm a bit more mature than most people my age, so the women I do like are quite a bit older.

>are you okay with it
I don't know what I'm missing, so it doesn't worry me. I've started going to the gym, and I got a job recently, so life in general is looking good. No point being sad about one tiny aspect of life.

literally copypasting from the tfwnogf thread

21/m/aus

Look, at the moment, no matter what I try, it looks like nothing is working. I think I might just leave it alone because apparently something will fall into place. One time, the girl was crazy. Another time, the girl moved away to another country. I just don't think a relationship is for me at this point if shit like this keeps happening. Never had a girlfriend or sex and it doesn't look like it's going to happen anytime soon.

>>25022939
Femdom. Things like face-sitting, having my feet touched or licked, bondage, spanking, pegging if they're comfortable enough with it. I guess it's not that crazy, but doing those things exclusively with no penetrative sex would probably disgust most guys. But the thought of doing all those things to a guy makes me really excited, way more than anything else.
The main thing is I have a small stature and am reserved in real life, so I think I wouldn't attract submissive guys like women who are taller and more boisterous.

>>25022998
I think the hardest part would be finding someone who simultaneously was into femdom AND also into abstinence, those are like polar opposites lol

>>25022934

Where in FL are you? Do you have a Kik to chat?

>>25023096
Central Florida. No I don't have kik. Do you have Skype or something?

>>25023112

Same here. Yeah I do. Post yours? I can't remember my skype just maybe the email for it lol

>>25023120
Do you mind sending me a mail at [email protected]? I'll send you my Skype through there.

>>25023124

Sure thing. I just emailed you.

>asl
25/f/uk
>why?
quiet, fat, black (dark-skinned), weird, saving myself for a virgin that likes acid, rymcore, and gardening. zero interest in a "stay inside and watch anime/play vidya all day" relationship and all the boys I've known who would go near a weird quiet frumpy girl seem to want that.
>Are you ok with it?
not sure

>>25017518
don't know where you are but i'm in europe too maybe we can get to know each other i also don't drink
kik: marco_willi

>>25022824
If you want we can talk a bit :) where are you from?

>asl
17/f/US
>Why?
I'm not really interested in losing in while I'm still in school desu. I thought about it plenty of times, but I'm not ready for it yet; Plus, some people kinda suck so..
>Are you okay with it?
Yeah, it's not such a big deal to me.

>>25023444
underage b& trips

>>25023149
Whereabouts in the uk? What is rymcore?

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>>25023444
Would you consider losing it to a black man?

>>25022727
I hear ya. I have a hard time working out.
>>25022781
It just seems so bold
>>25022842
Haha no more pictures

19/m/straight/nj

Kv here. With each passing year, I have less faith that I'll lose it.

>>25022422
Kek bro stop playing with virgin cun heart
Troll level heaven

>asl
26 male 562 LA

>Why?
Fate and the fact that I'm fat still 6'4 but yeah mainly the fat thing

>Are you ok with it?
Not really but what else can I do

If any femanon would like to help my case in the 562 are I'll be more than welcome to comply
Kik and Skype is wallace1090

>>25023523 #

I just said I wasn't interested in losing it rn with anyone lol..probably not with weirdos like you.

>>25023926
I didn't say right now, did I, you stupid cunt?

>>25023859
What?