Feels/Advice Thread
I really messed up. I was dating one of my best friends and we broke up. It was fine because I just cared about her as a person but... I ended up losing control emotionally and came off as manipulative in some of the things I said. Now she says we can't be friends. She can respect me as a person but being friends wouldn't be healthy.
It hurt a bit to lose a girlfriend. But it really hurts more to lose a whole person.
I dont know what to do guys.
If we're going to help you you have to tell us what you said.
>>24987406
When we broke up I said:
>It's all my fault
>everyone leaves me for the same reason
>I'm not gonna hurt myself don't worry
I actually meant that. I just didn't want her to worry.
Later on I found out that when we broke up she thought I was ending it. But really I thought she was ending it. So basically we both gsve up snd let it happen.
Last night.
>things won't be goody goody anon. I'm still really upset at you.
>I'm sorry (I'll call her J) I just lost control of my emotions and said awful things.
>but what did you want out of It? Sex or were you trying to guilt me into a relationship?
>no I just. I didn't want to lose you but I realized that I was being selfish.
>J: I keep trying but I dont think we can be friends.
>are you sure? We can't try?
>anon stop.
>Okay. I'm sorry.
Well i think she's overreacting a tad but it's her prerogative if she doesn't want to be friends. That said i think she may change her mind if you let it be. Either way don't beat yourself up and move forward.
-a femanon
>>24987426
Yeah. I suppose I can only hope she forgives me. She has trouble letting go of emotions. So If if she's angry, she's angry for a while.
I'll just wait. Thank You.