/tind/ - Tinder General Previous hit bump limit. Post anything

What's your age, age range and distance set to? Just curious to see what "rules" people have. Maybe what country you're from too. Obviously somebody like me in rural England is going to have a much smaller pool than somebody from NYC.

I'm 27, age range is 24-30. Distance 50 miles. I've run out of people on multiple occasions.

>tfw getting overnight matches
I can never get a response on these since they match at 3am and I don't wake up to send anything back until 11

>>24917938
I'm 20, live in Los Angeles and go to one of the two major universities in the city
Age range is 18-22
Distance of 5 miles

>>24917968
I'm jealous. I set mine to five miles to see who was local and there were three people. Utterly ridiculous.

Rural England is rubbish for dating.

>>24917938

I often wonder this too
I'm at 5 mile radius
18-24

The weird thing is, I moved 30 minutes outside Boston and there's no one to swipe. In my old (smaller) city I never ran out of people.

Maybe Tinder has just fucked with the algorithm

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Can't figure out what's wrong and people in the other threads have no advice
Dunno why I can't get matches, even with paying for a boost and not even any ugly girls

Oh shit, lads. In the last thread I asked about not hearing back from a girl. She responded! Because the app is buggy as fuck I'm thinking of offering my number. Should I? Or should I ask for hers?

>>24918172
welcome to being a guy buddy.

ive been matched with 3 people.

1 i didnt say anything too for a few hours so she unmatched, another i talked to for a bit and now she wont respond, and another pretty much instantly unmatched.

i dont blame em desu my only interests are board games and my pictures show me being a manlet and video games. so these girls arent exactly my "type"

>>24917972
lmao im not rural but i live close to rural so i always get girls who ride horses at like 10 miles.

>>24918194
Post conversation
if it's going somewhere I'd say yes

>>24918227
It's a tad rigid, but we have a lot of shared interests. I do feel that my preference for offline conversations is making it worse though. I might loosen up a bit just to get things going again. I prefer to discuss myself in person so I think that's why I'm being reserved. The fact she got back to me after a couple of days is positive though.

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Do grils look favorably at pictures of dudes with babies or pets that aren't dogs?

>>24918261
no and no

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Just joined a few days ago so I'm pretty new to this and would appreciate any advice for improvement. Also I'm trying to put some more pictures in but I'm not sure what kind of picture are the best.

Thanks!

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>>24918610

Also here is my bio

>>24918582
But why? It's not my kid and cats are cute

>>24918261
I actually have a pic with a baby tiger and girls love it !

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Revamped profile. Thoughts? I'm working on getting a picture with a dog (difficult hecause I don't own one) and a geoup picture where I don't look completely retarded (difficult because I'm an autist)

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>>24918844
Here's the bio.
Is that too cringey? Honestly not sure.

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Am I decent looking enough to send pic related as an opener? I'm just here to eat pussy.

You guys would be lost without me

>>24918844
How many matches are you currently getting? If you're getting a decent amount, keep #1 as your main picture, move #4 to #2 spot and delete the third picture. If your not getting alot, make the 4th picture your main pic. Also you really need to change that bio girls wont give a fuck about that they'll give up figuring out the joke in 2 seconds and left swipe. Keep the first sentence, but then after that delete the next paragraph and add in your height if your tall and add something that would intrigue girls

>>24918969
nonono never open with a picture especially when you dont look like you go to the gym

>>24918610
dont get offended at anything im gonna say but you look like a passive bitch who cant give a girl a good fucking. you look young and you gotta start lifting weights imo. also change your haircut and get contacts ( or if you cant do that get a different frame with different lenses that suit your face) also dont mention you like video games and get rid of the first paragraph completely. maybe keep a reference to sports, but its gotta be more specific

>>24918261
dont have pictures of babies at all ever and dogs are fine. overall your profile is pretty good

>>24918172
check your settings maybe you have it set so people cant see you when they're swiping people. whats in your bio btw? your a good looking guy so i cant imagine its your face. do you live somewhere rural?

>>24919042
So what should be my angle? I'm literally just trying to eat carpet here. I'm working with like 3-4 matches/day

>>24918861

the sun is fusion you tryhard fucktard

>>24919050
imo if your getting matches that means your decent looking. it shouldnt be hard to just flirt the girl up and set up a time for sex. if shes wasting your time move on to one of the other 3 girls you matched with in the day

>>24919060
I'm fairly attractive but I have a serious case of autism.

>>24919060
get experience flirting just keep talking to girls everyday and soon you'll know what to say and how to say it and how to flirt.

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ok whats my deal.

my last round of tindering i got shit for matches. like 1 decent QT and she was an hour away.

I have money, 6'1, nice car, cool job, masters, etc... I cannot attract a non-fatty or slob for the life of me.

Am I just completely unaware of how unattractive I am? Its the only thing it could be. All evidence points to my being fugly. Give it to me straight, sosh.

>>24919042
>check your settings maybe you have it set so people cant see you when they're swiping people
You have to be visible if youre swiping, and unless something changed recently, if you've liked someone, you will show up for them as an option to swipe regardless if you have settings set to not show you on tinder. That setting just prevents people from seeing you floating out there naturally.

t. me because i always swipe a ton and then set my profile to invisible so fatties and uggos I know, or past tinder flings, cant see Im on or back on tinder. I still get matches while invisible*

though I havent gotten shit on my previous round of tinder... actually since boost became a thing... so I dunno, they might have changed that.

>>24919042
>How many matches are you currently getting?
I'd say I'm getting a pretty decent number of matches. I've gotten 19 matches in ~24 hours, which I think is pretty good. I'm also being picky about who I swipe right on.

>height
This is actually something I've wondered about. I'm 5'5.
I met up with a date this afternoon, and she said something to the effect of "huh, I thought you'd be taller". This is the second time that's happened. Should I list my height, just so I don't have to deal with this?

>>24919127
Don't list your height

>>24919093
Not unattractive, but that car pic and ass shot might not be the best for this.

>>24919127
normally height doesnt really matter if your 5'9" or taller but 5'5" will kinda hurt you. if you put it down girls will be put off but if you dont put it and girls find out in person and dont like it, it might get ugly. Also, how many of these girls that you match with do you talk to? And how old are you?

>>24919142
21. I've been working my way through the list, it's kind of exhausting for me to be talking with 7 different girls all day

>>24919137
>might not be the best for this
what would it be best for if not this?

I've actually gotten the most comments/compliments off the butt shot lol i figured its less obvious than a shirtless selfie.

then again what i definitely dont want to do is put a pic there that 2 girls are into and 98 arent

as far as the car goes... why wouldnt i want to put a pic of a nice car?

>>24919162
>I've actually gotten the most comments/compliments
all coming from like 3 or 4 rounds of tinder ago

(I do a round every 3 or 4 months, so that was at least last aug or so)

its part of why im perplexed why my matches have dropped to nothing. past evidence suggested that was a good one... but i dunno, maybe not

>>24919162
I'm pretty sure the "girls like ass" thing is like the modern day version of "girls like nice guys who can make them laugh" meme. I think an abshot would be better, especially if it's not a selfie.

And as far as the car, I can promise you, anything would be better.

>>24919093
These car and ass pictures are ridiculous.

>>24919171
ok ill try to get an ab shot.

fuck tho its hard with no friends lol. and its winter. thats a tall order...

>>24919176
and the car, be more specific. is it car pics in general, or this one specifically? would a different angle be better or just... camaros are no go or something?

>>24919042
I don't care, m8.
I'll take any advice I can

>>24919060
Jesus Christ, man.
Learn the difference between "your" and "you're".

>>24919269
shut the fuck up pussy i dont give a fuck about putting effort into typing you understand what i meant and im giving advice

>>24919240
awesome glad you didnt take it personally but yeah man get to lifting it becomes very addictive. drink a gallon of milk a day ontop of regular eating to start adding on some size as you lift. you can do it man

>>24919093
honestly i think the ass pic is kinda unique i would keep it and girls like nice asses on men

>>24919283
Kek, alrighty then.
Would be a turnoff for me for sure is all I'm saying and it's not that hard to differenciate, really.

>>24918969
I think you look fine (damn fine even) but I don't think it would be a good opener desu so I'm probably the exception here.

>>24919093
Keep the ass pic.

I'm 24, does this throw girls off? I haven't gotten one good match in months. I remember years ago i was getting a lot of marches and dates. Or had tinder just turned into another social media platform form. I feel that these dating sites are not for dating anymore

>>24919326
Should I add it as one of my pics?

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3 months later...

Still no matches.

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Guys guys guys guys guys guys this girl is perfect. How do I not fuck this up? She's a virgin too.

>>24919393
the fuck man you're beautiful.

>>24919374
I don't know, I like your body type but like I said, I'm probably the exception here.

You're probably better off asking the expert (-> >>24919283).
Just make sure not to criticize him in any shape or form.

>>24919414

Well, apparently not. Because I never get matched

>>24919424
I see.. hmm well I find it strange.

Just a PSA for how fucked Tinder is. These are my two experiences on this app.

Feb 2016
>1 Week
>109 Matches
>Deleted App, Moved on in life

Feb 2017
>Redownload, make account
>1 week
>Same bio, pics, settings
>19 Matches

Not that i'm gonna do anything about it. Just want to let you know that the app is trying to fuck you over. Keep at it boyos.

>>24919431

Why?

I'm average at best. There is way better guys for girls to swipe right

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>>24919393
youre not getting any matches because you have a strut and pitot in that one photo.

disgusting and shameful frankly

>>24919438
This... this would explain a fuckton actually.

Is tinder having this issue? I had not heard about this

Where'd everyone go?

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>>24919451

Like they even know what that is..

Better?

>>24919418
>>24919283
Well fella? Put it as one of my pics?

>>24919441
Hmm maybe, still it kinds of shock me because I considered you above average, but maybe it depends on the people you're surrounded with

>>24919469
it wont destroy your dignity in the eyes of a lady, so yeah

>>24919478

Are you a guy or girl?

>>24919455

Feb 2016 was before boost. I don't remember if it was before plus. At the end of the day they want money. So (I presume) they alter there algorithm to make boost valid by withholding matches.
That may or may not be the case, but 100% there is an algorithm. I have seen this on another forum where the user hacked it to manipulate it.

>>24919479

Because of you, I had to delete that picture.

>>24919494
lol.

prepare to be awash in puss

>>24919489
I definitely noticed a difference after boost was introduced.

Thats weird though... would that mean we werent seeing certian women on our end? Where I am, I can swipe for days so I thought it must eventually give me everyone, but maybe not? I really doubt all these girls are paying for boost...

I guess also perhaps women arent swiping though nearly as many as we are so they never get deep enough into their stack past all the boost? i have no idea.

>>24919524

This is anecdotal evidence but when I had the app last year, if a girl popped up in my stack outside my 5 mile radius and I swiped right = match.
Now on this run, girls pop up who are 20, 30, 40 miles away (outside my 5 mile radius) and when I swipe right, the stack just continues. If I had boost active, would those be matches? I dont know for sure, but it really makes you think...

>>24919524

>prepare to be awash in puss

That'll never happen

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Should I change up my top photo? I do okay getting matches but my text game sucks since nothing ever comes from them
Usually I reference something the girl has in her bio for the opening

Help me out /soc/

So I meet this really hot girl via Tinder last night, we hit it off and got coffee this morning. All good, but the problem is just like every near perfect girl I match with she's only visiting and is from out of town. Right now she's out partying and I'm texting her, she's likely drunk as shit and I'm trying to coerce her to diss her friends later and let me pick her up and take her home.

Got any good lines or things I should say? I know it's likely I won't be able to persuade her, and I might look pushy in the process. She promised she'd be back in town two weeks from now but I'm thirsty now.

>>24919552
This. I would swipe at a small radius and then get matched with girls way outside. As i said in my other post this app has gone terribly down, something's fucky for sure

>>24919694
Are there any real alternatives?

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Bio: I can do a barrel roll on a wooden plane, if you don't believe me just scroll through my profile.

What do you shitlords think of my profile?

>>24919578
Out of the pictures that you have I think your current first picture is the best for being the first picture imo.
Also >text game is weak
What time do you usually message them? I find it the best times are around 10 pm - 1 am since thats when usually no one isn't doing anything and just bored before bed. So if I match with someone in the morning, I wouldn't message till later that night.

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>>24919552
Just reading this makes me wonder if we're getting jewed out

>>24919718
Thanks for the second opinion on my pics
I tend to send something shortly after matching, one time I waited and got burned because she unmatched. I see your logic in messaging around 10 so I'll try that going forward

The barrel roll thing is memeier than my bio but if it works for you, I can't knock it

>>24919763
>only people ive right swiped will see me
shit. thats what i used to do. no wonder it doesnt work anymore, they charge $20/mo for that now

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>>24919808
What's your bio then? I have girls mention it being funny quite often. Pic related is an example.

>>24919042
I live just outside the Chicago so I wouldn't say that's rural
Default settings as well

>>24919840
"I tried to think of a clever description and all I got was this lousy tinder bio"
I'm fairly certain most girls don't even read this shit, so why bother wasting four lines on my interests. Ideally we talk about that after the match

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Tinder general here

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>Pic related is how to get Ghosted 101.

A girl finally gave me her number on tinder aaaaaandd then I get ghosted bros.

I am starting to question my lack of faith, I think god(if he existed) wants me to be a born again and stay a virgin till marriage like I wanted when I was a Christ Fag.

>>24920030
Worst fight card ever tonight

>>24920034
Oh shit i forgot. Silvas fighting isnt he?

>>24920036
Yeah he barely won a decision looked pretty awful. Nothing spectacular, cried at the end classic lol

>>24920043
lol yeah my friend just told me.

>>24920169
You think that having a pic of you in a wide shot is gonna work?
Wrong, the emphasis of your first photo has to be on you, not the environment
Girls don't go here for nature shots
Look at my profile
That pic would make a good second or third. Not 1
It's still the best you've got rn
You need a headshot

Hey, I'm thinking of getting into Tinder, what kind of people do you find there if you're a guy though? I'm pretty average in terms of looks.

I was thinking of trying Tinder because I still have a little of self-confidence left, and an endless stream of rejection is just the kind of thing to permanently snuff that out.

Do you need a Facebook account to do Tinder?

>>24920287
Yes
>>24920181
You meet girls that want to fuck
The ones that are looking for more want to fuck too
If you're average looking then you have to learn to sell your looks with photography
And don't use a selfie for a first pic
Check my prof

>>24920287
Unless you're top ten percent attractiveness of males AND have professional photos and combined to make a well made profile tinder won't work
You'll only get matched with fat ugly girls and the hot ones will have accidentally swiped you
You're far better off street approaching or going to a bar and being social
Tinder won't make you feel better about your rejections but rethinking your life might

>>24920306
You are pathetic. Kill yourself.

>>24919608
You are a beta cuck and should have called her to invite you to the party. she is currently being stuffed full of a frat boys semen

>>24920580
I'm only speaking the truth
The percentage of shallow girls on tinder are very high as people use it to be shallow
Or it's where the cute nerdy girls who are CS majors who might consider to date a beta go to be disciplined by a chad
Tinder is really fucking people over, trust me I'm a chad
I want everyone here to get laid
But you're far better off just going out and being able to talk to that hot girl and possibly win her over then relying on a shitty dating app

>>24919438
Something similar happened to me, used it one night and got 30 matches, forgot about It so I deleted and redownloaded and got 4 in a night. With the same bio and photos

does tinder work? I mean I'm not on it, but in average what kind of girls are on that app?

>>24920629
Nice ones, bitchy ones, hotties and tallies. Sluts, and girls who pretend like they aren't

So, how do I restart a conversation with someone I didn't reply to for about a month?

>>24920681
'sorry i took a nap'

>>24918172
I might remove the pictures with girls in it. (This is from my [female] perspective). Not sure if you're looking to hook up or date but either way it may be sending messages you're not intending to send.

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R8

Can i improve anything?

>>24920952
pic #5 looks gay, everything else is good

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I'm new to this city I'm currently in, already got a few matches 2 fuglies and pretty good looking one. Should I change anything also, any openers suggestions?

>>24920967
What if he is gay? Then again he would not be asking advice.

>>24918861
The fission thing is incredibly cringey. When I read that (female here) I get a vibe of "high-pitch-voiced pseudointellectual". If you're studying science/philosophy just say something like you're interested in it and would appreciate someone who likes to discuss that. If you're just looking to hook up I'd lose it altogether.

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>>24917919
Trying to get back into dating
Anyone have any advice for dating apps?

>Which to use?
>What to write?

I've never done it before and I'm a little nervous

>>24919393
You look nice but I think your first pic makes you look very youthful. The second looks fine though, I'd say replace the first one with the second and change out the first for something entirely new.

>>24921131
3 and 4 look to be low-quality images (blurry). I'd change those out unless it's just my system making it look that way. I can't tell what's going on in 2, but 1 looks fine

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I've had great result with this combination desu . But let me know how to improve.

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Bio

>>24921228
I'm from Manhattan, 19, my snap's mystery_manly

>>24921204
only one in here with a proper chad bio and profile nice job my man

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So I don't have too much game and I'm not that clever, any advice on what I should say to pick related. Was thinking "I've never had Brandy but maybe I could try some while I eat Brandi" follow up would "maybe I could also hear 10 different moans that vary on how much pleasure you're having"

>>24921190
2 is me browsing through free books on the street

>>24921271
You're an attractive woman. You'll get matches. You don't need a single word in your bio.

anyone had any success using tinder for going down on women? my profile makes it pretty obvious thats all im wanting, even said i didnt want anything in return. i put a slight bit of work into it, put an animal picture up to get them to check my profile, and have a real picture of myself as the second one. even listed a few basic and easily relatable interests (pizza, animals, etc.). kinda doubting itll work, but its honestly the best bet for something like this IMO

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Is it a good idea to put a snapchat name into the bio and link the insta profile?

And a question to the anons in the usa: are there girls who make the first step and message you?

>>24921453

He's a guy asking for help with an opening line to use on that girl.

>>24921509
>usa: are there girls who make the first step and message you?

Only if you're extremely attractive; like it is most places, I imagine.

The reason you all arent getting more matches is because you dont stand out and there is nothing interesting about you. You just blend in with every other guy on tinder. Basically they are just comparing faces. Conversations are boring and lead nowhere. Its too boring. At your rate youd probably be successful 1/100.


The hot ones want something different....

>>24921569
Yup >>24921453

>>24920842
Kek

>>24921167
Bump from earlier

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This is my bio
>I'm ugly but:

>I respond back in 3 seconds
>I'm funny
>I'll buy you pizza

Anything I can improve on? I got a super like last night, but the girl was ultra basic so...
Time to step-up my game.

>>24921875

I think both of the lines you gave are funny openers but honestly sexual puns as openers have just gotten me either no response or an unmatch. I'd probably go with the second one you gave.

>>24920181

thanks m8

Is there a way to do tinder without having a Facebook? Besides getting a Facebook, obviously.

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Can't get any match

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>>24921271
>I've never had Brandy but maybe I could try some while I eat Brandi

>>24921271
Yes. You should definitely say those things.

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just dl'd few minutes ago

>>24922423
Delete asap, re install once you have a friend take photos of you

>>24922431
jus moved and im bored as fuck

>>24917919
So far just getting messages back from bots wanting me to visit their sites

I tried to swipe right on everyone until I ran out of likes
Hoping for better results

Any advice on what to write for a bio?

>>24922423

Your pics aren't good but dude at least spell decent correctly in your bio and use proper grammar.

>>24920952
cute, but #5 can give people wrong impression

I remade tinder on Wednesday night and currently have 10 matches. I use this app called MatchBoost and it shows you who liked you and I got 3 likes from black girls that I didn't like back. All my matches right now are real and the 3 bots I had disappeared.

Currently my pics are 3 selfies and 2 dog pics. Definitely having better luck than I used to have.

>>24922491
You'll be more bored when you have 0 matches

Tinder doesn't show my matches for some reason. I get a notification that I got a match, but when I get to the app, it doesn't show any matches. I've tried to reinstall the app several times, but it didn't do anything.
What can I do? I was thinking of deleting and then making my account again but I don't wanna lose my matches

>>24922423
Do research and come back later. I can tell you right now you won't get shit

Do y'all have a go to line or do you wing it based on their bio?

>>24922583

Your matches are bots.

>>24922914

Wing it. Every girl I've talked to over the weekend I've started by just asking a question from their bio. Anything sexual to start has literally never gotten me a response and I've gotten unmatched by some hot girls before cuz of it.

>>24922423
suicide is the solution

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Help me

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>>24923069
And my bio (I can never get these right)

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What do you think, too obscure of a reference?
I've only gotten one match who knew what it was from so far lmao.

>>24923102
Dwight?

>>24923109
Correct haha.

>>24923071
I've never been on this thing and am generally out of touch, but I would think that needs work.

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I clearly dont have a good idea of whata good photo of me is, since I get nowhere.

Do I just look bad? Unfriendly?

Tinder in Thailand is puss easy. At home I usually get 2-3 matches per week, here I got a streak of 8 (8 likes=8 matches).

The language barrier is a bit of a struggle though

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>>24923940
Like

>>24923946
>HIV
make sure to wear a condom

>>24923902
you got so much potential. Get absolutely any other haircut, take pictures with better lighting, any face expression besides that expression

>>24923069
>>24923071
grow up aidan

>>24922914
"hey what do you have going on today?"

>>24922275
your pictures suck in many ways but the worst aspect by far is the blurry washed out filter you are using

>>24921998
you are not allowed to have these pictures/bio and then call other people basic. Scrap it all and start over.

>>24921167
use tinder fool, this is the tinder thread

>>24924059
Your advice literally does nothing for me.

>>24921271
yes say it its the best line i read here today

>>24921998
cheese pizza

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>>24922423
got a match already

you idiots need to stop taking good pics

>>24917919
I never get any matches

Should I try again?

I cant even get tinder to launch. Ive tried multiple phones too. I always get this 402020 error

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Should I wear this hat in my tinder pic?

quick question. Should I create a fake facebook or use my actual facebook? I am testing out tinder and I don't like how they transport my interests to the the app

Talked to a girl a few weeks ago called her cute. Heard nothing then out of the blue she messages me yesterday. Got her number. How forward can I be? What should I do for a date? I was thinking of asking her out valentines day. Is it a coincidence that she messaged me so close to valentines?

>>24920030
Holy shit dude, you talk too much. Never put more effort into a discussion than the girl does, that's texting 101.

>>24925384

Most of the girls who reply several days after the first message or match, I think its because their primary guys failed or werent what they expected.

Its kinda a turn off, because you end up being a second or third dish. But anyway, dont act too desperated but try to anchor her.
Now you have her number, approach her slowly and focusing on a possible date.

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Tips?

>>24918861
/r/iamverysmart

>>24919093
Having money/a car/a degree =/= being attractive

you fucking retard

>>24920026
you look like a douchebag

>>24920169
::douche chills::

get all of your college related shit out of there

>>24925509
Which is exactly what women love kek

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potental pic

>>24925605
jesus

The trolls to trolled ratio in this thread is gold.

>>24925490
>reddit
You can leave now

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Suggestions please

>Met girl on Tinder
>REALLY hit it off
>Talked for like seven hours, straight texting, no delays between texts
>Making plans to meet up, she really wants to
>Suddenly just stops texting back
>24 hours since last message
>Don't really know what to do

Is it creepy to just quickly message her on FB? I've had problems before with tinder not sending 'you just got a message' updates to phones and forgetting about it.

>>24925875
what the cuck
maybe shes doing something?

>>24925887
nigga it's 2017 how hard is it to send one text

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>Match with dorky girl
>Seems sweet, huge breasts and slim but her face is kinda blegh
>Mentions she's recovering from something and hopes I can understand that
>I ask what she's recovering from
>Says "Sex Addiction."

Where the hell do I go from here? The sleaze in me says try and get some action but I'd like to maybe start something serious first.

>>24925895
>>24925905
what the hell is going on today, this is worse than usual

>>24925875
>>24925895

Just chill. You don't want to look desperate.

If you haven't talked in 24 hours just text her saying asking her how her day was, so you don't sound desperate.

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>>24925935
Did exactly that like six hours ago.

>>24925905
This happened to me last week.
Gorgeous girl, nice, great conversation, common hobbies..
BUT
That same day we were speaking she starts talking about how much she loves sex, fetishes, BD, roleplay, toys, masturbation and so on. And guess what, its a huge turn off por me.
I mean, how many guys did she fuck? If she is telling me the first few hours, I bet she is been saying this to almost every match.

I was in your same situation, I liked something serious, but on the other side "why not?".
Guess what happened, I end up talking with her just a few days more, I guess she found more guys. Wanted to meet me but I prefered to skip her.

Today Im with another girl, didnt talk about sex, just normal things and it feels great. Im just the rare guy who prefers sex after a while, weeks or when its the time.

>>24925949
you could have still tapped it, try nofap or some shit

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>When you thought the cuck meme was just a meme

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>>24925979
holy shit that hairline

>>24926022

Low testosterone.

LOW ENERGY

>>24926035
Hair loss is connected to high testosterone actually :^)

>>24926053
>Hair loss is most commonly linked to depression and head trauma.
Whatever you need to tell yourself baldy.

>>24925949
you're not a rare guy, there's tons of faggots on earth

How far should I push on the first meet up? Playful touching? Kiss goodbye? I'm always smooth once I get over that first hump but I'm really bad at reading the beginning. Sometimes I feel like I wait too long to make a move

>>24926077
If you didn't fuck her the first meetup you're doing it wrong. It's tinder.

>>24925979
never tried to jump in a tinder threesome, but I have tried to get at some girls who have "in an open relationship" in their bio. I never know how to talk to them, they're always kinda standoffish and you can't flirt with them the same way as other girls

>>24926085
we're just grabbing coffee though

>>24926085
this

if a girl even replies to you she wants the D

>>24925949
If you meet a girl on Tinder, expect her cock count to be in the triple digits.

>>24926077
I used to be like that and try to wait a couple dates cause I thought that's what girls wanted, but yeah most girls won't hold it against you if you go for a kiss, and if they do mind they probably didn't like you anyway. Also first date sex is worth twice as many points when god is judging how cool your life was

>>24926113
hmmmm, so coffee in the afternoon parlayed into sex? that seems complicated and hard

>>24925816
don't use selfies, at least not solo selfies

>>24926164
ACTUALLY that is exactly how my last two tinder dates went. You just need to believe it's a possibility, clean your place and strategically place a blanket on the couch. Go to a busy coffee place by your apartment and hopefully it's crowded and then you can walk around the neighborhood instead of sitting AND THEN you can make some excuse to go to your place since you're just walking by anyway. BELIEVE IN AFTERNOON FIRST DATE SEX AND YOU WILL ACHIEVE IT. MANIFEST YOUR DREAMS

>>24926198
and if I'm a uni student that's living at home for his last semester?

>>24925816
Get off tinder and focus on your YouTube channel, Shapiro.

>>24926200
then you're FUCKED
Maybe kill your parents and act like it's your house when you bring the girl home. But yeah if you're just getting coffee for like an hour and part ways then just settle for a hug and don't try to push it, but make it a solid hug, I've done the one arm hug just cause I didn't want to be too presumptuous but it makes girls think you hate them

>>24926211
>>24926200
you dont even have to take them home
I've gotten so many blowies n handies in the car after a movie that I believe its basically universally accepted among girls on tinder

>>24926245
you mean to tell me I've been wasting my money on a cool apartment when all I needed was my car? I still have much to learn, teach me your ways scumbag sensei

so used tinder for the first time traveling in central London, I'm a 22 yr old female with and age range of 22-35. Me and the girl I was travelling with both used it not exactly knowing what to expect but we found it harilous and this was kinda our findings.

Bascially unlimited pool of people, never ran out regardless of distance being set to 5km or 50km
Nearly every guy will match with u if ur a girl so about 8/10 success rate
so with near unlimited options never needed to message a guy first, so if u want to talk to a girl don't wait for her to message u
Saying more than just hi is a good start, we both generally preferred guys who had the same music taste as us
We wouldn't swipe on guys with any girls in there pictures or when u can see a girl has been cropped of one
We would swipe for cute animals
Wouldn't if there's so many group photos u wouldn't tell who they were
Wouldn't swipe for shirtless pics Cs they just looked douche
Superliking a girl is more likely to get them to match with u even if they're not that interested
Being sexually right away usually gets u unmatched
However, depends on the girl she didn't mind getting to that point later in the conversation whereas I didn't want to get into that until the face to face meet up
Both our profiles made it clear we were stoners so conversations with other stoners went better than others
i know it's a thing that girls will match and not reply but I would constantly have guys message me and I'd wouldn't even see the message for a day because I was busy and then I'd be spammed with angry or desperate messages because I didn't reply in that first hour which honestly just gets u unmatched

>>24926354
well this is all pretty standard information but we have a great opportunity here if you'd like to answer some questions.
>How many messages were sent back n forth on average before meeting up?
>What was the typical content of conversations that resulted in you meeting a guy? (like was it mundane stuff about lifestyle/work/school OR was it mostly jokes OR something else)
>Did you ever stop responding in the middle of a conversation with someone you were interested in and then they rekindled it by double texting?
>How many days of the week on average did you fill with tinder dates?

>>24917919
is it better to be fake on socially acceptable or go full sperg and post what you really like in your bio?

>>24919848
are you bad with flirting?

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I'll show all the chat,say what to say

>>24926532
hey how are you, how's your day been?
BITCH

>>24926532
>What's up chipmunk, want to gather deez nuts for the winter?

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Another one

>>24926545
Done,waiting for reply

>>24926556
>Does your lazy eye like what it sees?

>>24926556
hello megan, a pleasure to meet you. Do you ever liken yourself to the character 'pam' from the television series 'the office'? If so, I am the 'jim' you have been searching for

>>24926566
that's a stretch

>>24926572
>>24926545
Nothing yet

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Let's try another one

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Should I use this pic or...

>>24926659
that's enough man stop squandering your matches away life is too short for this

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>>24926663
This one. Its a bit shite actually now that I look at it closely

>>24926663
big fat mutha fuckin NOPE

>>24926678
what the fart is wrong with you

What are acceptable photos for guys who can't get out of the house/work to do interesting things?

>>24926712
Do you have a cute pet?

>>24926718
Pair of turtles,so no

>>24926494
Great questions so I was on holiday so my experience was a little different cus It wasn't like I saw the as real life so this might not be applicable for most girls

> the messages need to be a weird balance enough u can get a sense of the person ur talking to and they won't be a creep but u don't want to talk so much uve run out of small talk before meeting so personally a week is a good amount of time to get to know someone and cancel if it doesn't seem right too
>And my conversations would start mundane but those are the ones I'd probably forget about, usually it would be about talking about bands and concerts or things to do or places to go and the conversation would steer toward oh there's this bar that we should go to an all that
>and yes double texts have worked on me a lot actually mainly cus sometimes it really is just I have forgotten or my reply didn't go thru so getting a double text helps bump it up so I see the convo again
>as for the how many dates, bascially I have a lot of crazy stories as a result of being very drunk or very high on tinder for a very very long holiday , I've had weeks were I didn't want any, weeks with just one, but at the same time I've had days were I went out with one during the day a different one with a concert in the evening and then another one for drinks at night.. And this isn't me sleeping with theses guys it's was just going out on dates

>>24921204
height/weight/routine?

no homo

>>24926780
jesus christ a week of texting? I've never gone over 3 days but maybe I mess with a lower caliber of woman. Here's one more:
>Do you put thought/effort into your messages if you like a guy? Or do you mostly respond stream of conscious. Like if a guy was like "blah blah blah. What are you up to today?" and you just say "work", is that you trying to kill the conversation or are you just responding to the question without considering follow up? (assuming you do this at all)

>>24921486
you fucking idiot, if women just wanted a guy to eat their vaginas they would have guys eating their vaginas already

any time I feel down about myself I just come to /soc


thanks guys

>>24926866
fuck you punk

I thought if a girl is on tinder the goal is to try and fuck her the same night, or the first date. Is this true? How much talking and messaging before you try and fuck? how forward should you be?

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Why the fuck are girls always opposed to having causal relationships? Why the hell does no one on Tinder want to just meet and fuck that aren't total whales? I meet so many great chicks and one of two things happen:

1. We have sex and maybe meet up one or two more times but then shortly after I get the "Hey sorry but I don't think I can do that anymore" talk or she just suddenly stops messaging me completely.
2. She wants a relationship

I don't mind if a girl wants something serious, but to the girls who fuck you and then never want anything to do with you again what the hell? We've already fucked, why wouldn't you want to keep meeting up? Why are girls so fucking against a friends with benefit relationship? I've been trying for two fucking years and I can't get these things to last longer than a few weeks and it's pissing me off, I just want a friend I can hang out with and fuck but not have to deal with boyfriend crap.

I chronically swipe left on girls with the dog ears/tongue

>>24926909
>I've been trying for two fucking years
In that time, did you ever stop to think that maybe it's because of you?
Maybe you're just not FwB material.

>>24926912
I get you, anon.
I especially hate it when it's every single one of their photos, behind which they may be cute, but how the hell can I know what when they're covered up?

>>24926922
>Maybe you're just not FwB material.
Yeah, definitely not the problem

>>24926923
And why is that?
Did you ask them?

>>24926514
no idea at all, but that's shouldn't have an effect on the number of matches I get
it would be after I get them that I'd be losing them

>>24920906
Those are pretty much the only non-selfie pics that exist of me
I had to go way back to ~4 years ago for some of them, idk how many I can get rid of

>>24926924
The problem is they either feel like shit because "They're not that type of girl" or they start seeing another guy more seriously. I'm not lying on an anonymous website when I say most of the girls I have sex with tell me I'm amazing and the one that just broke it off with me even fucking told me she rubs her clit to me.

Literally all these girls start feeling bad about what we're doing, and I'm perfectly nice and even take them out and stuff I just like to have sex afterwards, or they meet a guy who wants to be their actual boyfriend.

I really wouldn't care if this happened once or twice but 80% of the time the girl starts saying she wants to stop after a week to a month and the other 20% she claims she meet a serious guy. It's insane, girls just hate being in a fwb relationship for whatever fucking reason.

>>24926951
Sorry if I seemed like I was being a dick or anything, thanks for elaborating.

>It's insane, girls just hate being in a fwb relationship for whatever fucking reason
Yeah, I don't get it either.
Even when they say they're not looking for anything serious, then suddenly they are.

>or they meet a guy who wants to be their actual boyfriend
Hey, I actually get this.
I had a good thing going with this chick where we'd meet up once a week or so on our day off and just fuck for about 6 hours with a smoke or hydration reak every now and then.
There was never any talk about a relationship, she specifically said she wasn't looking to date anyone.
Anyway, one week she cancels on me, no biggie, but then I popped onto FB and all of a sudden she's in a relationship with some bloke.

I wasn't hurt or bothered by it, it's just like "what the fuck, dude?"

>>24926843
Haha well usually we make plans in the first week days but just scheduling issues it's like a week till the meet up, in all fairness one of the best dates I had in London was like wen the guy introduced himself enough in the first message and the second message was straight up lets go for drinks tomorrow and not do small talk here.. And that plan totally worked we ended up talking fr 6hrs on this date and only ended it cus the bar closed lol
> and if it's a guy I'm interested in I'll put more efforts into those replies I've noticed if I like a guy I'll ask questions back and engage in the conversation more so hopefully they're interested, if I'm not bothered I'll probably answer more like oh just work so it's like ether kills the conversation or gives them a chance to say something to engage me, and if I'm just not interested then it's more I won't reply at all even if they bump the conversation

>>24925160
yeah

>>24925384
Don't listen to >>24925434

You have her number. Set the date NOW. It should take you 10-20 messages (counting hers) to confirm a date at some coffee shop or something.

Don't forget to keep reminding her you are alive if the date is more than 2 days away.

Double check she is available the day before, and the day of. Its easier for a girl to flake, than to risk wasting her time meeting some guy she doesn't even know.

>>24925816
You like a baby in 1 and a cool guy with a dog in 2. Swap those fuckers

>>24925948
You did it wrong. By asking her how her day was, you are DEMANDING effort from her to tell you.

You need to send texts that improve her day, and don't ask ANYTHING form her. Out of the blue, just tell her something you did that day, tell/make up a funny story about your day, send her some funny content she might like.

>>24926566
Holy shit, underrated post
My fucking sides

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Any advice? I have had a few girl chat with me but can't get a date.
I'm not looking for hookups but I don't want to chat forever damnit

>>24928301
u sellin food?

Any good tips on using Tinder lads? Somebody mentioned companion apps that show who liked you

>>24928402
That's how it makes me look? Wanted to fill the picture slot but might remove them then.
Actually got complimented on the banana pie but still didn't lead anywhere

>>24928301
this is autistic af.

Here's what you're gonna do.

Get better pictures, the first one makes you look like a beta orbiter. The second one is passable. You look like a try hard/creep. Get pics of you hiking or in nature. Why the fuck you put food on your profile I'll never understand.

Your bio also sucks ass. You sounds like a creep with the chat in person line. Here's what you're going to write.

I bake, travel, and explore. Ask me for my favorite recipe over a cup of coffee.

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>tfw zero actual matches

Not even kidding

>>24928301
Why would the first pic you want girls to see be of you shopping for jackets at Macy's?

>>24929596
Michael J Fox?

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Anything I am doing wrong in particular?

My cringe-worthy cuck bio is as follows:

"Studying computer science. My free time consist mostly on coding, piano, cooking and various other 'flavour of the month'-hobbies.
To make my bio shorter you can assume that majority of stereotypes about computer scientists apply to me.

I'd like to find nice and smart people to chat and spend time with.
Bonus points if you have something written on your bio, it's pretty hard to start a conversation if I know nothing about you.
Let's have a meta discussion about talking to strangers online."

>>24929691
Your first picture looks like you're about to break down in tears.

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Shit where do I go from here

>>24929691
Either go full beard or have no beard.

>>24929817
google how to text girls. DO IT.

LIKE ACTUALLY DO IT.

>>24926951
>>24926976
I've experienced the same situation. At this point I assume that most women come out of a relationship, and expect guys like us to be the rebound. They don't view us as relationship material. They like the sex but then think about getting more serious so they go for the ex or the beta orbiter that gave them emotional stimulation. Then they crave physicality and are disappointed in the quality of sex. They then go back to guys like us.

>>24931305
While I do agree that's definitely the situation in some cases, in my example, the dude she started seeing was actually pretty cool and supportive of her without being a loser/orbiter/ex.

>>24931305
>>24931311
Its really complicated. Girls like to have emotional support as well as physical satisfaction. For us guys, we can be happy with casual physical encounters, but for girls, its harder to separate the physical and emotional and still be happy for a long time.

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>>24926572
Next reply please

>>24932229
ignore everything that doesnt help you and plow on

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Insufficient matches. What's wrong?

>>24932246
You get 1 selfie for your profile. 1. Any more and you look like your trying to hard

>>24932229
You sound like a very VERY desperate dude. No one wants to fucking chat on tinder. Ask for a date or fuck off. And truthfully. Be blunt. Dont ask how she's feeling. Don't ask her what her likes and dislikes are. Ask for a date and then ask all those stupid questions on the date. Your welcome

>>24929817
This is where you ask her on a date. Ask her to a specific place and day and THEN if she says she's busy ask when she's free.

>>24919093
You have the ass of a prepubescent girl.

>>24919093
Your problem is you bought a fucking Camero. My god. So many things wrong with just that fact.

>>24932341
It's just for fun,i have a girlfriends

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being pre-hrt is terrible on dating sites.

>>24923946
kek she is retarded! But she could be hot

I think a girl attempted in earnest to hook up with me tonight. I ended up turning her away but she seemed eager. Frankly I think I'm glad I didn't though, she looked attractive so I'm naturally suspicious that she had some ulterior motive.

>>24932804
You need a therapist not a date.

>>24932229
dude what the hell is that message

just chill out

>tfw I have no pics in a social setting because no one I know takes photos ever

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Never done this before

How long before I get matches/know I'm ugly for sure

>>24929691
>To make my bio shorter you can assume that majority of stereotypes about computer scientists apply to me.

If this was a self-depreciating joke, it was very funny

If not, it is sad

>>24932229
Delete your account and do research.

>>24932433
You don't have a girlfriends

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What would you do when :

>Looking for gf again after months with just friends and after a 6year relationship.
>Tried to reduce my tinder matches to 6+ after being too selective among them.
>Find the perfect one. Start meeting in person, talk every day, she has to be the definitive.
BUT
>What do you do with the other 5? I dont want to throw them away as nobody knows what will happen with the perfect one. Imagine I got dumped and I'd lose all the others. Besides, theyve been chosen very carefully.

How can I keep the others with enough interest? How can I keep avoiding them but at the same time having them around? I want to have second and third options just in case.

Should I tell my "future gf" Im going to delete my tinder account? Or its better to not talk about that?

Anyone else in my situation?

>>24934401
>getting rid of your back-up bitches when your girlfriend is going to have a backlog of dicks waiting for her at least ten times as long

Bruh

BRUH

If you have 5 sluts that still like you enough to wait on the line while you do you, keep 'em.

Fuuuuuck. Only got one match and run out of options. This girl is replying once every two or three days, but is at least replying and asking questions. I'm half thinking I should just move on and half thinking I should just ask her out.

How can somebody seem so interested and disinterested all at once?

>>24934415
Yes, I think I should keep them but most of them start asking to meet in person, have a drink and one of them even talking about spending a night at her home.
But I know I fuck up with this possible gf theres no way out, its so hard to keep them happy with just text.

In the past I tried going back to "dropped contacts" and they barely reply me anymore, knowing they were second dishes.

>>24934420
She obviously has more guys around, so you need to make the difference and try to win her. Meet her in person for a boost. Until then, you are only one between hundreds of guys, maybe one who likes to talk with but nothing more than that.
What would you lose in meeting in person?

>>24934423
Quite possibly, yes. But even so, I'll try and ask her out next time the opportunity arises. She lives about forty miles away though, so maybe it's the distance that puts her off.

>>24934401
people mostly don't consider it bad form to go out with a bunch of people at the same time if you're not calling anyone your boyfriend/girlfriend yet, at least where I'm from

>>24932229
jesus christ I'm so sorry I told you to write that. The idea was that I see like 3 girl profiles a day that say 'just a pam looking for my jim' or something like that. Now that I see it played out though I regret that message very much